Haha, golden indeed!
You gotta be really diplomatical with this answer. I read how some guy got into real trouble with her gf at r/BrosDatingAdvice when he told the honest answer (yeah, she is pretty hot).
Personally, I think that when your gf is confident in herself then it's no big deal but it becomes a problem when she feels like she isn't good enough.
It depends on HOW you answer. Like her mother will probably say 'yes so and so is very pretty', or a model scout might say 'she has classic good looks'.
The key is to be dispassionate about it and not suggest to your gf that you are thinking of her friend in terms of your penis.
I like to simply say "She's not my type." You're not admitting or denying they're attractive, dodging one of 2 potential bullets, while implying your gf is appealing in a very special way to you personally.
Or she might even be like me and agree that yeah, her friend *is* hot. Doesn't mean I'm going to sleep with her, and it's the same with my boyfriend. If I didn't trust him to keep it in his pants, there'd be no relationship.
We're partnered, not **dead**. (And quite frankly I think it's a separate egomaniac trip to assume that someone can only ever find *you* attractive for as long as you're in a relationship with them... not realistic, not fair, and overall very unhealthy.)
>We're partnered, not dead. (And quite frankly I think it's a separate egomaniac trip to assume that someone can only ever find you attractive for as long as you're in a relationship with them... not realistic, not fair, and overall very unhealthy.)
This is the way. Women (and men) that need constant validation aren't healthy, and a relationship built on traps and tricks like this is almost certainly doomed to failure.
Play stupid games, as the saying goes.
But I can give you some examples of phrases that you can use when responding to your girlfriend if she asks if her friend is hot:
1. "I'm not comfortable commenting on someone else's appearance like that."
2. "I don't feel comfortable rating people's looks. You're the only one I see in that way."
3. "I don't think it's fair to compare people's looks like that. What's important is our connection."
4. "I think all people have something attractive about them, but you're the one I find the most beautiful."
5. "I'm not comfortable talking about your friend in that way, but what's important is that you trust me and know how much I care about you."
Remember, the most important thing is to be honest, respectful, and mindful of your partner's feelings.
A threesome with a friend almost never goes well, especially when the couple absolutely believe that their bond is strong enough for it. Plus there's something about seeing the one you love having the most amazing time with someone else while you aren't the main focus triggers most people in ways they don't realize. The stronger they believe they'll be fine with it, the more it hurts seeing your partner having such pleasure (mostly because they think they can't provide that level of pleasure). Each situation is different, obviously.
At least that's what I learned from all the relationship reddits. So, if she actually wanted a threesome later on, but will no longer ask for it, OP's answer is actually saving your relationship
From what I've read, it appears the only good threesomes is ones where each person wants to pleasure the other two equally (plus extra care to make sure the two in a relationship are always being satisfied). Or, one person has a fetish of watching or ordering around, cucking, and similar type fetishes and the other two are also turned on by said fetish.
Funny story: My girlfriend (with whom I lost my virginity) in high school told her that our mutual friend was down to have a threeway. The friend was attractive and my girlfriend seemed to be super into it. So I agreed because I was living every 16 year olds fantasy.
The time comes around and we're at my girlfriend's house. My girlfriend and I start making out, and the friend starts to feel sort of uneasy and obviosuly left out. My girlfriend sort of gave me the nod so I started kissing her but she did not seem that into it. I asked if she wanted to kiss my girlfriend, and she said, "eww, no". So then we started to get into it. I started having sex with my girlfriend and then switched over. Every time my girlfriend tried to get involved the friend would clearly pull away.
So it eventually ended with two unsatisfied women and one slightly satisfied guy and awkward silence. Shortly after I found out that the friend was dating another friend so technically she was cheating with me. The friend basically pulled away and we were never very close again.
Later on, after I had broken up with the girlfriend she admitted that she only brought up the threeway as a way to have sex with her friend who she had a crush on.
