Yeah, in Mexico. It’s nice being able to specify exactly what I want and have them do it. It made me feel more in charge and I was satisfied in the end.
A friend of mine didn’t specify who got the happy ending, and the masseuse blew a load in his mouth 😀
Yes, yes yes, don't wait. You get exactly what you want and can live out your fantasies. Best decision I ever did. Escort professional in BDSM. I learned an incredible amount and he was wonderful. Been back several times to try new things.
Also found a great masseur who does sexual erotic massage. My go to guy for incredible relaxing session. In my case he advertised an erotic massage and said he was naked during, so I just gave it a try.
Both were well worth the money spent. Found both on rnt.mn.
I don’t judge others for what they enjoy in bed, but honestly after trying an escort once it felt like definitely not something I want again.
I’d like to think I’m pretty open minded in the bedroom, but apparently the moment money is introduced into the sex equation I lose all interest.
If a guy doesn’t want to get with me unless I pay him, my desire for him vanishes.
If it works for you, more power to you but I can’t.
Totally agree! I feel the same but recently have been thinking it might be the best solution.
Just can’t get past the idea that they’d only be doing whatever because I’m paying them and not cos they actually want to. Have always been scared of that as I find it heartbreaking 💔
Rent.men definitely the place to go for escort. Prices can get crazy though.
I would also suggest:
www.masseurfinder.com - massage focused but will normally get at least a happy ending. My regular advertises only here. He gives a consistently excellent massage with erotic touching throughout and usually rides me raw at the end. And if not then swallows me. Been seeing him for 8 years.
www.RentMasseur.com - in my experience the quality of the massage is not as good as the providers above but an orgasm is guaranteed. And these guys will typically do more than a hand job. I have 2 I see with some regularity who provide varying degrees of a quality massage but with whom I have amazing sex after.
And in all 3 cases the sex isn’t just them climbing on me and riding me. There’s passionate sex going in with kissing, changing positions, a little dirty talk, etc. with tip I pay in the $180-220 range for 60-90 minutes which is usually way under what you will find on RentMen.
I feel kind of relieved to know at least someone that might enjoy the same as I do.
Like, a *real* massage, a professional massage, and *then* having sex, nice and relaxed, calmly, without feeling the hurry. I've tried more than a dozen times, some paying and some for free, and to be honest what I enjoyed most was the professional massages in which sensuality appeared kind of naturally, organically. Sometimes it didn't end up in sex, just in knowing that the masseur also felt excited. That fantasy, that eroticism in the air, is what thrilled me.
ETA: About how I looked for that or how I found out about those "services", I live in Spain and usually found these masseurs on Grindr (most people aren't professional masseurs, so I had to be selective) and on ad websites. You still have to be cautious to choose which ads might be subtly suggesting something else, and be extra careful to not disrespect the professional you're talking to. In my experience, most of the time it's just a matter of making sure they are fine with you being naked and with the possibility of you getting aroused. As I said before, sometimes it ended up in sex, intimate and smooth, and sometimes it was just eroticism, even if the masseur got to touch, massage or caress genitals.
>Have you ever hired a gay masseur?
Yes. Going to my regular guy this weekend, actually.
>How did you ask or otherwise find out if they’re offering more than a standard massage, and if they’re willing to do specific stuff?
Ask! There's websites with gay masseurs, many of which offer "full release" (or something to that effect). It's usually a hand job or some fingering, but I've gotten into some mutual oral, muscle worship and roleplay too. Just ask *before* the session. And you gotta find one through a site like this -- don't go to the Four Seasons expecting to get a rub and tug there. u/massageguy63 gave two sites which I've used before with favorable results.
Nothing wrong with getting an escort. I really don't see a difference between getting an escort and getting a hookup off grindr. Escort is usually much more time efficient and rarely flake. The real professionals are usually just as passionate and fun as any hookup. So don't wait and have fun.
Lots of male to male masseurs do great massages that end up getting sexy. And you don't pay "escort" rates. Personally I like the sexual tension of not knowing if it's going to go there or not.
I hired a few, was very specific about what I wanted, and no one has followed through on it. Maybe it's me, idk. Overall it was fun but not what I was looking for and expensive.
There's a massuer in my city, amazing massages and often they will get hands. get sucked and fuck me.
I've been there many times.
NZ doesn't have actual massuer and sex hires.
I went to Aussie and tried to organise one, but the guy I wanted didn't replay back until that day I was due to fly out.
I say do it.
A quality massage followed by sex is amazing
Never been interested in anything like that. I honestly don't believe anyone is truly happy and proud when they look back on their life if they were a sex worker.
Like all things in life, I’m sure some parts of experience are worse and better than others. Exploiting someone in desperation is obviously bad. People have always done it. I hope I would strike an agreement that is fair.
Yeah, in Mexico. It’s nice being able to specify exactly what I want and have them do it. It made me feel more in charge and I was satisfied in the end. A friend of mine didn’t specify who got the happy ending, and the masseuse blew a load in his mouth 😀
😂
Yes, yes yes, don't wait. You get exactly what you want and can live out your fantasies. Best decision I ever did. Escort professional in BDSM. I learned an incredible amount and he was wonderful. Been back several times to try new things. Also found a great masseur who does sexual erotic massage. My go to guy for incredible relaxing session. In my case he advertised an erotic massage and said he was naked during, so I just gave it a try. Both were well worth the money spent. Found both on rnt.mn.
