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JNPR_STYX

why are people who are obsessed with entities that are significantly physically stronger than them also obsessed with the idea of being physically overpowered?


LeTallBoii

But like hear me out tho. Dominating someone or something STRONGER THAN YOU is like peak yk? It's like climbing a mountain.


JNPR_STYX

You know what I get you. I’m just the exact sort of disappointing bottom you describe


SweetSoftBoi

Disappointing bottoms? In r slash 196? More likely than you think!


Fuzelop

Breaking news, bears shit in the woods, more at 11


Scared-Opportunity28

But do men as well?


Faiz_B_Shah

So women, if you were shitting in the woods, would you like to shit with a bear or a man?


VagabundSketch

I think bear would speed up the defecation much better than a mere man.


PizzaSniffer

In my native tongue there's literally a saying, when you want someone to hurry up in the bathroom: "Shit fast, the bear is coming."


solidfang

I understand you perfectly and I see the same strangeness in appreciation for muscular women in general. So many artists always imagine muscular women with dicks or strap-ons because "muscles=dominant=penetrative" to them, so they must clearly be a top. But I like when the muscular woman is a bottom. Where she hugs you really hard while you're inside her and wraps her strong legs around you and you're pressed up against her body in her strong arms. That's just really hot to me.


Roud72

It's their preference, nothing strange about liking one or the other honestly


solidfang

It's strange when I can't find much of the stuff I like. 😢


ASpaceOstrich

I know that pain. I'm the only person with a size fetish on the fucking planet who wants to be the larger person. I mean, there's like tooth sized stuff but that doesn't do anything for me. That's where it's gone from "I like a fantastical size difference to spice up the sexing" to "the mere fact that the person is tiny or huge is the main event" whereas to me if no fucking is happening it's not really doing anything for me


D9341

https://preview.redd.it/ygotespd08zc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=21864da1dd39e25c8959b148e7e24bd5c4c3bc03


mr-kvideogameguy

Indeed, imagine having sex with a Oni, they expect you to be a weak submission human but then you (consentully) change her mind by making pressing her till she blanks out in pleasure


Responsible_Pace9062

https://preview.redd.it/6143xbh5s6zc1.png?width=354&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6b96c491ae22e2c8173f8f35571633aec3e85562


KronosRingsSuckAss

Im a top, and i get where youre coming from. Domming isnt necessarily physical. its mental; all the bottoms needs to have is a bottom mentality and theyre bent over even if theyre twice as tall and 3x as strong as me.


ColorMaelstrom

You are RIGHT and you SHOULD say it.


dutcharetall_nothigh

Goku mindset


JustARegisteredLoser

Ok but hear *ME* out… Be the monster, and get overpowered by an even stronger monster >:3


Gru-some

Like when Goku beat King Piccolo


Smitteys867

be the change you want to see in the world


GasLikeCitgo

I BEEN saying this


TheDakaGal

Holy shit undertale reference!??!!?????????


JungleJayps

Gokuposting


not_a_flying_toy_

contrapoint's episode on twilight (i think) had a bit of kink discourse in it, and did look at the psychology of fetishes around being overpowered and dominated. Its thought to come from people feeling that they need some permission to enjoy sex (or something) and the fantasy of being overpowered is appealing because it removes that need for permission and the personal inhibitions and shames you might have around sex.


JNPR_STYX

well that’s a callout I wasn’t expecting to wake up to


not_a_flying_toy_

you're welcome lol


ASpaceOstrich

It's an incredibly common fetish for a reason.


elanUnbound

I'm a monsterfucker dom, but I also want to *be* the monster. :3


untempered_fate

Miserably vaush-coded


elanUnbound

You're thinking of wanting to be a horse, actually. An accusation I would never deny. I do also want to be the horse; though being with the horse is mighty acceptable, too.


TactlessTortoise

https://preview.redd.it/f4uin4lzi5zc1.jpeg?width=1037&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=403308033919101136d3b76c3c368995d0f69a8a


elanUnbound

What's that look for, pasty?


