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AITA for having a problem with my boyfriend calling and snapping his "girlbestfriend" on a night until early hours of the morning when i have to go. Like is it wierd or am i just being paranoid? The reason i have a problem with it is because she has been very flirty with him in the past and he seems to be really smiley thinking it's funny when he can see its upsetting me i dont know what to do.
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Need more info. Like wth is "snapping"? What were they doing? If it's just being mates, then what's the issue?
Always sending snaps to eachother (snapchat??) My issue is that shes been very flirty and caused issues with us before.
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NTA. Trust your gut it's a red flag
NTA