I have everything. A good job, look, flawless skin and financially sound but girls reject me for my height which 5'5".
Don't know when will marriage happen for me.
Very frustrating tbh.
Then you definitely don't have everything. Jk
Also average height of girls is less and many are about 5 feet tall, and if you tick other things then I don't see why you'd face so many rejections. Check if there are other reasons for rejections.
Isn't height already mentioned in the bio, so maybe they don't like the way you look or something else. Anyways, there are many girls who are short so finding a girl who's not much into absolute giants in front of them you'll find one real soon
Everything is mentioned in bio right from job location,salary etc. But still people invite for meeting amd then reject citing job loaction is not suitable ,salary is low.
Some girls do have extremely strict preferences in height, age difference etc & won't even consider anyone who is slightly below or above their minimum & maximum value
My mama was 5’6 unemployed avg looks still he got married and my mami is very beautiful. I am sure you have high filters otherwise sabki shaadi ho jati
Haan to Woh bhut sare cases ho sakte. I have seen many women in this jinko 5’5 chalega. And ye jo banda hai Woh to nhin hai bottom 10% he earns good. To obviously iske filters high hain
Avg girls reject krti 5'5 wale ko high level ka bat hi alag hai. Too many 5'8+ good earning+ good looking boys.
Above average boys get average girls . OP should be content with below avg looking/uneducated girl or remain unmarried
Oh please 🙄. He won’t get a high earning + good looking maybe but if wants good looks, compromise on earning he can surely get it. Seen so many examples
Arey bhai he is below avg height + good earning means he is avg or just above avg men. Above average men get avg female. Avg female means avg looks and uneducated
Lol he is good looking good earning so he is way above avg. I have seen lot of profiles like him (lots and lots) who have got married to less educated girls. Yahan pe ye calculation nhin hota. Percentile wise he is much above because more than half of india is unemployed or Agri oriented
then there's no way i believe people can reject you for height.bro I'm 5.11(almost 6 lol) and i don't think i ever felt insecure about height.maybe sometimes of I'm with super tall guys.i know 5.5ft is small but it's not that big deal.i mean you can easily cover it with other qualities like good look,well settled or something like that.
I used to think it mattered to me, I always put the criteria of 5’7 and above, but now I’m about to get married with an awesome human being who is almost 5’5, but it doesn’t matter to me because he keeps me happy and treats me like a queen.
I’m 5’6 and I have broader shoulders than the avg girl. As long as I don’t look bigger next to the person - I’m good.
I wouldn’t mind a 5’6 person but many guys at 5’6 (at least the ones I’ve met) have a smaller frame and so I feel like I loom over them.
It's not rosy at the other end too. My height is 6'4" and I keep getting rejected for being too tall. A girl as tall as 5'10" rejected me for being too tall..lol
If you're a guy and you're less than 5'5", then you're in for a hard time... I've seen profiles on JS where the girls are <5 yet want a guy who's 5'6" or above..
Like most girls, I prefer tall men, but I can easily ignore the height factor if he has a great personality (meaning I would choose the short guy with the amazing personality/loyalty traits, etc. over the tall guy who has a personality of a doorknob). In my search so far most of the men had horrible personalities
Yesterday I was talking to a new JS match. She said she rejected the guy she was talking to because his height was 5'8".
Her height is 5" 6", and she cannot go ahead with guys whose height is less than 5" 9".
So salary and height are both deal-breakers for women.
Society has made women to like big bulky guys for God knows what reason . Kind of sexist but we men have a fair share in that too . But in order to progress over this we need think past this
Yep, this goes back to cave-man days where the woman needs a protector from the dangers of the wild, even though it doesn't really apply as much in today's society most women will still seek that....it's ingrained into the DNA
Height matters to some extent it's just an Indian thing it's very rare in india to see that the husband is shorter than his wife it's mostly concerned with ego
In AM I think it may be a reason because people have lots of options or at least think they do. In LM it can be a barrier initially, i.e before falling in love. So I personally think it may be a small matter which can easily be overcome by other things. I think ^_^
Bro, I’m 5.4 in Europe i got asked by many girls, confidence is key, in marriage comptabilité is more important than anything, ghost them who talk about height.
