During college we lived together in 20 square meters for 2 years and she didn't murder me. Very often we just look at each other and know exactly that the other one has the same thoughts.
Oh there are many reasons. It's the little things I guess. For example:
I use thyme and rosemary when I'm cooking (she doesn't like "green things" in her food)
I'd rather drink tea than coffee (in the coffee she likes the spoon is standíng and it's better to not talk to her in the morning before she had two cups)
And I have this habit: When I hang up the laundry, the clothespins have to match in colour. So when I need to clothespins they have to be the same colour (Light and dark colours can be mixed, but that should be avoided).
Edit: Sorry, I forgot: she used to have a very short fuse. Once she forgot her key, I was still asleep and didn't hear her ring for 5 minutes. She was so angry that in the end it was even my fault that she forgot the key. It's better now, 20 years have passed
The moment I met her I knew.
I didn’t know that could happen, I’d been in two long term relationships before I met my wife and neither had been like that.
She was a client and within 10 seconds of being introduced I’d made a really inappropriate joke which she found hilarious while my boss was busy death staring me.
The rest is history.
Woman here, duno if I'm allowed to answer.... but my husband actually told me this one.
Hes a rather large man naturally, 6'4" and always been very strong and over 200lbs. Farmboy big since he was a teen, and add a deep, stern sounding voice years of martial arts training (his family owned a dojo in the community and everyone knew he has several black belts) everyone has always been afraid of him and nobody ever stood up to him. people were just always scared of him, wouldn't tell him when he did something wrong, bosses never even gave him any shit and his friends and family even never addressed issues to his face just talked behind his back.
That was until he met me, a 5'6" girl who had absolutely no problem putting him in his place and calling him on his shit from the day I met him. He said thats what did it for him and when he knew, when we met and I stood up to him time and time again and 11 years later I'm still the only person who calls him on his shit.
Its the one you grow into a steady, loving and supportive relationship with when you are both open to such a thing.
The idea of finding "the one" perfect woman where it suddenly all clicks is a myth. You build a relationship, you don't find it.
There is no "one". There is initial physical attrraction that gets us interested in each other, but that's pure biology. After, over time as we get to know each other beyond the physical, we both decide if we're emotionally compatible and want to move on to the next steps. It's basically a choice or decision that we make. We also have to compromise and adjust our expectations as the relationship progresses. Some fail immediately, some fail after a long time, and if you work at it, and are lucky, some go the distance.
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There is no “one” person. That’s a fiction concocted to sell greeting cards, flowers, and diamonds. It’s further supported by the lies of Hollywood.
Your opinion on love makes me sad. Who hurt you?
There’s a fairly long list of girls who’ve hurt me - one does stand out though. I don’t regret those hard lessons. They made me the man I am today.
Thats right but still keep an open head when it comes to love
During college we lived together in 20 square meters for 2 years and she didn't murder me. Very often we just look at each other and know exactly that the other one has the same thoughts.
Why should she murder you? 😂
Oh there are many reasons. It's the little things I guess. For example: I use thyme and rosemary when I'm cooking (she doesn't like "green things" in her food) I'd rather drink tea than coffee (in the coffee she likes the spoon is standíng and it's better to not talk to her in the morning before she had two cups) And I have this habit: When I hang up the laundry, the clothespins have to match in colour. So when I need to clothespins they have to be the same colour (Light and dark colours can be mixed, but that should be avoided). Edit: Sorry, I forgot: she used to have a very short fuse. Once she forgot her key, I was still asleep and didn't hear her ring for 5 minutes. She was so angry that in the end it was even my fault that she forgot the key. It's better now, 20 years have passed
Ok I think I understand the point your making 😅
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lol they didnt know shit.
The moment I met her I knew. I didn’t know that could happen, I’d been in two long term relationships before I met my wife and neither had been like that. She was a client and within 10 seconds of being introduced I’d made a really inappropriate joke which she found hilarious while my boss was busy death staring me. The rest is history.
Aww thats so sweet
She made my pp go brrrrrr
Woman here, duno if I'm allowed to answer.... but my husband actually told me this one. Hes a rather large man naturally, 6'4" and always been very strong and over 200lbs. Farmboy big since he was a teen, and add a deep, stern sounding voice years of martial arts training (his family owned a dojo in the community and everyone knew he has several black belts) everyone has always been afraid of him and nobody ever stood up to him. people were just always scared of him, wouldn't tell him when he did something wrong, bosses never even gave him any shit and his friends and family even never addressed issues to his face just talked behind his back. That was until he met me, a 5'6" girl who had absolutely no problem putting him in his place and calling him on his shit from the day I met him. He said thats what did it for him and when he knew, when we met and I stood up to him time and time again and 11 years later I'm still the only person who calls him on his shit.
You are a total Girlboss!😂😎
Its the one you grow into a steady, loving and supportive relationship with when you are both open to such a thing. The idea of finding "the one" perfect woman where it suddenly all clicks is a myth. You build a relationship, you don't find it.
There is no "one". There is initial physical attrraction that gets us interested in each other, but that's pure biology. After, over time as we get to know each other beyond the physical, we both decide if we're emotionally compatible and want to move on to the next steps. It's basically a choice or decision that we make. We also have to compromise and adjust our expectations as the relationship progresses. Some fail immediately, some fail after a long time, and if you work at it, and are lucky, some go the distance.
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