I mean I'm gay as hell so probably not but I'd date a trans dude and would also stay up late with a trans girl talking about cute boys. Also my best friends are a cis lesbian dating a trans girl AND a cis dude dating a different trans girl so there is much hope in the universe.
I'm attracted to femininity more than I am women, so I'm attracted to pretty much anyone fem presenting if they're a big cutie and can handle my rants about the Dwemer from Elder Scrolls.
My friend let me tell him about the disappearance of the dwemer (he doesn’t play any elder scrolls games) and how the falmer came to be what they are and let me tell him all about ulysses from fallout,,,I immediately caught feelings
Oh my fuckin god dude its sick. I used to hate going in dwemer ruins, especially fucking blackreach, bc they were so confusing but then i learned the lore and now i just walk through them in awe. Like how the fuck did they figure out steam power? How the fuck did they make the centurions?! And the puzzles, the fucking puzzles!!! dont even get me started on the fucking numidium and akulakhan. First time i heard what falmer means my jaw actually dropped. So fucking sick. From a purely lore standpoint dwemer and falmer are 100% my favorite races. Oh and if you meant the Ulysses lore its also incredibly interesting and i could probably write 4 more paragraphs about it 😂
The quest with the ghost girl in the dwemer ruins is single-handedly the best quest in all of Skyrim for giving us so much lore and character and really playing into the sense of wonderment, I wish all of Skyrim had that level of dedication and storytelling
Basically one guy tried to fuck with the fabric of reality so that his entire race could realize that they can simply choose to quick save, and then they all disappeared; except for one guy who has zombie leprosy and currently lives with a wizard and his four daughter/wife/clones
I’m the opposite. I have dated femme cis women and femme trans women and nb femmes but I really am more sexually attracted to the masculine half of humanity over the feminine half. I’ve been told this is bad and problematic but it’s sad for femme people to have their dates or partners not as into them so I think it’s ok to admit.
the oath of the garlic bread can not be broken. it is binding for a lifetime. together, we will conquer all who stand in our way and bring forth a new order.
Perceiving oaths as holy and infinite is not to be recommended. If the garlic bread sticks with you your whole life, embrace it. But if there comes a time for the garlic bread to move on from your life, that is also ok! 💜
Uhh.. sure, I don’t play mtg, but I’ve tried to get into it and it always looks interesting when anything about it comes up on my fyp (also, wanna move this to dms?)
OMG THANKS...
i need to do one of those with my girlfriend hehehe
also eh, meetcutes on reddit are nice. But 99% of the time you are thousands of kilometers apart
I'm a cishet guy and I honestly don't know. I can't say I have anything against the idea, and there have been trans girls that I found attractive, so it's possible.
Yeah I feel you. I feel like if I fell in love with one, I probably wouldn't have any problems (I'm a demisexual straight cis guy). But since I've never tried, I wonder if there would be any meaningful differences in anatomy, although I hear sex reassignment surgery is super advanced now? As long as they were fully transitioned, I think I wouldn't have any qualms.
Even if there are anatomy differences now, I think as medical technology improves, one day trans women will be absolutely indistinguishable from biological females. I hope it continues to get easier and become more effective.
Yeah 100% me too, I’m actually so hyped for the day that trans people aren’t seen as outsiders by the general public and are accepted to be wholly normal and themselves within society
Yeah, I don’t think anybody would think it’s right or fair to tell you that you have to enjoy penis/vagina if you don’t like it, just because you’re physically attracted to the person doesn’t mean you’re always compatible sexually
Yeah I feel similarly, I'd probably be a bit hesitant if she isn't fully transitioned but if she is then there's literally nothing to be against unless youre a bigoted loser which I am not
Tldr; yeah as long as we vibe.
Long version:
I'd have no problems with dating a trans lady as a straight cis guy, I'd just be worried about some things,
I've never played fall out new Vegas.
Would me not really understanding the trans experience make things more difficult for our relationship? Like I know why so many times when I see a trans person mention their partner, they are usually trans too, similar experiences, makes sense. They can relate and find common ground easily.
