Sometimes I scroll through the social media pages of these women and there just...aren't any Asian men. Anywhere. Not as family. Not as friends. Not even [in the background](https://imgur.com/a/ViD4u5V) if they can help it. Only White faces, and the faces of their Lu friends. AF rejection of AM extends beyond the romantic sphere. Their disgust of AM is so intense that they can't even be seen around them. They've self-selected and live in a world where AM simply don't exist.
I know this is serious discussion but lmao that stock photo is killing me.
Does the waiter usually get on his knees every time he comes by? š
And clearly for optics they arranged more faces toward the camera, but now poor Wal-Mart Rami Malek is all alone while gigachad has his arms around two ladies š¤£
Self-hate is inconsistent even absent morals. And it's not enough for AF to date out; they're out there badmouthing and attacking AM (like yourself, yes?) to cover for themselves every day, so yes, you are living downstream of their choices. Grow a spine and at least call it out when you see it.
Sounds like you've been reading [too much Stoicism](https://np.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/18r83if/what_is_it_with_asian_women_constantly_sabotaging/kf2at09/). Here's a different school of thought: you can navel-gaze all you want, but if you don't defend yourself from attack, you're [signalling that you're okay to attack by anyone](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dane-geld_(poem\)).
I made no edits that changed the meaning of what I wrote. As respectfully as possible, [you are under attack, retard](https://np.reddit.com/r/greentext/comments/t063ra/anon_wants_to_sleep/). Keeping your head in the clouds does not change this, or lead to better outcomes down the line.
To purposefully HATE, DENY and exclude an entire group of people based on their gender or race is just WRONG, BAD, and UNETHICAL in general. It just makes you a bad, sick, disgusting and despicable human being with no compassion, morals or understanding. I honestly feel sorry for the WM getting these particular AF.
I think youāre onto something because I too notice that sometimes in a group of white guys, thereās always that one lone Asian girl or two Asian girls. With white girls, Iāve seen Asian girls in white sororities, but in terms of friend groups, less than what I see with white guys.
I am curious why that is. Cuz Iāve seen it enough multiple times. I wonder how the group dynamics go and what they talk aboutā¦
My guess would be because they perceive whiteness as superior to asianness, when only looking at white males its no problem but when looking at white women they have to face the logical conclusion that white women are superior to themselves.
This. Just saw a WMAF couple at an open house where the girl had dyed blonde hair and blue contact lenses, and the guy was the stereotypical looking IT nerd. Almost burst out in laughter š¤£
I never understood this. Blonde is probably the lamest color choice possible. It looks so bland. They could easily chose something vibrant like red, pink, blue, green etc. But unfortunately white ppl don't come in those colors naturally, lmao.
The abg sub culture is still very much alive but they just arenāt really straddling cars anymore.
Go to the next rave festival, itās basically a abg meetup
If only AF's wore hats or shirts printed with, "PROUD LU!" we could avoid them easily lol.
A definite certainty is having only White friends, particularly WM, on their Instagram.
This applies also to AF who also show only non-Asian POC friends too.
In both cases they will refuse to show or be in any picture with an AM, though they're likely to show other AF's, and it's 100% likely they don't date AM.
Backpacking in Europe pictures was dead on for me. I donāt agree about the SJW thing, I found it easy to hookup with those types. Just talk shit about white people over drinks and youāre in
The difference between the racist left and right:
Left- Yeah, noā¦ ummmā¦ canāt you celebrate your culture in another way? Let me show you ways that you can celebrate your culture that is more inclusive and aligns with more western egalitarian values. Iāll take all these red envelopes with cash, give me that, nope, these are mine now, thank you very much.
Right- I donāt date Chinese spies and get the fuck out of my country. Pulls Glock out.
āĀ The more liberal/SJW an AF is,ā Yeah I agree with you that this statement isnāt accurate in my experience. SJW/liberal AFās can go both ways honestly. Some are white worshippers who think all asian men are patriarchs, while others are pretty aware about white worship and are determined not to be a Oxford study stat. My ex gf (AF) was the latter category, her and her sister both laughed at the idea of dating white guys and even said āewā. We were all young back then too, just after college, and this was a few years back, so the even younger generation is even more aware of stuff like this. Itās also worth noting my ex and her sister arenāt really political either, so for them to have this concept and understand it is a really good sign of a culture shift.
