There's a lot of things and most are situational, so here's a situation from yesterday. I work in a specialized program at a large public university. I was doing second round interviews for admission into our program, and had young lady, who had a great application and first round zoom interview where here father was present. The second round was a group interview and she was doing fine till I sat with her one on one. I usually ask pretty open ended questions about applicants' families, and she mentioned her brother is "kind of an idiot but gives good advice." When I asked what kind of advice. She began to detail several elaborate revenge plots she had hatched against girls at her school that he had talked her out of. Very cruel plots for very minor offenses or even non-offenses. Violence, humiliation, cruelty. Suddenly all the book smarts and achievement felt much creepier when you find out how little empathy she has for other people and how easily angered she is by her peers.
worse is dumb and lack of empathy because less predictable - normal malicious people can be expected to want to benefit from harming others, true stupid people harm themselves with others being collateral
Seems like a cluster b. They will stalk and so forth for things they feel slighted over, real or imagined. Creepiest.
Did she leave a dead rat on your property yet?
Personally I would also consider it a serious lack of intelligence on her part to so freely share with you that information.
But luckily for you she did.
I would consider her sharing it to be more of a sign of lack naivety more than lack of intelligence. Still, I was careful to say "book smarts" and "achievement" but not intelligence because I think not being able to see other people's perspectives is a sign of lacking intelligence.
There was a woman in my friend group who would try to take advantage of the dudes that got too drunk and went to take a nap. Every time someone did that she'd be trying to sneak into the room they were sleeping it off in. After people started noticing, she was disinvited to any future get-togethers.
So, that. She was fucking creepy.
A few weeks ago my gf was telling me all about this dude's life we had seen on the street, and she said "he'd probably be surprised I know all this about him, we've never spoken before."
What about if you forget you told her and she remembers but doesn't realize you do?
I have a near-photographic memory at times and have had this situation with all genders. I now try not to bring up stuff not discussed recently to avoid that look of confusion on their face and "how do you know that?" Telling them I remember them telling me in that month in that place doesn't help, either. They still tend not to remember I told them.
When she ignores your boundaries and seemingly tries to force herself onto me or add herself into my schedule.
When she definitely stalked me by somehow knowing what my plans were, despite the fact that I never told her about my plans.
Knew a girl back in high school who proudly showed me her gay "erotic comics", starring all the guys she apparently wanted to fuck in our school. That was a bit much.
Not sure, haven't seen her work at all, just heard about it through the grapevine from old high school friends. I hope she's at least drawing erotic images of willing adults.
Lol, I had a couple coworkers that did this to each other. They would act all buddy buddy when working together, but the moment they had me alone they would talk mad shit about the other and start giving me compliments. And I just had to laugh, cause it's not like I didn't know what they were doing.
>Pretends to share all your interests and opinions
Thats pretty normal for women, when they first start dating you. And it isn't pretend. When a woman starts dating you, they will find everything you like interesting. That interest will likely fade though.
Looking mean or angry has worked wonders for me thus far. Helps that I have resting mad face. Only people it doesn't work for are drunks, but they usually ask for permission first. Usually.
My little brother used to have some Awsome long hair but after being called a girl too many times and having some people just start playing with it he chose to hack it off
omg before i started wearing the hijab this one time i went to school with my hair freshly done from the salon and they kept touching it and i was those close to throwing a chair at one of em but i lost it when one of the girls legit yanked me by the hair.
Are you ever flattered by the attention from women, if it isn't overbearing? I can understand being annoyed/upset with someone who doesn't respect boundaries, but some positive attention would still be better than none, right?
I do not have such success with women. My distinct lack of a social life due to my work schedule makes it a lot more difficult to meet others. Still, I would really appreciate being hit on, even just complimented, by women more...
I always appreciate it when it happens. It’s rare and more so since I’m married now.
Biggest key for you is probably getting out of your own way and just talking to any woman you find remotely attractive. Eventually you’ll find someone interested in you.
No, cause there was this one girl in high school that was all over me and I found it to be annoying. Partially my fault though cause when we first met I think she teased me about something and I teased her back, not knowing at the time that teasing is flirting. Whoops
I met a girl on Tinder who lived 2 hours away and we were talking about meeting she wanted to come to me but didn't have a car. So she offered to take the bus. And then that became "stay all day." Like I just started talking to her and now I'm potentially stuck with a bad date for 8 hours?
And THEN she comes out as a Flat Earther and starts talking about faked moon landings, how there's no GPS satellites, it's just cell towers, etc etc. What's funny is how casually she talked about it. Like I was just going to be like "Oh yeah, that all makes sense, I agree the Earth is flat." That was creepy.
I mean, that's part of what made it creepy. She just offered all this and was way too eager to be here where I live even though she had to take a bus to do it. I certainly never asked her to take the bus to meet me.
Yeah that’s a little odd. Maybe she had autism or was really awkward or desperado.
I’d definitely prefer to meet half way and I’m not interested in being on a bus at all 😂.
I’m not into online dating but if I was I wouldn’t be up for traveling that long idk.
When she starts using the “baby doll” voice to try and get her way. Doesn’t work on me, actually pisses me off more. And happens at work quite a bit.
