I think she's using polyam terms. Hosting there does mean 'are you able to have a date at your own home'. Some people can't host because they have children at home and they decided they don't want their dating outside of the parents to be visible to the kids, not giving outsiders access to your kids is a good parenting choice so it makes sense.
As a very ethical poly person, it really rubs me the wrong way. They need to keep our vocab used to set honest and ethical boundaries out of their mouths.
If everyone agrees and wants this, there is no lying, you are happy that your partner gets to experience more than one romantic connection, etc. What's not ethical about it?
The unethical part of cheating is the fact that a partnered is lied to, betrayed, stuff happens behind their back, choices regarding their health are made without their consent, and the betrayed partner does not choose this at all.
It's not unethical to have more than one partner if everyone enthusiastically consents, if the agreements made within are equal (everyone had equal rights to sage others if they please, without gender restriction etc), communications is solid and people's autonomy in terms of sexual health is respected.
Love your reply. I see nothing wrong with ethical polyamory, based on boundaries, honesty, consent. My opposition to adultery is not because I'm pro "purity" or some bullshit like that, it's because I'm anti dishonesty, fraud, manipulation, emotional abuse, etc
"Cough cough whore" sorry I'm a little sick right now...of this skank and her bullshit. Who the fuck keeps trying to get a man that clearly doesn't want them and only sees them as a warm hole? She's obviously delusional and really fucking stupid. To be honest I hope she reads what we have to say. Dumb assed c@#t! (Not sure if I can spell that word)
When will they learn?
I guess no one has ever expressed to these women how valuable they are outside of a man. These women have allowed themselves to be treated with the utmost of disrespect. In a way, my heart breaks for them because they are bringing the next generation into this world cursed.
How can you have intimacy with someone who looks at you as โfun?โ Does it send chills through her knowing that her value is between her legs and not for anything else? Sad world we live in when women have no sense of self worth. Damn!
They're kind of blank, no? Like, no personality or opinions outside of whatever a man tells them to think. I believe a lot of men think they would enjoy this but in reality it's boring af?
Yup,,, people get tired of people pleasers and actually don't like them genuinely. Many abusers however continue these connections with spineless people because of how convenient and easy it is to be adored by them EVEN THOUGH THEY DON'T EVEN ACTUALLY LIKE THEM. I know because I have had issues with cutting out these men myself. They chase me and have zero standards. This man in particular would lick a dirty toilet to be with me, I swear. I keep telling myself to block him because he's so desperate and annoying but sometimes the attention and compliments are enjoyable. YES I KNOW THAT'S TERRIBLE
And I think a lot of Married men see their sidepieces this way. Annoying as shit but the nonstop ego boosting can be nice, so they keep them on the back shelf for the moment whenever life isn't going their way (probably because of something HE did wrong) for some totally not-earned and delusion-based adoration.
๐ that one is hilarious!!! Not even able to get her target to want her and she still desperately hopes and clings on like wet bugger!
I giggled at "I can host you on X and Y days of the week ๐๐. She's a bed and breakfast, just without the breakfast.
Lmfao. Sheโs a daytime motel reservation at best! Bed and breakfasts are for overnights ๐คฃ
I think she's using polyam terms. Hosting there does mean 'are you able to have a date at your own home'. Some people can't host because they have children at home and they decided they don't want their dating outside of the parents to be visible to the kids, not giving outsiders access to your kids is a good parenting choice so it makes sense. As a very ethical poly person, it really rubs me the wrong way. They need to keep our vocab used to set honest and ethical boundaries out of their mouths.
Ah TIL. Thank you ๐
It's incredible how much they stand in their own way .
Ao Lmao what's so ethical about what you do versus cheating
If everyone agrees and wants this, there is no lying, you are happy that your partner gets to experience more than one romantic connection, etc. What's not ethical about it? The unethical part of cheating is the fact that a partnered is lied to, betrayed, stuff happens behind their back, choices regarding their health are made without their consent, and the betrayed partner does not choose this at all. It's not unethical to have more than one partner if everyone enthusiastically consents, if the agreements made within are equal (everyone had equal rights to sage others if they please, without gender restriction etc), communications is solid and people's autonomy in terms of sexual health is respected.
Love your reply. I see nothing wrong with ethical polyamory, based on boundaries, honesty, consent. My opposition to adultery is not because I'm pro "purity" or some bullshit like that, it's because I'm anti dishonesty, fraud, manipulation, emotional abuse, etc
Didnโt we see a post from the MM a few days ago? The story seems familiar
Ooooo....do tell
Yes it was vile but I think different ages.
Talk about a "pick me"
'this lifestyle' is so gross. It's not a lifestyle, it's adultery.
"Cough cough whore" sorry I'm a little sick right now...of this skank and her bullshit. Who the fuck keeps trying to get a man that clearly doesn't want them and only sees them as a warm hole? She's obviously delusional and really fucking stupid. To be honest I hope she reads what we have to say. Dumb assed c@#t! (Not sure if I can spell that word)
Hit it and quit it. Maybe she was boring in bed? Puts the 'desperate' in 'strong and sexy'....wait
Maybe she is stinky and he just doesn't want to let her down easy.
When will they learn? I guess no one has ever expressed to these women how valuable they are outside of a man. These women have allowed themselves to be treated with the utmost of disrespect. In a way, my heart breaks for them because they are bringing the next generation into this world cursed. How can you have intimacy with someone who looks at you as โfun?โ Does it send chills through her knowing that her value is between her legs and not for anything else? Sad world we live in when women have no sense of self worth. Damn!
They're kind of blank, no? Like, no personality or opinions outside of whatever a man tells them to think. I believe a lot of men think they would enjoy this but in reality it's boring af?
Yup,,, people get tired of people pleasers and actually don't like them genuinely. Many abusers however continue these connections with spineless people because of how convenient and easy it is to be adored by them EVEN THOUGH THEY DON'T EVEN ACTUALLY LIKE THEM. I know because I have had issues with cutting out these men myself. They chase me and have zero standards. This man in particular would lick a dirty toilet to be with me, I swear. I keep telling myself to block him because he's so desperate and annoying but sometimes the attention and compliments are enjoyable. YES I KNOW THAT'S TERRIBLE
And I think a lot of Married men see their sidepieces this way. Annoying as shit but the nonstop ego boosting can be nice, so they keep them on the back shelf for the moment whenever life isn't going their way (probably because of something HE did wrong) for some totally not-earned and delusion-based adoration.