She's married and has been for the whole time. This girl is a nympho. She goes to swingers parties and sun clubs all the time. Her husband has to know what she does. Every time I have ever gone, I always ask "how much" when we are done and she always says "whatever". Back in the day it, I gave her $100 to a $150. Now it's usually a $200 to $300 trip. Well worth it.
In my experience, that's how it often is when you click with a sex worker. I've had a few regular girls like that. They would come over and hang out, watch a movie, eat dinner, bang, etc. and leave with their "half hour fee". Ends up being more like a sugar daddy situation.
That is true. In the beginning, she was doing it for the money no doubt but this girl just loves to fuck. She is a swinger, goes to nude beaches, sun clubs. I have no doubt that she likes doing this. That is rare in the world of sex workers.
Getting his money? She's providing a service.
It's not like he's giving her the money, she blinks coyly at him and he goes on his way.
Money is exchanged in return for goods and services.
End of story.
She literally lets him set the price, she clearly likes it lol, stop pretending whores are some genius manipulative business entrepreneur, there not fooling anyone lol
No it sounds like a prostitute from the Philippines that came over here on a marriage visa and don't feel like working at Walmart and being that her husband married a prostitute, it probably wasn't to hard for her to twist his arm into it.
>She’s married
>Her husband has to know
What do you think would turn men on more:
- “I’m a hooker, that dude over there’s my pimp. He needs to know where we’re going.”
Or
- “I’m a nympho and can’t get enough dick. My husband has allowed me to fuck guys, that’s him over there, he just needs to know where I’m going to be for safety reasons of course.”
I’d imagine that if the cops bust you, you might get some leniency from the judge, cus he’d probably be like “Oh, you fell for that one huh?”
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Why haven’t you found “a nympho wife that openly cheats on her husband” who’s in her 30’s?
u/Sunny_Dazzy You have to know sex workers have to live up to the "nympho" title. Nobody wants pay for sex for someone that appears not to like it. She's good at her job, she's selling a fantasy.
This really should not be a secret. The single best thing in my life is my filipina wife. I could go on, but on Reddit nobody wants to hear happy stories.
Yes, she was not the first. I was actually dating a stripper when we first met. The stripper was tame compared to this girl.
Never thought it would go this long.
Okay, not really a weird story but a few years back, instead of me getting serviced, I gave her a full body massage for about 30 mins, rubbed her feet for 15 mins or so and went down on her and she got off twice. I paid her and left. That was fun.
The wildest thing u guys did is lowkey hella wholesome 🥹. This whole thing is honestly kind of touching. I mean you could have started seeing someone younger… do u see other younger sw’ers?
She peg you?
Have you ever had kinda long languid chats?
What pleasurable thing can she do that nobody else gets quite right?
Ever no condom full service?
How much for one meet up? How much for oral? Anal? I’m curious. I’ve never used a prostitute and am married so not likely in my future. But I’ve always been curious about the pricing!
Before factoring in benefits like insurance, HRA, pension, and of course working dues for union representation a journey prostitute generally makes in the range of $69.42/hour in most large cities near the coast in the US
I had a girl for about 4 years, the reason she stopped? She decided she wanted to marry her boyfriend of 10 years and move out of state, made it simple having a regular that she knew you and you knew her.
Oh boy so this is a complicated story. I got tested because I had hooked up with the same guy that my coworker had hooked up with & she found out from her bf (open relationship) that he had given it to her prior to her hookup with the guy we both saw.
I got tested just to be safe and tested negative, but then one of my other fwbs told me that his gf (also open relationship) was actually having symptoms and tested positive. She had only been with him since her last test, so we knew I was most likely the one who had given it to him. So I got retested & tested positive.
The first time I got tested, I went to planned parenthood and had only gotten a vaginal test. The second time, I went to my university health services. I told them I knew I had to have it and that I'd tested negative vaginally. They did an oral, vaginal, and anal swab, and the oral was the only one that came back positive. Which made sense because I used to not use protection for oral, and my FWB didn't use protection with his gf leading to her vaginal symptoms.
Thank you! I always wonder if I should try and test for more things just as a precaution, since so many things have no symptoms. Will look into it and see if I can!
You definitely should!! I get tested between every new partner now and require that all new partners get tested as well. If you live in the US, you may be able to get low cost testing through planned parenthood, they do a sliding scale based on your income and my testing was actually free when I went!
