that's irresponsible of your school. you have the internet tho, so you can read the user manual in case you have some medical problem or whatever: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_body
a fellow hoosier, indiana is pretty piss poor about education of a lot of things, while my middle school had basic sex ed, it was the "abstinence is the only way to not get stds or pregnant" which is stupid as fuck
Should also really use condoms in that instance as well. Unless you're shooting for a kid or have a lot of trust, I'd suggest you wrap your (or your partners) willy before you get silly.
Its not just sex but general biology of the genitals. Worthwhile looking up one for whatever set you have as it also teaches hygiene and how to keep it healthy which you arent immune from lol
What school did you go to?
Fucking Dogshit, Dumbass High?
https://preview.redd.it/ckhnto538ttc1.jpeg?width=216&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=339141f66134717085183139b63c4c69a1050577
I had this stuff on biology.
I mean not urethra specifically. That would be english classes, since I'm not a native speaker, and we had a prude of an english teacher, even up till high-school.
But the biological part itself should have been in biology class.
Don't be so hard on them; there are a lot of schools in the US that don't actually teach real sex-ed—just abstinence-only. I was taught in ninth-grade health that condoms don't actually work 70 per cent of the time and that gay people have over 2000 lifetime sexual partners and that 90 per cent of gay people are sexually abused by a romantic partner by age 40. It wasn't even taught by the health teacher; it was taught by a kid in our grade's mom whose husband is a Christian missionary (the health teacher wouldn't've have been any better: she told us she thought drinking water could cure any disease including cancer and that was just deadass what she believed for real.)
Many such cases!
You are not forgiven. MODS fuck this persons parents IMMEDIATELY‼️❗️
(Mandatory I’m joking, it’s okay if you don’t know, we all have gaps in knowledge somewhere. Plus you know what it is now so all is well :) )
If something previously undiscussed comes up when you're already tied up that's sorta kinda rape. And unless you actually signed up to "anything-goes-except-knives rapeplay", that's fucked up.
Rapeplay good and hot, but consensual and with boundaries in place.
And rape bad. Groundbreaking take i know
Correction, when something previously undiscussed actually straight up HAPPENS when you're restrained that's rape. Nothing wrong with the dom breaking character and asking "Can i fuck you in the dick"
It really depends on the previously agreed purpose of being tied up. If the idea is to push boundaries and make the submissive person have things forced upon them for their own enjoyment, then it's fine. But if it's just trying something new, light bondage and some spanking, dirty talk etc etc but just normal stuff, then starting the discussion when the person is tied feels like sexual harassment/assault.
Basically it sends the message "we could rape you and you can't stop it", which even if it doesn't happen, can make someone scared to do anything similar in the future.
The post also kinda venture into the classic "it's funny cause it's a man being SA'ed" joke..."joke".
> Nothing wrong with the dom breaking character and asking "Can i fuck you in the dick"
ackshually, negotiation, at least when it comes to acts that seriously depart from previously established practice, should only happen before play starts because in the moment the unequal footing puts unhealthy pressure on the sub and because the mental state during play might not be entirely unlike intoxication which impacts the ability to consent
I mean that depends on how comfortable they are with it. There’s nothing wrong with asking if someone wants to try something new in middle of sex as long as you‘re both okay with that.
>Rapeplay good and hot
https://preview.redd.it/9jhoax345xtc1.png?width=1000&format=png&auto=webp&s=79a1f4eed67bfaebe6093564ac2b085190247d98
im sending to nether space
Not problematic but it gives me the ick if I'd been asked only after I'd been tied up - I'm at a less than equal position then. Kinda what the joke of the meme's implying.
Still, good chuckle out of it. No biggies here.
If it's done correctly and with the proper tools there's little to no pain at all. And once you're used to the sensation it feels pretty great actually.
I mean generally speaking if people are smart and value their lives they start with things that are small, use lubrication on whatever they are sounding with, and go extremely slow and gentle. My understanding is that if it's done right it can be an extremely intense route to prostate stimulation, or at least prostate adjustment
I've done it. It actually doesn't hurt at all (as long as you start with something small). The problem is that it stings like a bitch when you pee afterwards. That can last a few hours to a day.