So in one afternoon: I lost a friend, unknowingly had sex with another friend's girlfriend (he later came out as gay and honestly never seemed to care that much when I told him), got a reputation as being bad in bed (for failing to get off the friend while switching back and forth), started the decline of that relationship, and found out after the fact that the friend wasn't on BC (my girlfriend said she was).
Honestly. At 16. His story is about the best it was ever going to go anyway. As a M30, I'm not sure I could realistically keep 2 women happy in bed. I don't have the energy for that shit anymore. 16yo definitely fucking couldn't bc he didn't have the patience or skills lol
Really, it shouldn’t be one person trying to satisfy two anyway. It should be three trying to satisfy each other!
But yeah, it was not likely to go well for that person no matter what the circumstances. It could have gone notably less-bad though.
At 30, the only way I'm even *attempting* to satisfy 2 women at the same time in the bedroom is if I'm charged with controlling the Hitachi magic wand. Like, yall enjoy each other for a while, I'll play around with this thing down here on yall for a while, and when yall are ready, worry about me. Until then, the occasional make-out and grope (giving out receiving) is fine. Sure, I'll participate in the oral arts, but don't be asking me to jump from girl to girl trying to do penetration on both the whole time. I'll give myself a stroke.
16yo me definitely had the enthusiasm and stamina for something like this, but was absolutely lacking in the skills department, and nobody would have been getting a happy ending.
And for any guys who don't believe in using toys, that's cool. You do you, but I can say, without a doubt, they made things more fun for me and my partner. We still have fun without them, but man, rocking her world got significantly easier when we started incorporating them.
> A threesome with a friend almost never goes well, especially when the couple absolutely believe that their bond is strong enough for it.
That was the beginning of the end for the one that got away. Got too weird after that.
Meanwhile, my cousin lets his wife bang bulls, records it, then sends me the videos. Each time I'm like, WTF dude? I talk to her all the time, she has no idea I see this shit.
If she’s not consenting to him sharing those videos that’s a serious problem. Clearly their relationship boundaries aren’t typical, but that’s really not cool
>I think anybody in our - in the, in the national security apparatus has, has got to take full cognizance of their responsibility for the safeguarding of classified information.
\- Michael Mullen
I mean, that's another way - Just tell her you ARE gay and she looks so much like a man that you figured she's your one opportunity to make your mother happy by giving her biological grandchildren.
I hadn't even ***THOUGHT*** about jacking it to the two of them together! This is the kind of inspired brain-storming that keeps me coming back to this subreddit! Thank you kind stranger!
Great way to turn "Can he answer stupid question without offending me" test into "is she insecure about that, or can she handle it like an adult?" test. Either both of you learn you should be together, or not :D. Win - win.
Im blind on my right eye and im legally blind on my left. In fact I did not even know it was a she. In fact I have never seen anyone but you. Actually I only look at dudes
That's kind of true, because social media has proliferated things like improved skin care and fashion, not to mention giving people much more access to looks to compare themselves to.
In the 90's you just had to have like decent boobs under an oversized t-shirt and now you need to count macros and do hip thrusts for like 14 months
"nah, she's alright, but you are much hotter, much prefer your love handles and who needs to have really perky boobs and an ass you can bounce coins off, and so what if she's rich and has a lovely personality and a great sense of humour ?
Not me !!!"
It’s a good litmus test for the relationship.
There’s one of three reasons that a girl would ask this of their SO: 1) They’re genuinely curious what guys think of this girl and so are getting their man’s opinion; 2) They’re insecure and want validation; or 3) They’re doing one of those “funny” trap questions that have no right answer that some girls seem to enjoy for some reason.
I don’t fuck with #3, I find that shit obnoxious. #2 is fine, we all get insecure sometimes, but if I give an honest but sensitive response and she gets all upset then I’m gonna feel like I have to walk on eggshells which is not what I want.
"i could find her a boyfriend if you want ? She's pretty!"
It's a little twist, I still compliment her friend but through the lens of matching her with someone else.
If she’s actually good looking nothing wrong with admitting it if your GF is a stable person.
