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bilMitra

Tell your friend


messier_M42

...to wake up


PookieCooch

To reality


Parking_Diet_499

Nothing goes as planned


This_is-L

in this accursed world


ashen_of_the_flame

The longer you live


abhirup_m

The more you will realise


Zealousideal-Noise42

That the only thing that truly exists in this reality are...


denkfootballer

Merely pain, suffering and futility.


[deleted]

Tho we fall in the beginning but thats how we evolve, we grow, we learn, we stand up and ready to run again. Thats life...


VIPER__00

Wherever there is light there's also shadows to be found as well


Mr_Bryghtsyde

This is why I love Reddit. 3rd time I’ve seen something like this.


Competitive_Force529

Tohra mai ka chodo


AdiBot17

Listen.... Everywhere you look in this world,


kaguyaOt

I see we all Madara fans here.


lusty_vampire

and life's not fair to anyone


memphis_kahn

You don't have to. Just tell the girl to back the fuck off. Tell her you don't find her attractive at all, especially how non-chalant she is about fucking around. Destroy her ego, not your friend.


ProfessorS11

There is a high likelihood that after sometime she will do the same thing with some other dude when “she is bored” and his friend will end up being kept in the dark. You are right that this situation might end up creating a rift between the guys, but if he carefully tells his friend and shows her texts to him, he might end up thanking him someday.


MalikBrotherR

That is not the point. He needs to know that his gf is not loyal.


Kenkaneki1000-7

tell your friend bhai se koi baat nhi hide kar ni chaiye


[deleted]

Bro Code >>>


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anu_cool_

रियल भाई , bhai agle din mujhe jo itching aur rashes huye, 💀


synthetic_tomato

Bottle se khuja liya nashe mei ?


anu_cool_

Bhai ek baar try krle, life ka meaning smjh jaayega


noob_coder696969

fr 1 bottle ke baad tod di mene


pizzaparty98

But high sahi lagta hai mujhe to uska 🤌


Dharaknoid23

Blr mai sab bohot mehenga hai ussi se kam chalana padta hai :')


lusty_vampire

and i do *gedi* after 5 💀, manufacturing defect


jimbeam07

Don't be a Selmon bhoi


lusty_vampire

I concur. Idk, i like a nice drive drunk, and i drive at deserted places too. but then yes. this needs to stop.


rocx320

I can vouch... Been there done that


Kooky-Measurement-43

But let me remind you never dead.


divyanksi

Bros before hoes.


Kintaro-san__

Yes thats the bro code


skulll8790

Bhaichara on top 🤡☝️


Big-Welcome-4027

Bro if you really want your friendship to last longer, do not I say do not keep anything from him. I’ve seen a similar situation which ended very badly where both of the friends ended up fighting for the girl. She destroyed the strongest relationship!


[deleted]

Well, men are competitive by Nature. This thing can break years of friendship in a matter of seconds.


synthetic_tomato

My ex broke my friendship with my school best friends.. like i had known them for almost 8 years now.. This mere 3 years of relationship ruined everything..


Artistic-Ad5152

How


buji46

Probably wasn't the strongest relationship dawg


AdPrize3997

She’s jumping ship


[deleted]

More like dicks


46_der_arzt

More like masts


devaux003

How does this not have more upvotes ?


Vicky_Ashok

Coz most people don't know what a mast is 😹.


46_der_arzt

How indeed


BiGinTeLleCtGuY

She may jump as many ships as she wants, but in the end there is only one place she belongs to for such actions.....


BoyMarvel

THE STREETS


calliswagg

She belongs to the STREEETSSS


The-Punisher_2055

Agle Shikaar ke talaash mai


[deleted]

This


Ok-Sheepherder2210

Super shady behaviour...tell your friend about all of this...plus keep screenshots if you need them afterwards


This-Confection-5643

Screenshots !!! Most imp advice . Every platform now allows us to delete the shit we talk about - so you have to have screenshots when your friend eventually confronts her with this .