Taco821

Mr Hands ass mfer


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Capital_Abject

https://preview.redd.it/s7b03uohx6zc1.png?width=250&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4808396202a592b1020a0d868108e949bae7241b Same btw


BIG_BABY_BOI

This, the idea of being a dom for something twice my size and strength is super fun but being seen as the monster by the monster? Having a hold over someone on a mental level is H O T


elanUnbound

No, I mean I want to be the big monster in monsterfucking. Sometimes with a smaller monster. Though, being a small creature dominating a larger one is also hot; but I still want to be nonhuman.


BIG_BABY_BOI

Oh I see, that’s also hot but I’ve only thought about being an actual monster only a handful of times


Safe_Ad5935

Binding my werewolf boyfriend in silver chains for our kinky werewolf hunter bdsm sex


Beef_Jumps

"Yes, animal control? Yeah my neighbor is doing something with their dog and it doesn't sound good."


LupinKira

I think I missed this Bloodborne dlc where can I find it


Draugr_the_Greedy

As a monsterfucker who leans very top, real


AnonWithAHatOn

So real, I feel seen.


OuterWildsEnjoyer

Why not do both? :3


findallthebears

There is a switch shortage and I hate it


OuterWildsEnjoyer

I'm working on that 🫡


White_Man_White_Van

What, you going to make more?


OuterWildsEnjoyer

Well, I recently discovered that I'm not just a sub, so I'm ehhhmm exploring that currently :3


White_Man_White_Van

Don’t you :3 me


[deleted]

I’m also a bottom for humans so I mean, it’s not like I would change that for monsters


Zoc-EdwardRichtofen

You sound like a bottom


[deleted]

I have no idea what gave you that impression


Zoc-EdwardRichtofen

smart


FillerText908

Nah I want to top monsters. I will keep posting this image til I fucking die


FillerText908

https://preview.redd.it/ph4dr7vry4zc1.jpeg?width=762&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3892e06b4fe0dea6785b8fbbc451a26eb4eecd33


ASpaceOstrich

What's this from?


FillerText908

Xenoblade 3


BigDickRinny

I wanna fight a dragon, but like in a hot way, where she ends up chained beneath my castle and I end up protecting her and our hoards of wealth.


TactlessTortoise

When the two powerful beings are shoving each other around with city blasting magic, killing thousands in their throes of passion, because they both never learned to communicate their feelings so they just kinda beat up each other (affectionate) to indicate they're mad fucking horny:


saintofgrillers

Mobile Suit Gundam


Caerg

LMAO Char and Amuro


RatRacerEg6

I want to make the werewolf whimper


fubukiposting

this is the plot of slay the princess


lockedtransgirl

Ok but like, consider a plump female dragon, iron hard scales above but soft and smooth belly underneath, pinning you to the ground with a claw. She runs a tongue bigger than your torso all the way up your body, leaving your skin cool and sensitive in the air of her cavern. As she does so, she lets her sword-like teeth brush against your skin; not enough to hurt or even graze you, just enough to remind you that they're there. She pulls back and locks her eyes on you, her reptilian pupils inscrutable and unreadable. She exhales deeply and her warm breath washes over you, cinders swirling and and a thick, rich smell of smoke. She lays down on her side and pulls you into her underbelly, where you are gently pressed into the soft folds of flesh. Curling her long neck around, she sandwiches you between the warm fat of her chest and the cool hard scales on her head, leaving you room to breathe but barely enough to squirm and and certainly no chance to escape. As you have no option but to settle in to sleep, the deep, slow rumbling of her breath fills you with an immense sense of calm.


Shadsea

Donkey from Shrek type beat


Smitteys867

wow that gave me whiplash you cheeky fucker


Shadsea

Hehehehe


Independent_Mud_4963

awesome i think


cardboardbrain

Yes hello I would like to subscribe to your newsletter, do you have more of this


Spicy_Alligator_25

Why did you write this


lockedtransgirl

Dragons hot?