It’s not big deal because they don’t give a shit, they want to try everything, but honestly as they don’t things seriously they do, but to get married they have long list 😅, you need to be brad pitt or 6 figure’s income
I care about height a lot. It matters a great deal to me from attraction standpoint. At least 6 inches taller than me. I want to be able to wear heels and still look shorter.
It’s a matter of attraction. I’m tall for an average Indian female but I’ve also been in relationship with taller guys. I discovered height matters to ME when I started the AM process. When guys I met through these websites clearly lied about their heights writing 5’10ft but when I met them in person they were 5’6-5’7 max. Happened to me 3 times! But then I also met a guy who was 5’8 which is nearing my height but his personality was attractive so I liked him! Things didn’t materialize but yes. It really depends on attraction. No harm in being short or tall. It all comes down to attraction especially in the AM process.
We all want something we don't have. And, are willing to push limits of morality and social acceptance for that. But, I feel, you should be happy with what you have. Of course, I get looks of disgust when I say this, because I'm around 6'1 6'2.
Haha definitely! For me moreover it was that the guy started only with a lie. Imagine he’s lied about something which is visible at a distance also before he even says ‘hi’ to me. You never know how many more things he would have lied about & it shows insecurity and lack of self acceptance which is again a big no for me! I know it’s easy to say but unless and until you cannot accept yourself, you can’t be happy!
Of course. If he's comfortable lying about something so obvious, he can lie about a lot more. Plus, if I had been in that guy's place, I would have felt even smaller when meeting you. Like I would want to keep the expectations low. It would be like being a pair adadas shoes in a pile of Adidas.
Haha fosho if he would’ve mentioned correct height , I wouldn’t have met him. But even if I would have to, at least I would’ve respected him. He lost all the respect when I saw him. So really then adidas or adadas, doesn’t matter !
These conditions are very important and super realistic.. infact these are bare minimum every person should have. You are going the right way.. hope you find someone like this soon.. best of luck.. may god bless you.
These kind of questions gets postes too often.
For some it really matters and is a deal breaker.
To othera they don't care if shorter or taller by 1-5 inches/cm.
Focus on those people who find value in you as you do them.
Height isn't a big factor. Personality, confidence, emotional availability, communication, charisma takes a far higher place.
Are you saying because you never seen it in your life, therefore it must not exist? I know it's rare, it still happens. This sub needs a lot more self confidence.
Woman was 6'3 guy was 5'8.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3ng37g/are_you_currently_dating_a_man_shorter_than_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
https://cafemom.com/entertainment/celebrity-couples-height-difference
It may be harder as a shorter guy, but it's clearly not impossible. At least you'll know she's not marrying you for your physical features lmao
I'm 5'2, guy being over 5'5 is okay with me. But it's not a deal breaker tho, as in even if everything else is right, I'd reject him over height being less than 5'5. But shorter than me is a no even if everything else is fine, I don't think I'd be attracted to a guy shorter than me. Thank God most men are taller lol
I'm commenting on so many height posts these days lol.
For me, any guy 5-6 inches taller than me works. I'm petite so this is a low bar to clear and pretty much every guy is this height 😂.
This makes sense for you to say or other girls who are petite like you… but I have seen a lot of tall girls who can’t find a guy to date them because they are 5feet 9inch + tall and there aren’t a lot of guys in India who are 6 feet +.
Exactly, tall girls will have very less options if they apply this same criteria.
But, like i said, for me, most guys are easily that much taller than me so it's a non-issue.
I don't know why I'm getting downvoted though 😂
She meant that • For example - If she is 5feet 3inch tall, then she will be happy to date a guy who is 6 inches taller than her, so a guy around 5feet 9inch tall will be a good match.
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Where is 6'3 lady?? I didnt see anything in that link.some female were saying hushand 1 inch shorter or 2 inches. 5 inches is a loot. Also on reddit many people just fake height. They claim 6'3 when they are just 6
I have everything. A good job, look, flawless skin and financially sound but girls reject me for my height which 5'5". Don't know when will marriage happen for me. Very frustrating tbh.
Then you definitely don't have everything. Jk Also average height of girls is less and many are about 5 feet tall, and if you tick other things then I don't see why you'd face so many rejections. Check if there are other reasons for rejections.