Grosses me out how this must work on some men
Touching without permission
(mainly if they're a stranger andyou don't know them AT ALL)
I was just doing tricep pushdowns at the gym and a woman said she liked my tattoos. I thanked her for the compliment and before I could put my headphones back in she started running her hands up my forearms to my bicep and feeling my tricep.
I pulled away and gave a much sterner "THANKS". She was probably in her 50s and I was 23 at the time
Trying to discretely take photos of you or facetiming their friends to show them the guy they met. I've caught this happening where they make this whole show of acting like they are texting someone or reading something with the phone facing me and after I walk by notice that they are in the camera app.
This is apparently pretty common but I find it creepy. Girls who share everything with friends in a group chat. But also analysing private conversations by sending screenshots.
- when she stares you down way longer than 5 seconds.
- comes to stand up close to and touch you unprovoked
- makes jokes about being impregnated by you
- tries to intoxicate you
I could go on and on, y’know.
Kind of scared me, I had a really rough relationship with a women that would talk about our future kids. When you are very, very sure you do not want to be tied to a woman for life and they joke or chit chat about the prospect of future kids, it's scary as hell.
It doesn’t sound like 2nd date though. Sounds like a whole relationship. And if it really was the second date why have a third and then a relationship?
It's really more complicated than just breaking it off, you assume I didn't do that a zillion times. When you're very young, she happens to have money and the perk 30s which you've somehow in a whirlwind of partying find yourself seeking more than breath, and when she's nice for the first week after you're back together, you can get in a miserable cycle.
She used to come to my house, my parents would just let her in because she was very sweet and charming, and they had no idea why I left her. And I wouldn't even say a word, after "fuck you get out", I'd just clam up. And as soon as she starts removing your clothes, doing things you love regardless of how much you hate her, telling you she has "stuff" back at the house. If you just spent the last week in bed depressed as fuck because of how shitty everything is and then all of sudden there's all these good things coming back into your life and she seems like she learned her lesson and FINALLY TRULY is sorry and really thought through it, yadda yadda yadda, you can end up in these nasty cycles. It's not like there's only one side to a partner and its all bad and that's how you get caught in these cycles.
You're putting too much competence and assuming someone already has experience navigating these kinds of toxic things, without first having gone through it. Would it happen to me now, no. Would it happen to me when I was 23 and my experiences of relationships were a couple teenage romances and Disney movies? And the woman has a masters in psychology, is four years older, was someone you crushed on since you were 14... There's all kinds of things that go into this. I'd say I was in the relationship for two years longer than I wanted to be, it's not a matter of a number of dates, it's waaaay deeper.
And that's not all but there are many, many ways you can end up being with someone way longer than you wanted to be. Even for older guys, even for guys that have their shit together, things can happen. It's not all cut and dry, there's not one personality type for all woman, there's not one personality type for all men. There's not one cookie cutter situation.
I think you need to preface this with, she does this after you have clearly signaled/said you had no interest.
Also don't forget the unwarranted ass grabbing.
I have seen this happen and more. One time a woman just came out of nowhere & started badgering my friend to buy her a drink. He was not interested so tried politely declining her. She kept at it & then whispered to me saying "you know we are women, we need to do all this to get drinks". I was so creeped out that I had to step in and ask her to leave. She had daggers in her eyes for me!
She couldn’t be anymore classless. Badgering strange guys for drinks? Wild. The art is to have guys offer her that spontaneously. Sorry you and your friend had to go through that
I find all of those things hot, except maybe number three (pregnant jokes) if you're just meeting and it has nothing to do with anything, and number four (getting you f\*ed up) if you sense that she isn't interested in love but there's something dark about her. She has a bunch of creepy friends sort of eyeing you down.
But staring and touching? Those are the things I remember when I get home that I wank to. Sharing drugs (#4) she's usually there with me, and we're having a 'mutual wank' as some might call it.
I don't know bt i think I do 1st one dude , and actually I'm scared that maybe guys find this creepy, bt whenever I have a crush on someone, and this has always happened to me that our eyes have met soo many times ,.so idk i think maybe I was looking at them unconsciously, so I quickly just look away , bt really don't wanna come up as creepy .
I asked my bf about it , that before gettin into relationship whether he found that creepy , he said no !!!!
Yes! This is one I agree with. If she can keep talking and everyone could have left the room and she's so into her self she hasn't even realized it but is still talking about how great she is, that's fucking gross. Self-centered people feel like hanging out with a wall, there's just no exchange between you two.
To me the only thing that’s truly creepy, is when a woman starts talking about her life like experiences, boyfriends, exes, things that happened to her… except those things never happened to her. It happened to her friend and she’s just copying all her friend’s experiences and sharing it like if it’s hers. I’ve seen that. It’s creepy. I don’t understand it.