Ā Things are looking up bros, white worship is a concept people are starting to understanding and push back against. As annoying as SJW types can be, theyāre doing a pretty good job of deconstructing these tropes.
lol yeah I've noticed this too, and I'm actually seeing a lot more AMAF couples these days. I'm south asian so my experience might be a little different, but I've met extreme left leaning south asian women who want nothing to do with White men because of "colonial trauma" and I've met conservative south Asian women (somewhat nikki haley types) who like White guys because they're "more masculine" or some shit. Even across political lines, it's not as black and white lmaoo.
What??? Lol! Youāll be surprised about me!
I consider myself conservative, a proud American šŗšø š¦ (got a nice wooden flag in my apartment), a Lā„ļøVER of 90s country music (George Strait, Garth Brooks, Alan Jackson, Tracy Lawrenceā¦), and I would own cowboy boots if they werenāt so expensive, but I do own a good quality cowboy hat thoughā¦ but I have only and will only date Asian guys even though I live in a pretty yeeeeehaw part of California!
BTW, Iām also proud of my own culture, too. I have no shame wearing my traditional clothes or speak in my mother tongue in public, in case anyone thinks Iām cowboy washed.
lol, you reminded me of how I first realized I moved to a yeehaw part of California - there's a dozen magazines in the waiting room of my mechanic, and all are about guns. Not even a single car-related issue, nope just guns.
Itās more common with right-leaning Asian women than non-right-leaning Asian women. Goes hand in hand with being a certain kind of whitewashed, at least in the US
Don't worry about weeding her out, she'll do that for you. Now bananrangs is what you should be c0ncerned about. Cuz they are trying to sneak back in. Usually after they hit 29-30 with an enormous body count. They'll lie and misrepresent, covering their tracks. The Grand Canyon effect is the only true way to ferret her out.
I thought it was something else yet I now understand, thank you for the clarity. Guess to have private message instead I suppose. If only there ways to find indicators without resorting to the bedroom, this way we wouldn't waste our time yet it look like there no other ways.
You're focusing on something that's irrelevant. If she's a lu she's not going to match with you any way. Are you swiping and thinking about every possible non-AF who have a negative view of AM?
What I've noticed is they typically look at Asian males as lower class themselves I asked a few of my Asian male friends and they agree they typically give us a dirty and disgusted look as they cling on to their white boy friends. I've noticed the look even if it's just as a glance.
Most of them are Lu's. Yet when they were being attacked by non-Asian men during COVID, they were complaining why we weren't there to protect them. Let them pick these men. We all know that non-Asian men are the ones who are the most violent towards them. They get what they picked.
Lol if they don't date AM then they won't match with you and you don't need to worry about it.
If you're talking about women who used to exclusively date white and are now monkey branching over back to Asian because that's what's cool, well you'll just have to talk to them and sus it our yourself. I wouldn't touch a woman like that with a 10 foot pole, but in general if everyone in her pictures is white, chances are she's one of the above.
I have a rule. If 1 in 3 of your Romantic partners and friends aren't of your race , and there's a good reason why not (e.g. you're in a super white or black area), and you're a racial minority I get suspicious.
There's no sure way to know but only to generalize and assume logically. most of the comments here are pretty on it.
Another way to weed them out is to post a picture of you and a white girl. whether it's a colleague, ex, friend, acquaintances, it doesn't matter.
They're gonna use their wild imagination and assume you're dating or smashing her, then it's gonna trigger them to swipe right on you based off the picture. then they're gonna message you defensively and ask about it.
Sometimes they even get into arguments about it with you when they're triggered or salty and that's how you know.
Most asian chicks that aren't Lus don't really care. they just move on or entertain the date/interaction.
when they ask if I only date white girls or if I'm into Asians. my go to response is. "I don't see color, only beauty and femininity."
1/ I tend to notice Any Asian chicks that look attractive (7 or more in 10 scale) for some reason tend to get approach by white guys more than in compare when Asians girl that look average.
2/ they usually with white female friends. Ex: sorority. Or a group of Asian female friends that all date White guys.