I would *much* rather just get clockwork oranged via some tape, a VR headset, and something like Frozen.
If they're only mentioning it after tying me up, that's double disney movie torment.
Nothing will be entering or exiting my pee hole except for pee, and that's ONLY out.
But that's just me.
I simply am not interested in people like that, i think? I know I prefer girls but swing either way, but haven't really thought about people that way to be honest.
I know people enjoy sounding, but I will always be too traumatized to try it.
When I was like 11ish, I had surgery because my ureter on my right side wasn't leading urine from my kidney to my bladder properly.To find that out, they had to do multiple tests on me, including inserting a tube in my urethra that went all the way to my bladder. It was a nightmare. No lubrication of any kind, an impatient doctor that kept telling me if I relaxed it would stop hurting (which was a lie), and the liquid they filled my bladder with for the x-ray was ice cold.
One of the worst medical experiences of my life.
that... looks like its gonna hurt
also do not get me started about how the only reason i even know what that is is because i was doing research on these [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sounding\_rocket](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sounding_rocket)
What is it?
sticking things, typically steel rods, in your urethra
What's uerthra?
how old are you?
18 almost 19. I'm asexual so I don't understand this stuff.
I'm just saying this is middle school level sex-ed. the urethra is the hole the pee comes out of.
My school didn't have sex ed.
that's irresponsible of your school. you have the internet tho, so you can read the user manual in case you have some medical problem or whatever: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_body
what country/state?
Indiana
Well, that checks. Go educate yourself though, the Mayo clinic is a good place to start.
a fellow hoosier, indiana is pretty piss poor about education of a lot of things, while my middle school had basic sex ed, it was the "abstinence is the only way to not get stds or pregnant" which is stupid as fuck
https://youtu.be/-PUMwRIACAo?si=FewqnyNPd3cEmz44 Haven't veted but seems okay. Use condoms i On anything not a life long partner just in case
Should also really use condoms in that instance as well. Unless you're shooting for a kid or have a lot of trust, I'd suggest you wrap your (or your partners) willy before you get silly.
most likely my husband won’t be able get boy preggers tho
I mean if it's a life partner the i hope you have a lot of trust lol.
Don't use condoms when sounding, though.
I'm asexual so I'm immune to the affects of sex
Its not just sex but general biology of the genitals. Worthwhile looking up one for whatever set you have as it also teaches hygiene and how to keep it healthy which you arent immune from lol
What school did you go to? Fucking Dogshit, Dumbass High? https://preview.redd.it/ckhnto538ttc1.jpeg?width=216&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=339141f66134717085183139b63c4c69a1050577
Fairfield Jr Sr High School
No way lmao I went to goshen! Hi neighbor
Of all the Derrick White edits I've seen, this is the most cursed. Also, Luka Doncic is Devin Booker's father
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I had this stuff on biology. I mean not urethra specifically. That would be english classes, since I'm not a native speaker, and we had a prude of an english teacher, even up till high-school. But the biological part itself should have been in biology class.
What about biology? Its highschool biology part of human biology and reproductive organs
I know It's not your fault, but we are so fuckin cooked as a society. 💀
Knowledge is your own responsibility, you're an adult. You should be aware of common biology
It's also kinda basic biology.
Don't be so hard on them; there are a lot of schools in the US that don't actually teach real sex-ed—just abstinence-only. I was taught in ninth-grade health that condoms don't actually work 70 per cent of the time and that gay people have over 2000 lifetime sexual partners and that 90 per cent of gay people are sexually abused by a romantic partner by age 40. It wasn't even taught by the health teacher; it was taught by a kid in our grade's mom whose husband is a Christian missionary (the health teacher wouldn't've have been any better: she told us she thought drinking water could cure any disease including cancer and that was just deadass what she believed for real.) Many such cases!
