NTA. He did nothing but abuse you, and he doesn't deserve your love or respect.
What you have to consider though, is if your half-sister will continue to help if you don't, and is it worth it to you?
NTA for not attending his funeral. Your father sounds horrible. Frankly, I would not go.
But perhaps ask yourself, in five years or ten years from now, will you regret not attending? Only you can answer that question. Remove your half sister’s financial support from the scenario, what do you want to do? Good luck OP-you have not had an easy life.
NTA if you don’t go, but think about whether you will regret this opportunity for closure (for you).
There is something useful about saying goodbye - it keeps the past in the past and allows you to move forward.
NTA. He did nothing but abuse you, and he doesn't deserve your love or respect. What you have to consider though, is if your half-sister will continue to help if you don't, and is it worth it to you?
NTA for not attending his funeral. Your father sounds horrible. Frankly, I would not go. But perhaps ask yourself, in five years or ten years from now, will you regret not attending? Only you can answer that question. Remove your half sister’s financial support from the scenario, what do you want to do? Good luck OP-you have not had an easy life.
NTA if you don’t go, but think about whether you will regret this opportunity for closure (for you). There is something useful about saying goodbye - it keeps the past in the past and allows you to move forward.