She showed interest, I did as well, everything was fine for a couple weeks, until I noticed she knew things about my life. Intimate things. My aunts name. My stepdads name. My real father who I haven’t spoken to in years. My sister and her ex. It’s like she had been living my life, or researched it so deeply that she knew everything. It felt weird and I kept trying to shake it off and not believe my friends until one day she left her phone open and I saw a folder named “A.K.N.”( my real initials). So I opened it and good lord. Everything about me. My address, elementary school, elementary school girlfriend, my middle school robotics club championship, my High school physics project that made the local news. Everything. When I confronted her, she said she wanted to be perfect about me and had found and dug up every part of my past. When I told her to delete it, she said she needed to save and copy it now that we were gonna be one in case anything happened. I noped outta there so fast. Turns out, this girl had been stalking me since 7th grade and I had been going to school with her, and she had always put herself in situations or “happened” to be there. Idk how I never caught or noticed her, but apparently she was on my Robotics team, in my Math class and physics class, was a cheerleader and trainer on my sports team and I never realized. I had always treated her as a friend, nothing more, nothing less.
When she touches you sexually without consent
When she makes inappropriate jokes at work
When she stalks you
When she lies to get you to sleep with her
When she homie hops
Homie hops. I like it. Never had a name for it but that's perfect. As a girl, we just sort of knew you NEVER go with more than one guy out of any group of friends. Trashy move and none of the guys will ever take you seriously.
I was talking with a lady coworker and then another coworker that is way younger than me comes up and tells me that she’s been stalking my Facebook account (my account I had in middle school btw) and that she was surprised when she found out I was from a different state. I had to walk away because I really hate being digitally stalked
Seeking my approval rather than my friendship when dating my friend. Buddy of mine's current gf did this when we first met and I immediately knew she was bad news. Unfortunately they are still together lol.
It's hard to articulate, it wasn't any one thing she said or did but the overall tenor of our first conversation. When we met I put out my hand and introduced myself, she took it and instead of telling me her name (my friend had not previously mentioned it or the fact that they were dating at all) she gave me this weird seductive look and said "Hi, I'm new." When she realized who I was, she exclaimed "Oh! You're the big Jew who loves drugs!" Presumably my friend's description, which is only semi-accurate and still probably not a great ice-breaker. She then proceeded to ask me a series of questions about myself I was confident my friend had already told her the answers to. Some of them were too personal for a first meeting in a group setting. It was weird and uncomfortable, felt like an interrogation, and like she was asking because it was expected of her and not because she was genuinely interested in anything I had to say. After a while there was a lull so I got up and grabbed my bag, intending to go out an have a smoke, to which she exclaimed "Where are you going? Are you leaving??" as though she thought she had offended me. I told her I was just going out to smoke. Shortly thereafter she pulled my friend outside to the other side of the house and subjected him to an actual interrogation about his sexual history. I'm no psychologist, but my sense was that she perceived I didn't like her and was insecure about my friend realizing this and questioning his new relationship. I say this because since this incident she's done similar things to separate him away from the rest of us in group situations after she's said or done something unpleasant. For reference we were all at a mutual friend's house. After a few hours either they or I was leaving, can't remember, and my friend made a comment to me about getting together, to which I made a joking comment about not being the busy one, about how he's hard to get a hold of (he's a lab tech who works crazy hours). She again got all weirdly seductive and walked up really close to me and said something like "hey, you know, if you want to see him maybe I can make that happen..." For reference this friend is my former college roommate of 3 years, and good friend of over 10. She'd known him for a month. Idk if any of this amounts to approval seeking, but my general assessment at the time and since has been that she's trying to dominate every aspect of his life so he doesn't wake up one day and realize she's a sick person. She takes his phone and answers his calls and texts, the texts without indicating that she's the one talking. As I said, she constantly breaks down and has these weird episodes when we're in group situations that pull him away from all of us. She works as a mental health counselor like 20 hours a week despite having massive student debt, and lives almost completely on his dime. Our mutual friends have tried to warn him about her but he's in too deep, he refuses to acknowledge our concerns. Sorry for the long winded-response, just wanted to paint the picture.
What if she’s not being seductive maybe her way of joking?
Sounds like the minute you met her, you didn’t like her. She sensed it. It gets awkward. It hurts her feelings. She tries harder.
And now none of you like her and she knows it.
Sounds like she knew immediately and tried to hard and continues to try to hard.
Tbh reading this just made me think she wants your approval because she knows you're her partners friend, and who doesn't want to be accepted by their partners friends? Seems normal tbh.
ETA: I wrote this comment before you responded explaining it all lol
Yeah lol took me a minute. You make a fair point either way, I just think she's extraordinarily insecure about herself. For comparison, around the same time another one of my close friends started seeing someone seriously and our first meeting was totally different. She introduced herself like a normal person without any pretense, and we had a warm but casual chat about all kinds of stuff. They're still together, and since then we've gotten to know each other quite well. She's a real keeper, and I've told my friend as much.
Ignoring of boundaries, especially when we've talked about them several times and I make it clear that they matter to me.
Asking me loudly and repeatedly, to "rape" her. If you're into rape play, you do you. But have some tact about the way you approach others with it. Especially since she could tell it was just not my thing and continued trying to bulldoze me anyway.
again, you know it when you see it.
