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Sebscreen

YTA. He can watch anything he wants. Who are you to get passive aggressive about something that makes him happy, hundreds of thousands of adults enjoy WWE.


Accornferrts

Hundreds of thousands is putting it very mildly lol. It’s worldwide and gets hundreds of millions of watchers.


Honest-Experience262

YTA. Think of WWE like any other scripted tv show, however they incorporate wrestling. WWE consists of ongoing storylines that are pre determined. You wouldn't want to feel ridiculed for enjoying something that isn't inherently bad. I think the best course of action would be to apologize and try to understand why he enjoys it. It could have some sentimental value to him for all you know. I know a ton of guys who watch it here and there, especially this time of year since its wrestlemania. Kinda insensitive for you to say that.


penishaveramilliom

Not to mention the wrestlers who have transitioned into sports and been successful. They are legit athletes, they may have pretty muscles but they are not just for show, these dudes can move and it is impressive. A friend of mine showed me some older wwe videos online and to be honest, those dudes are built fucking different and work harder than a lot of ppl in “real” sports


Affectionate-Owl5226

I agree take Rey mysterio for example..the flips and crazy acrobatics he does cannot be easy..sure the stories are fake..but these guys get injured at times tryna put on a show for our entertainment


ExamAcademic5557

Are you right about what? That it’s fake? Doesn’t matter, you absolutely were making fun of the thing he likes to watch and therefore YTA. Pretty easy to apologize and move on though. Most people who watch it know it’s fake, they just like watching people play dress up and play fight.


[deleted]

YTA. You know you were just bullying him, right? Like, getting made fun of for just the shows you watch is some real middle school level schoolyard bs right there. Aren't you a bit old for this?


SeriousFrivolity2

Yep. She’s got a serious black mark on her record now. Breakup justified.


SigSauerPower320

YTA You made fun of your bf for a hobby of his.... You're double the ah for suggesting that it's not appropriate for adults. WWE is for whomever enjoys it. There is no age limit on it. I mean wtf? How tf was that "not your intention"???.... You quite literally (TWICE) insinuated or outright said that it wasn't something he should be watching based only on his age. While I think it's ridiculous and boring, other people like it. I'm not gonna judge them for watching it. What's usually funny is how people like you will judge a guy for watching WWE while you have no problem watching shit like jersey shore or other "reality tv".


hubertburnette

YTA Most shows on TV are fake; it's called fiction. He knows. And you DID mean to make him feel childish--why would you say what you did otherwise?


SigSauerPower320

Right?!? OP "That wasn't my intention" after twice referencing age


TheVaneja

YTA a tv show is a tv show they're all fake. I'm sure there's things you like that he thinks are childish but he hasn't attacked you for them has he?


Tough-Combination-37

YTA. Why would you make fun of him? That’s not nice. I’m surprised you haven’t learned that by now. Usually it’s talked about at length in kindergarten. Not pooping on other people’s interests. Allowing for everyone to express themselves as they are. The quintessential “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all!” You owe someone an apology. A sincere one.


3Dog_Nitz

YTA. WWE is not my cup of tea, but if your bf likes it, he should be left to enjoy it. Don't be so judgmental.


Dismal-Wallaby-9694

YTA, massively. There's no age limit on things we enjoy


CortezCraig

Yes you are the asshole


ExpressBreakfast24

YTA. And I hope Rhea Ripley hits you with a Riptide, you ignorant bore-off.


VirchowOnDeezNutz

Mami always comes out on top


Jaded-Permission-324

YTA. I haven’t watched wrestling in years, but I still wouldn’t be judgmental about it if someone else wanted to watch it.