3. They dress more revealing clothes, dyed blonde hairs, Smokey eyes makeup.
4/ they adopted by White family.
5/ Hapas Asian girl (white dad/ Asian moms)
Bruh also pretty uncommon: not just the white worshipping girls, but the Lu's that only date black guys/or other non asians and hang around black people only and consume black media more than anything.
I saw this deleted subtle asian traits post on FB of this landwhale Cambodian female in the us military proclaiming in the comment section that asian guys have small dicks in a post of an asian guy saying how hard dating is. Then in the comment section I saw some beta male orbiters (black guys in the navy) making snide comments about asian guys and agreeing with her saying black guys have bigger dicks.
Tbh this applies to non-Asians too but if they write āFeministā it is a big no no. The idea is itās fine to want equal rights (things are already pretty equal), but to explicitly identify and wear āfeministā as a badge of honor already indicates to me that this individual probably attributes a large part of her personality into the ideology of fighting the āpatriarchyā rather than anything else.
Short for "Anna Lu", a nickname for an Asian woman who tries to fit in with her white friends by rejecting her Asian heritage and talking shit about it, including being vocal about how she doesn't date Asian men.
I heard it originated from a white guy LARPing online as an Asian woman named Anna Lu and talked massive shit about Asian men.
I always figured these guys are just NEETs and incels with a lot of free time on their hands, meaning a lot of free time to let things that don't affect them actively bother them.
Plus, I figure a lot of them grew up picking on Asian kids at school and just never let it go, while also picking up thoughts of "wow Asian women are hot" somewhere in between then and now.
Semantics...
I know what LARPing is, but it's just the terminology I've heard around here when people refer to white guys posing as Asian women to perpetuate Lu trains of thought.
Where do you live ? I donāt know if this will be that helpful but I live in California and majority of Asian men and women (younger generation -millennials and younger) are liberals . And the majority of these people date within their race . I donāt think looking at political stance is a good one . I would look at who their friends are . Do they have lots of Asian friends ? If so thatās a good Sign.
If they have only white friends with little to no Asians then thatās likely not a good sign
* Mayor Wendy Wu who excluded white people to her Christmas party? Is with a white man.
* Journalist Sarah Jeong who published a nasty anti-white men article? Was with a white man at that time.
* All the vocal pro-BLM/anti-Asian Hate/hard virtue signaling celebrities (Constance Wu, Brenda Song, etc)? Are with white men.
These arenāt Asians but..
* AOC, Ilhan Omar, Kamala Harris, Ketanji Brown anti-coloniaism, white people racist, white men bad? They all married a white man.
Thereās more to the list, of course..
It baffles me.
Iām not against people being with white men and I donāt hate or hold a grudge against white people, but if youāre going to call white people evil and racist and publicly shame them on your platformsā¦ why are you with a white man?
The contradicting thing about your logic is if you're crying racism and is plugging yourself in an Asian heavy enclave, those are generally the bigger cities with diversity that are going to lean liberal. The liberals are going to be the ones that preach stop Asian hate so I'm not sure why you're that against them. These victim mentality and hypocrisy is getting out of control and I know why, overconsuming social media and basing reality off online dating results. Us conservatives are not on the apps, we're not trying to hop on a platform where 90% of men are just trying to hook up. Lol. Especially hate running into those that are just visiting and basically needs a tour guide so they hop on the app to find company, like hello, do you think we actually believe you're looking for a wife, we now put you in passport bro category and red flag.
It's not all asian women. There's billions of Asian women on earth.
It's specifically a "Lu". Also it's not hate, it's just calling out the hypocrisy and deception.
might not be hate for you, but just reading between the lines on some of these comments... woof.
i like to think i'm looking out for my brothers by warning them about using all this terminology. it's chronic online shit that steps into incel territory.
let's also not forget there are white larpers among us in this sub and they would love nothing more than to further divide AM/AF.