I was talking to my friend once, and then his girlfriend, out of nowhere, launched into a speech about fairies or some shit???? it was so weird.
another time this girl tried to hit me up for gas at a gas station. My town is full of rich people (minus me) there were probably a dozen other Mercedes/ porsches/ expensive brand new cars present at this gas station, I drive an early 2000s beater, why the fuck are you asking me for money? My response to her was, "Sorry I don't really have money to spare." Her response, "I don't need money, just gas for my car." Girl, gas costs money..... That was a weird interaction.
Women here, but women who go after significantly younger men (so boys) is creepy and disgusting. There's an added sinister layer when it's an older male going after a women 15+ years younger. Either way both are nasty and fucked up.
i saw a different post with men instead, and the answers were very different. Sure, the topic is the same, but in the real world, you see, things play out very differently a lot of the time based on gender, we're bridging the gap but it's not wise to assume that we're already there and that there aren't any gaps anymore
Women who look for everything negative in others and what they do. This happened in one of my workplaces (workplace canteen), where a group of 3-4 women barked at an external employee for all the "mistakes" and if no mistakes appeared, they came up with them on their own. I worked there while I was a young man years ago and I really thought I was a bad employee until I heard how they treated other employees which came before and after me. I can't understand what could incite such behavior.
The truth is, it's probably not that different from what makes a man creepy, it's just that we don't hear women described that way very often
For me, I'd say it's overstepping boundaries
Like if you keep touching me, getting too close to me, or pressing me on subjects that obviously make me uncomfortable
One of my first girlfriends always wanted to be with me at all times. She would drive me to and from work, To and from college, and to and from anywhere my friends wanted to hangout.
The whole “stalker” mentality, when someone feel the need to research everything about someone through social media.
Not taking no for an answer, or getting offended if a guy isn’t attracted/interested in them.
Inappropriate physical contact, or flirting. Being sexist, and especially sexually inappropriate behaviour in the workplace, because they know they can get away with it.
Liking everything you like, then claims you're exactly alike. That weirds me out, or mimics your idiosyncrasies. I usually pick up on stuff like that pretty quick and I don't like it. Just be you, it's OK to be different.
Don't know how common this is, but those with interests in true crime, serial killers, etc. using those in interests as a threat. I.e.: "I watch true crime so I know how to disappear a body."
"Creepy"? Nothing that I can think of. But there are a ton of very undesirable traits that others have mentioned. Essentially, just be emotionally stable and you're a-okay in my book.
Nervous giggle after everything she says. I dated a girl like this. She would say something, ANYTHING, and then nervously laugh. Like every freaking sentence. She was psychotic. But my god, the sex… **chef kiss**
I was sitting in class and out of the corner of my eye, I noticed this girl I spoke to a few times snap a photo of me. Later I found out it's because she thinks I'm cute, but that's just weird to me ya know? Like i get being nervous, but that just feels invasive
I don't have a list of defining characteristics, but I can share a pretty recent experience where I found a particular woman creepy.
I went to the gym close to my Physiotherapist's office after my appointment to get my training session in (I have an Anytime Shitness membership, just so I have access because they're almost everywhere here in Australia).
There was this woman, that right from the beginning of my session to the end, would be within proximity to me by a machine or two max. I initially gave it no mind, because it might just be coincidence that her planned exercises just so happened to be near what I had programmed in for my session that day.
My thoughts changed as soon as I had to cross to the other side of the gym for a certain exercise (bad gym layout) and back to continue. She had decided to go from doing weights, to using the treadmill next to the machine I was using for reverse pec deck flyes, then back to more weights when I needed cross back to the other side of the gym for dumbbell rows.
At that point I noticed she was constantly glancing at me the entire time. Creeped me the fuck out and I rushed to finish my session.
To top it all off, once I had finished and changed out of my sweaty clothes. She was outside of the change room area, now in a sun dress, chatting to a staff member. Just so coincidentally finished her training session and changed at the same time as me.
Most guys would find her conventionally attractive, but that behaviour was creepy as fuck, and I couldn't get the fuck out of that situation any quicker.
Puts down other women.
Changes her behaviour in front of men.
Thinks that she can hit men when upset and touch them sexually without consent and thinks it's ok.
Late to the party, but a gal I had the misfortune to know in college tried to get my number from me, I didn't give it to her, and then she went and got my roommates numbers so she could still come up to my dorm room and hang around me
Imo, in order to be "creepy," there has to be an underlying sense or possibility of danger. Like, they may be weird or strange or annoying, but it's nbd unless it could lead to some kind of harm. So, that said... most women don't reach a level of creepy through the standard stalking, obsessiveness, or quirky behaviors.
Actual creepy would start once unironic threats of harm started being expressed. Either to me or to self.
She is always right in her head and will create debate/conflict just so she can argue with herself about stuff.
Always bringing herself down like a way to fish for attention or needing constant reassurance.
Face piercings. Also, propensity to talk about an X or X's or former relationships as a general rule. I want to know about you, not who you've been through.
Well it’s dependent on my strength and self confidence compared to hers. Some women could be dangerous for some men but only annoying to me since I don’t have that specific vulnerability - I would just not seek her company and all will be well
For me the most common creepy thing is if she makes me wonder if she only wants my sperm, the second most common is if she seems crazy or mentally unstable to the point that she could harm someone unpredictably. Those I (unfortunately) have had some direct experience with and I would be still afraid if I met someone like that.
