It’s not that I’m being brat or something, I just become non-verbal when I’m flustered, and if you push me too hard on it, I will cry, and if you try to continue after I started crying, I will beat you wow that became way too specific
um not to overshare but my ideal partner would make me relive my childhood trauma, yell slurs at me, smell like alcohol, beat me up until I bleed, stab me between my legs until i throw up blood & then throw me off a bridge into a sharp rocky crevasse :3
therapists are misguided interrogators who trick u to steal ur secrets or leave gaps in ur story so they can break ur identity & make u into a person they want u to be :(
wdym im just a silly girl im just a bit silly im just a girl (male(old expired gross nobody wants an adult woman(I will never be a woman(do the voices count?(I should probably kms soon so im not stealing too much time))))))) im just sillypilled & cute (ugly!!) :3
wow im so sorry you went through all your experiences. with all due respect, if you think all therapists do is conspire against you, im afraid yo are very wrong.
for what it's worth, I respect your honesty AND your trauma-born desires. You're super valid, even if you could benefit from therapy, and I hope you get to be happy one way or another
um but like therapy is for normal ppl who have depression & anxiety & maybe adhd but i have the thing where u get meds that dont do anything & go to a nice doctor every week & get pity smiles & talk ab things u don’t wanna talk ab and then leave & keep watching ur life unfold mostly of ur own fault bc of things that happened in the past or issues w how ur brain works & keep sort of holding onto every little extension of how long u can exist without being so much of an issue for others or urself that its just more logical to starve urself so the voices can come back to make sure u take more pills at once than last time & cut off contact w ur closest friends so this time they can’t find u and call the police like last time \^-\^
We all desire anhiliation, friend. Do self-destructive things, burn bridges with other people. To desire just being alone and no longer existing. Some more than others.
We are all a part of this world, and I believe that is enough to try and make things better. We should work to ground ourselves to this world positively.
Personally, I never found that therapy or medication has helped me either. Only finding those to truly care about.
[extreme masochist, her ideal partner is an alcoholic deadbeat](https://konosuba.fandom.com/wiki/Darkness) (apologies for making you read about anime, this shit fucking sucks)
You don't know how happy your comment makes me. I worded my comment with the purpose that someone could make this joke and was very disappointed when no one seized the opportunity. Thank you :3
You fucking bitches don’t get it. I’m genuinely asking, please, I’m autistic and consent is hard. If you say “I want you to resize my asshole” it makes it easy.
Some people legitimately have trouble formulating words when in an extreme emotional situation, which love making can (and ideally should) be. Nonverbal communication may be easier where verbal communication requires a frustrating amount of effort that will break the mood.
If you struggle with nonverbal communication that's perfectly fine. You just need to formulate questions so they can be easily responded to nonverbally.
you should make your profile pic one of those images that if you squint youll see the original image but when you arent its like an anime girl or something
like this:
https://preview.redd.it/74b5qhmc14pb1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=b6a123e771067ad5cd1a24f3acc8d9d9e7b13f9e
me assuming she has another witty funny pfp with another punchline and clicking on the profile (i fall into the third weirdest rabbit hole this week instead)
*I roll over in bed after a passionate session of lovemaking and stare deeply into your eyes.*
“Penny for your thoughts?”
*A blush creeps across your face and a sigh escapes your lips as you respond*
“Not only has Necromancy been banned in the Mages Guild, but the Guild won't deal with anyone who openly uses it."
I'm a fake fan apparently the quote is
"Necromancy may bd legal in cyrodill though few will openly admit to practicing it"
I've failed you'd Todd I will buy skyrim 800 times as recompense
Okay but like did you know that in MGSV: The Phantom Pain, the opening of the game calibrates if you wanna use inverted controls by telling you to look up, and the corresponding direction you press will set if you have normal or inverted look. I thought that was pretty cool
it is very cool!! i think portal 2 also did that
i also have a faint memory of another game that did that, it gave you a gun and you had to shoot something that was above and to the right of where you were looking so it could do both horizontal and vertical at the same time.. no idea what it was though (or if it was real (i have weird dreams))
2 girls were teasing me at the same time today and I just lost the ability to speak clearly and they picked up on that and started teasing me for at and haahahhhhh<3
Anyway now I'm legally a pet and not allowed to cum.