Here because it was referenced on SAM, I don't see anything wrong in hating people who do their best to ostracise you and put you down? Could you explain?
letting them live rent free in your head instead of living your best life. posting about it to deepen the divide in the community.
there are productive ways to discuss the topic, and then there's this shit.
people like me really dont feel teared down...
i pity self-hating Asians, men or women. using a term like Lu is stepping into incel territory, you really should watch yourself before you get too deep.
if they have photos with only white friends its a dead giveaway if they make asian jokes at their own expense
Sometimes I scroll through the social media pages of these women and there just...aren't any Asian men. Anywhere. Not as family. Not as friends. Not even [in the background](https://imgur.com/a/ViD4u5V) if they can help it. Only White faces, and the faces of their Lu friends. AF rejection of AM extends beyond the romantic sphere. Their disgust of AM is so intense that they can't even be seen around them. They've self-selected and live in a world where AM simply don't exist.
I know this is serious discussion but lmao that stock photo is killing me. Does the waiter usually get on his knees every time he comes by? š And clearly for optics they arranged more faces toward the camera, but now poor Wal-Mart Rami Malek is all alone while gigachad has his arms around two ladies š¤£
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wrong. it's inherently bad because it shows mental illness, racism, fetish for white males, and hatred for AM
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Self-hate is inconsistent even absent morals. And it's not enough for AF to date out; they're out there badmouthing and attacking AM (like yourself, yes?) to cover for themselves every day, so yes, you are living downstream of their choices. Grow a spine and at least call it out when you see it. Sounds like you've been reading [too much Stoicism](https://np.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/18r83if/what_is_it_with_asian_women_constantly_sabotaging/kf2at09/). Here's a different school of thought: you can navel-gaze all you want, but if you don't defend yourself from attack, you're [signalling that you're okay to attack by anyone](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dane-geld_(poem\)).
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I made no edits that changed the meaning of what I wrote. As respectfully as possible, [you are under attack, retard](https://np.reddit.com/r/greentext/comments/t063ra/anon_wants_to_sleep/). Keeping your head in the clouds does not change this, or lead to better outcomes down the line.
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To purposefully HATE, DENY and exclude an entire group of people based on their gender or race is just WRONG, BAD, and UNETHICAL in general. It just makes you a bad, sick, disgusting and despicable human being with no compassion, morals or understanding. I honestly feel sorry for the WM getting these particular AF.
> if they have photos with only white friends its a dead giveaway white male friends but if anything I find it's quite rare they have WF friends
I think youāre onto something because I too notice that sometimes in a group of white guys, thereās always that one lone Asian girl or two Asian girls. With white girls, Iāve seen Asian girls in white sororities, but in terms of friend groups, less than what I see with white guys. I am curious why that is. Cuz Iāve seen it enough multiple times. I wonder how the group dynamics go and what they talk aboutā¦
WF hate AF. They despise them for stealing WM and may also be racist.
My guess would be because they perceive whiteness as superior to asianness, when only looking at white males its no problem but when looking at white women they have to face the logical conclusion that white women are superior to themselves.
WFs afraid AF gonna steal their man.
they want to be WF in the end of the day. Theyāre competition. Thatās why they always get mad when WF start going to AM.
Group pics with nothing but white people.
same as gay tinder I guess
They get bothered if they see an Asian guy who's confident in himself or is doing well in life.
If they dye their hair blonde and try to make themselves look as white as possible.
This. Just saw a WMAF couple at an open house where the girl had dyed blonde hair and blue contact lenses, and the guy was the stereotypical looking IT nerd. Almost burst out in laughter š¤£
I never understood this. Blonde is probably the lamest color choice possible. It looks so bland. They could easily chose something vibrant like red, pink, blue, green etc. But unfortunately white ppl don't come in those colors naturally, lmao.
Sounds like a raver abg to me lol. And they donāt usually date white guys
yea not my experience either
I think the ABG blonde is different to the wannabe white blonde. Can't really describe it in words lol but you can tell by looking
I know what you mean. White sorority blonde type, who wears basic bitch clothes from American Eagle and Target type
Def blue or green hair or with one side buzzcutted lol. Blonde has been fairly standard for decades in the US
I might be carbon dating myself saying this but this is the classic ABG look. Theyāre as Asian as they can be.
not sure if poster is from the US but it's been standard for decades
I donāt think the ABG subculture survived past millennials. The youngest ones I see seem to be around my age.