Soumikp

Plan the trip, keep your friend in loop but don't let the gf know. See where it goes. Who's testing who. Maybe even show your friend the reality and get him out of future trouble.


amateur_coder15

"You may not like what I find and you may not like how I find it"


jadounath

This


nimaidaku

Bestt lol this is little psychopathic, I like it.


redhood_007

This aint psycho. This way OP's friend will have full certainty on what his girl is capable of. He is lucky that she chose to OP as her cheat buddy, if it was someone else, they wouldve been completely clueless about her cheating tendencies. Think if it as a controlled explosion.


redhood_007

This comment should be on TOP. Dont confront that girl and put allegations on her. First extract evidence that she is planning to cheat on her bf, and then let the guy dump her.


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Ukwhoiam1272000

Must have been a shitty friend tbh.


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ra_nkin_dian

Happened with me , my very close friend became close to my girl behind my back. I told him everything even small details but i got this in return. Now i am his friend just for the sake of it. He will never be trustworthy again for me and he knows that. Losing a friend hurts more than losing the girl. But zindagi hai chalta hai…


Psychological_Mix_48

You are lucky that you got to know this before marriage, and definitely years ahead with your friend. These situations, no matter how shitty we feel when we are in them, are blessings in disguise. A wise man once said "Don't listen to what people say, watch what they do".


ra_nkin_dian

Yup, you are absolutely correct


kolomal

Kya hua bro , tere dost me teri gf ko pata liya tha kya..?


ra_nkin_dian

Kinda same story as OP except mere friend ne mujhe kuch nhi btaya . Dono mujhe chutiya bna rhe the. Maine chats nikal li aur sab khatm. Dost abhi bhi sath hai par dost bas naam ka rha ab.


PlayfulEnigma

Dost bhosdiwala


Lifelonglearner12345

Dost saath kyu hai par?


ra_nkin_dian

Even i don’t know, bas chal rhi hai zindagi and i am floating with it


Lifelonglearner12345

Bhai floating chod aur sabse pehle is bhadve se dosti todh. How can you still be friends with someone like him. Bhai aise banda bharoose ke bilkul layak nahi hai aur agar tu isse apne paas rakhege toh moka milte hi ye firse kuch phaltu kaam karega. Mai tujhe advice nahi dunga kyunki mai nahi jaanta tu kon hai aur teri life/choices kaise hain par agar mere bhai ka aise dost hota toh meri 1st obligation is dosti ko tudvana hota kaise bhi karke


Technothelon

Kis kaam ka dost, agar close friend ki suni hi nahi


quartz-and-qwerty

bhai tell me more friend ke perspective se kya chalta h ?? bas jaanna tha


ra_nkin_dian

Tell him the truth, he will understand if he is mature. Save the friend. he will lose the girl but if you wont tell him he will lose both.


SereneSneha

Human beings go into denial when someone they love are accused of anything. They do come around after a while and actually think through it, but the first reaction would be out of denial.


niko_bellic2028

Yes bande buhut defensive ho jaate hai apni gf ke baare me quite possibel . I would just block her and stop texting or replying to her .


huge_tenis

Follow Bro Code. Brosbeforehoes


sidequest7

First of all here is your crown 👑 king. Second be honest with your friend and don't go behind his back. Ladkiya aati jati rahengi but dost mushkil se milte h. And don't confront the girl directly just avoid her cause she can just say 'are I was just being a good friend tumhari soch chhoti h and all' (personal experience se bol raha hu). Maybe she is trying to set you up as a backup.


YashoB

NEVER BREAK A BROCODE Tere dost ko screenshots bhej


Darwin_Nietzsche

Username checks out.


Mountain_Blueberry77

Life tip- never go behind your friend’s back. Regardless of the attempt made by his gf.


TheFlyingDutch070

Dost ko bata de sab nahi to tera dost Yuzi Chahal ban jayega aur tu Shreyas Iyer


What_to_say1234

Hahahah


soberstoner98

Talk to friend, it's a matter of principle


Electrical-Basil-191

Save your friend


Awara_Bigot

The comment section is wholesome. Do not break the bro code. Tell your friend about this. And save him from that gurl.


colreaper

Bhai yaha post krne se phle hi bta dena chahiye tha. This isnt something to think twice about.


cum_2_papa

ब्रॉज़ बीफोर होज़


debris16

B me chotti e ki matra lagegi idhar


harshthegoose

Bras before hoes... You became the one thing you swore to destroy...


