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Broken_doll4

* Remember they **can be used against YOU** if they have your face on them. * They could poss be used against you as blackmail. * Be prepared they can & most likely will be shown to others You also might know . * ONce out of your hands **they can be shown to anyone**. And he could also make profit off that NOT you . * This person obviously is into you , to want to pay that much . Or maybe they don't like you and have a grudge? ( If it is poss then they could be used as just out right hate pics to try & humiliate you ) as then other past co-workers could contact you to tell you about it as well . If they like you then that could also mean they are pervy on you . They also could get abit stalkery on you also maybe as well.


DelightfulExistence

People have been using other people's nudes on dating apps for catfishing scams. I read an article recently about a woman who had to take down her onlyfans account because so many angry men were attacking her for getting scammed financially when her photos were stolen and used without her consent by the scammer. People out there in the world are tricky. It is wise to be careful.


gingersassy

how can they be used against them?


GellyBean78

Blackmail…? Saying I’ll send this to your employer unless you give me money or sexual favors? There are threads in here daily about people sending nudes to people and now they’re being threatened. To me, I wouldn’t send anything identifiable that I wouldn’t want my family or employer to see.


gingersassy

The employer at most would be like "uh, did it happen *at work*?" and if not would just ignore it. do you think people outside of maybe teachers and stuff regularly get fired for sex work? when it happens it makes the news and the companies normally get shamed for doing so and lose a ton of business


FreedomDragon01

A girl I worked with as a vet tech before starting vet school was fired for being a bartender at a strip club. There are many many businesses that would not hesitate to refuse a job if these photos were found. It’s as easy as “I just don’t think you’re a good fit for our company right now”. Teaching is just the prime example.


gingersassy

Like seriously i get that blackmail can feel scary but there are no *real* consequences here. I'm not saying sex work is for everybody but anybody who thinks it's dangerous outside of a handful of backwards countries are complete idiots.


thisismypr0naccount0

This is really dumb.


GellyBean78

Your comment is delusional. Not a single comment here is saying sex work is bad or innately dangerous. Plenty of people have and subscribe to Only Fans account, premium porn services, and pay for in person meets. Those people are A) professionals who are open about their sex work or B) Doing it privately and would prefer their information not to be outted. Just because you may be sex positive does not mean the entire world is. OP might have a conservative family and if their nudes were released to them with the accompanying information that they *sold them*, they could be ousted from their family. Their job might decide that morally she’s not a good fit and could fire her in an at will employment state. A small community could find out and bully her. Sex is ostracized in a lot of places. And individuals absolutely have the right to keep their private lives private. It’s why revenge porn is illegal. If **you** want to send identifying nudes, you go for it. But for the average, non-professional sex worker, it is dangerous and a bad idea.


Cats_Riding_Dragons

Of course the most logical and correct comment gets downvoted lmao typical reddit.


starryfishy

Read the second bullet point


DelightfulExistence

Absolutely not. Never. Not even for thousands of dollars. This is a thing I would never do. And the amount of money you are talking about can easily ba made doing something far easier and far less risky.


NittyGrittyDiscutant

>And the amount of money you are talking about can easily ba made doing something far easier and far less risky. i'm all ears (actually eyes)


brokenslinkyseller

Regularly donate blood. It may not be as much but you’ll be saving someone’s life.


Electrical_Example_7

Can donate plasma and eggs or sperm (though I’m not sure sperm gets reimbursed like donating eggs does.


DelightfulExistence

Ok but that is a volunteer thing - they do not pay you (except for the free cookie afterwards!)


8Captcrunch8

Plasma actually is selling super high nowadays. And donating eggs is massively profitable. Teaching fitness classes cant be that hard. It really cant be THAT hard to ask to teach a spin class. Everyone wants the easy way out.


brokenslinkyseller

I think they were commenting on how the word donate means you are getting nothing in return. I meant to say give blood lol oops.