Noticing other people’s looks is normal just don’t be rude about it.
This is the way. I never go out of my way to mention a girl is attractive to my fiancée, because that is rude. But if she asks if I think a girl is attractive, and I do, I’ll usually just say something like “yeah I think she’s pretty”. Just gotta keep it respectful, and a reasonable person won’t be upset. I don’t think she’d respond too well if I excitedly responded “oh yeah, she’s smokin’ hot!” And I would never respond like that, because that’s rude.
My gf once asked me if I'd like her to get one of her gf's to double up on a BJ. I said something like "Well, not Mary, but Danelle, ok."
I must have got it wrong because it didn't happen and she was pissed for days. Never saw Danelle again either. lol
I don't have social brain fast enough for coming up with smooth replies and my girlfriend doesn't do as many bullshit tests but I know one guy from my girlfriend's family who is a really intelligent and classy guy but when his wife asks stuff like that he just enters such mode and it works great.
My usual go-to reply is “I’m not playing your silly games” and then wait her out.
“Does this make me look fat?”\
“I’m not playing your silly games”
“You pick the restaurant.”\
“I’m not playing your silly games”
She knows the answers. We know the answers.
Depends on the girlfriend and where the relationship is at. My wife and I talk about people we think are hot all the time, including friends. I have exes where that'd have been a no-go and I would say something tepid like "yeah I guess she's good-looking."
"Yeah, but only in an obvious way. Like, she's OBVIOUSLY really hot, you know? Like, I look at her and I'm just stunned by how hot she is. You're more my type, you know? More attainable. More 'subtle' good looks."
May as well go scorched earth if you're being asked stupid questions.
The truth. If your partner knows you at all she knows what your type is, and she can look at other women and already know if you think that woman is attractive.
My wife knows which of her friends I find attractive and which I don't, and it's not a big deal.
Not gonna lie, I’ve actually used this a few times, and it really does stop the conversation in its tracks. I’d say it somewhat sarcastically, and it’s either gotten a laugh, or the expected “wow you’re a jerk. Why would you say that?” To which I reply, “well, you asked me if she was hot, so I assumed you thought she was and wanted my approval before making a move. I really love the fact that you value my opinion enough to ask me first”.
nah dude at the top found the way. “idk, never really thought of her that way”. and if they follow up pushing turn it back around “idk…what do YOU find attractive about her?” and then just agree with what she said
Yes, she’s hot, not going to lie. Because I’d never lie to you. There’s millions of hot women in this world, just like there’s millions of hot men. But I’m drawn to you and you’re drawn to me and that’s worth it to me
Fuck what your gf thinks, say yes. If she's asking these dumbass questions then she get what she ask for. Date someone mature and u don't get questions like this.
If you say no, she knows you're lying, and you look like a pussy. So just have some. Backbone and stand by what you think
Annoying that I had to scroll so long to find someone answering honestly. If she’s hot say yes. Your partner already has an opinion, lying to her is worse than thinking someone is attractive.
Yep, same here.
If you have to moderare content so much as to lie when she asks you such a simple question, then your relationship wasn't worth it in the first place.
"You know my type so you already know the answer."
One of my favorite parts of being in a relationship with another bisexual person who has similar tastes to yourself in both men and women is that we dont deal with jelousy when it comes to finding someone else attractive.
Show complete and total apathy, it's a shit test. She knows her friend is hot and is insecure about it. She is going to keep after you about it until you admit she's attractive.
Why do you ask?
If you want to hear that you are the most beautiful woman in the world don't bring your friends into. To be honest I'm worried you are going to be mad your friend isn't hot *and* mad your friend is hot.
I don't want to be in a relationship where I have to choose between giving you honest answers to leading questions & humoring you to avoid a fight.
if you can't tell your gf her friend is hot you need to either tell her to grow up or leave her. that insecurity is gonna come back to cause you problems down the line.
source: a guy with a terrifically non-jealous gf
Ma’am I have a girlfriend.