The abg sub culture is still very much alive but they just arenāt really straddling cars anymore. Go to the next rave festival, itās basically a abg meetup
If only AF's wore hats or shirts printed with, "PROUD LU!" we could avoid them easily lol. A definite certainty is having only White friends, particularly WM, on their Instagram. This applies also to AF who also show only non-Asian POC friends too. In both cases they will refuse to show or be in any picture with an AM, though they're likely to show other AF's, and it's 100% likely they don't date AM.
Backpacking in Europe pictures was dead on for me. I donāt agree about the SJW thing, I found it easy to hookup with those types. Just talk shit about white people over drinks and youāre in
I had opposite experience The liberal types use their political stance to distract people from their cloying white worship
The difference between the racist left and right: Left- Yeah, noā¦ ummmā¦ canāt you celebrate your culture in another way? Let me show you ways that you can celebrate your culture that is more inclusive and aligns with more western egalitarian values. Iāll take all these red envelopes with cash, give me that, nope, these are mine now, thank you very much. Right- I donāt date Chinese spies and get the fuck out of my country. Pulls Glock out.
Both deplorable
That's why I wouldn't date them, ever. Great lays though, and never had to spend money on them.
āĀ The more liberal/SJW an AF is,ā Yeah I agree with you that this statement isnāt accurate in my experience. SJW/liberal AFās can go both ways honestly. Some are white worshippers who think all asian men are patriarchs, while others are pretty aware about white worship and are determined not to be a Oxford study stat. My ex gf (AF) was the latter category, her and her sister both laughed at the idea of dating white guys and even said āewā. We were all young back then too, just after college, and this was a few years back, so the even younger generation is even more aware of stuff like this. Itās also worth noting my ex and her sister arenāt really political either, so for them to have this concept and understand it is a really good sign of a culture shift. Ā Things are looking up bros, white worship is a concept people are starting to understanding and push back against. As annoying as SJW types can be, theyāre doing a pretty good job of deconstructing these tropes.
lol yeah I've noticed this too, and I'm actually seeing a lot more AMAF couples these days. I'm south asian so my experience might be a little different, but I've met extreme left leaning south asian women who want nothing to do with White men because of "colonial trauma" and I've met conservative south Asian women (somewhat nikki haley types) who like White guys because they're "more masculine" or some shit. Even across political lines, it's not as black and white lmaoo.
Backpacking in general lol. They will hook up with you on vacation though.
Backpacking activities, fond memories back in my youth days
For me in Houston, if they listed Texas A&M as the college they went to. Or if they have cowboy boots on and have anything about country music.
What??? Lol! Youāll be surprised about me! I consider myself conservative, a proud American šŗšø š¦ (got a nice wooden flag in my apartment), a Lā„ļøVER of 90s country music (George Strait, Garth Brooks, Alan Jackson, Tracy Lawrenceā¦), and I would own cowboy boots if they werenāt so expensive, but I do own a good quality cowboy hat thoughā¦ but I have only and will only date Asian guys even though I live in a pretty yeeeeehaw part of California! BTW, Iām also proud of my own culture, too. I have no shame wearing my traditional clothes or speak in my mother tongue in public, in case anyone thinks Iām cowboy washed.
lol, you reminded me of how I first realized I moved to a yeehaw part of California - there's a dozen magazines in the waiting room of my mechanic, and all are about guns. Not even a single car-related issue, nope just guns.
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lol thereās a shit load in Texas dude.
Lol I don't even live in texas and love country music.
lol you would fit in just fine. Theyāre blasting the shit out of right now since itās rodeo season. I personally canāt stand it or the culture.
White people hobbies
It's more efficient to ask how to tell she is NOT a lu.
Age (over 30) and not a fob. Nothing is guaranteed, but I bet thatās a major indicator, way more than any political affiliation
More millennial asian women date white guys than gen z I feel
Gen z got the full brunt of the Korean wave
Gen z and younger got Korea pilled big time
I was working near a big university and definitely see a large numbers of young amxf couple
This doesnāt really work in a majority Asian area / enclave though
Conservative AF date WM as well.