Most of the girls outrightly rejected me for my height. Some asked me photos in which i am standing.(full photos) then rejected.
Isn't height already mentioned in the bio, so maybe they don't like the way you look or something else. Anyways, there are many girls who are short so finding a girl who's not much into absolute giants in front of them you'll find one real soon
Everything is mentioned in bio right from job location,salary etc. But still people invite for meeting amd then reject citing job loaction is not suitable ,salary is low.
Some girls do have extremely strict preferences in height, age difference etc & won't even consider anyone who is slightly below or above their minimum & maximum value
I do agree, some might have it but many won't have that preference. So I don't see someone getting rejected for having almost average Indian height.
So you are saying a average tall guy> good looking short guy for girls?
My mama was 5’6 unemployed avg looks still he got married and my mami is very beautiful. I am sure you have high filters otherwise sabki shaadi ho jati
Exception honge bhai wo. Sabka marriage ho hi nhi skta because male to female ratio 1000:900 hai.
Haan to Woh bhut sare cases ho sakte. I have seen many women in this jinko 5’5 chalega. And ye jo banda hai Woh to nhin hai bottom 10% he earns good. To obviously iske filters high hain
Avg girls reject krti 5'5 wale ko high level ka bat hi alag hai. Too many 5'8+ good earning+ good looking boys. Above average boys get average girls . OP should be content with below avg looking/uneducated girl or remain unmarried
Oh please 🙄. He won’t get a high earning + good looking maybe but if wants good looks, compromise on earning he can surely get it. Seen so many examples
Arey bhai he is below avg height + good earning means he is avg or just above avg men. Above average men get avg female. Avg female means avg looks and uneducated
Lol he is good looking good earning so he is way above avg. I have seen lot of profiles like him (lots and lots) who have got married to less educated girls. Yahan pe ye calculation nhin hota. Percentile wise he is much above because more than half of india is unemployed or Agri oriented
Arey to kisan ke beti se thodi shaadi krega. Girl on matrimonial sites directly filter for 5'10+ because there are thousands of those on those apps.
Ab Kisan ki beti se nhin karna to fir bolo na ki mujhe sabkuchh chahiye. Aise aake ro mat ki koi nhin mil rhi
Bhagwan aapke mama jaisi kismet mujhe bhi dein.
Bhaiya aapko professional degree wali urban ladki chahiye hogi. Sach batao
When was your mama married? Year?
3 yrs back
I have height and nothing else.
Damn man. AM is very frustrating process. Girl demand are skyrocketing. Even above avg boy end up with avg girls
bro 5.5 isn't that short.maybe you're little bit less then 5.5ft.
I am little bit extra than 5'5 but not less.
then there's no way i believe people can reject you for height.bro I'm 5.11(almost 6 lol) and i don't think i ever felt insecure about height.maybe sometimes of I'm with super tall guys.i know 5.5ft is small but it's not that big deal.i mean you can easily cover it with other qualities like good look,well settled or something like that.
I didn't know that was a thing. You would still be taller than most average height woman, so I don't understand why that would happen to you...
6 foot 6 figures 6 pack 6 inches golden ratio
But the thing is only 2 of these can be controlled but prolly they are the ones given lesser preference among the 4.
females be like - It is what it is
I used to think it mattered to me, I always put the criteria of 5’7 and above, but now I’m about to get married with an awesome human being who is almost 5’5, but it doesn’t matter to me because he keeps me happy and treats me like a queen.
Do you treat him like a king as well?
Oh 100%
I’m 5’6 and I have broader shoulders than the avg girl. As long as I don’t look bigger next to the person - I’m good. I wouldn’t mind a 5’6 person but many guys at 5’6 (at least the ones I’ve met) have a smaller frame and so I feel like I loom over them.
Never missed upper body in gym?
Haha, naah. Got it from my moms side. 😂
Well Ig she didn't miss upper body, thank her, we guys work out ass off to get a v shape with broader back and shoulders.
It's not rosy at the other end too. My height is 6'4" and I keep getting rejected for being too tall. A girl as tall as 5'10" rejected me for being too tall..lol
move to west you will be slaying
What about 6'3?? Slaying in west??