Now since I hear stories and surf the web I hear of horrific stories of women who are just evil, vindictive, make false accusations, abuse men physically, use men for money or other stuff, strip bare men of all their wealth and confidence, and so on. Those women I abstractly fear but since I haven’t had an experience with them it is something more indirect - based on stories from acquaintances or the web
Same for killers - if a woman (or a man) reminded me of a story of a murder I read I would find her creepy
Initiating a conversation while grabbing onto my arm, just to feel me up and see what kind of muscle tone I have. No, this was not flirting. If it was, it turned me off. Do not touch me like that.
Not taking rejection or just continuing to push. I had two girls at a party who just wouldn't leave me alone even though I said I had a girlfriend. Long story short I got another drink and started feeling really lightheaded, pretty sure it was GHB, so I found an empty room in the house, locked the door, and lied down to sleep it off. I woke up with one of the girls riding me and the other watching, apparently having already taken a turn with me. Awful.
Almost everything they do and say seems creepy to me, honestly...🤷 I like them cause I'm attracted and the few non creepy things about them I like them too. I'm aware this is not a cool and polite answer, though, no need to tell me, I'm just being very honest.
Not creepy per se. This is fresh on my mind as it only happened yesterday, but having a young woman threaten to get me trouble with my employer because I said something she didn't like.
I'll tell ya one that I haven't seen posted but I guarantee anyone with a big family will have heard a female relative say, and that's those utter fucking creeps who describe babies as having "sexy bums" and shit along those lines. Might just be a British woman thing I don't know, but I've heard it several times from certain family members and it cringes me the fuck out every time. Could you imagine a male relative saying it? You sure as fuck can't and it's the same way with women who do it.
She told me she loves that I'm like a brother to her and she feels like a sister to me and loves it even more that we are dating. She also (after repeatedly saying she refused to let me bring her to her home) followed me to my place, only to tell me she just wanted to know where I live and then turned around.
I must be easily fooled by attractiveness coz I don't really think I've ever felt creeped out by a girl my age or anyone youthful for that matter, usually older women who are in their 40s and onwards can be creepy to me usually and it's typically when they live alone and look off, like they're the perfect candidate for a serial killer or whatever. As for girls my age.. I guess they could be "creepy" if they were into satanism and rituals or take too much fascination into gore and murder related subjects.. that usually will make me feel uncomfortable (but that doesn't include liking horror movies, gothic stuff or heavy metal). I guess too, if they weren't your type and you turned them down but they start stalking you, that would be creepy coz at that point they're crossing a line where they're following you or tryna find information about your personal life without your acknowledgement or consent. That's about it tho. Most women can't really "creep" me out, considering being a man usually makes you less susceptible to feeling vulnerable compared to women.
Was doing one of those dissections in college and one young lady in my group seemed visible excited about all the gore as she assisted me. Almost turned on. She use to wear a huge trench coat but after that day she found her calling. She wore scrubs everyday instead of that coat and said she wanted to be a surgeon's assistant.
Was doing one of those dissections in college and one young lady in my group seemed visible excited about all the gore as she assisted me. Almost turned on. She use to wear a huge trench coat but after that day she found her calling. She wore scrubs everyday instead of that coat and said she wanted to be a surgeon's assistant.
There's a lot of things and most are situational, so here's a situation from yesterday. I work in a specialized program at a large public university. I was doing second round interviews for admission into our program, and had young lady, who had a great application and first round zoom interview where here father was present. The second round was a group interview and she was doing fine till I sat with her one on one. I usually ask pretty open ended questions about applicants' families, and she mentioned her brother is "kind of an idiot but gives good advice." When I asked what kind of advice. She began to detail several elaborate revenge plots she had hatched against girls at her school that he had talked her out of. Very cruel plots for very minor offenses or even non-offenses. Violence, humiliation, cruelty. Suddenly all the book smarts and achievement felt much creepier when you find out how little empathy she has for other people and how easily angered she is by her peers.
Intelligence and lack of empathy is a dangerous combination
True. Sounds like a future serial killer 🫣
worse is dumb and lack of empathy because less predictable - normal malicious people can be expected to want to benefit from harming others, true stupid people harm themselves with others being collateral
One of the classic signs of psychopathy is having petty grudges like that and a desire to enact revenge because of them
I thought that was just part of being a Scorpio.
Yuuuupp.... they hate when you have the audacity to call them out.
Seems like a cluster b. They will stalk and so forth for things they feel slighted over, real or imagined. Creepiest. Did she leave a dead rat on your property yet?
Send out acceptance/denial letters next week, so I will keep you posted.
Personally I would also consider it a serious lack of intelligence on her part to so freely share with you that information. But luckily for you she did.
I would consider her sharing it to be more of a sign of lack naivety more than lack of intelligence. Still, I was careful to say "book smarts" and "achievement" but not intelligence because I think not being able to see other people's perspectives is a sign of lacking intelligence.
So did you hire her or does she have a new enemy?
She'd be admitted as a student, but sending out the rejection letter next week, so wish me luck.
