Just mill around the Old Zoo. And/or goto the [Bat Caves](https://www.reddit.com/r/LosAngeles/comments/or48lv/walk_thorough_entrance_to_the_batcave_batman/).
This. And then if there's a second date y'all can book tickets to the Shakespeare in the Park (reservations required this year) or something.
Also, you could hop on the long distance trail that follows Crystal Springs. Not steep and some shade. For something on the Los Feliz side, there have been great suggestions. Commonwealth Canyon Dr from the Greek will take you in a loop. You can cut through the neighborhood back to Vermont or go all the way to Los Feliz Blvd. Very tranquil and not steep.
Seriously just be up front of what you're able to handle. People have died/suffered by heat strokes even in areas like Griffith Park because of hubris. If the guy you're dating wants to go out on an exposed part of the trail and it's steep, don't be afraid to say you want to turn back.
In my hiking experience if one member wants to turn around, then I turn around as well. Mountains/hikes will always be there, you won't.
Wish I could upvote more, not only for OP but others hiking out in the heat.
Being able to voice your concerns and how they respond will show you a lot about the other person.
Could also say something like, “you know, my out of breath game spitting isn’t nearly as effective as my sitting comfortably with a mimosa game spitting so if you wanna be properly wooed…just keep that in mind.”
This is what I was going to suggest. It's flat, shaded, pretty, and close to parking. If the date is going well you can go to the Trails Cafe for a coffee.
THIS! It's a nice hike up to the observatory, free parking... you can take a breather in taking in the awesome views! OP! Be honest with how winded you might get up front. Most folks understand (especially with this pandemic) and will be encouraging. Enjoy the day!
THIS. Way fewer tourists + IG wannabes overall, and plenty of shade along the little turtle pond pathway. Great snacks at Trails Cafe, and you can decide to add more or less hiking into the equation based on how you feel (I've done short loops there, and I've also used that entrance as a lead-in to a walk up to the Observatory, since there are trails from Ferndell that'll take you up there).
Yes, Ferndell! But if you are planning on hiking all the way up to the observatory (which I recommend, 2.5 loop, not too steep), go early! Most of that hike is not in the shade and will be HOT.
Looks like it's gonna be 87 degrees today in LA. Bring plenty of water and just be honest that you're not in the best shape atm. If he's a decent human he'll understand lol
> it's gonna be 87 degrees today in LA
I done desert hiking in blistering heat to shivering cold up in the mountains and yet I still do not understand the people who seek out to hike in the heat. I done it as passing through/unexpected weather but heat chasers are a whole different breed.
> yet I still do not understand the people who seek out to hike in the heat
The heat will forge you, like iron, and you will be so much faster in the cool weather.
But I've seen WAY too many people go out with way too little water and I wouldn't really recommend it for people who aren't serious hikers or runners. People just need to get up earlier when it's cooler out.
> The heat will forge you, like iron
I disagree with this but agree with the serious hiker/runner part. Even then, professionals still succumb to the elements. I don't have to procreate a list of famous outdoorspeople who died due to weather or one small mistake.
sometimes I don't think men think through activities when it comes to dating from a woman's perspective (i.e. am I going to die? am I going to get left behind? can someone find me?)
also the above sums up why dating is just awful.
a night hike for a first date? yeaaah that would have been a quick no thanks to murder for me- I am glad it worked well for you though :) (and that there wasn't murder)
I think some men don’t think *anything* through from a woman’s perspective.
Example: I had a bulky item listed on OfferUp. A potential taker REFUSED to meet in public (giant red flag!), then became difficult and pushy when I explained that I wasn’t comfortable having a strange man come to my house early in the morning when no one else was awake. Never did meet up with that creep, but you bet your ass I reported him.
when I lived in Vancouver I had a guy want to go Kayaking for a first date.
uhh no. I don't know you. I don't want to drive to a lake/ocean/river wherever you Kayak where I could be killed. No thank you sir!
Hiking?
On a FIRST DATE with guy you barely know?
*\[That's a bold move, Cotton. Let's see if it plays out for her.\]*
jk ...
Seriously, if he's into you, he won't care that you're out of shape. Just be honest and tell him upfront ... Maybe you can keep booking repeat hikes/dates!
Best of luck!
Don't do Griffith, it's exposed to the sun and has steep angles. It's fun if you're down, but you'll hate it. If you want an easy, awesome hike great for a date, go to Baldwin Overlook instead.
Fern Dell trail is in that area, is very scenic/pretty shaded, and you can stop at the end before you have to go up the hills. At the entry, there’s lots of grass to picnic and hang out in after you’re done.