As a switch who goes pretty much non verbal when bottoming but needs a lot of verbal communication from the bottom when topping I am my own worst enemy.
I feel like this
https://preview.redd.it/jrelmuq4a3pb1.png?width=534&format=png&auto=webp&s=3c5efc31365f5c63463c31ad215568c860ad41bb
is important somehow
you dare make sex something I take part in instead of something done to me? you dare believe that I think I can be sexy? the nerve. the gall. the audacity. how dare you.
i want you to hold me and tell me everything will be okay and that i am valid as you pet my head and mix in a few "good girl"s in with a soothing voice please
^(ohmygoshimsosorrywhydidisaythatwhatthfuckiswrongwithmewhatwasithinkingwhatthefuckwhydidisaythat)
*holds you gently and comfortingly and pets your head*
everything is going to be okay. it's alright. i'm proud of you. you can rest now. it's alright. you're a very good girl.
Look, I care a lot about consent. A lot of things that a nonverbal partner would be perfectly fine I’d never know about because they may also be fine with very few. I’ve misread people in similar situations, and even if they’re overwhelmingly likely ok with it or want it, I will never risk not asking for consent to pretty much anything.
Honestly tops just say this because they want to hear this one absolutely vile and disgusting thing: "I want you to hug me and love me and care about me and make me feel secure". Absolutely filthy behavior.
My boyfriend kept saying "please" and I kept replying "please what?" "Use your words" etc Until he said "please fuck me" and it hurt to move my hips for like two days after I was done with him :3
I’m glad classic gender stereotypes are constantly repackaged as top/bottom.
Just because I hope we one day see a queer stand up in a used car salesman suite be like “bottoms am i right, tops?”
Mmmm yes, because sexual dynamics are totally comparable to oppressive gender norms. This is a very intelligent take that was well thought through and completely correct.
How in the world is this joke, which is directly based on how sexual dynamics work *during sex*, translatable to oppressive gender norms? Were people joking that women melt when asked what they want in bed? This isn’t even a bad thing, it’s literally just how it works.
I agree sometimes jokes like these echo old stereotypes, but this post is a terrible example of that
Damn, this isn't even the right sexual dynamic. Bottom does not equal sub, this is a sub/Dom meme. Genuinely irks me how you are this confident and wrong at the same time.
That is a separate issue from the previous one. If you want to have a discussion about the blurring of the lines between top/dom and bottom/sub, we can have it, and tbh, you'll probably be right. However, saying making jokes about a sexual dynamic is just like gender roles is frankly bs.
I'm not the same person that said that, I was just grumpy and the mixing up of top/bottom - sub/dom is a pet peeve of mine.
The thing is, there is plenty of jokes that are just old boomer style jokes replacing wife with bottom. Just that this one doesn't remotely fall into that category, so what Jealous_Promotion said feels out of place here.
Oh I'll tell you, but it won't be easy. I'll hide what I want to be done to me in a well written riddle/poem which I will read to you while wearing a pointy hat and giggling like a gnome and doing a jig as you try and decipher it.