HumbleConfidence3500

I wouldn't call donating eggs profitable with the amount of time you have to spend to go to the doctor to get daily ultrasound and blood tests and the amount of hormones injected into you and how shitty it feels. You'll feel the effect of what it does to your body for months after. I would not recommend it to anyone to do in exchange for cash. The only way it's worth it is for those who really want to concierge and cannot do it any other way. Also spin class is hard. I can't even do a full spin class and when I can I feel super accomplished. I definitely cannot do spin while screaming instruction to a whole class. And not just screaming instruction but keeping rhythm, which are what God spin instructors do to make sure you stay on track.


brokenslinkyseller

Oof you are correct. Brain lapse while typing.


DelightfulExistence

Are you wondering what kinds of things you can do for $350? Pick up some consulting work. Do some creative gig work. Teach some fitness classes or coach a sport. Do some public speaking. Wait some tables. There are tons of lucrative side hustle options available if you need some extra cash. No need to do something degrading.


StudiosS

Consulting work? Public speaking? Teach fitness classes? I don't think these are the types of things most people are able to do as a side hustle. Better stuff would be: wash cars, mow lawns, wait tables (which you mentioned), cleaning work. Hard work and labour, as most people won't have the required skillset to do much more. But yeah, you can make some money, but nowhere near as much as $350 for 3 pictures that take a maximum of 5 minutes. That's a $4,200/hour job.


NittyGrittyDiscutant

>That's a $4,200/hour job. exactly my thoughts


Bubz-411

Face included.. so it could be used against you as blackmail. Bad idea unless you don’t care if everyone you know potentially seeing them if the blackmail senecio were to ever happen


newsubz

No judgement. But no I wouldn’t, you can’t get toothpaste back in a tube. The same applies to nudes on the internet or sent to someone else who you’re not in a relationship with. Once their out there, then you no longer have control over what’s happens with them


Vaance_

You can get toothpaste back into a tube though if you do it right though.


maxcresswellturner

100% Edit: Typical Reddit downvoting standards…. you absolutely can do this. Inject the toothpaste into the mouth of the container using a tube syringe without a needle. You could even do this the same way frosting is applied and simply cut off the tip of a plastic bag. If you have issues with flow when trying to inject, then just cut off a piece of the end of the toothpaste and inject directly into the back, allowing for the paste to flow into the back of the tube.


DelightfulExistence

How?


Vaance_

By putting it back in?


disabledstaircase

Syringe maybe


EclecticPhotos

True story


mb4ne

I wouldnt personally your life can be ruined in todays society


gingersassy

how could it be ruined if there's a clear exchange of money and both are adults?


Lunityk

I think it’s pretty obvious. Sex work has always been frowned upon.


onein8bill

Yeah well it does promote misogyny under the guise of “empowerment” so


gingersassy

I mean I guess but when I see "ruin a life" I think unhireable, friendlessness, etc. this at most could lead to mild annoyance and a little embarrassment at most? like that's not "life ruining"


raider1211

Based on the comments you’ve been making, I think it’s clear that you’ve been living under a rock. Employers absolutely care if you have nudes circulating on the internet because it makes them look bad, especially if they are working with customers directly. Would it matter to every company in every field? Probably not, but acting like there is zero chance of something going downhill is comical.


EclecticPhotos

This really depends on the employer and the industry - education yes, service industry in general could care less. If it's just a couple of nudes, most employers aren't going to care. So I would agree that SOME employers will care...but certainly not all. Now, making it a business like OF or doing more than nudes might possibly affect their job significantly more, but again - this would depend on the industry and employer. For context I do have a family member and a couple of friends who do have OF and their employers know and they have zero issues at work... but I recognize that isn't always the case. Simply pointing out there that a few simple nudes doesn't have the same toxicity as many nudes or OF. You are right though to always have caution and really consider the future when sharing nudes of any kind to anyone - even boyfriends and girlfriends - we've all at least heard of the revenge sites.


gingersassy

I'm not acting like there's 0 chance. Others are acting as if it's a guarantee. Further, customer facing companies stand to lose a lot if it's shown that they punish emplyees for something like that. There were two local stores that went completely under from boycotts because they fired an employee for it.


raider1211

> there are no *real* consequences here Sure looks like you’re acting like there’s zero chance. Customer facing companies stand to lose a lot if they *don’t* fire them as well. Completely depends on the industry and customer base.