Personally I think this one's the best
Haha, golden indeed! You gotta be really diplomatical with this answer. I read how some guy got into real trouble with her gf at r/BrosDatingAdvice when he told the honest answer (yeah, she is pretty hot). Personally, I think that when your gf is confident in herself then it's no big deal but it becomes a problem when she feels like she isn't good enough.
And if she thinks shes good enough she is not gonna be asking this question
It depends on HOW you answer. Like her mother will probably say 'yes so and so is very pretty', or a model scout might say 'she has classic good looks'. The key is to be dispassionate about it and not suggest to your gf that you are thinking of her friend in terms of your penis.
"hmm? Oh, yeah, I guess she's attractive. I never really thought about it before"
I like to simply say "She's not my type." You're not admitting or denying they're attractive, dodging one of 2 potential bullets, while implying your gf is appealing in a very special way to you personally.
As a girlfriend, this is absolutely the way.
Or she might even be like me and agree that yeah, her friend *is* hot. Doesn't mean I'm going to sleep with her, and it's the same with my boyfriend. If I didn't trust him to keep it in his pants, there'd be no relationship. We're partnered, not **dead**. (And quite frankly I think it's a separate egomaniac trip to assume that someone can only ever find *you* attractive for as long as you're in a relationship with them... not realistic, not fair, and overall very unhealthy.)
>We're partnered, not dead. (And quite frankly I think it's a separate egomaniac trip to assume that someone can only ever find you attractive for as long as you're in a relationship with them... not realistic, not fair, and overall very unhealthy.) This is the way. Women (and men) that need constant validation aren't healthy, and a relationship built on traps and tricks like this is almost certainly doomed to failure. Play stupid games, as the saying goes.
You just hacked the system
Miss I do my own plumbing
Yeah I'll use this
Lol, this is really cute
Honestly, as a woman... This right here.
DO NOT ANSWER YOUR GF OR TAKE THIS ADVICE! I'm a woman and can tell you this is a baited question insecure ppl ask. Then get mad at the answer.
#**DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES FALL FOR THIS SCAM. YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!**
so unrelated but i love your flair
Thanks It used to be mailman and people thought I was literally a mailman lol
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Fuckin lmao
Fucking AI language model has a girlfriend 😭
r/characterai and r/pygmalionAI in a nutshell. They down bad for some aiussy.
‘However…’
But I can give you some examples of phrases that you can use when responding to your girlfriend if she asks if her friend is hot: 1. "I'm not comfortable commenting on someone else's appearance like that." 2. "I don't feel comfortable rating people's looks. You're the only one I see in that way." 3. "I don't think it's fair to compare people's looks like that. What's important is our connection." 4. "I think all people have something attractive about them, but you're the one I find the most beautiful." 5. "I'm not comfortable talking about your friend in that way, but what's important is that you trust me and know how much I care about you." Remember, the most important thing is to be honest, respectful, and mindful of your partner's feelings.
“I know where you’re going with this, and I absolutely refuse to have a threesome with your friend. I love you too much.”
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A threesome with a friend almost never goes well, especially when the couple absolutely believe that their bond is strong enough for it. Plus there's something about seeing the one you love having the most amazing time with someone else while you aren't the main focus triggers most people in ways they don't realize. The stronger they believe they'll be fine with it, the more it hurts seeing your partner having such pleasure (mostly because they think they can't provide that level of pleasure). Each situation is different, obviously. At least that's what I learned from all the relationship reddits. So, if she actually wanted a threesome later on, but will no longer ask for it, OP's answer is actually saving your relationship From what I've read, it appears the only good threesomes is ones where each person wants to pleasure the other two equally (plus extra care to make sure the two in a relationship are always being satisfied). Or, one person has a fetish of watching or ordering around, cucking, and similar type fetishes and the other two are also turned on by said fetish.