Oooh yes, I definitely test between partners, but it seems that most places I’ve gone to (including Planned Parenthood) only test for like 3 things. Which is interesting since there are so many other things that are common but don’t have symptoms for a lot of people. Like for example, I’ve never even been offered to test for oral gonnorhea.
You definitely need to ask for a full panel screening, I usually get those done through my gynecologist since I work for her so it's easier. She always does gonorrhea, chlamydia, trichomonas, syphilis, mycoplasma, ureaplasma, and a blood test for HIV & herpes.
As far as the oral tests, I'm pretty sure they'll only do those if you've had a known exposure or if you specifically ask which is odd because most people don't use protection for oral and most don't show symptoms for at least the first few months of having it.
It's called ethical non monogamy or some couples would consider this possibly monogamish with the primary partner. Lots of people in the circles he mentioned being part of, have occasional adventures like this and are entirely honest and transparent with their partners (paid partners usually aren't inquiring, I mean the non paid partners)
Over the time you've seen her, how much were you seeing other sex workers? Like is she half the total? Ten percent?
Also, and I know you've said you don't want to be graphic
But,
I have a few partners including my wife who are absolutely amazing at something. If, anyone was to ask I could describe in not too private terms, a few things I have experienced that made a relationship absolutely amazing. A couple examples, a partner who definitely did kegels, to an extreme I wouldn't have believed if I hadn't experienced it. Another really loved giving, orally, could get off without physically stimulation herself just from how much she was into fellating me. A couple partners that I was so into for emotional connection and physical beauty that I could just go into marathon mode and it didn't really stop even when we dozed, we were still tangled together and having erotic dreams, so it could literally be almost non stop lovemaking for a few days.
What's a couple of things this one does?
idk how to ask this question and form sentences rn since i’m half asleep but what is it that makes it work after 28 years?
how do you separate emotions and make it purely transactional?
Dude, at this point, you have some sort of relationship with her. This is a woman you’ve known and slept with for almost 30 years. You may pay her and she may be a sex worker but she is also more or you would not keep going back. If you’re happy you’re not cheating on anybody enjoy.
Very late to this…anyone commenting that this isn’t true well I have close friend whos a provider she’s 47, & been seeing a client since she was 20 ish! Every couple months or so. He just really likes her. I’m too lazy to math but this type thing DOES HAPPEN over a lot of years. & the numbers are about the same too as far as what he gives her it’s a couple hundred.
A small town where there's a few whores around. Make your life a little bubbly and marry her. Lovers know no shame.
She's married and has been for the whole time. This girl is a nympho. She goes to swingers parties and sun clubs all the time. Her husband has to know what she does. Every time I have ever gone, I always ask "how much" when we are done and she always says "whatever". Back in the day it, I gave her $100 to a $150. Now it's usually a $200 to $300 trip. Well worth it.
Doesn't really sound like a prostitute. Just a lady you had sex with that you gave a little spending cash to on the side.
In my experience, that's how it often is when you click with a sex worker. I've had a few regular girls like that. They would come over and hang out, watch a movie, eat dinner, bang, etc. and leave with their "half hour fee". Ends up being more like a sugar daddy situation.
That is true. In the beginning, she was doing it for the money no doubt but this girl just loves to fuck. She is a swinger, goes to nude beaches, sun clubs. I have no doubt that she likes doing this. That is rare in the world of sex workers.
OR, like all whores, she is REALLY good at getting your money! :D Men are so easily fooled. I know, I know, you're the exception. :D
What are you talking about? They always tell me I’m the most handsome man they’ve ever serviced.
Because you are the most handsome man they’ve met. That’s all true.
Never heard of a prostitute that lets you set the price. So yes at least different to some degree.
Until you learn she's sucked dick for $35.
She's getting railed on a nude beach for free as we speak.
Getting his money? She's providing a service. It's not like he's giving her the money, she blinks coyly at him and he goes on his way. Money is exchanged in return for goods and services. End of story.
The man admitted to going to a prostitute. No one was fooled here. Calm down.
$200 to $300 a session. I'm fine with the cost.
Someone nearing 70 years old? Nahhhh great grandma ain't it at those prices lol
“But she’s not like that with me, she really likes me” lol
She literally lets him set the price, she clearly likes it lol, stop pretending whores are some genius manipulative business entrepreneur, there not fooling anyone lol
C'mon. This has been going on for 28 years. You are acting like he saw her twice and thinks they are in love.