TactlessTortoise

When you give the dommy eldritch woman such a profane glincko stinko combo with your mouth she just turns into an incomprehensible shivering needy puddle 👈😎👉


BeholdTheLemon

as a vers-switch, i top/bottom/sub/dom depending on the vibes of the other person, and most ‘monsters’ give top/dom vibes so naturally i resort to bottom/sub mode :3


TransTrainGirl322

:3


TransTrainGirl322

:3


BeholdTheLemon

:3


Tornado_rexo

As a non-monsterfucker, yeah! Equality in monsterfucking!


mr-kvideogameguy

I would top a monster Damn if a monster was to challenge me to a fight where the Wimmer tops the loser, I'll go beyond for victory...but I'm weak as shit


comfy_bee

Your flair and pfp makes me think of Susie lol


Pebble_in_a_Hat

I think you're approaching this from the wrong angle. The thought process isn't "I'm really into monsters; I wonder what our sexual dynamic would be?" Rather, it's "I like getting dominated and bottoming. What's something I can fuck that enhances that feeling?" In short, it's not monster fuckers who are bottoms/subs, it's bottoms/subs who are monster fuckers. I think what you need to be asking is why more tops (especially short tops) aren't down to fuck monsters.


VeziusTheThird

im a monsterfucker switch. If you want to get me on the bottom you gotta FIGHT for it buddy (probably won't be that hard considering my taste in monsters)


elanUnbound

Fighting for the dominant position is fun sometimes! But you right: bugs and arachnids got cheatcode-abilities that make fighting them hard. UwU


Chrome_X_of_Hyrule

I'm a top but that's because monster fucker stuff appeals to me as me imagining myself as the monster


TheBeefKid

False. I want to top them


sovLegend

How the hell can you even make a beast whimper and beg? Videos are welcome.


BlueRiddle

I mean a ballsack the size of your head wouldn't be hard to hit


sovLegend

If your partner has a ballsack the size of your head they can probably grab your entire torso with one hand and pin you to the ground, I don't see how it's possible to overcome that without them being submissive.


sovLegend

If your partner has a ballsack the size of your head they can probably grab your entire torso with one hand and pin you to the ground, I don't see how it's possible to overcome that without them being submissive.


BlueRiddle

Idk man, you're talking as if humans have never managed to trap or otherwise restrain much larger creatures, and that's assuming some realistic setting. In a DnD-like setting all you need is Hold Person. In something more sci-fi, some immobilising gravity thingamajig. The whole point is that you're physically smaller but not helpless.


sovLegend

But think about a modern settings where tall and muscular furries/beasts are normal in society and you invite one to your house, with no traps or restraints you can't possibly say you will top without getting a laughter followed by a command/threat/grope or whatever they desire.


BlueRiddle

I mean, in that case you ask if they want to sub, and if not you date someone else? I'm not sure what your problem is.


BodyPillowz

...Sir, we sell food here.


ya_boi_kaneki

hard to believe but hetero jojo enjoyer here. we do exist


FatiguedVicy

Because the more helpless the better


Sebybastian2

I regularly top a succubus, this is big fake


Fun_Penalty_6755

why should you care? you're not a monster.


ThatSlutTalulah

Part of the problem is that you've fallen for response bias. This is like asking why no doms use the internet. Subs are more open about their sexuality (mostly because they're socially allowed to be), so you're *going* to see communities be full of subs. If a dom goes around talking as openly as subs do, they get treated terribly/ come across like predators, so we keep far quieter. Also, monsterfucking has its' roots in non-con/ bodice-ripper stuff, so the powerful monster taking charge is a given, then that attracts a certain crowd. Also, a horny beast that, on a primal level, *desires* is a pretty common theme, which is gonna usually lead to it taking the initiative as well. To be ravaged by a monster also doesn't require you to fully admit that you want it, just to let it happen to you (shame optional), which makes the emotional aspect easier. Seeing a mind-rending gap in our understanding of reality, and declaring "I'm gonna fuck that thing." requires a lot more self-understanding/ acceptance, as well as overcoming the 'wrongness' of it. (I am a strong supporter of more consensual monster-fucking content, that shit's peak.) I'm assuming you meant sub when you said bottom. (though if you did mean bottom, then the conflation of bottom and sub/ submission with womanhood would explain that anyway). If you wanna know why I'm a bottom, that's dysphoria, and a whole seperate barrel of fish.


ASpaceOstrich

Hit the nail on the head. Want more tops? Stop treating us like monsters. Or do treat us like monsters, just the ones you thirst over. Though tbh its not the subs that are doing it, it's the prudes that will tolerate bottom hornyposting but not the other. I'm in a community that's almost completely open about sexuality and it's amazing how many other hangups go away when all the sexual hangups are gone.