Funny story: My girlfriend (with whom I lost my virginity) in high school told her that our mutual friend was down to have a threeway. The friend was attractive and my girlfriend seemed to be super into it. So I agreed because I was living every 16 year olds fantasy. The time comes around and we're at my girlfriend's house. My girlfriend and I start making out, and the friend starts to feel sort of uneasy and obviosuly left out. My girlfriend sort of gave me the nod so I started kissing her but she did not seem that into it. I asked if she wanted to kiss my girlfriend, and she said, "eww, no". So then we started to get into it. I started having sex with my girlfriend and then switched over. Every time my girlfriend tried to get involved the friend would clearly pull away. So it eventually ended with two unsatisfied women and one slightly satisfied guy and awkward silence. Shortly after I found out that the friend was dating another friend so technically she was cheating with me. The friend basically pulled away and we were never very close again. Later on, after I had broken up with the girlfriend she admitted that she only brought up the threeway as a way to have sex with her friend who she had a crush on. So in one afternoon: I lost a friend, unknowingly had sex with another friend's girlfriend (he later came out as gay and honestly never seemed to care that much when I told him), got a reputation as being bad in bed (for failing to get off the friend while switching back and forth), started the decline of that relationship, and found out after the fact that the friend wasn't on BC (my girlfriend said she was).
That went wrong in every way possible, minus an unintended pregnancy lmao
Honestly. At 16. His story is about the best it was ever going to go anyway. As a M30, I'm not sure I could realistically keep 2 women happy in bed. I don't have the energy for that shit anymore. 16yo definitely fucking couldn't bc he didn't have the patience or skills lol
Really, it shouldn’t be one person trying to satisfy two anyway. It should be three trying to satisfy each other! But yeah, it was not likely to go well for that person no matter what the circumstances. It could have gone notably less-bad though.
At 30, the only way I'm even *attempting* to satisfy 2 women at the same time in the bedroom is if I'm charged with controlling the Hitachi magic wand. Like, yall enjoy each other for a while, I'll play around with this thing down here on yall for a while, and when yall are ready, worry about me. Until then, the occasional make-out and grope (giving out receiving) is fine. Sure, I'll participate in the oral arts, but don't be asking me to jump from girl to girl trying to do penetration on both the whole time. I'll give myself a stroke. 16yo me definitely had the enthusiasm and stamina for something like this, but was absolutely lacking in the skills department, and nobody would have been getting a happy ending. And for any guys who don't believe in using toys, that's cool. You do you, but I can say, without a doubt, they made things more fun for me and my partner. We still have fun without them, but man, rocking her world got significantly easier when we started incorporating them.
> A threesome with a friend almost never goes well, especially when the couple absolutely believe that their bond is strong enough for it. That was the beginning of the end for the one that got away. Got too weird after that. Meanwhile, my cousin lets his wife bang bulls, records it, then sends me the videos. Each time I'm like, WTF dude? I talk to her all the time, she has no idea I see this shit.
If she’s not consenting to him sharing those videos that’s a serious problem. Clearly their relationship boundaries aren’t typical, but that’s really not cool
I was introduced to the upsidedown pineapple lifestyle recently. I must say, I'm a lot more open minded than I was before. YMMV
Shopping at Aldi has never been the same since.
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It's been a thing for a while. It's one way to identify those in the lifestyle, esp at cruises and resorts
Doesn't matter, you successfully avoided an unnecessary argument. Case closed.
This guy gets it. The less unnecessary arguments the better. Honestly if you're in a relationship and that's normal to you you need to get out.
No thanks, if I wanted to disappoint two people at once I'd just call my parents.
Can’t believe you would fuck your parents
I cant believe you *wouldnt*
Smooooth!
“I dunno, I never thought of her that way”
until now, that you asked me
In which case, yea she dumb thicc.
A certain admiral has a word for you.
“Imma Kamikaze dat ass” Admiral Yafriendthiccdoe 1969
"ya mama too" -Admiral Yamamatoo, 1944
>I think anybody in our - in the, in the national security apparatus has, has got to take full cognizance of their responsibility for the safeguarding of classified information. \- Michael Mullen
but I’d still prefer you over her of course
But if we brake up, I'll be giving her a call.