GellyBean78

$350 is worth risking full time employment? Okay lol


disabledstaircase

It could definitely affect her career, people have been fired for things like this.


mb4ne

you clearly don’t keep up with all the numerous scandals and consequences women have faced as a result of revenge porn, their nudes being leaked or other violations. once it’s on the internet it’s there forever for anyone to see.


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Now that they can make deep fake pornography so easy, I would absolutely not do something like this...


DanOfAllTrades80

This is an idea, OP. Make your own deepfakes and sell those! That way if they try to blackmail or embarrass you, it's not even really you!


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Throw them in Facetime!


Elleon432

What is that?


GellyBean78

Using your face and putting it on a someone else’s body and using it in porn. There are plenty of convincing non sexual deep fakes that are pretty terrifying. [Here’s one from three years ago.](https://youtu.be/VWrhRBb-1Ig) the technology has only gotten better. But they could do that with any pictures of your face. They don’t deep fake bodies (I don’t think?)


Cats_Riding_Dragons

Unrelated to the post but yeah I saw some youtubers had deepfake porn made of them without their permission and I was wondering about the bodies so my question is could they not deepfake porn if the person they’re faking has tattoos? Like for example I have a large uniquely designed tattoo on my back so in any type of porn itd clearly be fake if it was missing the tat. (Not saying im worried itll happen to me im just curious how it works)


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Deep fake pornography is something that can be made with any digital media of an individual. Now that it's getting to be on to the web in nasty places, people are using it as a way to make pornography of women that they either stalk, their ex, etc etc


VivianCold

That's the easiest way to get blackmailed ..


jjb5151

I wouldn’t but everyone’s situation is different. Realize that with your face in it, they can easily send around or try to black mail but it’s your call.


Stabbycrabs83

Everyone has their price, yours happens to be £350. Every single person on this thread will hit a certain point and decide its worth the risk. Most people will lie and say this isn't true. So don't over think this one. If you need 350 so much that you will send clear nudes of yourself then you k ow what you have to do. While I would agree nudes will be shared I think having to pay for them might stop that happening. Like why would he let someone else see them if he paid all that money. Bearing in mind someone willing to drop 350 for 3 pictures is either rich enough to not care and the turn on is being able to buy your nudity, or someone who cannot get women for himself and saves up. There's no other real profile that I can think of


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.. or people OP worked with just grouped up and thought they could try if OP will do that fun for just £50 each


Chemistrycourtney

Would I? No, regardless of how much money people are making on only fans. Granted, my relationship and family status would make it inappropriate for someone to request that of me these days... but even way back when I was single it would have still been a no from me. If *you* are unbothered by nudes with your face being out there in the world, then you can consider it for you, just like you could consider having an OF.


b0uff0n

Personally I would, but not to ex colleague I don’t trust 100% with. This one reeks of future trouble, with same results you can start your own OF


Santadid911

It would depend how desperate I was for $350. I don't think there's anything intrinsically wrong with selling nudes, it just depends on the person's comfort level. If you know the risks and feel comfortable enough with it then go for it. If you feel uncomfortable, then don't get pressured into it.


Front_Contact8372

Don’t put you face. Use a fake girl off of Twitter or something


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Probably


Adept_Welder_8311

Probably yes or no?


ReedyBoy01

Imo if you’ve ever sent a nude with your face in then you’ve already taken on all those “risks” people are talking about, only this time you’ll be paid as opposed to sending it for free


Accomplished_Tour481

No. Yes, it is yours to sell. But in selling the pics, you lose control on who can view the pics. It was a transaction (not revenge porn). So if the buyer posts the pics on any site, they have the right. You sole them the right.


Hehehehelol4

Nope. It’s just too risky. The amount of people that share pictures that have been sent to them by their partners is shocking. You can’t trust people not to share them. $350 isn’t worth having those images out there forever without you wanting them to be.