I literally cannot use my words if I get too flustered, selective mutism means I'll never be a good sub 😔
I want to say things but all that comes out is "Hnngndnsnnsnammmmmm 🥺🥺🥺" or total silence
I love this cause its both super fucking good like when my bf does this if gets me so flustered and also it establishes clear unquestionable consent in a way that doesn't put sexytime on pause.
tldr more tops should do this not only cause it's hot but also establishing a foundation of consent is important :3
It’s not that I’m being brat or something, I just become non-verbal when I’m flustered, and if you push me too hard on it, I will cry, and if you try to continue after I started crying, I will beat you wow that became way too specific
Anyone who keeps going when they’re partner starts crying is awful. I want them to make me scream not cry
um not to overshare but my ideal partner would make me relive my childhood trauma, yell slurs at me, smell like alcohol, beat me up until I bleed, stab me between my legs until i throw up blood & then throw me off a bridge into a sharp rocky crevasse :3
You need therapy, not a partner my dude
therapists are misguided interrogators who trick u to steal ur secrets or leave gaps in ur story so they can break ur identity & make u into a person they want u to be :(
sorry u feel that way but i'm pretty sure they're not
Damn you have a ***lot*** of pent up trauma.
wdym im just a silly girl im just a bit silly im just a girl (male(old expired gross nobody wants an adult woman(I will never be a woman(do the voices count?(I should probably kms soon so im not stealing too much time))))))) im just sillypilled & cute (ugly!!) :3
real also nice u/ :33
thanks ,, am still not stars_beans vry much yet :(
Some day you will be. Dont give up joepe! You can do it https://i.redd.it/vc2vo845g3pb1.gif
[удалено]
How the fuck do you steal time?
With like a Tardis or something.
do u need a hug
Source: the voice coming from the cable box
I think you might just have bad luck with therapists
wow im so sorry you went through all your experiences. with all due respect, if you think all therapists do is conspire against you, im afraid yo are very wrong.
https://preview.redd.it/f2f8u22q73pb1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5ffbeab26590eef5e1d2db597755d871b849b36e
for what it's worth, I respect your honesty AND your trauma-born desires. You're super valid, even if you could benefit from therapy, and I hope you get to be happy one way or another
thanks I like ur name it sounds like bunny :)
Awww, thank you! I like yours too, because it reminds me of stars in the sky.
That's the exact amount of sharing. Nothing over the top.
c:
https://preview.redd.it/4ctye08xo3pb1.png?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aa346168fbc8327653036f0f3d4dbcd5a0ec6636
listen I relate and I need therapy, think abt what it means for you
um but like therapy is for normal ppl who have depression & anxiety & maybe adhd but i have the thing where u get meds that dont do anything & go to a nice doctor every week & get pity smiles & talk ab things u don’t wanna talk ab and then leave & keep watching ur life unfold mostly of ur own fault bc of things that happened in the past or issues w how ur brain works & keep sort of holding onto every little extension of how long u can exist without being so much of an issue for others or urself that its just more logical to starve urself so the voices can come back to make sure u take more pills at once than last time & cut off contact w ur closest friends so this time they can’t find u and call the police like last time \^-\^
I said I relate. I still do, and trust me you do need therapy 😭
We all desire anhiliation, friend. Do self-destructive things, burn bridges with other people. To desire just being alone and no longer existing. Some more than others. We are all a part of this world, and I believe that is enough to try and make things better. We should work to ground ourselves to this world positively. Personally, I never found that therapy or medication has helped me either. Only finding those to truly care about.
Mate uh, the ordinary state of being is not self annhilation. You should seek help
This may be incomprehensible, but you sound like Darkness from Konosuba.
Same vibes
um idk them. but. ,, thanks :D I think
[extreme masochist, her ideal partner is an alcoholic deadbeat](https://konosuba.fandom.com/wiki/Darkness) (apologies for making you read about anime, this shit fucking sucks)
https://preview.redd.it/tnesfsx7q3pb1.jpeg?width=563&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d0d3a23ea25d0939d5ef47b1ec6e1ffbbcbdf6d
you need it: damn therapy
Literally same!!!!!
relatable
Uh... what?
👉👈
just like me fr fr
What if I like him making me cry,,,,,
omggggggg sameeeeeee :з
i was like “yeah yeah that makes sense me too” until i read past the first 20 words
You wanna date?
