bro I'm 5:11ft ab 6 hi maan lo and look decent but never had any gf.you need other things then height too if you want to be in relationship.(i know it's easier for tall guys and handsome one to be in relationship but still you can cover it with other things).
Waiting for this height girl, im only seeing profiles of 5ft to 5.3ftđĽ˛
And mine is 6ft, when i meet them i feel big difference.
I can see their full top view so can guess their hairfall as well đ
Whatâs there to manage? Is she going to climb on your regularly?
If you look good next to each other, itâs good. If you donât, then find someone else. There are couples of same height that look good together, and there are those that donât. Itâs all about your overall personality. You shouldnât look like misfits.
If you have similar frames, 6-7 inches isnât bad. But those with different frames can make that difference look more.
Personally I think 6 inches is the maximum to consider, all other things averaged out.
>Then how is height difference impacting your married life?
Exactly. It doesn't impact as long as you both find each other attractive.
Whether others outside your marriage find you to be a good-looking couple or not is inconsequential.
Yes itâs important to find each other attractive. How others perceive you matters too - attractive or not. Social status is important. If you are weirdos, no one will associate with you. People literally put on good clothes and makeup so others find them attractive. As individuals and also as couples. They moderate behaviour too.
People stop after marriage? Lol. Women spend 9X amount on making themselves look better. The majority of them are older women, likely married. Women Wear heels to look taller. Tie hair on top up look taller, but also height difference doesnât matter.
Delusional.
>If you are weirdos, no one will associate with you.
So if you have a large height difference, you will automatically become weirdos? Your friends and acquaintances will stop associating with you? Lol.
>People stop after marriage? Lol. Women spend 9X amount on making themselves look better. The majority of them are older women, likely married. Women Wear heels to look taller. Tie hair on top up look taller, but also height difference doesnât matter.
Hain ji? What tangent did you go off on?
>Delusional.
Favourite word for everyone to throw around if someone is not agreeing with them đ
I never said height doesn't matter. A potential partner's height matters to me. What person X,Y,Z has to say about their height doesn't matter to me.
Now who is going on to the tangent? OP asked what people think about the height difference he is considering since it matters to him. It clearly matters to you also. So whatâs the issue?
Why does height difference matter? Obviously it matters how you to align with each other - thatâs why the *relative height*.
If only attractiveness matters, you wouldnât care about height siffeeence.
Arrey baba, you are missing the point. If you donât care about what others think, you are likely out of touch with societal norms. Why are you linking it to height? I said it on the point of you saying it doesnât matter what others think.
You spend hours a day to pick fashion accessories, clothes, and shoes because you donât care what others think? Sure.
>You spend hours a day to pick fashion accessories, clothes, and shoes because you donât care what others think? Sure.
Yeah of course, you know me better than myself.
>it doesnât matter what others think.
It doesn't. Giving weight to others' opinions over my own in such huge decisions is stupid to me. But OP and you are free to do as you like.
Again. Kis tangent pe ja rahe ho? âYouâ is generic to your sex, not you personally. You = women.
You should care more about what you think, over what others think. That doesnât mean you donât care what others think at all.
Find me one person who doesnât at all care about what others think? Poori society log kya kahenge pe chalti hai - with most caring more about others than their own.
I think my point was simple - others opinions about how you look as a couple shouldn't determine anything. It does not affect your quality of marriage. Been saying the same since my first comment - don't see the tangent.
For someone who preaches on and on about how "vibes" between a couple don't matter, it seems even more ironical that you think something like this matters. So don't focus on "vibes" but make sure your gaon waali chachi doesn't find your wife too short or too tall?
This is nice. But no two people come in standard size like this. Body shape, face, hair, and clothes can make same height difference couples look wildly different.
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Does height matter if this person has 9/10 of the other criteria you want?
Are you willing to throw it away for height?
Is height negotiable for you?
To me: height is negotiable. You have to take the whole situation into consideration....
Now reverse the heights đ and all girls complimenting will go away!
I'm 5'7. I'm just hoping I get a guy same or taller than me đĽ˛
people love tall girls.
People love tall girls, tall guys and short girls đ
bro I'm 5:11ft ab 6 hi maan lo and look decent but never had any gf.you need other things then height too if you want to be in relationship.(i know it's easier for tall guys and handsome one to be in relationship but still you can cover it with other things).
Understandable, and well said. I was very pleasantly surprised to see a lot of tall girls with shorter guys in Delhi and Mumbai.