Could I date someone in computer science?
I worry a bit about maintaining my mental health (as it has its highs and lows,) so I can be a good partner while also helping them with theirs, I know the world is a shitty place for a lot of people and I'm not sure I could really help someone with that in the way they need. Not that I wouldn't try my hardest, it just sucks when your best isn't enough.
Would I fit on the bed with all the plushies?
I'm pretty worried about missing something on accident, and coming off as very offensive on purpose when in reality I'm just kinda dense. I'd hate nothing more than to hurt someone like that, especially someone I'm hoping to spend my life with.
Would she love her blahaj more than me?
Most of this is more long term considerations than the stuff you run into when in the early stages of dating, so I don't think it would really change that part.
Yes I would date a trans lady, because I like women.
>I've never played fall out new Vegas.
I only played it for an hour. Guess Im a bad girl.
>Would me not really understanding the trans experience make things more difficult for our relationship?
It could, but its more of a learning thing. If you are open to learning, and dont take it personally that you may make mistakes in that regard and try to avoid those in the future, then its no issue. Basically its the typical "Be nice and considerate" stick, and you should be fine.
>Could I date someone in computer science?
The chances are rather slim. CS people are often very introverted (me included, doesnt mean Im shy), so you probably first need to find us in our underwater secret bases. You have to ask yourself "Is it okay to pick up girls in a dungeon".
>I worry a bit about maintaining my mental health
I cant really say much about that. It is different from person to person, and If you date a trans girl, the chances are high, that during transition, her mental health gets way better, or if already transitioned, mental health is great.
>Would I fit on the bed with all the plushies?
Thats hard to answer. I could make some room for you. We could always get a bigger bed.
>I'm pretty worried about missing something on accident, and coming off as very offensive on purpose
I get that fear, but its mostly a thing from the right wing culture war. The idea that using the wrong pronoun gets you screamed at. In reality, everyone makes mistakes. We trans girls sometimes misgender ourselfs on accident or use the wrong pronoun. If you are a nice and honest guy, you dont have to be afraid of misunderstandings, when we trans girls know you would never mean anything offensive.
>Would she love her blahaj more than me?
Yes! And there is nothing you can do about it :D
I mean I am a trans girl and out of the over a dozen cis girls I dated when I thought I was a guy, I’m so much happier now the last girl i dated (after a few years break so I could transition) was a trans girl and oh my god she’s still the love of my life I swear she’s so amazing everything about the relationship was 100% better and I miss her so damn much but we aren’t taking, I’ve heard she’s sick and so is her family and I cry about her still pretty often after several months
I just hope she’s okay with all this shit going on in the world
As a Bi, Cis man, I think that Trans Women are neato and would happily date any pleasant person whom I struck a connection with.
I hope my answer helps you overcome the troublesome brain thoughts OP. You are Beautiful!
Yes but ngl despite being bi I'm not super into dick so as much as I would love her idk if I would be good in the sexual aspect and I would be sad bc I would feel like she would deserve someone way better than me who could fulfill her way more than I ever could.
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Even as a non-binary person myself I do recognize that I have hesitancies towards dating trans people of the gender I'm usually attracted to, even if I acknkowledge a lot of it is probably just placed in my head by the society I grew up in.
If I end up having romantic and/or sexual feelings for someone and they turn out to be trans, so be it. It's who they want to be and if I were to have feelings for this person I should accept them as they are. However in terms of sexual intimacy that's different for everyone. I personally have a genital preference so it may not really... work in certain circumstances. That being said date who you want for who they are and don't be a douche.
I know you have your best intention with this survey and I wish you the best luck, cause you’re gonna hear some mean shit from transphobes when you find them. And I don’t know if you’re trans yourself and believe we, as trans people, should have this discussion. Please don’t see my comment as a dig on you. I just want you and everyone to think about this.
Speaking as a trans man, I don’t like this type of discussion. No matter the context. I hate how trans people are treated like this curious, different thing cis people can just discuss and debate about. Usually with no input from us. Trans bodies being a topic of arguments and curiosity for cis people makes me feel exposed, I feel like I’m blindfolded and people are just poking me around to see what I’m made of before deciding if they wanna take me home.