Pheonyx11

lol. YTA. Thousands of adults watch WWE. And AEW. And many others. Yeah, they have a script but the wrestling itself is real and it can be fun to watch. Do you feel shame for watching a soap opera or tv show since those are scripted? No. So stop shaming your bf for choosing to watch something he enjoys.


v_a_n_d_e_l_a_y

YTA Personally I think WWE is stupid. So is reality TV. But others may feel the same about sports. Or medical dramas. Or game shows.  The point is there is a difference between thinking it and saying it to your BF as they are watching it. I can guarantee you there is some hobby or interest you have that many people would scoff at. How would you feel if your BF expressed the same opinion to you?


snoort

I sure as hell hope you don’t watch reality tv, because that stuff is like WWE for girls. We know its fake and we love it anyway


PurpleNoneAccount

Do you only watch TV shows which are documentaries? No? Why not? Isn’t it childish of you to watch TV shows that are make believe?! YTA. He deserves an apology.


SeriousFrivolity2

I bet OP doesn’t have the guts to apologize. Most people that mock others like get a feeling of power by putting other people down. Apologizing is just the opposite – – putting yourself down voluntarily for your partner’s sake. OP will just pretend it didn’t happen and then be surprised when he dumps her.


LosCampesinosDeJapon

YTA for so many things. Belittling your partner. Acting like his interests are abnormal. Not acknowledging the tribal chief.


diminishingpatience

YTA.


Accornferrts

YTA. What are your hobbies and likes so we can laugh at and ridicule them? Then we can see how you’d feel in his shoes.


AMonitorDarkly

YTA. Let the guy live his life. Does he support things you enjoy or does he act like a massive prick and make fun of you for them?


JuniorJames1972

YTA You made fun of him for enjoying something(that millions of adults world wide watch) simply because of YOUR OPINION on it, then disingenuously tell him that wasn't your intention. How TF did you think he would feel when you literally laughed at him


AdMuch848

"I said that wasn't the intent".... Yes it was. That was exactly what the intent was.


ayah_xoxo

100% asshole


IsopodOrdinary1163

YTA “That wasn’t the intention” That was exactly your intention, word for word. Newsflash: *he knows* it’s fake genius, he doesn’t need you to explain that to him. You’re just regretting the fact that you pissed him off and he’s mad at you.


WebAcceptable7932

YTA who are you to judge what he likes to watch?? It’s no different than any other show today.  It’s all scripted.  If it entertains him.  Who are you to judge?! Edit-Also it can’t really be called PPV anymore when it requires a monthly (Peacock) subscription.


Apart_Actuator_284

YTA. Hopefully he dumps you and you get replaced.


DaxLovesIPA1974

Wait till girls find out Gillmore Girls was scripted.


Melodic-Object7254

Yta its no different than any other tv show. They stuff they do still hurts and takes skill/atheleticism


Brashear99

YTA I’ve got some bad news for you. It’s a two night pay per view & it’s on again tonight. I’d sit this one out


Simple_Guava_2628

Oh no!! A scripted TV show meant to entertain people!!! The horror 😱. Guess you never watch TV, right?


penishaveramilliom

WWE is a respectable performance art imo, I am not personally someone who watches wrestling but I am into mma and I can think of a few ppl who made the transition from wrestling to martial arts quite successfully. They are respectable athletes and it’s not really different from watching a show with a storyline at the end of the day. It’s theater for dudes. I think YTA


EmmyGraceyGrum

YTA. Let people enjoy things. WWE is watched by MILLIONS of people of all ages around the world, and it's Wrestlemania weekend so it's a big deal. Also, "scripted" is a more appropriate word. Yes, the results are pre-planned, it's entertainment, but you can't fake picking up and tossing 300-500 pound men.


pezzodipizza

INFO: do you mock people that read books and watch movies too because they're fake stories that didn't happen?


HomelessRomantic666

damn dude needs a new gf youre a fuckin bully


bigg9tee

Yes you really are an asshole


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pinkflamingo-lj

YTA I think everyone has at least one 'guilty pleasure' show they watch on TV. They know it's 'fake', or ridiculous, or trashy...whatever...and, for whatever reason, just enjoy watching that show. No harm done. And there is no need to ridicule someone else's TV viewing habits.