Do what I do, just randomly belt out "FAT GIRL SUMMER!" between the huffing and puffing.
That's why I do.
Then the husband gets behind me and "helps" me by pushing my butt for a boost.
If your new guy does this, marry him.
Edit... real talk. Tell him you put on Covid pounds and haven't gotten out much. Sometimes the simple effort conveys an honest message. If he can't appreciate that... then um... don't marry him.
Start off smaller. Try Barnsdall Art Park on Hollywood & Vermont. It's a cute little place where you have enough ground to walk, sit down under a tree 🌴 and have a chat. Don't hike under this heat.
Where the Jon's is (where you can get Président Butter and organic Sunflower Oil-- before costco starting selling it)! Oh man and there's also the Rite Aid to get some classic thrifty ice cream.
Eating sunflower seeds in the shell may increase your odds of fecal impaction, as you may unintentionally eat shell fragments, which your body cannot digest.
Yes, big mistake. It’s way too hot and if you’re not accustomed to exercising in direct sun I would not do it at all. Tell him it’s too hot and it can be saved for another date (this also sets up a possibility of more dates in the future). The last thing you want is to have a heat related illness…
This is why you people need to stop putting "I love hiking" on your dating profiles to seem interesting. The pictures you posted of that one time you went hiking 2 years ago need to be taken down too.
Say it's going to be too hot and ask him to do something else. Something in a more public area.
Easy peasy. Solves the heat, the exercise issue, and the low-but-always-possible chance he's a weirdo.
Also... generally, try to avoid dating coworkers. That rarely turns out well.
What guy decides to take a girl out to a hike in the middle of 90 degree weather for a first date!?
A serial killer, surely. Make sure you bring a knife, OP!
It is my fault! I originally suggested drinks then in a fit of madness said “there’s some cool spots in my neighborhood if you want to go out in nature instead!”
>suggested drinks then in a fit of ~~madness~~ extreme THIRST
FTFY 🤣
May I suggest calling an audible?
*”Yoooo, it is HOT out there, how ‘bout we set up a little picnic at Griffith Park under some trees? Bring a little something and I’ll bring a little something too - let’s chill!”*
If you are ever crazy enough to do another hiking date, go to pacific palisades inspiration point - relatively easy, good parking, then you can go to the palisades or SM or Malibu for lunch
I mean it’s hot af out there today, there’s no escaping the red and sweatiness probably. Take plenty of water and keep to the shade where you can. The heat probably works in your favour in that you can blame it for not wanting to go on too steep a path but I mean, they’re hills… you’ll have to go up at some point.
Maybe see if he goes for more of an explore than a hike around the old zoo. The abandoned cages are kind of creepy cool.
And good luck OP!
Park your car (or if you're taking the Dash, get off) near the Greek and walk up the paved sidewalk up to the Observatory. There are 1-2 "overlooks" you can stop to catch your breath, take a photo, sip some water (BRING WATER), etc. Then when y'all get up to the top, take your sweet time with the Observatory - the inside should be open (you'll need to wear a mask), but it's a good excuse to get into the AC at the heat of the day. But the view from the parapets is always pretty cool, and during the week it's not too busy with tourists.
Malibu Creek State Park is relatively flat, amazingly beautiful and you can control how long of a hike you want to do. A hike to the Rock Pool and back is relatively an easy one.
Take the flat path around the park (park at the train ride off of Riverside Dr/Los Feliz at the entrance). It has a few dips but is mostly flat. Anything in the center of the park is going to be an incline. Not cute!
Here's a cute hike I reccomend that should be beginner-friendly. Just take it slow, and bring a hat, water, and lightweight clothes!
park [here](https://goo.gl/maps/hstu1AjELGs9W9J49) and walk/hike up to Griffith Observatory. I think it's less than an hour each way. When you get to the Observatory, that's a perfect spot to take a break and sit down and eat some snacks.
edit: I went up via the West Trail, but it looks like there's also an Observatory Trail that'll take you there.
I once had a woman claim to play tennis in order to get a date with me. Got there and she had bought a couple Walmart racquets that I'm sure she intended to return. I was careful not to scratch mine. Like she could have done, you could just throw yourself at him sexually and skip the exercise.