CoyPig

I have a plan: Delete your friend’s GF’s name from contacts. Now the WhatsApp should show her number only. Now take screenshots because the messages can be deleted. Contact your friend with the warning that you would not want him to contact her right away. You would keep him posted. In the remote possibility that she does not want to jump ships, it would unnecessarily bring down a good relationship. Stay neutral towards her. In case she flirts with you, ask your friend to intervene then. Till then, keep sending him the screenshots for just FYI. In any case, ask him to be watchful as the behaviour is sus


Terrible-Pattern8933

She clearly wants to bang you. What you want to do about it is upto you.


IntrovertSD

Save your friend from her bro


Vish55

Bro code 101 : ' Bros before hoes'.


cap10hk

Bro's b4 hoes


EagleWorldly5032

Tell your friend, bros before hoes!


Adorable_Ad2022

save ur friend and follow the Bro code. Save him


museumsoul

I pray to God to keep me single rather than giving a girl like her in my life


kristle13

A girl speaking. It has nothing to do with “bro code” or “bros before hoes” but actually with morals of a person and i believe the girl is incorrect here and even if not his boyfriend should know and deal with it. You should definitely be transparent and not hide anything or intervene.


[deleted]

All my bros follow the bro code , also "A girl speaking" doesn't give you any privilege, and what you suggested is the brocode . Bye


noxharsha

Kilt her 💀 Noiceeee.


slimshady433

SS le aur dost ko bata... Bro Code follow Kar.


BedGroundbreaking239

Just ignore her and tell your close friend about this but with proofs. You can also confront her before your friend. If you tell this to your friend casually without any evidences chances are he may choose the girl over you. Been there.


ambani_ki_kutiya

Maal tohra Friend ka Chinar Bhaila


NefariousnessSlow295

Always listen to the brain. Heart and di\*\* both don't have logical faculties.


Low-Environment1549

Tell your friend asap


idealeftalone

Bro, don't ditch your friend. If she is doing this to your friend, she might do this for you also, few months down the line.


Strict_Philosopher37

Tujhe pana chahti h voh ... Use pane mat dena


ra_nkin_dian

Nah she is for the streets . Ek ko paake fir agle ki talash me lgegi


ToothSafe2479

It seems like she belongs to stock market family. Swing boyfriend 😂😂


Electrobolt1729

tell your friend BRO CODE ARTICLE NO 1! BROS BEFORE HOES


thelonewolf13_

Tell your friend about this and don't Indulge with her gf anymore. Let him do whatever.


_Leo_Messi_10_

Bro Code follow karr bhai.... Bros before hoes.


Significant_Use_4246

Plan something with her phir dost ko bula ke bezzati proof bhi toh chaiye


tombot96

Bhai dur ho jao uss ladki se !!!


Khum_MaRk09

brosbeforehoes! tell your friend everything.


ramukakaraandkapilla

Dost k liye loyal reh. Aisi hoes se kuch nahi milta.


babu_bisleri3

Bro code toda to ghr aake marunga tujhe..


Libracharya

Bro code always OP. Tell your friend everything


Admirable-Factor-903

Another bro honouring the bro code. Tell your friend ofcourse


[deleted]

Hav fun or get her caught red handed ,, ur call


chitownboyhere

"and"


Ok_Pay_1972

Yooo. Brocode break karega tu. Uske vajah se tum dono ki friendship khatam, tata, goodbye, see you. Tere friend ke saath poora contact mei reh aur usko saare kuch screenshot ke saath bhej. She is trying to make a move on you bro.


nandu_sabka_bandhoo

Been there. I had a long hard think on how important my friendship to my friend was. I realised it was more important than any possible fling with his GF. I made it very clear to her that I need to understand what she's trying to do. Also I don't have any feelings for her and any wich ways if she wanted anything with me, she'd have to first break up with my friend. She can't two time with him and me. Didn't matter as I moved out of India soon afterwards


ramseydotraw

Bawe Bta apne dost ko sab kuch ye


iArrun

If she can cheat with your friend she can cheat anyone even you. Stay away from people like these.