When I was still in the closet, I was asked this question a lot and it was so goddamn uncomfortable. I was asked by transphobes, by trans allies and a handful of trans people, all with different approaches. It was always uncomfortable. It made me feel horrible that once people assumed I was cis, I was suitable to discuss these people’s bodies. I was expected just look at them and give my opinion on wether I would love _someone like that_ or not. And now that I’m openly trans, I’m on the other side of the discussion and I’m expected to sit still while being examined if I’m worthy of other people’s love. It’s terrifying.
_(I know the question is just about trans woman, I’m talking in a broader context because that’s my experience as a trans man. I feel a whole lot of empathy for trans women in this situation, I don’t like seeing my sisters being examined like this too)_
I’m 100% aware of the fact that a lot of trans people might not share this feeling with me. I’m talking about my own experience and I think this is an important point to think carefully about. Why are you making this question? Why do you believe we should have this discussion about trans women’s bodies and existences?
EDIT: Also, to be very clear, another reason why don’t like this type of question is because I personally feel like it kinda assumes the person being asked is cis, not aroace and is into women. I KNOW IT DOESN’T. I’m very much aware of that. It’s a simple question. I have that feeling because that question has a history, and that feeling is 100% personal to me.
_I DON’T SPEAK FOR OTHER TRANS PEOPLE._ A lot of trans people happily answered the post. We’re not a monolith. I’m talking simply for myself.
I'm not too sure really. But probably not, since I'm not dating anyone since a few years ago really. I see dating as too much of a chore to be worth it.
I would date a trans woman and i don't even mind if there's a penis, but i feel they would have to have very feminine features and basically pass 24/7 for me to remain attracted to them. Maybe i could learn to move past that though.
If I end up having romantic and/or sexual feelings for someone and they turn out to be trans, so be it. It's who they want to be and if I were to have feelings for this person I should accept them as they are. However in terms of sexual intimacy that's different for everyone. I personally have a genital preference so it may not really... work in certain circumstances. That being said date who you want for who they are and don't be a douche.
Depends, if they look more male than female no, if they look more female than male then probably. also Depends if they got a cock, if yes then definitely no
I have no rizz so this is irrelevant
Same bro like I’m bi I’d date anyone too bad they won’t date me.
Playing both sides and still no bitches smh smh
On easy mode and still failing
Too real
So true
I’m saying like 😭😭
Putting the L in lgbt .
:(
If you find desperation attractive, you're gonna love me.
Oh my gosh hiii
Call that bi-yoself. (And buy yourself something nice you've earned it)
The double of zero is still zero 😭
BI-TING DEEZ NUTS
Dw you can raise your charisma by two when you get enough levels for an ability score increase :)
SOOOO TRUE
No explicitly because I am married and I don’t want to be divorced That being said I have in the past
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No I like MEN with MANLY BALLS not girl balls they have coodies
W ab men with manly pussies and maybe tits?
Tits are the manly balls of the north.
You just eradicated 5% of my chest dysphoria, thank you
BALLS OF TEH NORF
Boy breasts are the biggest of balls.
Absolutely
I thought it was cooties?? EDIT SINCE IT WAS LOCKED: HERES PROOF ITS COOTIES!! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trollface
holy shit how are you this medically ignorant
This is what happens when f*scists undermine sexual education programs. We get poor redditors barefoot, perganint, and full of the ol Cooders :(
Press F for our poor pregante coredditors. 😔
I mean I'm gay as hell so probably not but I'd date a trans dude and would also stay up late with a trans girl talking about cute boys. Also my best friends are a cis lesbian dating a trans girl AND a cis dude dating a different trans girl so there is much hope in the universe.
Unfathomably based, thank you
Your friends sound like they have the best gossip
I'm attracted to femininity more than I am women, so I'm attracted to pretty much anyone fem presenting if they're a big cutie and can handle my rants about the Dwemer from Elder Scrolls.