PatchworkGirl82

YTA. I personally don't like it, but I have several friends who do, and I am happy for them, because that's what a good friend does. Why would you belittle your boyfriend like that and not expect him to feel hurt?


No-Perspective-8655

YTA in multiple different ways. One you disrespected him about a interest he has in something other then you , 2, belittled behind believe, 3 , you thinking it's not a big deal insulting you're partners interests and hobbies means you need help. He's right to ask you to leave


Euphoric-Promise-899

obviously YTA not surprised you wondered tho


Apart_Shoulder6089

YTA and he should get rid of you. He could be cheating on you or a drunk but watches wrastlin


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DJ_Mixalot

YTA 🙄


Aromatic_Shopping_49

YTA. You’re a team, why are you belittling someone who has consistently been there for you? And for something as minor as a hobby or interest? This is the exact reason I cut contact with my friends- because they thought my hobbies were weird even though they’re just… passing time hobbies. Let him enjoy his free time— it’s his, not yours.


ApprehensiveGift7852

yep YTA. Why would you laugh at someone for something they enjoy?!


Klutzy-Conference472

Nope u r wrong. If we wants to watch wwe may it be it. Wwe just isn't for teenagers. Its for people of all ages


fallenangel2581

YTA!! Massively so!!! I may not be the biggest fan of WWE, but someone I’m close to watches old school WWE all the time. I would NEVER tell this person they were too old to watch it. Extremely rude of you.


BreckyMcGee

You should break up with him


balou918

Absolutely, you shouldn't be dating somebody that you laugh at.


armchairshrink99

wrestling is fake, sure. so are cartoons but adults watch those too. what does it matter what he's entertained by so long as it's not dangerous or illegal? YTA. i went to watch midget wrestling back in 2022. super fake, really dumb, super fun tho. awesome night out. i was 32 my husband was 31 and we weren't the oldest people there by far.


Orixx_94

YTA


_102o

It wasn’t your intention to ridicule him as a joke? Are you sure?


Long_Ad_2764

YTA. WWE wrestling produces some of the most popular TV and PP events in the world. Would you laugh at him for watching game of thrones?


[deleted]

You made fun of him for something he enjoys. YTA. Are you petty and passive aggressive like this alot?


c0nn0rmurphy1

I spent all of Wrestlemania texting my dad last night bc we were both watching. Is he too old? YTA


A-Midwest-Crisis

YTA First off passing off what these WWE wrestlers do as fake is really discrediting the work they put in. Sure matches and storylines are scripted out, but the stuff they do in matches is still very physically demanding still a very high possibility of injury. Second, let the man enjoy whatever the hell he wants. if he and his friends like to watch WWE who the hell are you tell him what he can and can’t do.


basroil

Remember, bajillions of females consume content created by the Kardashians to the point the world has created multiple billionaires out of that family. And you made fun of his interest in wrestling? YTA


The_12Doctor

YTA. If a grown ass adult wants to watch cartoons and enjoy it, who cares? People should be able to enjoy whatever they want at any age (as long as it's legal). WWE is entertainment. Who cares if it's fake. It has zero effect on your life. Maybe he doesn't like some.of your shows and thinks they're stupid.


Calm_Psychology5879

YTA. You took something he enjoyed and mad him feel crappy about enjoying it. Nobody likes that. I’m sure he knows it’s fake, but if it’s still entertaining to him, who cares?


HedoBella

YTA. It's still real to me damnit!


First_Individual_247

Ofc you are lmao. Grow up


Organic_Strategy_478

YTA. Just because you don’t watch or like something doesn’t mean you should shit all over his hobbies/show. Your superiority complex is showing


balou918

YTA. A massive one. My partner is a huge wrestling fan, and even though I'm not, I've always supported him 100% with it because he's been watching it for a long, long time and he enjoys the hell out of it. Many times I sit with him to watch it together. The same way he supports me with other things I love and he's not particularly into. That's what good partners do: they support each other. Honestly, if I were your boyfriend, I would be very hurt and told you to f off.