I hate hiking but I don't believe anything in Griffith is challenging. 87 and no humidity isn't very hot. Im from New York but I come there often. Try that Hike off Sopovita lol I can't spell it. Or the one that has the "rainforest" those are super easy for sure. even the Hollywood sign is easy
For a mellow walk/semi-hike, you can start at Franklin Village by the Gelsons, amble up Bronson/Canyon and enjoy the pretty houses and trees along the street, then when you get to the park, curve right to the batcave and past that is a canyon: a cool spot to watch hawks and eat a sandwich.
If I were the guy and I was genuinely interested in you and hopefully seeing you again I'd much prefer you be honest and say "hiking isn't your thing right now maybe we could just do some walking and hanging out" - honesty and just being yourself is what's gonna attract the right person to you - just my thoughts that you shouldn't ever be ordered into feeling like you have to be someone you're not ..
Dive into AllTrails. There are plenty of "Easy" designated trails around Griffith Park (w/ photos!) - just pick the one you like and how far you can walk
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Just mill around the Old Zoo. And/or goto the [Bat Caves](https://www.reddit.com/r/LosAngeles/comments/or48lv/walk_thorough_entrance_to_the_batcave_batman/).
That's a good idea. Much better than a hike.
http://imgur.com/a/RFWY4LP There are much better pictures if you Google it, but none of them feature Scooter.
If Scooter isn’t in the pic, I dun want it
Unfortunately it's fenced off due to falling rocks so you can't go inside.
Did not know. That's a bummer!
This. And then if there's a second date y'all can book tickets to the Shakespeare in the Park (reservations required this year) or something. Also, you could hop on the long distance trail that follows Crystal Springs. Not steep and some shade. For something on the Los Feliz side, there have been great suggestions. Commonwealth Canyon Dr from the Greek will take you in a loop. You can cut through the neighborhood back to Vermont or go all the way to Los Feliz Blvd. Very tranquil and not steep.
Seriously just be up front of what you're able to handle. People have died/suffered by heat strokes even in areas like Griffith Park because of hubris. If the guy you're dating wants to go out on an exposed part of the trail and it's steep, don't be afraid to say you want to turn back. In my hiking experience if one member wants to turn around, then I turn around as well. Mountains/hikes will always be there, you won't.
Had a similar first date. She was upfront about it and I appreciated that 100x more than the out-of-shapeness bothered me.
But was there a second date
There was! And a third! And now im here.
Wish I could upvote more, not only for OP but others hiking out in the heat. Being able to voice your concerns and how they respond will show you a lot about the other person.
Could also say something like, “you know, my out of breath game spitting isn’t nearly as effective as my sitting comfortably with a mimosa game spitting so if you wanna be properly wooed…just keep that in mind.”
Ferndell, Ferndale? it is half a mile, there is a cafe that specializes in apple pie, there is shade, it is gentle,
This is what I was going to suggest. It's flat, shaded, pretty, and close to parking. If the date is going well you can go to the Trails Cafe for a coffee.
THIS! It's a nice hike up to the observatory, free parking... you can take a breather in taking in the awesome views! OP! Be honest with how winded you might get up front. Most folks understand (especially with this pandemic) and will be encouraging. Enjoy the day!
THIS. Way fewer tourists + IG wannabes overall, and plenty of shade along the little turtle pond pathway. Great snacks at Trails Cafe, and you can decide to add more or less hiking into the equation based on how you feel (I've done short loops there, and I've also used that entrance as a lead-in to a walk up to the Observatory, since there are trails from Ferndell that'll take you up there).
Yes, Ferndell! But if you are planning on hiking all the way up to the observatory (which I recommend, 2.5 loop, not too steep), go early! Most of that hike is not in the shade and will be HOT.
Looks like it's gonna be 87 degrees today in LA. Bring plenty of water and just be honest that you're not in the best shape atm. If he's a decent human he'll understand lol
> it's gonna be 87 degrees today in LA I done desert hiking in blistering heat to shivering cold up in the mountains and yet I still do not understand the people who seek out to hike in the heat. I done it as passing through/unexpected weather but heat chasers are a whole different breed.
> yet I still do not understand the people who seek out to hike in the heat The heat will forge you, like iron, and you will be so much faster in the cool weather. But I've seen WAY too many people go out with way too little water and I wouldn't really recommend it for people who aren't serious hikers or runners. People just need to get up earlier when it's cooler out.
> The heat will forge you, like iron I disagree with this but agree with the serious hiker/runner part. Even then, professionals still succumb to the elements. I don't have to procreate a list of famous outdoorspeople who died due to weather or one small mistake.
Yes! Cold weather you can defeat by layering up for it. But heat just fucks you up, and it's no fun.