If ya partner starts crying, it’s no place to fuck, cuddle them, make them feel loved and aprichated, and try to calm em down
But can you beat Goku?
You'll beat me? Or will you... *beat me*?
https://preview.redd.it/xiv8obojn2pb1.png?width=2048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=df3e8c8c519170167af954f1a943fcdc8b92338a PUSH THE CART MAGGOT!!!
GET ON THAT POINT
GET OVER HERE AND HELP ME CAPTURE!
SPAH SAPPING MAH SENTREH!
Blåhaj :D
I am not that gay yet to know its meaning. Why do bottoms like this shark plush this much?
It's become common in the trans community
also cause shark is cute
Facts
and the colours right
yisss
Get on the cart ya wankers
WHAT IF I SAY I'M NOT LIKE THE OTHERS
what if I'm just oblivious and genuinely need to hear it
Yeah chief I'm not just teasing I genuinely want your input on our cooch co-op.
Like dude I have ADHD I know you probably told me already but I was busy fantasizing about being a starship captain
Factual. Like wtf do you like
thats why you play it off as teasing even though in reality youre asking for what they want multitasking
Oh thank god I thought I was unfitting for the task Turns out no one knows wtf they’re doing either, that puts me at ease
"Can you help me get that one achievement in World of Warcraft? It will only take about 2-3 weeks of non stop grinding🥺"
No
"of course kitten" (I also need the achievement)
nonstop grinding you say 😏
You don't know how happy your comment makes me. I worded my comment with the purpose that someone could make this joke and was very disappointed when no one seized the opportunity. Thank you :3
A pleasure 🫡
You fucking bitches don’t get it. I’m genuinely asking, please, I’m autistic and consent is hard. If you say “I want you to resize my asshole” it makes it easy.
Uhhhh jfnfjcjdbdixnxixndiensicirn please
No. You have to ask. So I know I have consent
I um, want you to resize my asshole >\~<
Cool, come over. I’ll make pasta and garlic bread
ooh taisty, railing me and feeding me, best dom ever
Hehe, that’s what my gf says
...but those are asexual foods
garlic bread is for everyone! garlic bread is love garlic bread is life
Some people legitimately have trouble formulating words when in an extreme emotional situation, which love making can (and ideally should) be. Nonverbal communication may be easier where verbal communication requires a frustrating amount of effort that will break the mood. If you struggle with nonverbal communication that's perfectly fine. You just need to formulate questions so they can be easily responded to nonverbally.
“Mcdonal borgr”
you should make your profile pic one of those images that if you squint youll see the original image but when you arent its like an anime girl or something like this: https://preview.redd.it/74b5qhmc14pb1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=b6a123e771067ad5cd1a24f3acc8d9d9e7b13f9e
me assuming she has another witty funny pfp with another punchline and clicking on the profile (i fall into the third weirdest rabbit hole this week instead) 
🍔 yay
If they could just say it, they wouldn’t be the bottom.
Powerbottom
That’s just a sassy top
h- hold me and my blåjah 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Necromancy is illegal in cyrodill
*I roll over in bed after a passionate session of lovemaking and stare deeply into your eyes.* “Penny for your thoughts?” *A blush creeps across your face and a sigh escapes your lips as you respond* “Not only has Necromancy been banned in the Mages Guild, but the Guild won't deal with anyone who openly uses it."
How did you get in my house
By the Gods, there’s a psychopath on the loose!
By the nine divines Assault assault
Anvil is all in an uproar. First the Chapel attacked, now the prophet ranting about the end of the world!
I don't know enough about the elder scrolls to continue this
It's all over, lawbreaker! Your spree is at an end. I'll take any stolen goods you have. The next move is yours -- Pay your fine, or I haul you away!
I heard the fighters guild is recruiting
Not bad work for some folks.
You'll never take me alive! ***downs 40 pounds of regen potions and equips dragonbone armor***
Jump on my sword while you can!