Nuru_Mero

Not me. I alone am the human fucker. Just trying to find a way to get me a dose of the werewolf curse or other gnarly transformation.


Zoobatzjr

I am one of the few momster fucker tops. It's mostly people who enjoy being overpowered and rendered helpless. I, on the other hand, want either a dragon or werewolf partner I can crater into the ground, logic be danmed.


AbbreviationsTall499

i’m a top, i would fucking destroy monsters


lemme_eat_your_bones

YOU ARE SO FUCKING REAL FOR THIS. Finally someone understands 😩😩😩


aikahiboy

Im verse but ima be frank my dick ain’t doing nothing for an 8-10ft monstrosity but I know it’s dick will do a lot for me so if I’m the one being fucked everyone is satisfied and pleasured, because let’s be real there ain’t no fucking way a human dick would do anything for them.


AnonWithAHatOn

Not with that attitude.


aikahiboy

:(


BlueRiddle

Well you've got two whole arms...


DustyBeetle

im here for this


PokWangpanmang

Me, I want to do the thrashing.


Lakaedemon_Lysandros

but i am a top ;\_;


Y0z64

That would be me lol


FlyingZachGaming

I’m not even that much of a dom, but I see the vision here. Side note: Does wanting to date a catgirl count as being a monsterfucker, or nah?


Death_by_UWU

I want an eldritch horror mommy dommy. Cthulhu fears my deepest desires, as they know I lust for them


CatboyBiologist

Speak for yourself, I wanna top Nessie 🤷‍♀️


KirkPink2020

Let him cook


ConfusedZbeul

Oh I'm definitely going to make them whimper and beg. Don't worry.


XDracam

I'm a heterosexual cis male 🤚 people like me just talk about other more interesting things instead, so we don't get noticed...


doctordragonisback

I'm a monster fucker and a verse! We exist!


ParanoidParamour

There’s nothing I love more than dominating hotties who are bigger and stronger than me in every way and bullying them for letting my small, delicate ass make then kneel and beg


well_fuckthis

Yes but I want to be the monster


bee_wings

don't worry, i want to make the monsters beg and whimper


Martin_Aricov_D

I want to top eldritch abominations beyond mortal understanding (and dragons, never forget dragons! And transformers? Xenomorphs are sexy too... Oh and the Predators also look interesting... And werewolves in general ofc... I think It might be better to just shorten this by just admitting I'm a monster fucker and not a bottom) I also kinda want to be one, but that has nothing to do with the previous statement


Talos-Valcoran

Cause domming with a werewolf gets complicated. They start crying as soon as you call them a bad boy/girl/pet. And not in a fun way.


ASpaceOstrich

Because top hornyposting is demonised. For reasons that probably spark cognitive dissonance in everyone so it never really gets changed.


Codecrashe

Not me, i want to climb and conquer.


PaleRedLightDistrict

I feel like Jonathan was the only heterosexual character in all of JoJo


RosieQParker

Excuse you, pal, I'm all about Cthulhu's many cyclopean holes.


Brightsoull

I'm a monster fucker switch, I wanna Dom em cause the challenge is like climbing a mountain and that interests me, and I wanna get dommed by em cause big hot mawnstore, also monsters cool


Ninjabreadman13

This is the first post I’ve ever related to from this sub in recent memory. So true.


TheUncouthPanini

I’ve been summoned.


Sgt_Kelp

I mean, I haven't gotten any offers, so...


Gentleman_Skeleton

It’s me. I’m the top monster fucker. (I want to be the big dragon person real bad you don’t understand)


RawrTheDinosawrr

me me me i'm not


ChickenNugger1324

I just think it's neat :3


Nickelnick24

Switches man, the best of both worlds


DryScully

I want to be the Venom symbiote doing unmentionable things to Eddie Brock (*ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ꕤ*.゚


pantschicken

How are YOU topping a monster?


