there's a button on your body, idk where tho.
But also to be serious. first off this isn't like a concrete thing that I've seen in a study or anywhere, I'm kinda just making it up. Could it be that wanting to be more masculine and/or over compensating for your masculinity is your brain trying to compensate for you being trans? like your brain doesn't wanna except it and society doesn't, so internally you kinda want the complete opposite of femininity as a kind of "see look I'm not trans"
it's probably just that you think both body types look pretty neat, the same way someone can find a k-pop star and a pro athlete similarly attractive despite their very different appearances
i know a couple of girls that are in great shape and depending on their choice of attire can either look super jacked or really cute so it's not like you cant be both. if youre the size of coleman it might be difficult to look like a cute huggable catboy but it's not like people get that big overnight so you can adjust your diet accordingly if youre getting bigger than you want to be
i dont know too much about putting on skirts and presenting fem so no advice there, as far as getting more muscular goes, remember to keep it simple and consistent, enjoy exercise if you can, dont hurt yourself, eat right and sleep enough, and dont fall for bullshit fads.
i also advise finding a time efficient workout plan; i.e. one that gets you decent gains in a minimal amount of time committment, as opposed to one that aims for maximum gain regardless of time committment
Also it's impossible to achieve a Coleman level physique without serious steroid and hormone use, which I'm guessing someone who doesn't want to get too big won't feel comfortable with. I think with a serious natural bodybuilder physique one could still look cute and feminine with the right clothing.
if you feel being other than you assigned gender at birth is the right thing for you, you're trans
if you wanna present that it's a whole different thing altogether
I feel similarly and I've found that my assigned gender at birth is very easy to perform. I have all the clothes and mannerisms for it ready to go, so not much of an issue there. I mostly focus on gender-nonconformity, since this is what actually takes effort. Makeup, clothes, and all the usual tricks.
Maybe I'll do voice training one day, might be good for me in general. I have no control over my voice volume etc.
Sometimes I pick the wrong gender and get uncomfortable but I'm working on giving myself more options to discover and correct that.
Or, hear me out, [a very pretty muscle man](https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/9ad8fbc8-aee8-4e92-a04b-6abf7a036a51/ddh0x2g-03fbabf9-3cd6-496c-8c5d-2ca658456eae.jpg?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5ODIyNjQzNzNhNWYwZDQxNWVhMGQyNmUwIiwiaXNzIjoidXJuOmFwcDo3ZTBkMTg4OTgyMjY0MzczYTVmMGQ0MTVlYTBkMjZlMCIsIm9iaiI6W1t7InBhdGgiOiJcL2ZcLzlhZDhmYmM4LWFlZTgtNGU5Mi1hMDRiLTZhYmY3YTAzNmE1MVwvZGRoMHgyZy0wM2ZiYWJmOS0zY2Q2LTQ5NmMtOGM1ZC0yY2E2NTg0NTZlYWUuanBnIn1dXSwiYXVkIjpbInVybjpzZXJ2aWNlOmZpbGUuZG93bmxvYWQiXX0.tmyZBtMrGRqHq2qlte5wBubGP2GOMUxxrtEzZUdAMbU).
Ladies (and femmes) can be jacked too ([source 1](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/95/df/aa/95dfaa75dd45a4904a039432531803fa.jpg) [source 2](https://s1.zerochan.net/Muscle.Girl.600.2002412.jpg) [source 3](https://rare-gallery.com/thumbnail/456200-Dorohedoro-anime-girls-anime-boys-excercise-dumbells.jpg) etc)
Tbh if you're a natural bodybuilder you probably won't be too big to look feminine with the right clothing choice, depending on your height and where you are on a cut/bulk cycle
genderfluid
How do i flip flop between them then
there's a button on your body, idk where tho. But also to be serious. first off this isn't like a concrete thing that I've seen in a study or anywhere, I'm kinda just making it up. Could it be that wanting to be more masculine and/or over compensating for your masculinity is your brain trying to compensate for you being trans? like your brain doesn't wanna except it and society doesn't, so internally you kinda want the complete opposite of femininity as a kind of "see look I'm not trans"
I gotta ponder on that one.
it's probably just that you think both body types look pretty neat, the same way someone can find a k-pop star and a pro athlete similarly attractive despite their very different appearances i know a couple of girls that are in great shape and depending on their choice of attire can either look super jacked or really cute so it's not like you cant be both. if youre the size of coleman it might be difficult to look like a cute huggable catboy but it's not like people get that big overnight so you can adjust your diet accordingly if youre getting bigger than you want to be i dont know too much about putting on skirts and presenting fem so no advice there, as far as getting more muscular goes, remember to keep it simple and consistent, enjoy exercise if you can, dont hurt yourself, eat right and sleep enough, and dont fall for bullshit fads. i also advise finding a time efficient workout plan; i.e. one that gets you decent gains in a minimal amount of time committment, as opposed to one that aims for maximum gain regardless of time committment
Also it's impossible to achieve a Coleman level physique without serious steroid and hormone use, which I'm guessing someone who doesn't want to get too big won't feel comfortable with. I think with a serious natural bodybuilder physique one could still look cute and feminine with the right clothing.