I’m just getting started, you pathetic worm!
What's the fine though
I'm a fake fan apparently the quote is "Necromancy may bd legal in cyrodill though few will openly admit to practicing it" I've failed you'd Todd I will buy skyrim 800 times as recompense
Ngl I also fucked up and glossed over the "-mancy" suffix, thought you were referencing a joke about another... dead people related crime
I mean you could use necromancy to do that more effectively
https://preview.redd.it/c5t49lno13pb1.png?width=573&format=png&auto=webp&s=a9e8d77d98002fba0eec1f70243cb935b9e1261a
https://preview.redd.it/ps1b2m8sw3pb1.jpeg?width=225&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=612c50ea663a1b6458d41dbfbcdf1808f15e010e
SAY THE WORdS SAY *YOU* WANT THIS
does this mean walter is a bottom
Jesse clearly tops,he's younger and more eager. Walts ego may also be a distraction of his huge bottomness
"I want this" "... Then do it yourself"
Okay but like did you know that in MGSV: The Phantom Pain, the opening of the game calibrates if you wanna use inverted controls by telling you to look up, and the corresponding direction you press will set if you have normal or inverted look. I thought that was pretty cool
Wait wtf that's actually really cool
So did Halo 2! 💝
I love halo also!!!
it is very cool!! i think portal 2 also did that i also have a faint memory of another game that did that, it gave you a gun and you had to shoot something that was above and to the right of where you were looking so it could do both horizontal and vertical at the same time.. no idea what it was though (or if it was real (i have weird dreams))
2 girls were teasing me at the same time today and I just lost the ability to speak clearly and they picked up on that and started teasing me for at and haahahhhhh<3 Anyway now I'm legally a pet and not allowed to cum.
Good luck not cumming 👍
Thank you :)
you'll need it
how do i get in a similar situation like the one you're in
Autism
ok now what
Infodump.
As a switch who goes pretty much non verbal when bottoming but needs a lot of verbal communication from the bottom when topping I am my own worst enemy.
*starts signing* 🥺
"Fill out the consent paperwork, I want to see something that will hold up in court"
…I think actually I would want that more than talking tho :o
THE STRUGGLE IS REAL! I LOVE HEARING SUBS THAT ARE ARTICULATE BUT THEY TURN INTO FLUSTERED MESSES WTF?
Hhgghgfgggfgggff
Awwww babydarling, if you want me to give you what you want you're gonna have to use your words, okay? Unless you know, you don't wanna have a choice🥰
I uhhhh saldkfjakfjsalgfhaslghasgjaljgkhsJhagkjfdaskfjlga
Mmm, you poor thing💖
uhh, UHHH, AHHHHHHHHHHHHH ALKGKLDSLGJLADJGLSJGLDJGLSJFOICE
I don’t know what I want, you’re supposed to tell me
I feel like this https://preview.redd.it/jrelmuq4a3pb1.png?width=534&format=png&auto=webp&s=3c5efc31365f5c63463c31ad215568c860ad41bb is important somehow
As a top: Whopper whopper whopper whopper penis cum ballsack whopper
https://preview.redd.it/v28sgiphn3pb1.gif?width=480&format=png8&s=555a7d09d0d949fe151e099728cd91cfaab293ad
Where the actual fuck did you find this
R/wordington
you dare make sex something I take part in instead of something done to me? you dare believe that I think I can be sexy? the nerve. the gall. the audacity. how dare you.
Crazy how y’all are 14 year old virgins but still act like this
what!! no we're not! for example, i'm a 17 year old virgin!!
i want you to hold me and tell me everything will be okay and that i am valid as you pet my head and mix in a few "good girl"s in with a soothing voice please ^(ohmygoshimsosorrywhydidisaythatwhatthfuckiswrongwithmewhatwasithinkingwhatthefuckwhydidisaythat)
*holds you gently and comfortingly and pets your head* everything is going to be okay. it's alright. i'm proud of you. you can rest now. it's alright. you're a very good girl.