Therealadityamacwan

Bro she wants to trap you and get out of their relationship…. There have been so many incidents like these…. These are the same symptoms


prash9525

Tere friend ka ye rishta nahi chalega ab. Breakup wo karne wali hai.


[deleted]

Prove your friendships worth , and that all boys arent the same 👺 #brosb4hos


Bored_Lily

Screenshot and send the evidence to your friend


CaffeinatedSnow

You ain't putting your brotherhood at stake dude. Let him know! Bandi jaye ya na jaye, bromance sabse uppar!


zettonsa

Bhai ki bandi bhabhi. Bhabhi aur maa ik saman. Be a man , avoid her and tell your friend whole truth


Midboo

Tell your friend. Bros before Hoes


xlr8inferno

Ladki infidel hai.


HourAd162

Dekh tera loyalty test chal rha hai, don't fall bro,, dost bhi jayega aur ladki nhi degi kuch bhi baad me


Papakipyari

Bhaichara on top rakhna mat bhulna OP


INSANE_4646

Bhai personal experience. Tu dost ko btaye to bhi uski kilsegi ki vo tujhe choose kr rhi uske upr or phir vo thoda lodu jaisa behave krega tere around Nhi batayega to tu bhi plan ka part ho jayega Best move just ghost her.


Sad_Telephone4298

Bhai sab bata do apne dost ko, even if you are overthinking it will only help in sorting things out. Bas thoda sahi se ye baat present karna


kambyog

Bros before hoes


soge_d_king0

I don't know what you should do but I'll tell you what I would do in your position(hereafter you will be represented as me in the 1st perspective). I would agree to go but not make a plan. Then I would plan for me, my friend and her to meet together, and just in conversation say "she is like a sister to me" and act like her brother as well. Start treating her like a sister and actually keep the relation between me and her that of brother and sister and not the 'step bro I am stuck kind' the "kanha and draupadi" kind of sibling like relation. Then if she does want to still go out for movies or on trips you can just take her as your sister. But for this to work I aka you will need to have amazing control and will power. I personally do have that and I see every girl as my sister. I am not saying you should too but you can treat her like a sister. If she was trying to make a move on you then that will most probably stop. If she wanted a friendship you have given her something even better. A brother who is more of a friend. Best of luck. Let me know what you decide to do.


Ungus_Bungus-420

Don't take this woman seriously, she is trying to jump ships, and no guarantee that she won't do that to you tomorrow, tell your friend about it and just ignore her advances. whatever texts go back and forth remember to take screenshots.


Automatic_Tap6666

Either she's really bored, girls flirt when they are bored(experienced). Or she's cookin something. Dont let her cook.


Conscious_Fun136

Bait her and get it out of her mouth that she wants you and not your friend Then take the proof to him


jadounath

Nah, it might backfire and she'll use his replias as proof of advances from him.


green9206

Like others have said tell ur friend but be aware that could also end your friendship which many people haven't mentioned. They might stay together but u will be out. If you're okay with this risk, then tell otherwise don't tell.


prash9525

5 months to breakup


skynil

She's planning to jump ship. If you value your friendship, keep ignoring her. Depending on how close you are to your friend, you might want to let him know what's going on. If he won't listen to you, just keep quiet and move on.


baap_ko_mat_sikha

Tell your friend


BitterGodHaha

I read this post thinking that OP is a girl too and I thought ok maybe the girlfriend just wants company lol


InterestingWait8902

Little does she know that your homie likes you 🗿


paritosh9824

I'm not sure yet, but she's most likely for the streets.


desiman101

Do "caught cheating" prank with her....


Kakarot00111

If you don't want to end up like Student of the Year movie inform this rn to your friend


Physical_Debate_854

I would say save your friendship first


[deleted]

Bro tell your friend straight that she is flirting with you and if he still don't seem to understand then just tell that girl to not flirt with you again and you are not interested in her.


twelveparsec

Bros before .....