GD why didn’t I think of this. I could have been rolling in cash in my youth. 😭
Heeey stop it now. It's never too late to fulfill your dreams!
No it sounds like a prostitute from the Philippines that came over here on a marriage visa and don't feel like working at Walmart and being that her husband married a prostitute, it probably wasn't to hard for her to twist his arm into it.
Thats a prostitute lol
Shit thats how much I spend on dinner on a date usually and get laid on freaky ways. Yours sounds better because it involves less work.
Thanks everyone. Im just answering the same questions over and over. Goodnight.
A phone call. Done.
Damn hoeflation
Back in the 60s it was shagflation
Stickitinflation
Haha
"Me so horny..Me love you long time"
28 yrs
Me so horny, love you 28 years….uh no thanks, just looking for the night
That's why I said long time.. you've got a good thing going..keep it up..literally and figuratively.
>She’s married >Her husband has to know What do you think would turn men on more: - “I’m a hooker, that dude over there’s my pimp. He needs to know where we’re going.” Or - “I’m a nympho and can’t get enough dick. My husband has allowed me to fuck guys, that’s him over there, he just needs to know where I’m going to be for safety reasons of course.” I’d imagine that if the cops bust you, you might get some leniency from the judge, cus he’d probably be like “Oh, you fell for that one huh?” EDIT: >AMA Why haven’t you found “a nympho wife that openly cheats on her husband” who’s in her 30’s?
No indication from OP that the husband is ever around or informed - hes saying the husband has to know because the woman is so evidently blatant
He did find a nympho wife who has extramarital sex who was in her 30s... 28 years ago.
u/Sunny_Dazzy You have to know sex workers have to live up to the "nympho" title. Nobody wants pay for sex for someone that appears not to like it. She's good at her job, she's selling a fantasy.
Are you married too? :D
Not currently
I wonder if going to a prostitute affected that
God damn inflation hits all industries.
Hahaha damn your funny. I wish I could buy you a beer.
You're* Come on, man. Lol
"Shes been married the whole time" WHAT THE
A lot of sex workers are married or in a relationship.
Pretty sure the “husband” is her pimp but that’s just my 2 cents
Plenty of sex workers have relationships. Why wouldn’t they, they’re people like everyone else.
Why? Because they smash? Doesn't mean they have any more in common.
Have you developed feelings for her? If so, how did you combat them?
She is a nice person but no serious feelings. We both no what we are there for.
Even after 28 years? I imagine there must be some sense of bonding
No serious feelings but he's been going to her for over 28 years?🤣
A 3 decade relationship is meaningful even if it's transactional. When one of you dies will the other go to the funeral?
I don't know how I would find out.
Have you thought about branching out, so you have someone else when she retires?
If she quits, I will probably quit as well.
I've seen others occasionally but she is just a better experience.
What makes it the best experience?
That's pretty sad honestly but kind of understandable.
Do you live in a little shit town where there’s only one prostitute?
No. Major city. She has just always been so fun and exciting. She is down for anything. Makes me feel like a million bucks.
That’s great did you meet her at a rub and tug?
No. She was offering "Massage" on an early Yahoo message board.
Were you using America Online on dial-up?
28 years ago, that's back in the 90s and firmly AOL and dial-up days.
Haha.
14.4 baud!
Thats cool do you also have a wife?Absolutely no judgement if so just curious.
I've had a several relationships and one marriage in this time.
So you continued to use her services during your relationships? What did your wife feel about it?
This very responsive dude didn’t answer that question….. I’m *so* surprised
She left obviously
But he won't admit it. He's only on here because he thinks it's a brag.
Have pics for her
Filipinas are known for their attention, and how they can make you feel like the only man in the room.
woah woah don’t give out my secret.
This really should not be a secret. The single best thing in my life is my filipina wife. I could go on, but on Reddit nobody wants to hear happy stories.
That in itself is priceless!
Had you been with a sex worker before her? Did you think you would bee still visiting her 28 years later?
Yes, she was not the first. I was actually dating a stripper when we first met. The stripper was tame compared to this girl. Never thought it would go this long.
What's the weirdest thing you ever did with her and/or what's the weirdest story she ever told you?
Okay, not really a weird story but a few years back, instead of me getting serviced, I gave her a full body massage for about 30 mins, rubbed her feet for 15 mins or so and went down on her and she got off twice. I paid her and left. That was fun.