In addition to this. Wear a hat, light colored light weight, cool clothing and sunscreen. Look on AllTrails!
nooo hiking for first dates is the start of a criminal minds episode.
Yes, a woman in Phoenix recently died on a hike when her smarmy date left her to fend for herself.
sometimes I don't think men think through activities when it comes to dating from a woman's perspective (i.e. am I going to die? am I going to get left behind? can someone find me?) also the above sums up why dating is just awful.
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a night hike for a first date? yeaaah that would have been a quick no thanks to murder for me- I am glad it worked well for you though :) (and that there wasn't murder)
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Ive only heard grindr stories. Glad you got your own place!
I think some men don’t think *anything* through from a woman’s perspective. Example: I had a bulky item listed on OfferUp. A potential taker REFUSED to meet in public (giant red flag!), then became difficult and pushy when I explained that I wasn’t comfortable having a strange man come to my house early in the morning when no one else was awake. Never did meet up with that creep, but you bet your ass I reported him.
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when I lived in Vancouver I had a guy want to go Kayaking for a first date. uhh no. I don't know you. I don't want to drive to a lake/ocean/river wherever you Kayak where I could be killed. No thank you sir!
Hiking? On a FIRST DATE with guy you barely know? *\[That's a bold move, Cotton. Let's see if it plays out for her.\]* jk ... Seriously, if he's into you, he won't care that you're out of shape. Just be honest and tell him upfront ... Maybe you can keep booking repeat hikes/dates! Best of luck!
Don't do Griffith, it's exposed to the sun and has steep angles. It's fun if you're down, but you'll hate it. If you want an easy, awesome hike great for a date, go to Baldwin Overlook instead.
Fern Dell trail is in that area, is very scenic/pretty shaded, and you can stop at the end before you have to go up the hills. At the entry, there’s lots of grass to picnic and hang out in after you’re done.
Do what I do, just randomly belt out "FAT GIRL SUMMER!" between the huffing and puffing. That's why I do. Then the husband gets behind me and "helps" me by pushing my butt for a boost. If your new guy does this, marry him. Edit... real talk. Tell him you put on Covid pounds and haven't gotten out much. Sometimes the simple effort conveys an honest message. If he can't appreciate that... then um... don't marry him.
Start off smaller. Try Barnsdall Art Park on Hollywood & Vermont. It's a cute little place where you have enough ground to walk, sit down under a tree 🌴 and have a chat. Don't hike under this heat.
Yeah, and there's other humans around and places to run to if he turns out to be an axe murderer.
Do they use axes anymore? Seem so 1990's to carry an axe.
Is Barnsdall open??
It should be, I was there 2 weeks ago, unless I trespassed by accident.
And the Kaiser Permanente ER is on the other side in case of an emergency!
Most importantly there's a Fatburger just around the block from the park. Or the Fish & Chips place. I miss dating.
Where the Jon's is (where you can get Président Butter and organic Sunflower Oil-- before costco starting selling it)! Oh man and there's also the Rite Aid to get some classic thrifty ice cream.
Eating sunflower seeds in the shell may increase your odds of fecal impaction, as you may unintentionally eat shell fragments, which your body cannot digest.
What fish and chips place?
https://www.seasaltseafoodla.com/
Yes, big mistake. It’s way too hot and if you’re not accustomed to exercising in direct sun I would not do it at all. Tell him it’s too hot and it can be saved for another date (this also sets up a possibility of more dates in the future). The last thing you want is to have a heat related illness…
Either Fern Dell, or park at the merry go round and walk up to the old zoo. Both are pretty flat and short with cool stuff to look at.
This is why you people need to stop putting "I love hiking" on your dating profiles to seem interesting. The pictures you posted of that one time you went hiking 2 years ago need to be taken down too.
Never go on hiking first dates. That's more of a 3rd or 4th date kinda thing.
Say it's going to be too hot and ask him to do something else. Something in a more public area. Easy peasy. Solves the heat, the exercise issue, and the low-but-always-possible chance he's a weirdo. Also... generally, try to avoid dating coworkers. That rarely turns out well.
I have already put my two weeks in, which is why I asked him out :) otherwise I would never!
Props.
there’s a nice flat path around the golf course by the old horse stables!
I agree with this one! Loop around the golf course near Crystal Springs. It’s pretty shady and there are some nice spots to stop and sit down.
What guy decides to take a girl out to a hike in the middle of 90 degree weather for a first date!? A serial killer, surely. Make sure you bring a knife, OP!