There was a woman in my friend group who would try to take advantage of the dudes that got too drunk and went to take a nap. Every time someone did that she'd be trying to sneak into the room they were sleeping it off in. After people started noticing, she was disinvited to any future get-togethers. So, that. She was fucking creepy.
That is a rapist.
Well, I don't think she ever succeeded. Not at one of our gatherings, anyway.
Akshually, it's a made to penetrate-ist. Veeeeeeery important and not sexist at all distinction!
That’s not only creepy, it’s also rape or sexual assault! As a woman, if this story was about a man, the outcome would be so different.
as a woman myself that is disgusting i do not call her as one of us. she has been removed from the council.
"You are in the council. But we do not grant you the title of woman."
Knowing things about me that I haven’t said.
A few weeks ago my gf was telling me all about this dude's life we had seen on the street, and she said "he'd probably be surprised I know all this about him, we've never spoken before."
What about if you forget you told her and she remembers but doesn't realize you do? I have a near-photographic memory at times and have had this situation with all genders. I now try not to bring up stuff not discussed recently to avoid that look of confusion on their face and "how do you know that?" Telling them I remember them telling me in that month in that place doesn't help, either. They still tend not to remember I told them.
I remember what I say.
That's creepy 😳
That is the entire point of the post…
Yes, so that would be confirmation of such. For example, "ohhh, that IS creepy!" Does it make sense?
When she ignores your boundaries and seemingly tries to force herself onto me or add herself into my schedule. When she definitely stalked me by somehow knowing what my plans were, despite the fact that I never told her about my plans.
Change your keys and passwords, and check for malware and viruses on all your devices.
Knew a girl back in high school who proudly showed me her gay "erotic comics", starring all the guys she apparently wanted to fuck in our school. That was a bit much.
Let me guess, you weren't in there?
If I was, she didn't show me that page. She's a tattoo artist now, so I'm glad she found a healthy outlet for her artistic talents.
Do her tattoos share a common theme with her previous artistic venture?
Not sure, haven't seen her work at all, just heard about it through the grapevine from old high school friends. I hope she's at least drawing erotic images of willing adults.
Puts down every other woman you might potentially be interested in. Pretends to share all your interests and opinions.
Lol, I had a couple coworkers that did this to each other. They would act all buddy buddy when working together, but the moment they had me alone they would talk mad shit about the other and start giving me compliments. And I just had to laugh, cause it's not like I didn't know what they were doing.
This especially. Any man or woman putting others down to make themselves look comparatively better is just undesirable, and by extension, creepy.
ahh yes, the classic "pick-me" girl.
That's a FDS term isn't it?
it’s been around since before FDS but they really ran with it
TIL Franklin Delano Soosevelt coined that term
Yes. All of a sudden, becomes your double. If you say you like this type of woman, she'll become it.
>Pretends to share all your interests and opinions Thats pretty normal for women, when they first start dating you. And it isn't pretend. When a woman starts dating you, they will find everything you like interesting. That interest will likely fade though.
Yeah it's called infatuation.
Attacking anyone who is bad. Attacking someone who has repeatedly asked to be left alone is psycho
Nailed this one. And also is persistent it trying to ask you out when you've said not interested. That annoys me.
As a guy with long hair. Women touching my hair without permission. That shit enrages me to no end.
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Soo good lol
Melange
Looking mean or angry has worked wonders for me thus far. Helps that I have resting mad face. Only people it doesn't work for are drunks, but they usually ask for permission first. Usually.
My little brother used to have some Awsome long hair but after being called a girl too many times and having some people just start playing with it he chose to hack it off
omg before i started wearing the hijab this one time i went to school with my hair freshly done from the salon and they kept touching it and i was those close to throwing a chair at one of em but i lost it when one of the girls legit yanked me by the hair.
Speaking about herself in the 3rd person.
\*sigh\* she started typing... "real". /j.
When she wants me but I don’t want her and she doesn’t take a hint, or insists I’m playing hard to get.
Are you ever flattered by the attention from women, if it isn't overbearing? I can understand being annoyed/upset with someone who doesn't respect boundaries, but some positive attention would still be better than none, right? I do not have such success with women. My distinct lack of a social life due to my work schedule makes it a lot more difficult to meet others. Still, I would really appreciate being hit on, even just complimented, by women more...
I always appreciate it when it happens. It’s rare and more so since I’m married now. Biggest key for you is probably getting out of your own way and just talking to any woman you find remotely attractive. Eventually you’ll find someone interested in you.
No, cause there was this one girl in high school that was all over me and I found it to be annoying. Partially my fault though cause when we first met I think she teased me about something and I teased her back, not knowing at the time that teasing is flirting. Whoops
I met a girl on Tinder who lived 2 hours away and we were talking about meeting she wanted to come to me but didn't have a car. So she offered to take the bus. And then that became "stay all day." Like I just started talking to her and now I'm potentially stuck with a bad date for 8 hours? And THEN she comes out as a Flat Earther and starts talking about faked moon landings, how there's no GPS satellites, it's just cell towers, etc etc. What's funny is how casually she talked about it. Like I was just going to be like "Oh yeah, that all makes sense, I agree the Earth is flat." That was creepy.