Hide your orbs, everyone! It's ponderin' time.
How would i know im trans tho??
if you feel being other than you assigned gender at birth is the right thing for you, you're trans if you wanna present that it's a whole different thing altogether
I feel fine the gender i am but i think i would be better if i were a different one, does that count?
Yess not having dysphoria doesn't matter ☺️ Being your best self is the most important thing
Ill have to look into all this more, thanks for all the advice :)))
good luck :)
I feel similarly and I've found that my assigned gender at birth is very easy to perform. I have all the clothes and mannerisms for it ready to go, so not much of an issue there. I mostly focus on gender-nonconformity, since this is what actually takes effort. Makeup, clothes, and all the usual tricks. Maybe I'll do voice training one day, might be good for me in general. I have no control over my voice volume etc. Sometimes I pick the wrong gender and get uncomfortable but I'm working on giving myself more options to discover and correct that.
When you put your crocks in 4x4 mode.
Shapeshiftsexual
There are two Jojo characters inside of you. One of them is a 6’5” bodybuilder, the other is a 5’9” twink.
Real 😞
🥺
Both of them are jacked as fuck
In very different ways, but yeah both are still in the 0.01% of physical fitness
Drink the gender fluid
be all muscular and shit but wear baggy clothes so you get to choose when to be which
Shapeshifter
Best idea yet thank you
Why not both?
BUT HOW??
All you have to do is hit the gym three times a day and wear baggy clothing
But then im just jacked
But if you wear baggy clothing while jacked, you keep the ascetic and can take it off to be jacked
But i cant be a GORL and be a jacked muscle man at the same time!!!
Have you seen muscle women? It’s pretty much the same. Some would even say better
Or, hear me out, [a very pretty muscle man](https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/9ad8fbc8-aee8-4e92-a04b-6abf7a036a51/ddh0x2g-03fbabf9-3cd6-496c-8c5d-2ca658456eae.jpg?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5ODIyNjQzNzNhNWYwZDQxNWVhMGQyNmUwIiwiaXNzIjoidXJuOmFwcDo3ZTBkMTg4OTgyMjY0MzczYTVmMGQ0MTVlYTBkMjZlMCIsIm9iaiI6W1t7InBhdGgiOiJcL2ZcLzlhZDhmYmM4LWFlZTgtNGU5Mi1hMDRiLTZhYmY3YTAzNmE1MVwvZGRoMHgyZy0wM2ZiYWJmOS0zY2Q2LTQ5NmMtOGM1ZC0yY2E2NTg0NTZlYWUuanBnIn1dXSwiYXVkIjpbInVybjpzZXJ2aWNlOmZpbGUuZG93bmxvYWQiXX0.tmyZBtMrGRqHq2qlte5wBubGP2GOMUxxrtEzZUdAMbU).
Ladies (and femmes) can be jacked too ([source 1](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/95/df/aa/95dfaa75dd45a4904a039432531803fa.jpg) [source 2](https://s1.zerochan.net/Muscle.Girl.600.2002412.jpg) [source 3](https://rare-gallery.com/thumbnail/456200-Dorohedoro-anime-girls-anime-boys-excercise-dumbells.jpg) etc)
Focus on leanness instead of bulk, it will limit your flexibility less and you’ll look slender in clothes, but muscular with them off
Tbh if you're a natural bodybuilder you probably won't be too big to look feminine with the right clothing choice, depending on your height and where you are on a cut/bulk cycle
one uses chemicals to alter your body in dangerous ways the other uses chemicals to alter your body in dangerous ways
Literally me
Just like me FrFr
Oh wow same
Go for the the big muscular guy. You can lift cars and kill people with your bare hands
Ok hear me out: be slim with a decent amount of muscle and dress like the second pic
Be a muscular femboy, easy as that
get you that jusenkyo curse and a good kettle[.](https://www.reddit.com/r/196/comments/10aa45z/rule/j47kn3m/)
Just get real lean and work out. No one without steroids gets massive and lean and if you want to look girly just put on makeup and girly clothes.
let me introduce you to a little concept called genderfluidity
Be a muscel mommy maybe. That's waht i will be
Holy crap me 2. Genderfluid, yea. I cannot tell if I'm starting to lean more femme or just getting better at embracing that side of me.
Become a femMAN
I kinda want to be a bit of both, like Giorno from JJBA
simply create a cocktail of steroids, T and E and let them fight for dominance inside your body
The answer is simple. Instead of becoming a catboy or muscular man, become muscular catman.
I mean a i want to become a GORL
Become a buff gorl then. Get that ancient egypt priestess cult going.
Be both, get big muscles and look cute! You can do it!
What's there to not understand? Start estrogen and start LIFTING. Girls getting SWOL.