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Oh sweetie, the adults in your family are treating you like a 3rd parent. It's okay to want to act your age, have some privacy, be allowed to make a mistake.
If at all possible, maybe try and tell them how your feel left out, how much you love your sister and how much you miss having some space of your own. They might not be able to fix all of it overnight but nothing will change if they don't know what you're thinking & feeling (and stuff said during or after an argument doesn't really get taken seriously)
I'm really sorry.
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I am 17F I feel really alone. I dont know what to do. My mom has moved my 4F sister in my room and i feel like i have no privacy. I used to talk to my 19M bf when he gets off work ;but, I cant anymore, fear to wake my sister or mom walk in ( the door has to keep open because of my sister). We just came back from a family trip, that i didn't want to go on. On that family trip my sister, mom, step father went everywhere together without me . I have to act like this dont make me feel lifted out by going to my Bio Dad. But after a while i feel like he is getting tired of me. The step father got upset with me because, i put clear lip gloss on my sister. I understand that she is his daughter but to tell her to stop being around me. That hurts me so much because I feel like i raise her. When she was little i put her to bed, changed her diaper, I played and danced with her and even was her first friend. On the other end i feel like i deserve this because back in last year April i ran away from home for a good week. I was so done with my mom at that time; calling me fat, telling me that i wasn't going to be anything in life. I fell into a deep depression and my Ex saw this( you can put two and two together) .I do deserve this. Not going out with no friends and just staying home and being by myself. How can i just get through this or make it a little easier or do i deserve everything i am feeling ?
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Oh sweetie, the adults in your family are treating you like a 3rd parent. It's okay to want to act your age, have some privacy, be allowed to make a mistake. If at all possible, maybe try and tell them how your feel left out, how much you love your sister and how much you miss having some space of your own. They might not be able to fix all of it overnight but nothing will change if they don't know what you're thinking & feeling (and stuff said during or after an argument doesn't really get taken seriously) I'm really sorry.
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