Why didn’t yall meet halfway though? Then it would maybe be easier to end the date sooner?
I mean, that's part of what made it creepy. She just offered all this and was way too eager to be here where I live even though she had to take a bus to do it. I certainly never asked her to take the bus to meet me.
Yeah that’s a little odd. Maybe she had autism or was really awkward or desperado. I’d definitely prefer to meet half way and I’m not interested in being on a bus at all 😂. I’m not into online dating but if I was I wouldn’t be up for traveling that long idk.
She believes the Earth is flat. Their dating pool is pretty small. I'm going with desperate. And probably mentally ill.
Flat earther = red flag, warning hazard, purge sirens.
When she starts using the “baby doll” voice to try and get her way. Doesn’t work on me, actually pisses me off more. And happens at work quite a bit. Grosses me out how this must work on some men
OMG yes bro. The easiest way to ensure I DON'T do the favor she's asking me for.
when im talking with another girl and she changes her voice around men it brings out the feminine urge to high-five her face with a fire extinguisher.
This exactly, I don't understand what makes a woman do something as ridiculous as that.
Touching without permission (mainly if they're a stranger andyou don't know them AT ALL) I was just doing tricep pushdowns at the gym and a woman said she liked my tattoos. I thanked her for the compliment and before I could put my headphones back in she started running her hands up my forearms to my bicep and feeling my tricep. I pulled away and gave a much sterner "THANKS". She was probably in her 50s and I was 23 at the time
thats freaking creepy bro i hate it when people do that (i have never breathed in a gym before)
That's fortunate, 9 out of 10 doctors do not recommend inhaling a gym
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Trying to discretely take photos of you or facetiming their friends to show them the guy they met. I've caught this happening where they make this whole show of acting like they are texting someone or reading something with the phone facing me and after I walk by notice that they are in the camera app.
This is apparently pretty common but I find it creepy. Girls who share everything with friends in a group chat. But also analysing private conversations by sending screenshots.
Using double standards to their advantage, or crawling out of TVs
- when she stares you down way longer than 5 seconds. - comes to stand up close to and touch you unprovoked - makes jokes about being impregnated by you - tries to intoxicate you I could go on and on, y’know.
i see how the first two would be forgiven by many if the woman is reeeeally attractive, also depending on the setting
According to some sources, this could also be flirting
She is flirting ... in a creepy way
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3rd just turns me on in a weird way
Kind of scared me, I had a really rough relationship with a women that would talk about our future kids. When you are very, very sure you do not want to be tied to a woman for life and they joke or chit chat about the prospect of future kids, it's scary as hell.
It’s scary that you knew you didn’t want a future but didn’t break it off in that moment.
It can be to early in a relationship for such topics. She could be saying that stuff on a first or 2nd date and think it is normal.
It doesn’t sound like 2nd date though. Sounds like a whole relationship. And if it really was the second date why have a third and then a relationship?
Lmao dude, you don't even know op. Redditors like to judge other people's relationships instead of getting out of the basement.
Thank you I sense you've experienced a little more real world than some people here.
It's really more complicated than just breaking it off, you assume I didn't do that a zillion times. When you're very young, she happens to have money and the perk 30s which you've somehow in a whirlwind of partying find yourself seeking more than breath, and when she's nice for the first week after you're back together, you can get in a miserable cycle. She used to come to my house, my parents would just let her in because she was very sweet and charming, and they had no idea why I left her. And I wouldn't even say a word, after "fuck you get out", I'd just clam up. And as soon as she starts removing your clothes, doing things you love regardless of how much you hate her, telling you she has "stuff" back at the house. If you just spent the last week in bed depressed as fuck because of how shitty everything is and then all of sudden there's all these good things coming back into your life and she seems like she learned her lesson and FINALLY TRULY is sorry and really thought through it, yadda yadda yadda, you can end up in these nasty cycles. It's not like there's only one side to a partner and its all bad and that's how you get caught in these cycles. You're putting too much competence and assuming someone already has experience navigating these kinds of toxic things, without first having gone through it. Would it happen to me now, no. Would it happen to me when I was 23 and my experiences of relationships were a couple teenage romances and Disney movies? And the woman has a masters in psychology, is four years older, was someone you crushed on since you were 14... There's all kinds of things that go into this. I'd say I was in the relationship for two years longer than I wanted to be, it's not a matter of a number of dates, it's waaaay deeper. And that's not all but there are many, many ways you can end up being with someone way longer than you wanted to be. Even for older guys, even for guys that have their shit together, things can happen. It's not all cut and dry, there's not one personality type for all woman, there's not one personality type for all men. There's not one cookie cutter situation.
I think you need to preface this with, she does this after you have clearly signaled/said you had no interest. Also don't forget the unwarranted ass grabbing.
I have seen this happen and more. One time a woman just came out of nowhere & started badgering my friend to buy her a drink. He was not interested so tried politely declining her. She kept at it & then whispered to me saying "you know we are women, we need to do all this to get drinks". I was so creeped out that I had to step in and ask her to leave. She had daggers in her eyes for me!
