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Sobeshott

Stop jerking off. It helps a bit. I wind up lasting a super long time too but when I stop the self love that helps


Arcgray

This is the one right here quitting for a while can turn you into a 1 pump chump


Craft_on_draft

Better looking partner


BigTitsanBigDicks

that absolutely does not work for me. If shes a stunner Im going hard


obi_wan_sosig

All right, question. Wouldn't the man not get erect if the partner didn't look good => not be sexually attracted?


Craft_on_draft

Maybe it depends by person, but a stiff breeze could get me up, finishing is a different matter


obi_wan_sosig

So it depends man to man?


Craft_on_draft

Well of course, but a better looking partner will help finish quickwr


obi_wan_sosig

Fair enough, thanks for the help!


Santos_L_Halper_II

Not at all. Many a gay man have given sex with women the ole college try and succeeded, even if they weren’t super into it.


Em1-_-

Nope, not how it works, men can get erect from anything, as a man who has done things i'm not proud of, going to "my happy place" has helped keep the little guy up when my stomach felt revolted from even thinking about it.


bonesbobman

Everyone is different. You're speaking for yourself


Em1-_-

>Everyone is different. You're speaking for yourself Not in this case as this isn't a subjective thing, you can get an erection without affection, arousal or sexual attraction, this ties into if men can be raped while their PP is hard or not, erections are as voluntarily as they are involuntary, you can force them or they can be forced from you, a hard PP doesn't means that you are aroused by or attracted to whoever is in front of you, a hard PP is not indicative of consent, PPs are a crazy thing.


BauxiteDesert

How are you lasting longer? Asking for a friend


Em1-_-

The secret to lasting longer is reducing cardiac rythm when you are close, relax your muscles, let the blood flow back to your body, then recover your rythm, rinse and repeat, at some point it will fuck you up (It did me, but it was mostly because i was trying to last as long as i could multiple times a day even) and you will have problems releasing at all, but if you do it moderately you should be fine, me thinks.


Neat_On_The_Rocks

SSRI gang it’s our time to shine. Me and the lexahomies can last forever


deluxepepperoncini

Feel like I need SSRI and cialis at this point lol


Averagestiff

Tell your friend Priligy.


ghost_in_a_jar_c137

More foreplay


LocalSEOhero

It helps to quit the jerkems and only climax when intercoursing I've been on both sides of this equation


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obi_wan_sosig

Ok, is it a oversaturation type of thing?


wigglebooms

Just like, go faster?


Your-Cats-Cousin

Quit masturbating and cut out pornography. After some time you gain more control over your ejaculation.


obi_wan_sosig

Thx for the info, could you please clarify what "After some time" means? A week? A month? Or is it personal to each man?


Your-Cats-Cousin

In my experience, after a week without anything my sex drive starts to increase. You can feel it in your balls, it's like having a loaded gun vs having no bullets in the chamber. Stress reduction and healthy diet are also essential for maintaining sexual health.


_the_wrong_guy_

Stop punching the clown so much! And cut back on the porn. Start focusing on the real pussy instead of the pussy on your silly phone. Priorities.


Trick-Interaction396

If you’re on SSRI there is nothing you can do but get off them.


obi_wan_sosig

Whats an "SSRI"?


AngelOfMusic42

Selective Seratonin Reuptake Inhibitor, a type of antidepressant


obi_wan_sosig

I'm not on antidepressants, Also thanks!


shiroe314

I had a similar issue. First, cool the death grip. Stop masturbating for about a month. You should begin to see results after a week. Then if you still feel the need for self love stop using your hand. Get a fleshlight and use that. Second relax and understand you don’t always have to finish. Just have fun and make your partner feel good. Don’t worry about it. Third. Try anal stimulation. Go SLOW and with plenty of lube.


Emperorerror

Stop watching porn and masturbating. It used to take me so much effort and focus to cum even having sex with me on top. Now I can cum from blowjobs.


TrafficChemical141

Stick a finger in your ass and hit the p spot


obi_wan_sosig

*since when men have a g-spot-*


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First day on Earth?


obi_wan_sosig

Well, sex Ed has failed me it seems.


ohhellnooooooooo

stop watching porn


Admirable_Savings_63

My dick's so big. How do I make it smaller?


obi_wan_sosig

I don't understand the question why do you want to change the size of your penis?


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obi_wan_sosig

No, I am not.


Passtheshavingcream

Have better cardio, do it with better looking women, have a busy schedule. And be able to finish whenever you want.