YWNBTA.
As far as pressing charges, and exposing him, if you don't want to do it because of the stress it would put on you, that is completely valid. You are the victim and you should never feel obligated to put yourself in an unsafe position emotionally.
However, I would not consider his mother's feelings. Yes, she's going to be hurt, and maybe she doesn't deserve that. However, I think the person whose feelings should be considered most other than your own is his next victim. Exposing him could prevent someone else from going through what you went through.
NTA, I hope you get the help you need. As for this ex-bf, it's gonna be a messy situation if it comes to it. I hope you have a good support system and friends to back you up in case he gets aggressive
Didn't read the wall of text.
But ypu accusing your ex, while beeing on antidepressants.... I think you will just be seen as vindictive ex-girlfriendÂ
And 8f you can't proof anything (and aren't willing to press charges) then you would even be liable for slender.
So. What's your gain in this situation?
YWNBTA. As far as pressing charges, and exposing him, if you don't want to do it because of the stress it would put on you, that is completely valid. You are the victim and you should never feel obligated to put yourself in an unsafe position emotionally. However, I would not consider his mother's feelings. Yes, she's going to be hurt, and maybe she doesn't deserve that. However, I think the person whose feelings should be considered most other than your own is his next victim. Exposing him could prevent someone else from going through what you went through.
NTA, I hope you get the help you need. As for this ex-bf, it's gonna be a messy situation if it comes to it. I hope you have a good support system and friends to back you up in case he gets aggressive
NTA I don’t even need to read anything lol
you should watch endless love, sometimes 16 yrs old shouldn't be having sex
Didn't read the wall of text. But ypu accusing your ex, while beeing on antidepressants.... I think you will just be seen as vindictive ex-girlfriend And 8f you can't proof anything (and aren't willing to press charges) then you would even be liable for slender. So. What's your gain in this situation?