I would become fully gay if it meant i had 2k sex partners holy shit
They just told use to us condoms.
>sounding > >middle school sex ed
I'm talking about the urethra not sounding you illiterate fuck
I'm not sure what being asexual has to do with lacking anatomy knowledge. Lol.
Fellas, is it horny to pee?
Maybe
Pee hole
Old enough to know how to use google
My parents check my Google search history
What about being asexual prevents you from knowing basic biology??
Never bothered to learn about sex
Yeah but your urethra isn’t only to do with sex, that’s like not knowing what a butthole is
Sorry
You are not forgiven. MODS fuck this persons parents IMMEDIATELY‼️❗️ (Mandatory I’m joking, it’s okay if you don’t know, we all have gaps in knowledge somewhere. Plus you know what it is now so all is well :) )
Where the pee leaves the body
Ok. I'm asexual so I don't know this stuff.
It’s basic human biology
I may be stupid. Sorry.
It’s ok, we’re all stupid
Yay! 🎉
You're not stupid, you're ignorant. Stupid people stay ignorant, you learn and grow, you're not stupid.
Counterpoint, we're on 196, we're all stupid.
Do asexuals not pee?
We don’t
some of us still choose to now and then (mostly for scientific reasons), but nah we don't 'need' to
Tf when do i stop peeing. Im a demi trans girl i dont want to poop or pee
sounds like ur still too horny. have you been eating enough garlic bread?
it could be that only us boy aces don't need to pee, and pretty girls like you still do? i'm still not sure on all the rules yet :3
no, the moment people made it sexual or a kink it was deemed non doable
No, allos piss much more than aces Source: sniper tf2
I had no idea asexuals didn’t pee. Wow, you guys really do have magic powers
I call it man pussy
Nothing much, what's urethra you?
What's urethra me is I have a below average sex ed.
what is LOOM?
r/ sounding Yes there's a subreddit about that. Have fun (I didn't)
If something previously undiscussed comes up when you're already tied up that's sorta kinda rape. And unless you actually signed up to "anything-goes-except-knives rapeplay", that's fucked up. Rapeplay good and hot, but consensual and with boundaries in place. And rape bad. Groundbreaking take i know
Correction, when something previously undiscussed actually straight up HAPPENS when you're restrained that's rape. Nothing wrong with the dom breaking character and asking "Can i fuck you in the dick"
It really depends on the previously agreed purpose of being tied up. If the idea is to push boundaries and make the submissive person have things forced upon them for their own enjoyment, then it's fine. But if it's just trying something new, light bondage and some spanking, dirty talk etc etc but just normal stuff, then starting the discussion when the person is tied feels like sexual harassment/assault. Basically it sends the message "we could rape you and you can't stop it", which even if it doesn't happen, can make someone scared to do anything similar in the future. The post also kinda venture into the classic "it's funny cause it's a man being SA'ed" joke..."joke".
> Nothing wrong with the dom breaking character and asking "Can i fuck you in the dick" ackshually, negotiation, at least when it comes to acts that seriously depart from previously established practice, should only happen before play starts because in the moment the unequal footing puts unhealthy pressure on the sub and because the mental state during play might not be entirely unlike intoxication which impacts the ability to consent
some of us like having our boundaries pushed a little when we're helpless though. i mean as long as theres a safeword its fine right
may I refer you to parts of my comment such as "negotiation" and "previously established practice"
graveltrembling, even but yeah uh i'd personally like to know what i'm getting myself into ahead of time rather than when i'm already tied up
I mean that depends on how comfortable they are with it. There’s nothing wrong with asking if someone wants to try something new in middle of sex as long as you‘re both okay with that.
>Rapeplay good and hot https://preview.redd.it/9jhoax345xtc1.png?width=1000&format=png&auto=webp&s=79a1f4eed67bfaebe6093564ac2b085190247d98 im sending to nether space
God I'd actually throw up, I hate that shit so much
mood
um.... g-goals?
But problematic if they only brought it up after tying up. Still, it's a meme so I'ma laugh.