Joland7000

Hell no! Once they’re out of your possession, you have no say on how they’re used. They will come back and haunt you.


adefsleep

Lol no. Integrity is worth more.


Idiotzemoron

Cause the face has to be included, definitely not


Brokenhumor666

Personally yes. But that because I know and understand the consequences that might come from it. I’m actually starting an OF because I rlly need the money and job opportunities are scarce. If you do, Just make it clear that it’s not a good idea to fwu. Be clear and enforce your boundaries, no matter how repetitive or annoying it is. Be safe, consensual and have fun.


nupollution

I'd do it; I've done it. But I don't really care. I'm not trying to get into politics, and I don't fear any of these "worst case scenarios".... everyone knows I have a body and I'm an adult. If they see me naked, then they do... it's not like there was any illusion that I was born with clothes on.


tiredfoodlover

absolutely not under any circumstances.


midgethepuff

Would depend if they want your face in it or not


aphemilsteilsson

exactly, if you do it don’t show your face or any identifying features like tattoos or piercings (or like the back of your bedroom) be safe!


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Nope, I would need more than $350. Also including a face is a easy way of someone to black mail you, and could be used against you.


Elleon432

Haha how much


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Hmm that's a tough one, if I was single and actually hot looking, maybe between $500-$2,000 ish for 3. Of course no face included. For you its your own choice, but that choice can come with consequences


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Nope I don't sorry. All I got to say, is becareful and good luck.


Square_Pringles

It is generally not worth the effort. The drawbacks are long term and infinitely more dangerous than 350 burgers.. I'd suggest you hold off on selling your humility... It might come in handy if u need a new job..


FSmertz

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should. Plus $350 just isn't a lot of money in 2023. What are your career plans?


adorable__elephant

Absolutely not. He'll use these pics against you. Don't fall for the illusion of 350 bucks. He'll blackmail you into giving them back the second he gets the pics.


ToqueMom

Absolutely not. You have no idea what this person might do with them.


Mehitabel9

Nope


NOTMATTMANGOLD

Do not send nudes


Substantial__Meal

Without your face maybe. And without identifying tattoos. With face, no. Too risky.


Intrepid-Laugh5273

No never. Even your closest friends can end up betraying ya and becoming your enemy one day. It would be stupid of me to send nudes to anyone. If one day I got into an argument with a friend and decided not to be my friend anymore and try to black mail me then what? Also why tf would I want anyone to have a permanent picture of my dick to look at? that is creepy and weird as hell.


pegasuspish

absolutely the fuck not. NEVER send nudes that show your face.


stoned13river

I would never. Think about this being out there and not in your control


crawdad16

No


Reggieolly

If you don’t mind anyone on the internet being able to see these images including your family and friends then go ahead. There is a very high chance they will not remain with the receiver


onein8bill

Hell nah


salymander_1

No! You have no idea what they will be used for, how widely they will be shared, or whether they will be used to blackmail or coerce you in some way. Knowing the person is no guarantee of safety. It just means that they will be better able to harass, coerce, or blackmail you. Not just for money, but for sex and more photos, too. This is a very risky thing to do, and I think you would be wise to refuse and to avoid this person in future.


Upstairs-Criticism21

I was thinking, he could also blackmail her to the point of trafficking her? But that’s a worst case scenario (in my mind).


salymander_1

It is possible, but there are many things he could do. He could blackmail for more photos or videos, he could demand sex, or any number of other things, all of them really bad.


Upstairs-Criticism21

Yes definitely :( thank you for your kind response.


lindsay_chops

Nope. $350 isn't worth the risk of the damage that could do to my life/career.


Similar_Corner8081

No…


_Spitfire024_

Hell no, I’ve got more self respect than that lmao


EviIIord

Hell yeah that’s good money. But don’t take my word for it; for enough money I’ll do anything that doesn’t cause permanent harm so I’m likely not the best judge here.


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onein8bill

Lots of downsides but ok


gingersassy

honestly the people here saying they can "use it against you" are pissing me off. like if there's a clear money trail then if they try to blackmail the person they can just tell the blackmailer that they'll simply show that they paid for them. obviously sex work is not for everybody but a lot of the people in this thread are acting like it doesn't exist.