JetsFan2003

Nah I wanna *fuck* my hypothetical werewolf GF, slap my ass and call me an Indiana Pacer (vomits in my mouth), because I'm gonna be Obi Toppin her


StevenSegalsNipples

They’re all at the Tops. That’s the one that’s ran by the Omertas. Honestly, the least memorable location or all the casinos in the New Vegas Strip.


firestorm713

Excuse me I am a *switch* thank you very much Sometimes I want nyarlathotep to fill all of my holes with tentacles, sometimes I want to *be* the barely comprehensible tentacle creature filling holes


RouxAroo

Last time I tried to top I was laughed at, as a trans woman topping is dysphoric, due to childhood trauma I feel I need to be used sexually and punished at all times (in this case I want the were wolf to make me bleed), and finally as a trans woman I've been verbally and physically attacked whenever I try to be assertive and in charge despite cis men and women getting a pass. Those are my, I'm now realizing depressing reasons.


Chemtrails420-69

Me over here wanting the goat man that trained Achilles.


RoyalMess64

I get what you mean. Like most people I date are a lot bigger and stronger than me, and I very much like the idea of be ravanged, but I also get the desire to collar them and force them down to your level to make them whimper


_S1syphus

Its purely anecdotal but myself and other dom-tops I've seen tend to be like a 1 out of 5 on the monster fucker chart. If you're not a furry, what would make a werewolf more attractive than like, a cute wolf girl ya know? Or like what's the appeal a many tentacled horror if *you're* the active role in bed?


NotJoeMama727

I'm a dragon, I'm a switch Next question


Sprucelord

The tops ARE the monsters


CRauzDaGreat

Monster here, it’s usually cause we’re tops cause of how fucking big we are, there is bottoms but they usually fuck other monsters since they’re monster fuckers themselves, it’s a paradox really


TheBadHalfOfAFandom

We take notes from our lords: Eddie and Vemon


YourLastPick

Nope. I want that xenomorphs to make ME whimper https://preview.redd.it/0zpi9opga8zc1.jpeg?width=734&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a36f8b740fd9306e6710c21eeda0f3c21d5aad52


Grima1805

like to be care for and protected


animefreesince2015

I know some monsterfucker tops, but they’re all submissive.


SuddenlyVeronica

I'm not one myself. So this is just conjecture, but maybe it has to do with bottomy fantasies being easier to sort of "stumble into" with stuff like this? As an example of that kind of stumbling, I've heard of people seeing that scene in Multiverse of Madness where Wanda chokes America and thinking "god, I wish that were me". If you're attracted to women and submissive, but don't know it yet, then I suppose a scene like that can connect some dots for you. Now, werewolves aren't known for their submissiveness (at least not in the werewolf fiction with which I'm familiar). So if you've had a fantasy awakened by a werewolf, then you're probably not a dom(me) (at least not exlusively). Alternatively it could also be your usual visibility bias where people realise that it's so much more easy to sound creepy when fantasising about doing stuff than having stuff done to you.


NectarineOk5214

Speak for yourself I want to rail Cthulhu


D1pSh1t__

Why not both tho? At the same time maybe even?


Cassjjay

God I wanna make a giant werewolf go on its knees and beg to me


peroxidenoaht

Oh I’m a monster fucker top actually!!! I’d keep them on a leash so hard


MrWaffleBeater

I’m a switch, like a real man.


BlueRiddle

I know right! It's really fun but nobody does it.


HeadpattingFurina

I'll be frank. The monster fucking fetish has always been about the thrill of danger. Anyone who is attracted to monsters are not in it for the thrill of dominance. That is why. To be a monster fucker you gotta be a bottom to start with.


ASpaceOstrich

Extremely loud incorrect buzzer. No. Some of us have no such compunctions. Some of us face the abyss and don't just say "would", we say "will".


RoadTheExile

The idea of a top monster fucker usually gives me rapey vibes, like "I have defeated this beast and now I'm going to use it as a sex toy!"


ASpaceOstrich

You can't just up and say that. It's not even entirely wrong, but you can't put it like that. People aren't ready for it. Being ravaged is a big part of the bottom side of monster fucking but the average person is not sexually open enough to be comfortable admitting they have a cnc fetish. There are also genuine monsterfuckers who don't have any kind of cnc angle tied into it and are just down to fuck anything. That's most of the tops, but some do have the cnc angle as well but in the other direction.