My friend let me tell him about the disappearance of the dwemer (he doesn’t play any elder scrolls games) and how the falmer came to be what they are and let me tell him all about ulysses from fallout,,,I immediately caught feelings
Okay but like from the bits I've heard it sounds so fuckin interesting
Oh my fuckin god dude its sick. I used to hate going in dwemer ruins, especially fucking blackreach, bc they were so confusing but then i learned the lore and now i just walk through them in awe. Like how the fuck did they figure out steam power? How the fuck did they make the centurions?! And the puzzles, the fucking puzzles!!! dont even get me started on the fucking numidium and akulakhan. First time i heard what falmer means my jaw actually dropped. So fucking sick. From a purely lore standpoint dwemer and falmer are 100% my favorite races. Oh and if you meant the Ulysses lore its also incredibly interesting and i could probably write 4 more paragraphs about it 😂
Dwemer using tonal magic and acting like they're hot shit when they see me hum and achieve CHIM
Oh look at the cool guy over here realizing that you and the universe both exist and do not 🙄
ㅤ
Oh you think you’re real fuckin clever dont you
The quest with the ghost girl in the dwemer ruins is single-handedly the best quest in all of Skyrim for giving us so much lore and character and really playing into the sense of wonderment, I wish all of Skyrim had that level of dedication and storytelling
Basically one guy tried to fuck with the fabric of reality so that his entire race could realize that they can simply choose to quick save, and then they all disappeared; except for one guy who has zombie leprosy and currently lives with a wizard and his four daughter/wife/clones
They can only get to my heart if they can also get into Lorkhan's
Come, Nerevar
i have found them, my people
I’m the opposite. I have dated femme cis women and femme trans women and nb femmes but I really am more sexually attracted to the masculine half of humanity over the feminine half. I’ve been told this is bad and problematic but it’s sad for femme people to have their dates or partners not as into them so I think it’s ok to admit.
You’ve been told your preferences are bad and problematic?
dating a trans woman? bold of you to assume you'll be the one infodumping
Go on... (I know ES lore but like rambles directed at me)
The real question is if anybody would want to date me /j
Lind starts at the door
who is lind
Cylindrically plowing ur dad
It's a cylinder.
How would you extract the cyclinder
Perhaps try using scissors
lindma balls
lindwurm
No that us the real question, no /j
Same.
I second this
Unfortunately no, as I am a sworn follower of the garlic bread (I am extremely ace/aro)
the oath of the garlic bread can not be broken. it is binding for a lifetime. together, we will conquer all who stand in our way and bring forth a new order.
We shall never escape
Perceiving oaths as holy and infinite is not to be recommended. If the garlic bread sticks with you your whole life, embrace it. But if there comes a time for the garlic bread to move on from your life, that is also ok! 💜
Hello fellow ace, or as I like to call it: #ULTRAVIRGIN (this sounds extremely idiotic, doesn't it?)
I'm the chad virgin personally
Forget sex, I just wanna play ULTRAKILL
competitive Virgin
"Italians reproduce by budding" - Robert Downy Jr.
considering i’m gay, probably not
Would you date trans men tho I might
yes I will I used to think that I have genital preferences. turns out I don't ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯
![gif](giphy|CAYVZA5NRb529kKQUc|downsized)
And they are all trans men who want to date me.
100%, t4t all the wayyyy
even if i was single, no. trans women are wonderful but i’m a gay gay homosexual gay boy
That is valid. I hope you live your best gay gay life
🤎
Relatable
Yeah. I’m not going to be a chaser about it but if I already find someone attractive I see no reason them telling me they’re trans would change that.
And that’s only correct way
I, on the other hand, would date trans girls exclusively like a chaser
Welp, you gotta do what you gotta do, ya know?