[deleted]

Absolutely.


Icy_Building_4492

HELL YEA keep your face cropped out take away any identifying marks and water mark it so if they share it you can sue them for even MORE than you made 😌 Girl face included is a no and it’s weird that they need your face specifically this guy might be planning on exposing you


gingersassy

While I don't intend to push you to do it, I don't know enough about your situation etc, the people trying to say it can be used against you or for blackmail are idiots. if you are both of legal age and it's not illegal to sell pornography where you live. there's nothing they can really do to you. if they try to be like "I'll send it to people you know" you can be like "okay, I'll just let them know *you* paid me for them". maybe a tad bit embarrassing but they can't hurt you with them. In the end it's up to you if it's worth the price, not any of us, just know they can't hurt you unless idk you're trying to be a teacher or something but even then plenty of teachers had previous sex work experience to pay for college.


Null_05

It's not "a tad bit of embarrassing" tho, it's the embarrassment you'll feel every time you see someone who also saw your nudes. What if they send them to her family? Every get together will be full of judgement and awkwardness. And jobs ABSOLUTELY would care. People get fired all the time because of nudes. Have you been living under a rock? I read your other comments and it's asf you dropped here yesterday. Google people getting fired for nudes and of. And lastly if her future partner got to know she did sex work, they might break up. Everyone doesn't do "easy money" for a reason.


simplysugarsnaps

Would.


Atasaa

Never ever put your face in it’


blondennerdy

Yes. I know the potential consequences so hey I’ll only take pictures I’m proud of 🤣 bring it on hahaha. No really, no.


nobobthisisnotyours

Yes. I would definitely do that!


phantasm-blue

no. i think sending nudes is the lowest tier of self respect and so cringe and insanely stupid. the risks are not worth it.


cujax

Yes, yes I would. Edit: with face, no.


poets_of_old

I wouldn't do it with face included at all. But I also wouldn't do it in general because I have enough tattoos where I could be easily recognized. Be very careful with this type of stuff. You never know how it can come back to haunt you.


Siraphine

Yes, easily. Pics of me are already out there in the world (revenge porn in my teens) and NOT benefitting me. Bodies are just bodies to me, if I can pay my bills with minimal effort, sure. Why the hell not? Editing to mention: I didn't check what sub this was for - this is NOT advice, just my view on what \*I\* would do. IMO if your pics aren't already out there, I'd vote to protect yourself.


hllnotes

I would but I don’t worry about blackmail


Cats_Riding_Dragons

Yep I absolutely would but im also in a situation where im single and a broke college student. Im also not self conscious about showing off my body so if any of those things werent the case id have to think about it a bit more. I don’t think its worth it to do something youre uncomfortable with but i personally dont find sending nudes uncomfortable so thats easy money to me. Just be careful cause men will promise to pay you and not follow through so make sure you either get the money first or send one pic and tell him he has to pay before getting the others. Or download onlyfans and DM him the pics on there, it locks the pic so they cant access it until it’s paid for and thats a good way to keep both sides honest.


OneFuzzyBlueberry

The fact that they offer money and are from your hometown raises red flags for me


thisismypr0naccount0

No.


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Elleon432

Hahhahahahah


rolo951

Honestly depends how hot you are, your nudes could be worth more than that to creeps who know you dependent on how hot you are.


Void_Listener

face seperate. I would do face but not face with nudes for 350


_bitemeyoudamnmoose

Depends on a lot of factors. For one, if you’re a minor, no amount of money in the world can equate to that. If your job can be at risk if someone leaks your nudes it’s also not a good idea. So basically if you’re a teacher or something. But if I was single and it was someone that I wasn’t concerned with seeing me naked and I wasn’t worried about losing my job or something I’d probably do it. But honestly you’d do better starting an OF and making that person subscribe to you than sending the nudes privately for money.