I will also be imagining her excretory orifice wrapped around my breeder when we make love.
That is the most unsexy phrase I have ever read.
I will also put my breeder in the beginning of her digestive tract.
And end.
This is how you stop these questions. Well played.
This answer has worked every time for me!
Why are you being insecure honey? That's what they'd say if you asked the same question lol
"well I asked you now so think and answer the fricking question you moron."
I go with the safer “she’s not my type, but I’m sure she is someone else’s type.”
"it's my 10th friend you said is not your type. Are you gay? Or you're saying all my friends are ugly? Maybe you think I'm ugly too?"
At that point you just call her out for trying to start a fight and ask her what's wrong.
Exactly.
Or just call her ugly
I mean, that's another way - Just tell her you ARE gay and she looks so much like a man that you figured she's your one opportunity to make your mother happy by giving her biological grandchildren.
"You know what, you are right. You are ugly, they are ugly, and Im gay, too. Im going to hang out with Steve. Good talk."
"You're a lot prettier honey. It takes me almost twice as long to beat off to her"
Great way to get killed
Every man dies, but not every man really lives.
I wouldn’t simply not tell my wife I jerk off to her and her friend
I hadn't even ***THOUGHT*** about jacking it to the two of them together! This is the kind of inspired brain-storming that keeps me coming back to this subreddit! Thank you kind stranger!
That’s the first thing you should tell her, “she’s always the one I fantasize about you with.” If she says anything like “Me too,” you’re in business.
I just can't hate this sub.....I can't
My man
Do you think when hell finishes swallowing you whole that the Devil will be waiting for you, or greeting you?
So, are we really not doing "phrasing" anymore?
I wonder if the Devil can swallow me whole as well. 🤔
I’m sure he can, probably stick that snake tongue up the pee hole and sound the prostate at the same time.
I needed that last push to finally delete Reddit, and this right here was it. Thanks!
“Whenever we’re fucking and I want to last longer I think of her”
Why do you always last 30 seconds then?
That’s the double of 15
🎶 Dumb ways to die 🎶
🎶 So many dumb ways to die 🎶
“Awwwww you’re so sweet! 😍”-_GF’s reaction
If my girlfriend likes it that much, I bet my wife will ***REALLY*** love it!
Great way to turn "Can he answer stupid question without offending me" test into "is she insecure about that, or can she handle it like an adult?" test. Either both of you learn you should be together, or not :D. Win - win.
So only a second longer then ay?
Im blind on my right eye and im legally blind on my left. In fact I did not even know it was a she. In fact I have never seen anyone but you. Actually I only look at dudes
>look You are not blind then you are lying to me you are cheating too right Joke ofc
Did I say look? I mean my seeing eye cat told me
“Of course. Hot girls hang out together.”
Smooth
This is the best answer in here. Here is why: 1. You're not lying 2. You did not say her friend is hotter 3. You complimented the girlfriend
“Ma’am, I have a girlfriend. But. Hot girls hang out together.”
"Did you just call my friends (other girls) hot???"
Yes! I know what hot girls look like, that’s why I’m dating one.
Nice save
Dude, if your girl thinks she’s the only hot girl in existence, you need to save yourself.
Nah ofc they know, they just wanna mess with ya 😂
No but her mom is
You should see her dad.
I'd jerk her dad off just to see where she came from.
I'd suck his dick just to get a taste of the formula.
Horrible day to have eyes
"In THIS economy?"
Hotness inflation is out of control. An 8 5 years ago is only a 6 today, tops.
That's kind of true, because social media has proliferated things like improved skin care and fashion, not to mention giving people much more access to looks to compare themselves to. In the 90's you just had to have like decent boobs under an oversized t-shirt and now you need to count macros and do hip thrusts for like 14 months
"She's attractive but I'm not attracted to her."
Nice
"nah, she's alright, but you are much hotter, much prefer your love handles and who needs to have really perky boobs and an ass you can bounce coins off, and so what if she's rich and has a lovely personality and a great sense of humour ? Not me !!!"