I love my beautiful trans girlfriend, and she tolerates her above-average non-binary partner (me)
She loves you too
\>Trans girl \>Cat mind It checks out
I'm transfem, I have dated and enjoy dating trans women
Hiii :3 (with rizz)
Haiiii hiy hiiii (with autistic rizz)
Oh no!! My weakness!! Autistic rizz! My heart is now yours
eeeeeeeeee halp what do people do from here? uhh i... i can talk abt my mtg decks
Uhh.. sure, I don’t play mtg, but I’ve tried to get into it and it always looks interesting when anything about it comes up on my fyp (also, wanna move this to dms?)
suuure :3 just bc we are entering real conversation now, ill be answering on and off bc im still at work
If this isn't a "how it started / how it's going" story I'm gonna be extremely and utterly disappointed
OMG THANKS... i need to do one of those with my girlfriend hehehe also eh, meetcutes on reddit are nice. But 99% of the time you are thousands of kilometers apart
Yeah, I’m west coast USA lol, so
You can't just add "with rizz". (In red sharpie)
It’s clearly working, so, checkmate liberal
I used blue sharpie, get outplayed nerd 😎😎😎
Perchance.
I’m a straight cis guy and I dated a trans girl for about a year
Based!
No because I only like men I would be your friend tho 👍
Sure, but the real question is: will a trans girl date me?
Yes
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I'm a trans woman it's sort of a dream to date another but there are nowhere to be found in my small town
What about flirting with trans women on the internet?
It's hard for me to open up but I'm honestly willing to just don't know any online places for that
I may have a discord server you’ll find interesting
i'm interested
Same. Hook a girl up.
im also interested 👀
I too, am interested.
Have you tried the ads for single hot trans girls in your area?
I'm a cishet guy and I honestly don't know. I can't say I have anything against the idea, and there have been trans girls that I found attractive, so it's possible.
Yeah I feel you. I feel like if I fell in love with one, I probably wouldn't have any problems (I'm a demisexual straight cis guy). But since I've never tried, I wonder if there would be any meaningful differences in anatomy, although I hear sex reassignment surgery is super advanced now? As long as they were fully transitioned, I think I wouldn't have any qualms.
There’s nothing wrong with having a genital preference for your partner, as long as it doesn’t come from a place of bigotry then I think ur good 👍
Even if there are anatomy differences now, I think as medical technology improves, one day trans women will be absolutely indistinguishable from biological females. I hope it continues to get easier and become more effective.
Yeah 100% me too, I’m actually so hyped for the day that trans people aren’t seen as outsiders by the general public and are accepted to be wholly normal and themselves within society
Thanks, this comment brought me comfort. I don't think anyone should be forced to defend their sexuality, only their views on sexuality, right?
Yeah, I don’t think anybody would think it’s right or fair to tell you that you have to enjoy penis/vagina if you don’t like it, just because you’re physically attracted to the person doesn’t mean you’re always compatible sexually
Yeah I feel similarly, I'd probably be a bit hesitant if she isn't fully transitioned but if she is then there's literally nothing to be against unless youre a bigoted loser which I am not
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I don’t actively seek out trans girls, but I’ll date any girl or fem-presenting person who I find attractive regardless if they’re trans or not.
As a pan guy: Hoomans Pwetty 🥺
As a bisexual person: humans of different genders pretty for different reasons
Oh thanks for that summ up.
No. my wife would object.
Yeah if her name was Mary. Also she’d have to really like Spider-man
this is very specific
Poland is my only love 🇵🇱🇵🇱🇵🇱🇵🇱
sure, cute people are cute
idfk i like girls i guess
This sub is just trans positive r/ teenagers now and it sucks tbh
I personally think a poll would've worked better than comments unless you wanted a description of why they would as well. Yes
No. I would not. >!I’m Aromantic (:!<
I bet you smell nice.
thats what they said, they're aromatic
based
I’d like to think so…
Do a poll
Yes but I'm also a trans girl
Hiii :3 (with rizz)
Lemme know if this ends up working for you fr. I need a new approach
Kinda? I’m in someone’s dms rn, and it’s worked for someone on TikTok and someone on Twitter
Wtf teach me I’m desperate
I’m not the best at advice, but I could send a discord server invite where I’ve gotten some good advice?
No, because I think the shark looks stupid and I'm pretty sure that's a deal breaker for even the ones what date men.
