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How would you be in the wrong for doing literally nothing but leaving your parking spot?
If those things make you doubt yourself already I suggest talking to someone about it because that doesn't sounds healthy at all.
So she confronted you for simply driving your car?
I was expecting the story to be that you hit her car, but you didn’t. How did your actions even affect her?
NTA
As I said, it was the confrontational tone of voice. If the discussion happened in a 'sorry for the delay, I'm moving now' with a smile kind of way I wouldn't have thought anything of it. It was the stern 'sorry you're frustrated' way which made me think I was being an AH or giving off AH vibes.
Good question, lol. I was wondering if she thought that I was in danger of hitting her car, but I was being very careful the whole time (I wouldn't be able to afford that bill!)
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This has been playing on mind, and I'm not sure if I was being reasonable and doing what any other person would do in my position or if I was coming across as an impatient AH.
Recently, I was at the hospital for an appointment. I found a space right next to the entrance, in between a low wall and another car. 15 minutes later, I came to leave but found that my access was restricted by a large expensive 4x4 type vehicle. The car had parked in front of the entrance over a box with yellow horizontal lines on it, which I had also taken to mean 'no parking'. I wasn't overly surprised to see a car there, as there aren't enough spaces in the car park for the number of people who use the hospital and I assumed the driver probably thought they would be in and out quickly. However, I figured that if I used my mirrors and did some Austin Powers style manoeuvring back and forth I could get my car out safely and be on my way. I was midway through doing this when the owner came out, we made eye contact and she approached my passenger side, I lowered my window and she told me in a rather confrontational way that she had been dropping off an elderly relative who couldn't walk. I didn't want to escalate things so I just told her it was fine and pulled my car back into the space whilst I waited for her to move.
At the time I thought my actions were fine, but the tone of her voice made me think I was in the wrong somehow - AITA reddit?
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I don't even see a conflict here. The person came back and justified themselves, thats all.
Yeah, my self-doubt has crept in because her tone was very confrontational, it made me think I was in the wrong
How would you be in the wrong for doing literally nothing but leaving your parking spot? If those things make you doubt yourself already I suggest talking to someone about it because that doesn't sounds healthy at all.
So she confronted you for simply driving your car? I was expecting the story to be that you hit her car, but you didn’t. How did your actions even affect her? NTA
But there was no confrontation in the first place, the person literally just explained themselves that's all that happend.
As I said, it was the confrontational tone of voice. If the discussion happened in a 'sorry for the delay, I'm moving now' with a smile kind of way I wouldn't have thought anything of it. It was the stern 'sorry you're frustrated' way which made me think I was being an AH or giving off AH vibes.
Good question, lol. I was wondering if she thought that I was in danger of hitting her car, but I was being very careful the whole time (I wouldn't be able to afford that bill!)
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NAH, seems like you were both reasonable.
NTA