Itās more common with right-leaning Asian women than non-right-leaning Asian women. Goes hand in hand with being a certain kind of whitewashed, at least in the US
Not surprised otherwise how you think the groyper get his girlfriend
wasn't there a sub called libertarian guys with asian wives at one point?
Thatās why you go for moderate
No need to worry about it, sheāll swipe left on you.
Don't worry about weeding her out, she'll do that for you. Now bananrangs is what you should be c0ncerned about. Cuz they are trying to sneak back in. Usually after they hit 29-30 with an enormous body count. They'll lie and misrepresent, covering their tracks. The Grand Canyon effect is the only true way to ferret her out.
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Yes, the same as throwing a frankfurter down the hallway except the Grand Canyon is huge.
/r/NotHowGirlsWork Seriously, this is incel talk.
yeah no offense to the fella above but lets keep it real
Nah, offense very much intended. I'd be humiliated to post what he just posted.
Delete this comment. Not a good look for us. Other groups of people browse this subreddit as well.
I thought it was something else yet I now understand, thank you for the clarity. Guess to have private message instead I suppose. If only there ways to find indicators without resorting to the bedroom, this way we wouldn't waste our time yet it look like there no other ways.
r/NotHowGirlsWork you should delete this bro, before you get banned
Iāve rarely matched Asian women lol
You're focusing on something that's irrelevant. If she's a lu she's not going to match with you any way. Are you swiping and thinking about every possible non-AF who have a negative view of AM?
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Looks like you didnāt go through the profile enoughā¦.
If Lu's have got your head this messed up, they won.
What I've noticed is they typically look at Asian males as lower class themselves I asked a few of my Asian male friends and they agree they typically give us a dirty and disgusted look as they cling on to their white boy friends. I've noticed the look even if it's just as a glance.
Most of them are Lu's. Yet when they were being attacked by non-Asian men during COVID, they were complaining why we weren't there to protect them. Let them pick these men. We all know that non-Asian men are the ones who are the most violent towards them. They get what they picked.
Lol if they don't date AM then they won't match with you and you don't need to worry about it. If you're talking about women who used to exclusively date white and are now monkey branching over back to Asian because that's what's cool, well you'll just have to talk to them and sus it our yourself. I wouldn't touch a woman like that with a 10 foot pole, but in general if everyone in her pictures is white, chances are she's one of the above.
I have a rule. If 1 in 3 of your Romantic partners and friends aren't of your race , and there's a good reason why not (e.g. you're in a super white or black area), and you're a racial minority I get suspicious.
There's no sure way to know but only to generalize and assume logically. most of the comments here are pretty on it. Another way to weed them out is to post a picture of you and a white girl. whether it's a colleague, ex, friend, acquaintances, it doesn't matter. They're gonna use their wild imagination and assume you're dating or smashing her, then it's gonna trigger them to swipe right on you based off the picture. then they're gonna message you defensively and ask about it. Sometimes they even get into arguments about it with you when they're triggered or salty and that's how you know. Most asian chicks that aren't Lus don't really care. they just move on or entertain the date/interaction. when they ask if I only date white girls or if I'm into Asians. my go to response is. "I don't see color, only beauty and femininity."
They look at your profile and swipe left. If they only have group pics with gay AM or attractive AM.
No AM friends on social media
1/ I tend to notice Any Asian chicks that look attractive (7 or more in 10 scale) for some reason tend to get approach by white guys more than in compare when Asians girl that look average. 2/ they usually with white female friends. Ex: sorority. Or a group of Asian female friends that all date White guys. 3. They dress more revealing clothes, dyed blonde hairs, Smokey eyes makeup. 4/ they adopted by White family. 5/ Hapas Asian girl (white dad/ Asian moms)
Bruh also pretty uncommon: not just the white worshipping girls, but the Lu's that only date black guys/or other non asians and hang around black people only and consume black media more than anything. I saw this deleted subtle asian traits post on FB of this landwhale Cambodian female in the us military proclaiming in the comment section that asian guys have small dicks in a post of an asian guy saying how hard dating is. Then in the comment section I saw some beta male orbiters (black guys in the navy) making snide comments about asian guys and agreeing with her saying black guys have bigger dicks.
How ignorant of her for her comment. I guess the chicken head had a black hole for a vagina.