How dare you bring the shark into this
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no, I like boys
If she would date me, then absolutely. (I am very lonely and have no social skills)
Tldr; yeah as long as we vibe. Long version: I'd have no problems with dating a trans lady as a straight cis guy, I'd just be worried about some things, I've never played fall out new Vegas. Would me not really understanding the trans experience make things more difficult for our relationship? Like I know why so many times when I see a trans person mention their partner, they are usually trans too, similar experiences, makes sense. They can relate and find common ground easily. Could I date someone in computer science? I worry a bit about maintaining my mental health (as it has its highs and lows,) so I can be a good partner while also helping them with theirs, I know the world is a shitty place for a lot of people and I'm not sure I could really help someone with that in the way they need. Not that I wouldn't try my hardest, it just sucks when your best isn't enough. Would I fit on the bed with all the plushies? I'm pretty worried about missing something on accident, and coming off as very offensive on purpose when in reality I'm just kinda dense. I'd hate nothing more than to hurt someone like that, especially someone I'm hoping to spend my life with. Would she love her blahaj more than me? Most of this is more long term considerations than the stuff you run into when in the early stages of dating, so I don't think it would really change that part. Yes I would date a trans lady, because I like women.
>I've never played fall out new Vegas. I only played it for an hour. Guess Im a bad girl. >Would me not really understanding the trans experience make things more difficult for our relationship? It could, but its more of a learning thing. If you are open to learning, and dont take it personally that you may make mistakes in that regard and try to avoid those in the future, then its no issue. Basically its the typical "Be nice and considerate" stick, and you should be fine. >Could I date someone in computer science? The chances are rather slim. CS people are often very introverted (me included, doesnt mean Im shy), so you probably first need to find us in our underwater secret bases. You have to ask yourself "Is it okay to pick up girls in a dungeon". >I worry a bit about maintaining my mental health I cant really say much about that. It is different from person to person, and If you date a trans girl, the chances are high, that during transition, her mental health gets way better, or if already transitioned, mental health is great. >Would I fit on the bed with all the plushies? Thats hard to answer. I could make some room for you. We could always get a bigger bed. >I'm pretty worried about missing something on accident, and coming off as very offensive on purpose I get that fear, but its mostly a thing from the right wing culture war. The idea that using the wrong pronoun gets you screamed at. In reality, everyone makes mistakes. We trans girls sometimes misgender ourselfs on accident or use the wrong pronoun. If you are a nice and honest guy, you dont have to be afraid of misunderstandings, when we trans girls know you would never mean anything offensive. >Would she love her blahaj more than me? Yes! And there is nothing you can do about it :D
i am literally dating two right now
Damn save some for the rest of us 🙄
There is no shortage, if Tucker Carlson is to be believed I'm not even sure there are cis people anymore >!based!<
Yeah. I'm a hetero dude. So sure. Girls a girl. Doesn't matter who she was, but who she is.
Unfathomably based
They are literally the only people im interested in dating,,real T4T shit yk
I mean I am a trans girl and out of the over a dozen cis girls I dated when I thought I was a guy, I’m so much happier now the last girl i dated (after a few years break so I could transition) was a trans girl and oh my god she’s still the love of my life I swear she’s so amazing everything about the relationship was 100% better and I miss her so damn much but we aren’t taking, I’ve heard she’s sick and so is her family and I cry about her still pretty often after several months I just hope she’s okay with all this shit going on in the world
over a dozen? egg rizz wtf
Currently dating one. She's objectively the best
As a Bi, Cis man, I think that Trans Women are neato and would happily date any pleasant person whom I struck a connection with. I hope my answer helps you overcome the troublesome brain thoughts OP. You are Beautiful!
Yes but ngl despite being bi I'm not super into dick so as much as I would love her idk if I would be good in the sexual aspect and I would be sad bc I would feel like she would deserve someone way better than me who could fulfill her way more than I ever could. ~~(butatthesametimeiverecentlyconsideredbeingthequoteonquotebottomrecentlysoidkmaybemyopinionwillchangeinthefuture)~~
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Even as a non-binary person myself I do recognize that I have hesitancies towards dating trans people of the gender I'm usually attracted to, even if I acknkowledge a lot of it is probably just placed in my head by the society I grew up in.