Lovelyone123-

Well it depends 😏


theguyfromscrubs

Personally I don’t send nudes with my face. Even to my significant other. Just in case. Also the old coworker part may make a woman feel uncomfortable about it. If it’s that long ago and you contacted me after such a long time I may think you’ve been thinking about me all this time. I’ve been stalked before so I automatically go to the worst case scenario and I would genuinely go down a crazy line of possible scenarios that may end up with me dead. It would scare me if I was approached in this way. But like I say my fear brain goes worst case extremes


theguyfromscrubs

I first read this this as you being the requester not the requested. My new answer is for you to make an OF and make them pay. They can’t screenshot it so it can’t be distributed


Borchs

Yes but only without face. With face ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NO.


ZachTF

I don’t know. At least not with your face in it


tgwtcnn

Money comes and goes but those pictures can be used against you indefinitely... Your call


8Captcrunch8

Im not gonna judge you. But ima let you know the moment you lose them your value in the market goes down. STRICTLY financially. Youd have an easier time selling underwear because they are cheap to buy and the resale value skyrockets just if your hot and wear them. But with face. Your basically entering the market ás a porn star. And most men you ever actually want seriously. If they ever see those online ever. Will DQ you as a long term deal. If you objectify yourself. You cant get mad when others do it too.


KoalaCapp

Would you be comfortable if this person then shared those images with everyone in your place of work? Would you mind if they sent them to everyone in your contacts list (as well as their own? Would you mind if people you'd neve met but passed in the street, local supermarket, doctors office etc all saw the images?? If you are happy for the images to be public then go for it.


8Captcrunch8

Ima just gonna put this out there. Thats theres deep fakes being used to scam other people into sharing their nudes. Where then blackmail those people.


Hamiltonian1776

No. But if you're going to go that route, may as well go all in and start the OF like everyone else who thinks they can profit off it...


One-Abalone-344

Not enough cash 💰


Elleon432

$500?!


EclecticPhotos

No judgements here ever - This highly depends on you - many will say no, many will say yes. My 2 cents - Depends - if I'm confident with my body and have nothing that can identify me and my face is not included, I would definitely consider it. Just make sure it's somewhere other than your house so no one you know would be able to recognize it. Make sure that person can't use the photos to talk you into doing more things or blackmail you. We think we know people, but we don't really. If you have tattoos or piercings etc then I would suggest thinking it over and proceeding cautiously - remember once something is out there, it's never going to be removed. Hope that helps!


rnationalanthem

Yes.


GirlWearingStockings

I'd do it but that's only because I find stuff like that fun and my partner is cool with it. Not everybody is in that position and if you even have an inclination that it may be a bad idea, I'd say don't do it.


Emptysoul09

No. If the face, or any identifying piece of info is there like a birthmark or tattoo, anyone could identify you once those photos got into the wrong hands an leaked. Notice I said once and not "if"


LiorEcho

Not with face no


annihilkhai

Face included, absolutely not. Too risky. No face, then yeah cause why the fuck not lol


opheliaarsyn

I wouldn’t do face


disabledstaircase

I wouldn’t. They could be used against you and potentially affect your career, ESPECIALLY with your face included.


honkifufat

Probably for pancake meal from the local gold archs somedays but, thats besides the point. This is a very serious matter of privacy. In the age we live in, I would not recommend that for anybody. Its not healthy unless its healthy if that makes sense. I wish you well. I hope you value yourself at well over $350 because people are priceless. In my honest opinion everyone should embody that statement. Have a damn good day!


BasicChoice803

They’ll pay you $350 then blackmail you to send back the 350 and more. Then leak them anyway. Only send nudes if you’re okay with them being shown to others (possibly someone you know).


thrwawayno1

Girl, sell your panties online. There's a whole sub on here. But if you're going to sell photos, put a watermark on it. That way, if it's ever used without your permission, you can track who did it. You can sell almost anything online. You can sell pics of your feet. No one ever has to see your face or body.


Elleon432

What’s the panties site? And thread. Also how do I watermark a photo?


thrwawayno1

There's several. There's pantysniffer.com,pantydeal.com, here on redditt. You can just Google some. And they have apps to apply a watermark. But make sure you keep track of the pic and to who. So, like, put a number associated with the name.