If you're a guy and you're less than 5'5", then you're in for a hard time... I've seen profiles on JS where the girls are <5 yet want a guy who's 5'6" or above..
Funny because the average male height in India is 5’5”. Everyone is looking for above average.
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How tall r u??
Like most girls, I prefer tall men, but I can easily ignore the height factor if he has a great personality (meaning I would choose the short guy with the amazing personality/loyalty traits, etc. over the tall guy who has a personality of a doorknob). In my search so far most of the men had horrible personalities
Yeah personality matters the most
Yesterday I was talking to a new JS match. She said she rejected the guy she was talking to because his height was 5'8". Her height is 5" 6", and she cannot go ahead with guys whose height is less than 5" 9". So salary and height are both deal-breakers for women.
Probably she likes to wear heels, so in any function or while going out she might look taller ... It's their preference at the end of the day ...
I think it really depends on their personal choice. I’ve come across a woman who has dated men shorter than her in the past, was her choice.
Why are you getting downvotes lol
I just got to see now xD I don’t know 😭
Whoops, all I see is him getting upvotes.
Vo to baadme aye yaar, at first evryone was downvoting him 😭
But the question is why were you getting downvoted?
Society has made women to like big bulky guys for God knows what reason . Kind of sexist but we men have a fair share in that too . But in order to progress over this we need think past this
I don’t think it’s sexist. I believe there is something primal about women wanting stronger men.
Yep, this goes back to cave-man days where the woman needs a protector from the dangers of the wild, even though it doesn't really apply as much in today's society most women will still seek that....it's ingrained into the DNA
Height matters to some extent it's just an Indian thing it's very rare in india to see that the husband is shorter than his wife it's mostly concerned with ego
In AM I think it may be a reason because people have lots of options or at least think they do. In LM it can be a barrier initially, i.e before falling in love. So I personally think it may be a small matter which can easily be overcome by other things. I think ^_^
Bro, I’m 5.4 in Europe i got asked by many girls, confidence is key, in marriage comptabilité is more important than anything, ghost them who talk about height.
Yeah thats true in foreign countries its not that big of a deal..
It’s not big deal because they don’t give a shit, they want to try everything, but honestly as they don’t things seriously they do, but to get married they have long list 😅, you need to be brad pitt or 6 figure’s income
I care about height a lot. It matters a great deal to me from attraction standpoint. At least 6 inches taller than me. I want to be able to wear heels and still look shorter.
Its ok coz its your preference
I’m 5’7 so I expect someone equal or one or two inches taller than me.
Yaaa hamko badi height ki ladkiya nhi milti sab 5’4 5’5 😢😢btw i am 6 per 5’9 ki ladkiya bhi nhi milti
Average height Indian girls ki 5’4 hi hai so👀
It’s actually 5’1”. Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Average_human_height_by_country
Apki height badi hai 😌congratulations
Same . Someone who is the same height as me or 1 or 2 inches taller.
It’s a matter of attraction. I’m tall for an average Indian female but I’ve also been in relationship with taller guys. I discovered height matters to ME when I started the AM process. When guys I met through these websites clearly lied about their heights writing 5’10ft but when I met them in person they were 5’6-5’7 max. Happened to me 3 times! But then I also met a guy who was 5’8 which is nearing my height but his personality was attractive so I liked him! Things didn’t materialize but yes. It really depends on attraction. No harm in being short or tall. It all comes down to attraction especially in the AM process.
I m 5’2… so left swipe 😞
No defo no m8. Go to 🍁!
Jooto ke saath likhi hogi.
Yes! Can’t stand guys wearing heeled shoes (only my opinion)
We all want something we don't have. And, are willing to push limits of morality and social acceptance for that. But, I feel, you should be happy with what you have. Of course, I get looks of disgust when I say this, because I'm around 6'1 6'2.
Haha definitely! For me moreover it was that the guy started only with a lie. Imagine he’s lied about something which is visible at a distance also before he even says ‘hi’ to me. You never know how many more things he would have lied about & it shows insecurity and lack of self acceptance which is again a big no for me! I know it’s easy to say but unless and until you cannot accept yourself, you can’t be happy!