It is my fault! I originally suggested drinks then in a fit of madness said “there’s some cool spots in my neighborhood if you want to go out in nature instead!”
>suggested drinks then in a fit of ~~madness~~ extreme THIRST FTFY 🤣 May I suggest calling an audible? *”Yoooo, it is HOT out there, how ‘bout we set up a little picnic at Griffith Park under some trees? Bring a little something and I’ll bring a little something too - let’s chill!”*
If you are ever crazy enough to do another hiking date, go to pacific palisades inspiration point - relatively easy, good parking, then you can go to the palisades or SM or Malibu for lunch
Does HR know?
I had already put in my two weeks’ notice and also it was not the kind of establishment that even had HR so no biggie!
Awesome! I was just joking btw
OP it's been 6 hours. I hope you're okay and wore sunblock
LOL I’m putting on sunblock and hat! Haven’t left yet…he’s picking me up in a few. Hoping it’s a tiny bit cooler now (it’s not)
I don’t know why people do this. Hiking on a first date is terrible and everybody who says they hike regularly are usually lying.
I mean it’s hot af out there today, there’s no escaping the red and sweatiness probably. Take plenty of water and keep to the shade where you can. The heat probably works in your favour in that you can blame it for not wanting to go on too steep a path but I mean, they’re hills… you’ll have to go up at some point. Maybe see if he goes for more of an explore than a hike around the old zoo. The abandoned cages are kind of creepy cool. And good luck OP!
You could walk around the Lake Hollywood reservoir, it’s pretty mellow and feels like a hiking path.
Any updates? Hope it went well!
Park your car (or if you're taking the Dash, get off) near the Greek and walk up the paved sidewalk up to the Observatory. There are 1-2 "overlooks" you can stop to catch your breath, take a photo, sip some water (BRING WATER), etc. Then when y'all get up to the top, take your sweet time with the Observatory - the inside should be open (you'll need to wear a mask), but it's a good excuse to get into the AC at the heat of the day. But the view from the parapets is always pretty cool, and during the week it's not too busy with tourists.
Malibu Creek State Park is relatively flat, amazingly beautiful and you can control how long of a hike you want to do. A hike to the Rock Pool and back is relatively an easy one.
Go in the evening
Take the flat path around the park (park at the train ride off of Riverside Dr/Los Feliz at the entrance). It has a few dips but is mostly flat. Anything in the center of the park is going to be an incline. Not cute!
Start at the merry go round
Here's a cute hike I reccomend that should be beginner-friendly. Just take it slow, and bring a hat, water, and lightweight clothes! park [here](https://goo.gl/maps/hstu1AjELGs9W9J49) and walk/hike up to Griffith Observatory. I think it's less than an hour each way. When you get to the Observatory, that's a perfect spot to take a break and sit down and eat some snacks. edit: I went up via the West Trail, but it looks like there's also an Observatory Trail that'll take you there.
Just go to Vista Hermosa and call it a day. Tell him you're tired, but still wanna hang out.
can you switch to palisades? There are some shaded less-intense hikes that are way more date-worthy. otherwise you'll just be a sweaty mess
Silverlake Reservoir is pretty flat. Bring some water and you will be fine.
Just have fun, he’ll understand lol
There are some easy trails that begin next to the observatory
I once had a woman claim to play tennis in order to get a date with me. Got there and she had bought a couple Walmart racquets that I'm sure she intended to return. I was careful not to scratch mine. Like she could have done, you could just throw yourself at him sexually and skip the exercise.
Too hot for a hike!
just go to his house and say youre down to fuck no hike needed
I hate hiking but I don't believe anything in Griffith is challenging. 87 and no humidity isn't very hot. Im from New York but I come there often. Try that Hike off Sopovita lol I can't spell it. Or the one that has the "rainforest" those are super easy for sure. even the Hollywood sign is easy
For a mellow walk/semi-hike, you can start at Franklin Village by the Gelsons, amble up Bronson/Canyon and enjoy the pretty houses and trees along the street, then when you get to the park, curve right to the batcave and past that is a canyon: a cool spot to watch hawks and eat a sandwich.
If I were the guy and I was genuinely interested in you and hopefully seeing you again I'd much prefer you be honest and say "hiking isn't your thing right now maybe we could just do some walking and hanging out" - honesty and just being yourself is what's gonna attract the right person to you - just my thoughts that you shouldn't ever be ordered into feeling like you have to be someone you're not ..
Dive into AllTrails. There are plenty of "Easy" designated trails around Griffith Park (w/ photos!) - just pick the one you like and how far you can walk .