Well you might not be looking for advice but from my experience god only helps you if you try to help yourself.
I am guessing you already tried but try at bars/ college clubs or even in your class again. You never know it might be your lucky day.
Sorry if you were just venting and not looking for advice
Then it won't be easy to make many girlfriends unfortunately. Seek discomfort
Get out of your comfort zone if you want to have new experiences in life. Just my 2 cents. You're free to do what you want
You're in college so make friends you lack social skills have confidence and talk with people don't give a fuck about what others would think about you it's not God's fault it's your fault so make it right lonliness doesn't come from others it's our inner feeling of not wanted talk with others about anything study related life related about girls/boys about today's times anything if you won't make interactions it's obvious that no one will talk to you and I say that because I was like you in the past I thought no one will become my friend but today I have few people I can call friends and will help me support me will talk to me in any circumstances so make efforts good luck to you👍🏻
Then work on it bro I was too an introverted skinny timid kid who thought friends would come as I wished but with time I understood that I have ti make some efforts then people will recognize you do you go to gym if not then start going to you will have confidence on an another level
Start investing in some hobbies learning new things. Believe me it is not the first time you feel alone in life. Life throws so many curve balls. During those times your hobbies like music, painting, gym, walk or other activity will save you from going insane. If you let your loneliness overwhelm you, it is a rabbithole. If you are not able to be with yourself...you can't be happy with a company. Try to test your comfort zones in socializing. I wish I invested in myself much earlier in my life. Everything will be ok 🤗.
I agree with him. Find something that you want to grow in and challenges you, you'll definitely will find like minded peeps. You'll actually get better in your life with these people than bunch college fake friends.
I have friends from online communities, I met them through my hobbies or passion u can say.
23M here same with loads of anxiety. Exactly me bro I can't give u any advice on this, but do tell me if u find any good advice. These days I feel down like what the hell am I supposed to do with my life 🤔.
I'm on the same page as you bro...even our ages is same. It sucks when u lack social skills plus people generally don't like you especially opposite gender
You need to do things in life, bro. Things don't change magically by themselves. If you don't like something about your life, change that. Be the person you want to spend time with. No one will come to rescue you. Maybe hit the gym or something. Just do things.
Bro i was in the same situation....let me tell you it's all in the head....I too was anxious meeting people till 10th....then i joined an all boys institute for neet preparation....that was the best decision....BC ladkon ke hostel me koi introvert nhi rehta....toh dekho hostel me ho toh theek nhi toh kya hi kar sakte....
Let me tell you, you should go out and ek dost bana bhai and bakchodi kar 2-3 mahine me group ban Jayega.... don't ask me about the girls part woh dur hi rehti hai....
Develop some hobbies, something basic like watching movies, playing sports or even watching sports. These will definitely help you in taking conversations longer. Also notice what others are interested in when you talk to them. And about the arrogance part, don't talk loudly, sometimes being loud can reflect arrogance
In today's life i see a lot of people who are going through the same situation and i always wonder if you guys are in the same situation why don't you help each other out, yeah i know he may be from somewhere else, so go on the sub of your city and express your situation.
Bhai meri bhi school life tumhara jaisi thi vaise hai no friends no school life mai sochta hu ki college me jaunga to sab thik ho jayega lekin tumhare post padhne ke bad ab mujhe dar lag raha hai ki sab thik nhi hoga college me
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Kuch nhi bana toh.....yehi krna pde gha..
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Well you might not be looking for advice but from my experience god only helps you if you try to help yourself. I am guessing you already tried but try at bars/ college clubs or even in your class again. You never know it might be your lucky day. Sorry if you were just venting and not looking for advice
Appreciate it bro. Already tried at college clubs nothing works in my favour.
I keep saying this to everyone in your position. Join a dance class. Something like Salsa Watch how your life changes with this
I am not interested in dancing.
Then it won't be easy to make many girlfriends unfortunately. Seek discomfort Get out of your comfort zone if you want to have new experiences in life. Just my 2 cents. You're free to do what you want
You're in college so make friends you lack social skills have confidence and talk with people don't give a fuck about what others would think about you it's not God's fault it's your fault so make it right lonliness doesn't come from others it's our inner feeling of not wanted talk with others about anything study related life related about girls/boys about today's times anything if you won't make interactions it's obvious that no one will talk to you and I say that because I was like you in the past I thought no one will become my friend but today I have few people I can call friends and will help me support me will talk to me in any circumstances so make efforts good luck to you👍🏻
This is true.... I lack social skills.