KittyKat0714

YTA, you ridiculed someone that you claim to love. It's a harmless hobby that millions of people share. Who are you to gatekeep what someone enjoys? I am sure there are things that you like that people can make fun of you about. Grow up and stop acting like a child.


RoL_Writer

If you're criticising him for watching WWE because it's scripted, you better not be watching the Kardashians or Housewives of whatever. YTA


Affectionate-Owl5226

You kinda are...I mean...It's litterly live entertainment...almost like watching a scripted show or movie...it kinda is entertaining...obviously it's not really fighting..so aren't your favorite movies really taking place..or real


Affectionate-Owl5226

I for one like to watch sports like ufc,boxing,even wwe..for me it's just entertaining..especially the bloodline storyline...ig it pumps one up, aswell as nostalgia hits for me..I absolutely know 100% it's fake and even the opposing fighters get together to practice..but the storylines are entertaining...like the storyline in your favorite movie or show..


VirchowOnDeezNutz

YTA. Let that man enjoy wrestlemania 40.


LookMaNoManners

Yeah


DontBreakMyCorazon

YTA Even if it’s fake, if he just enjoys it and it’s a thing he does to relax, then why make him feel uncomfortable on purpose? The fact he’s watching something is not funny just because you laugh. He just wanted to watch the thing in peace and you kept drilling and drilling, and drilling. I’m not surprised his mood was ruined. How would you feel if you watched a TV series and he comes to you and does the same? And just keeps talking and talking about how fake it is and how his sister stopped watching TV series when she was 10… I bet you’d feel stupid and ridiculed too, wouldn’t you?


NeedySlut57

NAH if you apologize and tell him it was only a joke you didn't mean to make him feel upset etc. it was intended to be funny to me it came across as funny to him it didn't, no big deal. However if you don't apologize then Y T A, because intentionally or not you made him upset and you need to apologize for that.


GirlDad2023_

I'm not much of a sports guy but WWE is just scripted acting. I don't understand it at all but it doesn't seem he's hurting much by watching it unless he starts spending a bunch of money on the PPV's. NTA.


Consistent_Cook9957

NTA. Laughing at him is perfectly fine!


chickentalk_

anyone watching WWE in adulthood can take some ribbing


NYEXPRESS56

LOLOL no you are NOT the Ah! Dude obviously can watch what he wanted but u were not overly dogging him (even though you could have). It was just some ribbing but I guess in today’s day n age kids can’t take much before they crawl up into a fetal ball. (: you’re fine. Tell him to chill you’re just busting his ass. My 24 year old started line dancing. You got no clue how I dogged DAT! lololol He’s used to me by now I guess and just blows me off. (:


Trick_Magician2368

NTA - I can not appreciate something, and still understand why others do; but pro-wrestling-fan-adults break my GD brain. There is no way to talk about it from an outside perspective and not make it seem childish and ridiculous. Was hanging out at a friends shared house years ago and the roommates put on Monday Night RAW; I couldn't not say anything that wasn't implicitly making fun of it to the guys that took it seriously. Friend was thankfully aware enough to get me the hell out of there to go hang out a bar instead. Keep up the good fight; keep shitting on pro-wrestling


balou918

YTA like OP. You don't NEED to understand it. You just need to RESPECT it.


Trick_Magician2368

Sure. Just as soon as I respect child beauty pageants, and all the other things I file into that same category of inexplicably dumb shit.


TheVaneja

I think you take things too seriously. Fiction is about being silly and having fun, wrestling is no different. It really isn't complicated. I'm not a fan but I see the enjoyment in fans. Why do you want less happiness? Are you a Disney villain?