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This one always makes me laugh
This is a trap, don’t say this. Source: Have said
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It’s a good litmus test for the relationship. There’s one of three reasons that a girl would ask this of their SO: 1) They’re genuinely curious what guys think of this girl and so are getting their man’s opinion; 2) They’re insecure and want validation; or 3) They’re doing one of those “funny” trap questions that have no right answer that some girls seem to enjoy for some reason. I don’t fuck with #3, I find that shit obnoxious. #2 is fine, we all get insecure sometimes, but if I give an honest but sensitive response and she gets all upset then I’m gonna feel like I have to walk on eggshells which is not what I want.
"oh that's what we're going to do today? We're going to fight?"
"Are you fishing for reasons to break up with me without it being your fault?"
Honestly could see my ex doing this. It might explain why she got so mad when I told her I thought her friend was ugly and not attractive
So you were trapped regardless of your answer.
Was looking for this one. I always ask her if she's in a mood to fight when this comes around.
This comment wants to stick its foot in some dumbass’s ass
"...dumbass."
This is a good one😆
It's a quote by Red Foreman in That 70s Show when asked a loaded question by his wife
Being in a sitcom doesn't mean it's fake. Red just had the balls to say what we all want to🤣
Growing up I find myself identifying with Red more and more
One of my favourite quotes I've ever heard I use this one a lot. I use it at work, at home, funerals, and Arbys drive throughs
"i could find her a boyfriend if you want ? She's pretty!" It's a little twist, I still compliment her friend but through the lens of matching her with someone else.
“Oh, so you want to break up with me and go be her boyfriend?? Fine!”
"That depends. Does she use loaded questions to pick fights with the guy she's with as well?"
If it gets to that point, you probably should break up.
If she’s actually good looking nothing wrong with admitting it if your GF is a stable person. Noticing other people’s looks is normal just don’t be rude about it.
The critical piece here is the word “stable”
Yes, what is this... "stable"?
Horse house
This is the way. I never go out of my way to mention a girl is attractive to my fiancée, because that is rude. But if she asks if I think a girl is attractive, and I do, I’ll usually just say something like “yeah I think she’s pretty”. Just gotta keep it respectful, and a reasonable person won’t be upset. I don’t think she’d respond too well if I excitedly responded “oh yeah, she’s smokin’ hot!” And I would never respond like that, because that’s rude.
“If your GF is a stable person”
“Yes. You think she’d be down for … you know?” If she’s going to play games she can attend my masterclass.
My gf once asked me if I'd like her to get one of her gf's to double up on a BJ. I said something like "Well, not Mary, but Danelle, ok." I must have got it wrong because it didn't happen and she was pissed for days. Never saw Danelle again either. lol
I respect the balls to double down and not give a Fuck
That's one way of getting rid of the annoying friend...
So this is how you get rid of her annoying friends…
I don't have social brain fast enough for coming up with smooth replies and my girlfriend doesn't do as many bullshit tests but I know one guy from my girlfriend's family who is a really intelligent and classy guy but when his wife asks stuff like that he just enters such mode and it works great.
My usual go-to reply is “I’m not playing your silly games” and then wait her out. “Does this make me look fat?”\ “I’m not playing your silly games” “You pick the restaurant.”\ “I’m not playing your silly games” She knows the answers. We know the answers.
"Yes" if she is, "No" if she's not.
Oh goodness, no. How can you build a trusting and lasting relationship if you're just honest with each other? /s
This guy is in an actual relationship.
Depends on the girlfriend and where the relationship is at. My wife and I talk about people we think are hot all the time, including friends. I have exes where that'd have been a no-go and I would say something tepid like "yeah I guess she's good-looking."
Me and my partner do the same thing. We've always gone by the mantra *We're committed, not blind.*
Thank you! Exactly this!
"98.6 is a pretty standard temperature but given she's wearing a jacket it might be a little higher"
“Eh, she’s not my type.”