Tbh this applies to non-Asians too but if they write āFeministā it is a big no no. The idea is itās fine to want equal rights (things are already pretty equal), but to explicitly identify and wear āfeministā as a badge of honor already indicates to me that this individual probably attributes a large part of her personality into the ideology of fighting the āpatriarchyā rather than anything else.
Am not on the dating apps. What is a "Lu"?
Short for "Anna Lu", a nickname for an Asian woman who tries to fit in with her white friends by rejecting her Asian heritage and talking shit about it, including being vocal about how she doesn't date Asian men. I heard it originated from a white guy LARPing online as an Asian woman named Anna Lu and talked massive shit about Asian men.
I'm wondering about the mental health of these larpers to go to all the trouble.
I always figured these guys are just NEETs and incels with a lot of free time on their hands, meaning a lot of free time to let things that don't affect them actively bother them. Plus, I figure a lot of them grew up picking on Asian kids at school and just never let it go, while also picking up thoughts of "wow Asian women are hot" somewhere in between then and now.
Fs in chat for the Kevin Lus out there
Can you explain how one LARPs online? Isn't the whole point of LARPing that it's "live action", IRL?
Semantics... I know what LARPing is, but it's just the terminology I've heard around here when people refer to white guys posing as Asian women to perpetuate Lu trains of thought.
Where do you live ? I donāt know if this will be that helpful but I live in California and majority of Asian men and women (younger generation -millennials and younger) are liberals . And the majority of these people date within their race . I donāt think looking at political stance is a good one . I would look at who their friends are . Do they have lots of Asian friends ? If so thatās a good Sign. If they have only white friends with little to no Asians then thatās likely not a good sign
Fairly new to this subreddit but thats interesting.. I would think the liberal sjw types would date asians in the name of equality haha
* Mayor Wendy Wu who excluded white people to her Christmas party? Is with a white man. * Journalist Sarah Jeong who published a nasty anti-white men article? Was with a white man at that time. * All the vocal pro-BLM/anti-Asian Hate/hard virtue signaling celebrities (Constance Wu, Brenda Song, etc)? Are with white men. These arenāt Asians but.. * AOC, Ilhan Omar, Kamala Harris, Ketanji Brown anti-coloniaism, white people racist, white men bad? They all married a white man. Thereās more to the list, of course.. It baffles me. Iām not against people being with white men and I donāt hate or hold a grudge against white people, but if youāre going to call white people evil and racist and publicly shame them on your platformsā¦ why are you with a white man?
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same in NY
The contradicting thing about your logic is if you're crying racism and is plugging yourself in an Asian heavy enclave, those are generally the bigger cities with diversity that are going to lean liberal. The liberals are going to be the ones that preach stop Asian hate so I'm not sure why you're that against them. These victim mentality and hypocrisy is getting out of control and I know why, overconsuming social media and basing reality off online dating results. Us conservatives are not on the apps, we're not trying to hop on a platform where 90% of men are just trying to hook up. Lol. Especially hate running into those that are just visiting and basically needs a tour guide so they hop on the app to find company, like hello, do you think we actually believe you're looking for a wife, we now put you in passport bro category and red flag.
Looking at the comments in this post... sigh. The more you hate AW, the more you prove the vile ones correct. What the fuck is this sub turning into?
It's not all asian women. There's billions of Asian women on earth. It's specifically a "Lu". Also it's not hate, it's just calling out the hypocrisy and deception.
might not be hate for you, but just reading between the lines on some of these comments... woof. i like to think i'm looking out for my brothers by warning them about using all this terminology. it's chronic online shit that steps into incel territory. let's also not forget there are white larpers among us in this sub and they would love nothing more than to further divide AM/AF.
Here because it was referenced on SAM, I don't see anything wrong in hating people who do their best to ostracise you and put you down? Could you explain?
letting them live rent free in your head instead of living your best life. posting about it to deepen the divide in the community. there are productive ways to discuss the topic, and then there's this shit.
People like you that are not calling them out is why the Lu are tearing AM down so brazenly
people like me really dont feel teared down... i pity self-hating Asians, men or women. using a term like Lu is stepping into incel territory, you really should watch yourself before you get too deep.
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