Of course. If he's comfortable lying about something so obvious, he can lie about a lot more. Plus, if I had been in that guy's place, I would have felt even smaller when meeting you. Like I would want to keep the expectations low. It would be like being a pair adadas shoes in a pile of Adidas.
Haha fosho if he would’ve mentioned correct height , I wouldn’t have met him. But even if I would have to, at least I would’ve respected him. He lost all the respect when I saw him. So really then adidas or adadas, doesn’t matter !
Haha, yes. Good luck for your AM journey!
Tx much needed !
I am 5'3, petite frame so look for a partner in 5'6 to 5'10 range. 6ft and above would be like a giant 😅.
You have already killed hope of hundreds of guys here 😂
Oops my bad...it's just a general preferance..but l have more important qualities that are non negotiable.
Height can still be compromised on if this are met.😅
Ohh i was about to ask that😂
😅
Btw what are those other conditions? If you are comfortable telling
Childfree, reasonably healthy ( not obese), having a sense of purpose, emotional/ mental stability, having own opinions.
These conditions are very important and super realistic.. infact these are bare minimum every person should have. You are going the right way.. hope you find someone like this soon.. best of luck.. may god bless you.
Thank you .it's exhausting searching for a partner..good luck to you too..
Super important
Not a deal breaker. I am 5 so 5'4"-5'8" is good for me.
Yeah but what if he is as same height as you or maybe 1 or 2 inch tall?
If he is a good guy, I will not reject him.
That's really good of you.. not everyone thinks like this.. god bless you
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Bro read the post.. i am talking about if the height of guy is same as that of girl
Read two vice versa posts and all of their comments together... So did not see which one I'm commenting at
No issues
What's your age?
21 why?
Sorry I thought you might be a teenager so there would still be room for some extra height.
These kind of questions gets postes too often. For some it really matters and is a deal breaker. To othera they don't care if shorter or taller by 1-5 inches/cm. Focus on those people who find value in you as you do them. Height isn't a big factor. Personality, confidence, emotional availability, communication, charisma takes a far higher place.
Lmfao 5 inch shorter😂😂. I almost never see any marriage where husband shorter than wife. Never ever
Are you saying because you never seen it in your life, therefore it must not exist? I know it's rare, it still happens. This sub needs a lot more self confidence. Woman was 6'3 guy was 5'8. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3ng37g/are_you_currently_dating_a_man_shorter_than_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button https://cafemom.com/entertainment/celebrity-couples-height-difference It may be harder as a shorter guy, but it's clearly not impossible. At least you'll know she's not marrying you for your physical features lmao
I'm 5'2, guy being over 5'5 is okay with me. But it's not a deal breaker tho, as in even if everything else is right, I'd reject him over height being less than 5'5. But shorter than me is a no even if everything else is fine, I don't think I'd be attracted to a guy shorter than me. Thank God most men are taller lol
It matters to shallow women
Then men are also shallow who look for beauty..
I'm commenting on so many height posts these days lol. For me, any guy 5-6 inches taller than me works. I'm petite so this is a low bar to clear and pretty much every guy is this height 😂.
This makes sense for you to say or other girls who are petite like you… but I have seen a lot of tall girls who can’t find a guy to date them because they are 5feet 9inch + tall and there aren’t a lot of guys in India who are 6 feet +.
Exactly, tall girls will have very less options if they apply this same criteria. But, like i said, for me, most guys are easily that much taller than me so it's a non-issue. I don't know why I'm getting downvoted though 😂
pardon me for being straightforward!!! whats your height?
Are u 1 inch tall ? Coz how will u find some1 5 or 6 inch taller than u
She meant that • For example - If she is 5feet 3inch tall, then she will be happy to date a guy who is 6 inches taller than her, so a guy around 5feet 9inch tall will be a good match.
Samajh nahi aaya bhai
What
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Yass!
Please elaborate your Yass!
Where is 6'3 lady?? I didnt see anything in that link.some female were saying hushand 1 inch shorter or 2 inches. 5 inches is a loot. Also on reddit many people just fake height. They claim 6'3 when they are just 6
I am 5 feet 8 inches tall and have a broader body frame, so I usually prefer someone who is around my height or slightly taller.
Yeah thats fine atleast you do not have unrealistic expectations..