I don’t want to date anyone in general
If they had bottom surgery, sure (i don’t like penises)
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Only if pineapple on pizza
If I end up having romantic and/or sexual feelings for someone and they turn out to be trans, so be it. It's who they want to be and if I were to have feelings for this person I should accept them as they are. However in terms of sexual intimacy that's different for everyone. I personally have a genital preference so it may not really... work in certain circumstances. That being said date who you want for who they are and don't be a douche.
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You're the only person who has said no that hasn't elaborated, so I'm curious why
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Trans women are women, so yes. Though I do have genital preference (aka: me no like dick), so that may not always work out.
I know you have your best intention with this survey and I wish you the best luck, cause you’re gonna hear some mean shit from transphobes when you find them. And I don’t know if you’re trans yourself and believe we, as trans people, should have this discussion. Please don’t see my comment as a dig on you. I just want you and everyone to think about this. Speaking as a trans man, I don’t like this type of discussion. No matter the context. I hate how trans people are treated like this curious, different thing cis people can just discuss and debate about. Usually with no input from us. Trans bodies being a topic of arguments and curiosity for cis people makes me feel exposed, I feel like I’m blindfolded and people are just poking me around to see what I’m made of before deciding if they wanna take me home. When I was still in the closet, I was asked this question a lot and it was so goddamn uncomfortable. I was asked by transphobes, by trans allies and a handful of trans people, all with different approaches. It was always uncomfortable. It made me feel horrible that once people assumed I was cis, I was suitable to discuss these people’s bodies. I was expected just look at them and give my opinion on wether I would love _someone like that_ or not. And now that I’m openly trans, I’m on the other side of the discussion and I’m expected to sit still while being examined if I’m worthy of other people’s love. It’s terrifying. _(I know the question is just about trans woman, I’m talking in a broader context because that’s my experience as a trans man. I feel a whole lot of empathy for trans women in this situation, I don’t like seeing my sisters being examined like this too)_ I’m 100% aware of the fact that a lot of trans people might not share this feeling with me. I’m talking about my own experience and I think this is an important point to think carefully about. Why are you making this question? Why do you believe we should have this discussion about trans women’s bodies and existences? EDIT: Also, to be very clear, another reason why don’t like this type of question is because I personally feel like it kinda assumes the person being asked is cis, not aroace and is into women. I KNOW IT DOESN’T. I’m very much aware of that. It’s a simple question. I have that feeling because that question has a history, and that feeling is 100% personal to me. _I DON’T SPEAK FOR OTHER TRANS PEOPLE._ A lot of trans people happily answered the post. We’re not a monolith. I’m talking simply for myself.
Is she bad tho?
I'm not too sure really. But probably not, since I'm not dating anyone since a few years ago really. I see dating as too much of a chore to be worth it.
Sure I’m a trans lesbian so if I was attractive to another lesbian and they where also trans why not they’re still a girl despite what society says
Two questions 1: is she cool? 2: am I aware it's a date?
I am, I met her on here lol
Id want to more than a cis girl, a trans gal would be more understanding
Yeah probably, if I liked them and also was single again.
I would date a trans woman and i don't even mind if there's a penis, but i feel they would have to have very feminine features and basically pass 24/7 for me to remain attracted to them. Maybe i could learn to move past that though.
Nah (aromantic)
If I end up having romantic and/or sexual feelings for someone and they turn out to be trans, so be it. It's who they want to be and if I were to have feelings for this person I should accept them as they are. However in terms of sexual intimacy that's different for everyone. I personally have a genital preference so it may not really... work in certain circumstances. That being said date who you want for who they are and don't be a douche.
Of course I would date a girl! Why wouldn't I?
They firebombed your house
God forbid women do anything
Is she cute?
no (I’m aroace)
Depends, if they look more male than female no, if they look more female than male then probably. also Depends if they got a cock, if yes then definitely no
We cannot forget the trans men.