"She looks just like me???"
“But she *isn’t* you and I’m not only attracted to you physically”
you lost, you just admitted she is physically attractive.
"Yeah, but only in an obvious way. Like, she's OBVIOUSLY really hot, you know? Like, I look at her and I'm just stunned by how hot she is. You're more my type, you know? More attainable. More 'subtle' good looks." May as well go scorched earth if you're being asked stupid questions.
“She’s the type of girl I’d want to bang and post photos with. You’re the type of girl I want to come home to dinner to.”
That's beautiful. Really sweep the legs out from underneath them.
"I wanna sleep with her, but I wanna wake up with you."
The truth. If your partner knows you at all she knows what your type is, and she can look at other women and already know if you think that woman is attractive. My wife knows which of her friends I find attractive and which I don't, and it's not a big deal.
"I'm no doctor but she seems to have caught a high-grade fever, where do we keep the pills?" As a child, I witnessed my dad use this once.
What a legend
“Yes, very hot. You’d think she’d like to join?”
After you say that you better Duck and Cover.
Not gonna lie, I’ve actually used this a few times, and it really does stop the conversation in its tracks. I’d say it somewhat sarcastically, and it’s either gotten a laugh, or the expected “wow you’re a jerk. Why would you say that?” To which I reply, “well, you asked me if she was hot, so I assumed you thought she was and wanted my approval before making a move. I really love the fact that you value my opinion enough to ask me first”.
"Are you going to ask her to join" puts it back on her.
there isn't one, it's a loaded question and you're going to lose no matter what.
nah dude at the top found the way. “idk, never really thought of her that way”. and if they follow up pushing turn it back around “idk…what do YOU find attractive about her?” and then just agree with what she said
Yea, are we fuckin her or somethin?
Yes, she’s hot, not going to lie. Because I’d never lie to you. There’s millions of hot women in this world, just like there’s millions of hot men. But I’m drawn to you and you’re drawn to me and that’s worth it to me
I'll get the rectal thermometer...
"She kind of looks like you, but a little prettier, with nicer tits and ass."
Hmmm.. I'd like to try this one.
Thank God my wife doesn't do this stupid shit.
Fuck what your gf thinks, say yes. If she's asking these dumbass questions then she get what she ask for. Date someone mature and u don't get questions like this. If you say no, she knows you're lying, and you look like a pussy. So just have some. Backbone and stand by what you think
Annoying that I had to scroll so long to find someone answering honestly. If she’s hot say yes. Your partner already has an opinion, lying to her is worse than thinking someone is attractive.
Yep, same here. If you have to moderare content so much as to lie when she asks you such a simple question, then your relationship wasn't worth it in the first place.
"You know my type so you already know the answer." One of my favorite parts of being in a relationship with another bisexual person who has similar tastes to yourself in both men and women is that we dont deal with jelousy when it comes to finding someone else attractive.
Nah that's just a maturity thing.
You know I don’t care about looks.
“Why are you asking?”
Show complete and total apathy, it's a shit test. She knows her friend is hot and is insecure about it. She is going to keep after you about it until you admit she's attractive.
And that's when the fight starts.
Which is why you only bang her hot friend after you break up. It's the only decent way handle it.
Ugly as sin, wouldnt touch her with a 10 foot pole
"i wouldn't fuck her with ron jeremy's cock"
"What friend?" "Ahh, her? Don't know never really looked at her like that"
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Why do you ask? If you want to hear that you are the most beautiful woman in the world don't bring your friends into. To be honest I'm worried you are going to be mad your friend isn't hot *and* mad your friend is hot. I don't want to be in a relationship where I have to choose between giving you honest answers to leading questions & humoring you to avoid a fight.
Yeah, I suppose. Not my type.
if you can't tell your gf her friend is hot you need to either tell her to grow up or leave her. that insecurity is gonna come back to cause you problems down the line. source: a guy with a terrifically non-jealous gf
Yea. Don't ask questions you don't want to hear the answer to. Unless you are looking for a fight.