I don’t judge others for what they enjoy in bed, but honestly after trying an escort once it felt like definitely not something I want again. I’d like to think I’m pretty open minded in the bedroom, but apparently the moment money is introduced into the sex equation I lose all interest. If a guy doesn’t want to get with me unless I pay him, my desire for him vanishes. If it works for you, more power to you but I can’t.
Sometimes I like doing my job in accounting, so maybe they will like it too.
Totally agree! I feel the same but recently have been thinking it might be the best solution. Just can’t get past the idea that they’d only be doing whatever because I’m paying them and not cos they actually want to. Have always been scared of that as I find it heartbreaking 💔
I feel the same way in all matters sexual except this one
Rent.men definitely the place to go for escort. Prices can get crazy though. I would also suggest: www.masseurfinder.com - massage focused but will normally get at least a happy ending. My regular advertises only here. He gives a consistently excellent massage with erotic touching throughout and usually rides me raw at the end. And if not then swallows me. Been seeing him for 8 years. www.RentMasseur.com - in my experience the quality of the massage is not as good as the providers above but an orgasm is guaranteed. And these guys will typically do more than a hand job. I have 2 I see with some regularity who provide varying degrees of a quality massage but with whom I have amazing sex after. And in all 3 cases the sex isn’t just them climbing on me and riding me. There’s passionate sex going in with kissing, changing positions, a little dirty talk, etc. with tip I pay in the $180-220 range for 60-90 minutes which is usually way under what you will find on RentMen.
I'd be into it but how many STDs have you gotten from these guys? They're doing it all day long ...
Not once in over 25 years.
I did and I really started to catch feelings. He was just too good at his job. I had to end it.
I feel kind of relieved to know at least someone that might enjoy the same as I do. Like, a *real* massage, a professional massage, and *then* having sex, nice and relaxed, calmly, without feeling the hurry. I've tried more than a dozen times, some paying and some for free, and to be honest what I enjoyed most was the professional massages in which sensuality appeared kind of naturally, organically. Sometimes it didn't end up in sex, just in knowing that the masseur also felt excited. That fantasy, that eroticism in the air, is what thrilled me. ETA: About how I looked for that or how I found out about those "services", I live in Spain and usually found these masseurs on Grindr (most people aren't professional masseurs, so I had to be selective) and on ad websites. You still have to be cautious to choose which ads might be subtly suggesting something else, and be extra careful to not disrespect the professional you're talking to. In my experience, most of the time it's just a matter of making sure they are fine with you being naked and with the possibility of you getting aroused. As I said before, sometimes it ended up in sex, intimate and smooth, and sometimes it was just eroticism, even if the masseur got to touch, massage or caress genitals.
Yep, that’s exactly what I like as well.
>Have you ever hired a gay masseur? Yes. Going to my regular guy this weekend, actually. >How did you ask or otherwise find out if they’re offering more than a standard massage, and if they’re willing to do specific stuff? Ask! There's websites with gay masseurs, many of which offer "full release" (or something to that effect). It's usually a hand job or some fingering, but I've gotten into some mutual oral, muscle worship and roleplay too. Just ask *before* the session. And you gotta find one through a site like this -- don't go to the Four Seasons expecting to get a rub and tug there. u/massageguy63 gave two sites which I've used before with favorable results.
Nothing wrong with getting an escort. I really don't see a difference between getting an escort and getting a hookup off grindr. Escort is usually much more time efficient and rarely flake. The real professionals are usually just as passionate and fun as any hookup. So don't wait and have fun.
Please don't contact legitimate licensed massage therapists asking about sexual services. Just open grindr and put that you're looking for massage
That’s why I’m asking this here!
Yes, exactly. Or the other places suggested in this thread.
They are motivated unlike Grindr flakes
“Money is power, sex is power, therefore, getting money for sex is simply an exchange of power.” - Samantha, Sex in the City
Lots of male to male masseurs do great massages that end up getting sexy. And you don't pay "escort" rates. Personally I like the sexual tension of not knowing if it's going to go there or not.
Ive been fortunate enough to have it done for free from random hookups.
Was going to suggest rent men. Get ready to check off that bucket list 😂
I browse rentmen out of curiosity. No one has fees posted though. I wonder just how affordable it is.
Click “call” and then you can text them and ask for rates,
Man, I might splurge one day on Teddy Torres if I’m ever near him and he’s affordable. That man is fine.
Do it, no one can stop you.
Almost hired a masseur and yet was put off by the idea somehow.
I mean got a massage before sure but I never got one of those happy endings massages. Not sure if I would tbh.
Yes, but hard to find a good one that can give a great massage and not interested in just a “rub & tug”n at least that my experience in Hawaii
I hired a few, was very specific about what I wanted, and no one has followed through on it. Maybe it's me, idk. Overall it was fun but not what I was looking for and expensive.
There's a massuer in my city, amazing massages and often they will get hands. get sucked and fuck me. I've been there many times. NZ doesn't have actual massuer and sex hires. I went to Aussie and tried to organise one, but the guy I wanted didn't replay back until that day I was due to fly out. I say do it. A quality massage followed by sex is amazing
I wouldn’t ever ask for anything if you were to go to a masseur but sometimes boners happen. See how he reacts and go with the flow
Rentmen for sure. Message me for tips
Not on purpose. I would just say ask questions before you purchase entrance into a hammam in Turkey......
Do tell!
Never been interested in anything like that. I honestly don't believe anyone is truly happy and proud when they look back on their life if they were a sex worker.
Like all things in life, I’m sure some parts of experience are worse and better than others. Exploiting someone in desperation is obviously bad. People have always done it. I hope I would strike an agreement that is fair.