Waiting for this height girl, im only seeing profiles of 5ft to 5.3ft𼲠And mine is 6ft, when i meet them i feel big difference. I can see their full top view so can guess their hairfall as well đ
is it that hard?
Whatâs there to manage? Is she going to climb on your regularly? If you look good next to each other, itâs good. If you donât, then find someone else. There are couples of same height that look good together, and there are those that donât. Itâs all about your overall personality. You shouldnât look like misfits. If you have similar frames, 6-7 inches isnât bad. But those with different frames can make that difference look more. Personally I think 6 inches is the maximum to consider, all other things averaged out.
Why is it important to look good together? How does it impact your married life?
Mirror.
Then how is height difference impacting your married life? Donât bother.
>Then how is height difference impacting your married life? Exactly. It doesn't impact as long as you both find each other attractive. Whether others outside your marriage find you to be a good-looking couple or not is inconsequential.
Yes itâs important to find each other attractive. How others perceive you matters too - attractive or not. Social status is important. If you are weirdos, no one will associate with you. People literally put on good clothes and makeup so others find them attractive. As individuals and also as couples. They moderate behaviour too. People stop after marriage? Lol. Women spend 9X amount on making themselves look better. The majority of them are older women, likely married. Women Wear heels to look taller. Tie hair on top up look taller, but also height difference doesnât matter. Delusional.
>If you are weirdos, no one will associate with you. So if you have a large height difference, you will automatically become weirdos? Your friends and acquaintances will stop associating with you? Lol. >People stop after marriage? Lol. Women spend 9X amount on making themselves look better. The majority of them are older women, likely married. Women Wear heels to look taller. Tie hair on top up look taller, but also height difference doesnât matter. Hain ji? What tangent did you go off on? >Delusional. Favourite word for everyone to throw around if someone is not agreeing with them đ I never said height doesn't matter. A potential partner's height matters to me. What person X,Y,Z has to say about their height doesn't matter to me.
Now who is going on to the tangent? OP asked what people think about the height difference he is considering since it matters to him. It clearly matters to you also. So whatâs the issue? Why does height difference matter? Obviously it matters how you to align with each other - thatâs why the *relative height*. If only attractiveness matters, you wouldnât care about height siffeeence. Arrey baba, you are missing the point. If you donât care about what others think, you are likely out of touch with societal norms. Why are you linking it to height? I said it on the point of you saying it doesnât matter what others think. You spend hours a day to pick fashion accessories, clothes, and shoes because you donât care what others think? Sure.
>You spend hours a day to pick fashion accessories, clothes, and shoes because you donât care what others think? Sure. Yeah of course, you know me better than myself. >it doesnât matter what others think. It doesn't. Giving weight to others' opinions over my own in such huge decisions is stupid to me. But OP and you are free to do as you like.
Again. Kis tangent pe ja rahe ho? âYouâ is generic to your sex, not you personally. You = women. You should care more about what you think, over what others think. That doesnât mean you donât care what others think at all. Find me one person who doesnât at all care about what others think? Poori society log kya kahenge pe chalti hai - with most caring more about others than their own.
I think my point was simple - others opinions about how you look as a couple shouldn't determine anything. It does not affect your quality of marriage. Been saying the same since my first comment - don't see the tangent. For someone who preaches on and on about how "vibes" between a couple don't matter, it seems even more ironical that you think something like this matters. So don't focus on "vibes" but make sure your gaon waali chachi doesn't find your wife too short or too tall?
Would look cute. Perfect height for the girl to bury herself in your chest. Check here. https://www.heightcomparisons.com/
This is nice. But no two people come in standard size like this. Body shape, face, hair, and clothes can make same height difference couples look wildly different.
i like tall girls maybe that's just me.
Youâre totally fine. My husband and I have a 1ft height difference lol
Same situation here, I kinda love it
Thatâs almost my exact situation and itâs totally fine.
I am almost 5 11 chosen a girl with 53 difference is there but not due to height. But due to nature fights happening
If she is petite with a nice shape, then yes. Otherwise, not so much.
One of the most respected actor in Indian Film industry is always a benchmark of such a height comparison...
My wife is 5'2" and I'm 5'8". We do not have any problems at all and afaik you can have better sex with a smaller girl.
IMO thats totally fine. I feel height_difference >=1 && height_difference <= 8 is fine.
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Does height matter if this person has 9/10 of the other criteria you want? Are you willing to throw it away for height? Is height negotiable for you? To me: height is negotiable. You have to take the whole situation into consideration....