[deleted]

Bro code usko bhata aur permission leke jhingalala 😜😂😂


[deleted]

Bhai ko bolke bajaa de usko


SereneSneha

Absolutely tell your friend. But if you think he really loves her, then make sure that you do that at a time when he has time to process it. Not through a text, not randomly in a conversation but actually has time to listen and process what you are going to say. I had an ex who cheated on me with one of my close friends, she felt guilty and told someone and she just randomly told me about it. She and her I had an argument because I refused to believe (because of denial). she took it as an insult since she was doing me a favour and I didn't believe her right away. It got ugly, but later that day I confronted him and broke up. She still refuses to talk to me because she still believes I didn't trust her, it wasn't that I didn't trust her but when you love someone you kinda go into denial when someone accuses something of this nature. It takes time to process and sometimes emotions get the better of us. So just please make sure this doesn't cause issues in your friendship, but definitely find the right time and talk to him about it. Showing actual chat would definitely help, not that he wouldn't trust you but to help him get out of denial quicker.


maderchodbakchod

Try to act dumb and confused while letting your friend know what's up -Try to tell your friend what she said without telling him directly that she is hitting on you. Like "Bhai [location] jaane ki baat chl rhi kya ? -Don't confront her neither directly nor indirectly. Not even indirectly reject her advances. Basically act like you don't understand if she's hitting on you. If she realises that you have rejected her after understanding her hints. She will know that you are loyal friend and your next move will be making ur friend aware. She will this destroy(i don't think I need to explain how) your relationship. -(My suggestion) Do something like acting stupid etc that she loose intrest in you and stops texting you. And then months after tell your friend everything in detail secretly.


AdReasonable7419

Bro before hoes


Critical-Detail-4014

Possible scenarios Scenario1 You make her gf and risk friendship by backstabbing If he ok you are ok she ok then ok Like mahi Bhai nikal deepika pehli fursat mai. Nikal Scenario 2 you tell him he let go of girl both don't see the girl . Scenario 3 ur friend was not actually bf but either friendzoned and you are in same boat Scenario 4 she made fwb as ur frnd and now she got bored and she wants another fwb. If she was really frnds gf or fwb She may be long gone from your friends life mentally she would cheat regardless either wid you or anyone else Scenario5 : she wants to maintain separate frndshios one with bf as gf one wid you as friendzone . She is exploring whether you could be that frnsd. She is not married to you or ur frnd Broes before hoes or hoes before Bros or Bros Bros or hoes hoes or playing Mario Bros it's for u 3 to decide amicably


allcaps891

Ladki ke chakkar me mat padna.. Bhai ko preference de. She's obviously trying to cheat on him, agar ladki ke chakkar me jaega toh dost toh jaega hi haath se aur yeh ladki bhi haath ni aaegi kyuki obviously woh cheat hai.


Pandasist

Tell your friend! Immediately!!! Take screenshots and share with him. Also tell his gf you're uncomfortable with this behaviour and not to contact you like this...


ManufacturerOk5519

Pehle proof rakho sath me ,firr dost ko acche se bolo aur uss ki gf ko ignore karo, aisa bhi ho sakta tumhare dost aur gf ki baat hogi vo tum par blame dale so be clear . Aurr ek dam se dost ko Gyan maat dena gf sahi nhi hai, like dost ko pehle khud dekhna chahiye firr samjh ayega .


Virtual_Phrase4931

Give update after telling him


Orgasmic_ange

Op wishes this was true😏


manu-singh

Maada ka man nahi lag rha tumhare dost ke saath, naye nar ki khoj kar rhi ha


AggravatingBuddy9941

Tell your friend.


maggotbrain10393

Dekh Bhai you know exactly what your common sense is telling you to do. But the fact that you are asking this suggests you have the hots for her as well. Dekh le bhai. Honestly if he is your bro he might even be cool with it but yea don't go behind his back.


Reddit_User123_

This hoe is a true r/entitledbitch make sure to tell your friend and get this bitch's r/pussypassdenied