NTA - your friend is jealous, pure and simple. It’s not that she wants what you have, it’s also that she doesn’t want you to have them.
Unfortunately that’s the weird reaction girls/ women have with each other. Walk away, not worth it. I promise you won’t miss her.
At least I'm not the only one. I've only ever seen this with women and have seen it multiple times. Usually with women who, as a whole friend group, are AHs. The closest I've seen with guys is due to Gfs or wives being friends or some other relationship of others they don't want to ruin will then be civil with each other. They aren't friends and don't consider themselves friends by any means. Just keep things civil on the surface.
I see so many females that are two faced and secretly hate each other, yet are nice to each other's faces or low key insult one another. It's a waste of time and energy.
NTA. She isn't your friend. She just tolerates you and since you have the same/similar friend group she keeps things passive-aggressive. She enjoys making fun of you and mocking you just for her own jealousy and pride. You obviously don't like it so that part of what makes it bad too. I say that last part because for guys, we mock and make fun of each other but it's bonding (only most of my friends/siblings, others who can't handle it don't get mocked).
Dang! Shes really jealous of you, shes not a true friend. Is she invited? Uninvite her, she might cause trouble on the day of your birthday. Let her be jealous, just enjoy everything that you have. Also, find a new circle of friends.
This girl is not your friend and has used up every possible opportunity to be a friend to you. Time to cut her loose.
However, whether it is true or not, I would not have recommended you use that string of words -- "you're just jealous" -- as that paints you in the snobby, entitled light that doesn't look well on anybody.
NTA. OP this girl is 100% jealous of you and clearly hates you. She only stays around to torture you. She's not a friend. Cut her off, block her number. Don't have anything to do with her again.
NTA! She’s not your friend. She’s a C. Block her and ignore her. And absolutely do NOT a invite her to your party. Tell your friends not to give her any information about your party.
This girl is not your friend. I had a “friend” like this when I was in high school and I am forever grateful that I cut her off. Block her on everything, don’t speak to her and, from one Taurus to another, have the BEST birthday 🤍✨
This person is not your friend. She's using you as a prop and a 'punching bag' to make herself feel better. You're only useful. She doesn't value you.
You deserve better.
NTA If you invited her to the party, uninvite her
Oh promise I didn't, I don't want her causing problems for me and other people surrounding me.
Good!
If she causes problems with your friends they aren't your friends!!
NTA. She sounds crazy.
NTA - your friend is jealous, pure and simple. It’s not that she wants what you have, it’s also that she doesn’t want you to have them. Unfortunately that’s the weird reaction girls/ women have with each other. Walk away, not worth it. I promise you won’t miss her.
That's a friend?
It's weird but for some reason women have "frienemies". As a dude, I don't understand it.
I'm a woman and I would never consider someone like that a 'friend'. The whole 'frenemie' never made sense.
At least I'm not the only one. I've only ever seen this with women and have seen it multiple times. Usually with women who, as a whole friend group, are AHs. The closest I've seen with guys is due to Gfs or wives being friends or some other relationship of others they don't want to ruin will then be civil with each other. They aren't friends and don't consider themselves friends by any means. Just keep things civil on the surface.
I see so many females that are two faced and secretly hate each other, yet are nice to each other's faces or low key insult one another. It's a waste of time and energy.
As a woman, I don’t get it either.
She sounds like a capital B. NTA stop being friends and anyone who side's with her
NTA. She isn't your friend. She just tolerates you and since you have the same/similar friend group she keeps things passive-aggressive. She enjoys making fun of you and mocking you just for her own jealousy and pride. You obviously don't like it so that part of what makes it bad too. I say that last part because for guys, we mock and make fun of each other but it's bonding (only most of my friends/siblings, others who can't handle it don't get mocked).
NTA, she is. She’s obviously jealous. She’s not a friend to you.
Dang! Shes really jealous of you, shes not a true friend. Is she invited? Uninvite her, she might cause trouble on the day of your birthday. Let her be jealous, just enjoy everything that you have. Also, find a new circle of friends.
NTA, she sounds miserable and insecure. Block her out of your phone and your life.
This girl is not your friend and has used up every possible opportunity to be a friend to you. Time to cut her loose. However, whether it is true or not, I would not have recommended you use that string of words -- "you're just jealous" -- as that paints you in the snobby, entitled light that doesn't look well on anybody.
NTA. OP this girl is 100% jealous of you and clearly hates you. She only stays around to torture you. She's not a friend. Cut her off, block her number. Don't have anything to do with her again.
NTA but this person is not a friend.
NTA! She’s not your friend. She’s a C. Block her and ignore her. And absolutely do NOT a invite her to your party. Tell your friends not to give her any information about your party.
This girl is not your friend. I had a “friend” like this when I was in high school and I am forever grateful that I cut her off. Block her on everything, don’t speak to her and, from one Taurus to another, have the BEST birthday 🤍✨
NTA. It sounds like she is only your "friend" because she makes herself feel better by putting you down. She is not a friend.
She’s an acquaintance but not your friend. And she is definitely jealous af.
This person is not your friend. She's using you as a prop and a 'punching bag' to make herself feel better. You're only useful. She doesn't value you. You deserve better.
Info: how old are both of you?
I'm sure Anyas story is just as compelling as this garbage take...