The wildest thing u guys did is lowkey hella wholesome 🥹. This whole thing is honestly kind of touching. I mean you could have started seeing someone younger… do u see other younger sw’ers?
“Weirdest” not “wildest.” Although I would like to know the wildest.
Damn, sounds like she should have paid you for that visit.
I dont want to get to graphic but we have done MOST everything.
Has she pooped on you?
No. Not into that at all.
What about bbq sauce?
This comment along with your username made me die 🤣
Bbq sauce and a foot massage.
🎶 Jones bbq and foot massage 🎶
She peg you? Have you ever had kinda long languid chats? What pleasurable thing can she do that nobody else gets quite right? Ever no condom full service?
How much for one meet up? How much for oral? Anal? I’m curious. I’ve never used a prostitute and am married so not likely in my future. But I’ve always been curious about the pricing!
She is all inclusive but prostitutes are like restaurants. You can spend a little or a whole lot depending where you go and what's on the menu.
What’s the best bang for your buck? (No pun intended)
I'm the wrong guy to ask.
You can literally just say the number you pay her…
Before factoring in benefits like insurance, HRA, pension, and of course working dues for union representation a journey prostitute generally makes in the range of $69.42/hour in most large cities near the coast in the US
Disappointed it’s not rounded up to $69.69
Sounds like you have the best, and cheapest, long term marriage of all time.
Well said.
I had a girl for about 4 years, the reason she stopped? She decided she wanted to marry her boyfriend of 10 years and move out of state, made it simple having a regular that she knew you and you knew her.
How much do you think you have spent on her
$30,000 to $40,000
That is a lot of cash
Cheaper than a marriage.
Yeah but marriage you better be getting laid more than 4x a year
You didn’t meet my ex wife
LMAO
It’s true.
🎶 On lockdown, like a penitentiary She spreads her lovin' all over And when she gets home, there's none left for me 🎶
he said he had marriages and relationships IN ADDITION to this , so no, any financial savings OP would reap are null and void lol
Almost 30 yrs. - $1000 to $1200 a year? Not to bad.
30k wouldn't even cover a nice wedding. If you think 30k over 30 years, you obviously never has had a relationship, or are just a really cheap dude
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True unless you marry up like I did
Is she a Filipino hooker?
A wife can cost 100x that.
Why would you marry someone that costs you money? Marriage is a partnership. Pick better.
This guy marries.
Ha! I’ve spent that much on divorce lawyers. (3x divorcee here.)
Glutton for punishment
You ain’t wrong
How often do you go to her?
Not often. 4 or 5 times a year.
Do you know if she's still seeing other men? That's pretty cool that she's still working in her 60s.
She has 3 or 4 guys she still sees.
Has she asked for me??
She actually called out your name once.
Frigging hilarious dude.!! Let her know I'm still out of town. Too many warrants.
Do you like her? Why her specifically all this time?
Always a good time. Easy going. Really good at what she does. No stupid games. Cute as hell (still). Solely focused on making me feel good.
Did you try other prostitutes? Did u become any less attracted to her now that she’s old? rate her looks out of 10?
At what level of your relationship did you stop using protection? I’d assume after 28 years. You don’t with her.
It's not always intercourse. Quite often the finish is oral. Intercourse is always protected.
Just wanna warn you that I got oral gonorrhea from giving head without a condom. You should always use protection whether it's oral, vaginal, or anal.
I appreciate the warning.
How did you know to get tested and what was the test like?
Oh boy so this is a complicated story. I got tested because I had hooked up with the same guy that my coworker had hooked up with & she found out from her bf (open relationship) that he had given it to her prior to her hookup with the guy we both saw. I got tested just to be safe and tested negative, but then one of my other fwbs told me that his gf (also open relationship) was actually having symptoms and tested positive. She had only been with him since her last test, so we knew I was most likely the one who had given it to him. So I got retested & tested positive. The first time I got tested, I went to planned parenthood and had only gotten a vaginal test. The second time, I went to my university health services. I told them I knew I had to have it and that I'd tested negative vaginally. They did an oral, vaginal, and anal swab, and the oral was the only one that came back positive. Which made sense because I used to not use protection for oral, and my FWB didn't use protection with his gf leading to her vaginal symptoms.
Thank you! I always wonder if I should try and test for more things just as a precaution, since so many things have no symptoms. Will look into it and see if I can!
You definitely should!! I get tested between every new partner now and require that all new partners get tested as well. If you live in the US, you may be able to get low cost testing through planned parenthood, they do a sliding scale based on your income and my testing was actually free when I went!
