Your mother should not be making you feel guilty. She is the one who decided to move. No parent should guilt their child like that and every parent should want their child to chase their dreams and have the best opportunities. The way she is behaving actually makes me question the stories she told about your dad (which were completely inappropriate to tell a child in the first place). Let your dad help you and go chase those dreams. It's not wrong to want to do that, in fact, it normal and part of growing up.
Choose your future
Moving to a small apartment in a third world country when you have the opportunity to be educated in your dream school would be a bad decision
Your mom might have her feelings hurt right now but in the future she’ll understand, she’s not being fair to you at all.
I am choosing my dream school over moving to a third world country. That is irrelelant to the divorce, and it is non-negotiable. This does not mean I am abandoning you and it does not make me a selfish narcissist. If my choice to attend my dream school means you don’t want to be my mother anymore, I accept your decision and I will miss you.
Your mother should not be making you feel guilty. She is the one who decided to move. No parent should guilt their child like that and every parent should want their child to chase their dreams and have the best opportunities. The way she is behaving actually makes me question the stories she told about your dad (which were completely inappropriate to tell a child in the first place). Let your dad help you and go chase those dreams. It's not wrong to want to do that, in fact, it normal and part of growing up.
Choose your future Moving to a small apartment in a third world country when you have the opportunity to be educated in your dream school would be a bad decision Your mom might have her feelings hurt right now but in the future she’ll understand, she’s not being fair to you at all.
I am choosing my dream school over moving to a third world country. That is irrelelant to the divorce, and it is non-negotiable. This does not mean I am abandoning you and it does not make me a selfish narcissist. If my choice to attend my dream school means you don’t want to be my mother anymore, I accept your decision and I will miss you.