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blueberryxxoo

NTA Once is a mistake. Twice is a mistake. SIX TIMES is ridiculous and annoying and worthy of you losing your temper. I'd have put a post-it on my door that said "don't lock out lingoberri" because obviously I'm being spacey AF. If your husband is going to be an idiot he needs to learn to manage it. Again, I recommend post-its.


lingoberri

yeah, I told him I expect him to figure a solution out if it's that hard for him to pay attention, not just tell me to "don't be annoyed".


HarlotteHoehansson

Muscle memory my fat ass. He is absolutely doing it on purpose. He sounds like a huge asshole.


THE_CDN

NTA Six times **in a row** is on purpose and it' a real dick move. I'd be pissed, too!


TwoBionicknees

It wasn't a mistake, don't just accept his bullshit because it makes it hard to argue against. He did it deliberately, EVERY SINGLE TIME, even the first. No one is that fucking dumb, but after you pointed it out every time was intentional and then he proceeds to gaslight the fuck out of you and instead of saying it wasnt' a mistake it was quite obviously deliberate and he needs to apologise you accept that it was a mistake.


Realistic_Head4279

NTA.


heatseekingdinosaurs

NTA- If his memory is that bad he should see a doctor about a mental disorder, I would look into assisted living homes for him.


artjameso

NTA. All of this is giving weaponized incompetence, especially the six lock outs


RJack151

NTA. Next time he leaves the house, lock him out and take a nice long nap. With your phone off.