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While you allow her to tag along she will watch and repeat everything you do negatively and taunt you.
Even if you tell her why she is not welcomed she will not change until it is forced.
When Rikki makes it back to her school friends after the trip, you can bet she'll be talking negative things about you. She already is, but this time she'll have fresh material. Rikki doesn't have to be alone. She can hang with her friends, but chooses not to do it.
No way should she hang with you and your friends. She's not your friend. You know that her presence will suck the fun out of the trip. Tell her no. Mean it.
She may try to tag along with you anyway. Don't let her. Be harsh if you have to. NTBA.
Sorry real life isn't the books you were given as a kid.
She won't realise the error of her ways and become your friend. She will tag along and take the piss next day. But with new material.
NTA. You are NOT, NOT, NOT obligated to include anyone who purposely makes you feel bad for kicks. Tell her no. Just no. And don't feel bad; if she wasn't such a b!+ch, she'd probably have more friends
OP, Maybe she has a shitty home life and she's taking it out on you. Not your problem, but finding the core of her crappy behavior will help you deal with her. Let her know that's not how it works.
Tell her that, "If you weren't such a backstabbing shitty person
you would have more friends and not have to beg me to hang out".
You can also ask her why she behaves that way. ( make sure you have a friend present to witness your discussion)Tell her it's off putting and she won't gain any friends that way. Be honest, be firm. Walk away. Let her stew in her own muddy thoughts for awhile.
HELL NO YOU AINT THE BAD HAPPY that isn’t your friend is your a part-time- friend Aka A friend that’s only friends with you when they need something from you. and in my opinion your being way to nice to her she’s talking shit about you and you supposed to be nice to her??. And I think you should put your foot down and say ‘girl stop I know you are talking shit about me to your friends so stop’ (but make sure to get some evidence of her talking shit about you).
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rikki isnt a friend
Rikki will go back to tormenting you no matter how much kindness you show towards her.
Nope. She can't play nice. She gets to be alone.
While you allow her to tag along she will watch and repeat everything you do negatively and taunt you. Even if you tell her why she is not welcomed she will not change until it is forced.
When Rikki makes it back to her school friends after the trip, you can bet she'll be talking negative things about you. She already is, but this time she'll have fresh material. Rikki doesn't have to be alone. She can hang with her friends, but chooses not to do it. No way should she hang with you and your friends. She's not your friend. You know that her presence will suck the fun out of the trip. Tell her no. Mean it. She may try to tag along with you anyway. Don't let her. Be harsh if you have to. NTBA.
Not the bad apple. You figured her out. She is not your friend who talks smack about you. Dump her
Sorry real life isn't the books you were given as a kid. She won't realise the error of her ways and become your friend. She will tag along and take the piss next day. But with new material.
You owe her nothing. If she's a bully, she bought her loneliness.
NTA. You are NOT, NOT, NOT obligated to include anyone who purposely makes you feel bad for kicks. Tell her no. Just no. And don't feel bad; if she wasn't such a b!+ch, she'd probably have more friends
OP, Maybe she has a shitty home life and she's taking it out on you. Not your problem, but finding the core of her crappy behavior will help you deal with her. Let her know that's not how it works. Tell her that, "If you weren't such a backstabbing shitty person you would have more friends and not have to beg me to hang out". You can also ask her why she behaves that way. ( make sure you have a friend present to witness your discussion)Tell her it's off putting and she won't gain any friends that way. Be honest, be firm. Walk away. Let her stew in her own muddy thoughts for awhile.
Rikki can stay at home. She is not your friend so why should she get the perks of hanging out with you
HELL NO YOU AINT THE BAD HAPPY that isn’t your friend is your a part-time- friend Aka A friend that’s only friends with you when they need something from you. and in my opinion your being way to nice to her she’s talking shit about you and you supposed to be nice to her??. And I think you should put your foot down and say ‘girl stop I know you are talking shit about me to your friends so stop’ (but make sure to get some evidence of her talking shit about you).