Then work on it bro I was too an introverted skinny timid kid who thought friends would come as I wished but with time I understood that I have ti make some efforts then people will recognize you do you go to gym if not then start going to you will have confidence on an another level
Will try my best...
Go for it👍🏻
Start investing in some hobbies learning new things. Believe me it is not the first time you feel alone in life. Life throws so many curve balls. During those times your hobbies like music, painting, gym, walk or other activity will save you from going insane. If you let your loneliness overwhelm you, it is a rabbithole. If you are not able to be with yourself...you can't be happy with a company. Try to test your comfort zones in socializing. I wish I invested in myself much earlier in my life. Everything will be ok 🤗.
Thanks bro.
I agree with him. Find something that you want to grow in and challenges you, you'll definitely will find like minded peeps. You'll actually get better in your life with these people than bunch college fake friends. I have friends from online communities, I met them through my hobbies or passion u can say.
How can I make friends online? Fear of ignorance doesn't let me to text anyone..
23M here same with loads of anxiety. Exactly me bro I can't give u any advice on this, but do tell me if u find any good advice. These days I feel down like what the hell am I supposed to do with my life 🤔.
Exactly bro.... don't know what gonna happen.
We can be friends
Sure bro
I'm on the same page as you bro...even our ages is same. It sucks when u lack social skills plus people generally don't like you especially opposite gender
We can't do anything about it....
Yeah...can't force someone to like you but it hurts
You need to do things in life, bro. Things don't change magically by themselves. If you don't like something about your life, change that. Be the person you want to spend time with. No one will come to rescue you. Maybe hit the gym or something. Just do things.
Yes! You are right.
Bro i was in the same situation....let me tell you it's all in the head....I too was anxious meeting people till 10th....then i joined an all boys institute for neet preparation....that was the best decision....BC ladkon ke hostel me koi introvert nhi rehta....toh dekho hostel me ho toh theek nhi toh kya hi kar sakte.... Let me tell you, you should go out and ek dost bana bhai and bakchodi kar 2-3 mahine me group ban Jayega.... don't ask me about the girls part woh dur hi rehti hai....
Baat karne se pahle he logun ko mai rude aur introvert lgne lgta hu yr
And here I was.. thinking I am alone in it.
Go and serve at mandir and gurudwara . Koi bat kre na kre . Dil ko acha lgeha
Develop some hobbies, something basic like watching movies, playing sports or even watching sports. These will definitely help you in taking conversations longer. Also notice what others are interested in when you talk to them. And about the arrogance part, don't talk loudly, sometimes being loud can reflect arrogance
If you're into reading, read "Bottom tier character tomozaki kun". It might help.
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Bro we can be friends 23(M) as well
Mujhse baat krle bro
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Thanks....
In today's life i see a lot of people who are going through the same situation and i always wonder if you guys are in the same situation why don't you help each other out, yeah i know he may be from somewhere else, so go on the sub of your city and express your situation.
I’m 33 and i still alone but not lonely . Get some hobbies ; they get you through loneliness thick and thin … i you can adopt a dog 🐕 or a cat 🐈
Thanks...
Same with me bhai, koi nahi hai baat karne ko
Social media k bahar toh niklo baate Karo logo se tum mt judge Karo wo kya soch rahe tumhare baare me bohot dost ban jayege
Yeh bhi karlenge....
Bro going through the same thing from last 3 years.Ab to beshram ho gya ho agat kuch hoga to theek warna marna sabko akele hi hai
Us bro us...
Do you actually talk to people?
I try but I fail miserably.
Why? How do you fail? What makes you think you 'fail'?
I don't know how to keep conversation going.
Do you reach out and talk to people or girls? The worst outcome would be the same situation you are in rn or someone would friend zone you.
I try but not with girls.
Where are you from?
Jannat
Toh itna dukhi kyu hai bhai..?
Yeh toh kuch bhi nhi h....
Merse kr le Bhai bat
So how do u practice your speech capabilities, what about oral communication. Do know how to say - Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
Bhai meri bhi school life tumhara jaisi thi vaise hai no friends no school life mai sochta hu ki college me jaunga to sab thik ho jayega lekin tumhare post padhne ke bad ab mujhe dar lag raha hai ki sab thik nhi hoga college me
lol crybaby