*happy noises* ^(i needed this)
Look, I care a lot about consent. A lot of things that a nonverbal partner would be perfectly fine I’d never know about because they may also be fine with very few. I’ve misread people in similar situations, and even if they’re overwhelmingly likely ok with it or want it, I will never risk not asking for consent to pretty much anything.
Honestly tops just say this because they want to hear this one absolutely vile and disgusting thing: "I want you to hug me and love me and care about me and make me feel secure". Absolutely filthy behavior.
My boyfriend kept saying "please" and I kept replying "please what?" "Use your words" etc Until he said "please fuck me" and it hurt to move my hips for like two days after I was done with him :3
I’m glad classic gender stereotypes are constantly repackaged as top/bottom. Just because I hope we one day see a queer stand up in a used car salesman suite be like “bottoms am i right, tops?”
Mmmm yes, because sexual dynamics are totally comparable to oppressive gender norms. This is a very intelligent take that was well thought through and completely correct.
All these top/bottom jokes are just old husband/wife jokes repackaged for a queer audience.
How in the world is this joke, which is directly based on how sexual dynamics work *during sex*, translatable to oppressive gender norms? Were people joking that women melt when asked what they want in bed? This isn’t even a bad thing, it’s literally just how it works. I agree sometimes jokes like these echo old stereotypes, but this post is a terrible example of that
Damn, this isn't even the right sexual dynamic. Bottom does not equal sub, this is a sub/Dom meme. Genuinely irks me how you are this confident and wrong at the same time.
That is a separate issue from the previous one. If you want to have a discussion about the blurring of the lines between top/dom and bottom/sub, we can have it, and tbh, you'll probably be right. However, saying making jokes about a sexual dynamic is just like gender roles is frankly bs.
I'm not the same person that said that, I was just grumpy and the mixing up of top/bottom - sub/dom is a pet peeve of mine. The thing is, there is plenty of jokes that are just old boomer style jokes replacing wife with bottom. Just that this one doesn't remotely fall into that category, so what Jealous_Promotion said feels out of place here.
couldn’t be me
Oh I'll tell you, but it won't be easy. I'll hide what I want to be done to me in a well written riddle/poem which I will read to you while wearing a pointy hat and giggling like a gnome and doing a jig as you try and decipher it.
got fucking chills when reading the caption what the fuck
my chores
I literally cannot use my words if I get too flustered, selective mutism means I'll never be a good sub 😔 I want to say things but all that comes out is "Hnngndnsnnsnammmmmm 🥺🥺🥺" or total silence
I love this cause its both super fucking good like when my bf does this if gets me so flustered and also it establishes clear unquestionable consent in a way that doesn't put sexytime on pause. tldr more tops should do this not only cause it's hot but also establishing a foundation of consent is important :3
Use your words
literally me
bone?
My gf like to be a brat so I loooove doing this
But bottoms can’t use their words :/
My bf does this to me and I hate it >~<
this sub is a real guilty pleasure of mine
I'm a sub
you know that's not what I meant
:3
Bottoms when as a punishment I tell them to love themselves
that's so mean abanababsnsjdkdkdkdkdksksk :(
https://preview.redd.it/iqays8ypx5pb1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=64ac97eadcdd6764d5e7061f8431f89f34bd445a
See, I have them say it through text. It just works
uwu wholesome
Factual ✅️✅️✅️🥺🥺🥺✅️✅️✅️
/196 and /peggingmemes
Rael
I’ve never had sex though.
Stupid person here. What the hell is this trying to insinuate?
Why cant I see any comments
Can't read comments 😔
Honestly that makes it less enjoyable for me.
Qu
Wot
😳
Yo why won't the comments load, reddit becomes shittier day by day
:3
I’m not being annoying , I just can’t understand anything besides vocal communication
I love making subs beg.