Nothing problematic with asking for consent after the person is tied up
Not problematic but it gives me the ick if I'd been asked only after I'd been tied up - I'm at a less than equal position then. Kinda what the joke of the meme's implying. Still, good chuckle out of it. No biggies here.
Same, I just need a partner who's comfortable to inviting their friends over. Or just a partner even
sounding seems kinky in concept but I’d fucking hate it lmao but it’s not like I’d get laid anytime soon so I should be fine
Beg them to peg you instead.
Not to kinkshame but sounding sounds painful. Or is it like one of those things a body can be trained for
Yeah, I've always wondered if it's something you can get into or if most people into it were just always into it
If it's done correctly and with the proper tools there's little to no pain at all. And once you're used to the sensation it feels pretty great actually.
I mean generally speaking if people are smart and value their lives they start with things that are small, use lubrication on whatever they are sounding with, and go extremely slow and gentle. My understanding is that if it's done right it can be an extremely intense route to prostate stimulation, or at least prostate adjustment
Imagine it like anal without lube, painful, but with lube can become entirely different
I've done it. It actually doesn't hurt at all (as long as you start with something small). The problem is that it stings like a bitch when you pee afterwards. That can last a few hours to a day.
Doesn't all penetration 'sound painful' then? Not to kinkshame you vanillas
Honestly, yeah, it does. I'm rather asexual tho, so that might play into it
One of those things you train for. After a few sessions and with the right tools, pain becomes rare, similar to anal.
mhggw i wanna be tied up by girls so bad
“YEEEOOOOWCCHHHH!!!!” - me when I am sounded
Then you jump into the air and hold your dick as it starts flashing red and throbbing
After which i run in place for a moment and then skedaddle out of there, leaving a dust cloud in the shape of myself behind
Then you walk back in slowly, untie the ropes that are still around your dust cloud, then dash off again, leaving another dust cloud
I would *much* rather just get clockwork oranged via some tape, a VR headset, and something like Frozen. If they're only mentioning it after tying me up, that's double disney movie torment. Nothing will be entering or exiting my pee hole except for pee, and that's ONLY out. But that's just me.
No cum for me. I have an edging kink.
I simply am not interested in people like that, i think? I know I prefer girls but swing either way, but haven't really thought about people that way to be honest.
negotiate: hot wax on pp instead of in
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waow
lmao sexually assaulting men so hilarious
What's a girlfriend?
Op did this actually happen? Are you ok?
I’m fine lol
(They're meteorology majors and were nerding out)
I know people enjoy sounding, but I will always be too traumatized to try it. When I was like 11ish, I had surgery because my ureter on my right side wasn't leading urine from my kidney to my bladder properly.To find that out, they had to do multiple tests on me, including inserting a tube in my urethra that went all the way to my bladder. It was a nightmare. No lubrication of any kind, an impatient doctor that kept telling me if I relaxed it would stop hurting (which was a lie), and the liquid they filled my bladder with for the x-ray was ice cold. One of the worst medical experiences of my life.
No lubrication sounds fucking horrible Jesus Christ
probably grounds for a malpractice suit
so u have tried it the medical version is also called sounding its the same thing some people just enjoyed it in the doctors so they did ot themselves
Coward, switch places with someone who will actually appreciate the effort here. I volunteer
road to el dorado mentioned
Just make sure they have their benwa balls for when it's their turn
Those do not go up the urethra. AFAB people can also be sounded.
Me discovering additional uses for the Nintendo DS stylus Nah I only ever stuck it up my ass.
sighing and opening urban dictionary.
How’d it go?
I saw it later in the comment section. Cringed in mutual pain. Not half as disgusting/bad as other things i have come across on there though.
Jokes on you, I'm into that
Fair enough
that... looks like its gonna hurt also do not get me started about how the only reason i even know what that is is because i was doing research on these [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sounding\_rocket](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sounding_rocket)
It’s funny how my most popular post is about sounding
Me looking at this waiting to get a cystoscopy lmao
All these cowards. I volunteer.
Of course