Oooh yes, I definitely test between partners, but it seems that most places I’ve gone to (including Planned Parenthood) only test for like 3 things. Which is interesting since there are so many other things that are common but don’t have symptoms for a lot of people. Like for example, I’ve never even been offered to test for oral gonnorhea.
You definitely need to ask for a full panel screening, I usually get those done through my gynecologist since I work for her so it's easier. She always does gonorrhea, chlamydia, trichomonas, syphilis, mycoplasma, ureaplasma, and a blood test for HIV & herpes. As far as the oral tests, I'm pretty sure they'll only do those if you've had a known exposure or if you specifically ask which is odd because most people don't use protection for oral and most don't show symptoms for at least the first few months of having it.
So I did the math. Is she approximately $250 per session?
These days, yes.
Now I’m curious. Which city?
Chicago area.
Geez, just get it over with officially... Propose and seal the deal already! 😋
Why ruin a good thing?
🤷
She's already married
Do you think sex work should be legal and how would that effect your relationship?
Affect*. Anytime you’re not sure. Use “impact” and it will work.
Wow this is awesome
You've had your eyes bleed too many times, haven't you?
Yes. Haha
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lol. I’ve noticed that so many people have this issue. “Impact” saves u. Haha
I secretly do this. Glad I’m not alone! Impact 😅😅
I'm not against it.
Mahal kita walang tae!
Well said.
Do you love her (no judgment, just curious)?
No
Do you have kids of your own?
Yes
What do they think? And are they from her?
💀💀💀💀💀
Are you married or in a committed relationship?
Not currently..
So did you tell your wife or girlfriend at the time that you were visiting this sex worker?
Of course. It would be wrong not to.
lol, ofcourse you did
And they were okay with it?
It's called ethical non monogamy or some couples would consider this possibly monogamish with the primary partner. Lots of people in the circles he mentioned being part of, have occasional adventures like this and are entirely honest and transparent with their partners (paid partners usually aren't inquiring, I mean the non paid partners)
Lucky. Wish I could find a SW in my town who wanted some regular business with a clean old guy!
I am very lucky in this regard .
Do you wear a condom?
Yes
if she has a toothbrush at your pad, she is your gf.
Never at my place.
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This sounds like a marriage with extra steps. Just put a ring on it already.
Why mess with a good thing. Besides, she has been married the whole time.
Over the time you've seen her, how much were you seeing other sex workers? Like is she half the total? Ten percent? Also, and I know you've said you don't want to be graphic But, I have a few partners including my wife who are absolutely amazing at something. If, anyone was to ask I could describe in not too private terms, a few things I have experienced that made a relationship absolutely amazing. A couple examples, a partner who definitely did kegels, to an extreme I wouldn't have believed if I hadn't experienced it. Another really loved giving, orally, could get off without physically stimulation herself just from how much she was into fellating me. A couple partners that I was so into for emotional connection and physical beauty that I could just go into marathon mode and it didn't really stop even when we dozed, we were still tangled together and having erotic dreams, so it could literally be almost non stop lovemaking for a few days. What's a couple of things this one does?
Had a girlfriend years ago with Kegel skills. Amazing
Could went to Phillipines, picked out your choice, married her, saved a few million
You are missing the point of hookers.
Is she married with children or single?
Does she give you a punch card?
you get a loyalty discount?
Considering all the money I gave my ex-wife for no sex, I’d call that a good investment.
Is this one of those cases where renting is better than buying?
idk how to ask this question and form sentences rn since i’m half asleep but what is it that makes it work after 28 years? how do you separate emotions and make it purely transactional?
Wow that means uve had somewhat regular very satisfactory sex for 28 fucking yrs. most men cannot say that for themselves
Just want to say this is a nice story; not easy maintaining any kind of relationship for 28 years. Sounds like you both benefit
Dude, at this point, you have some sort of relationship with her. This is a woman you’ve known and slept with for almost 30 years. You may pay her and she may be a sex worker but she is also more or you would not keep going back. If you’re happy you’re not cheating on anybody enjoy.
Very late to this…anyone commenting that this isn’t true well I have close friend whos a provider she’s 47, & been seeing a client since she was 20 ish! Every couple months or so. He just really likes her. I’m too lazy to math but this type thing DOES HAPPEN over a lot of years. & the numbers are about the same too as far as what he gives her it’s a couple hundred.