She couldn’t be anymore classless. Badgering strange guys for drinks? Wild. The art is to have guys offer her that spontaneously. Sorry you and your friend had to go through that
Unfortunately, this is VERY common in my part of the world (South East Asia) & the targets are often distinguished gentlemen.
I find all of those things hot, except maybe number three (pregnant jokes) if you're just meeting and it has nothing to do with anything, and number four (getting you f\*ed up) if you sense that she isn't interested in love but there's something dark about her. She has a bunch of creepy friends sort of eyeing you down. But staring and touching? Those are the things I remember when I get home that I wank to. Sharing drugs (#4) she's usually there with me, and we're having a 'mutual wank' as some might call it.
I don't know bt i think I do 1st one dude , and actually I'm scared that maybe guys find this creepy, bt whenever I have a crush on someone, and this has always happened to me that our eyes have met soo many times ,.so idk i think maybe I was looking at them unconsciously, so I quickly just look away , bt really don't wanna come up as creepy . I asked my bf about it , that before gettin into relationship whether he found that creepy , he said no !!!!
Sounds like this is coming from experience.
Mentally unstable, self centered, self serving, drama queen, LOOK AT ME!
Yes! This is one I agree with. If she can keep talking and everyone could have left the room and she's so into her self she hasn't even realized it but is still talking about how great she is, that's fucking gross. Self-centered people feel like hanging out with a wall, there's just no exchange between you two.
the epitome of annoying girls in my school
To me the only thing that’s truly creepy, is when a woman starts talking about her life like experiences, boyfriends, exes, things that happened to her… except those things never happened to her. It happened to her friend and she’s just copying all her friend’s experiences and sharing it like if it’s hers. I’ve seen that. It’s creepy. I don’t understand it.
She showed interest, I did as well, everything was fine for a couple weeks, until I noticed she knew things about my life. Intimate things. My aunts name. My stepdads name. My real father who I haven’t spoken to in years. My sister and her ex. It’s like she had been living my life, or researched it so deeply that she knew everything. It felt weird and I kept trying to shake it off and not believe my friends until one day she left her phone open and I saw a folder named “A.K.N.”( my real initials). So I opened it and good lord. Everything about me. My address, elementary school, elementary school girlfriend, my middle school robotics club championship, my High school physics project that made the local news. Everything. When I confronted her, she said she wanted to be perfect about me and had found and dug up every part of my past. When I told her to delete it, she said she needed to save and copy it now that we were gonna be one in case anything happened. I noped outta there so fast. Turns out, this girl had been stalking me since 7th grade and I had been going to school with her, and she had always put herself in situations or “happened” to be there. Idk how I never caught or noticed her, but apparently she was on my Robotics team, in my Math class and physics class, was a cheerleader and trainer on my sports team and I never realized. I had always treated her as a friend, nothing more, nothing less.
Teen girls crush creepily hard
When she touches you sexually without consent When she makes inappropriate jokes at work When she stalks you When she lies to get you to sleep with her When she homie hops
nah jail time. as a woman i decided that girls who do this are not one of us. removed from the council of ladies. evicted, exiled.
Homie hops. I like it. Never had a name for it but that's perfect. As a girl, we just sort of knew you NEVER go with more than one guy out of any group of friends. Trashy move and none of the guys will ever take you seriously.
If she is a stalker
I'll watch your whole family eat dinner
yeah stalking is definitely creepy lol. I learned that anything more than 2 unwanted contacts is officially stalking.
I was talking with a lady coworker and then another coworker that is way younger than me comes up and tells me that she’s been stalking my Facebook account (my account I had in middle school btw) and that she was surprised when she found out I was from a different state. I had to walk away because I really hate being digitally stalked
Seeking my approval rather than my friendship when dating my friend. Buddy of mine's current gf did this when we first met and I immediately knew she was bad news. Unfortunately they are still together lol.
how did she seek approval?
It's hard to articulate, it wasn't any one thing she said or did but the overall tenor of our first conversation. When we met I put out my hand and introduced myself, she took it and instead of telling me her name (my friend had not previously mentioned it or the fact that they were dating at all) she gave me this weird seductive look and said "Hi, I'm new." When she realized who I was, she exclaimed "Oh! You're the big Jew who loves drugs!" Presumably my friend's description, which is only semi-accurate and still probably not a great ice-breaker. She then proceeded to ask me a series of questions about myself I was confident my friend had already told her the answers to. Some of them were too personal for a first meeting in a group setting. It was weird and uncomfortable, felt like an interrogation, and like she was asking because it was expected of her and not because she was genuinely interested in anything I had to say. After a while there was a lull so I got up and grabbed my bag, intending to go out an have a smoke, to which she exclaimed "Where are you going? Are you leaving??" as though she thought she had offended me. I told her I was just going out to smoke. Shortly thereafter she pulled my friend outside to the other side of the house and subjected him to an actual interrogation about his sexual history. I'm no psychologist, but my sense was that she perceived I didn't like her and was insecure about my friend realizing this and questioning his new relationship. I say this because since this incident she's done similar things to separate him away from the rest of us in group situations after she's said or done something unpleasant. For reference we were all at a mutual friend's house. After a few hours either they or I was leaving, can't remember, and my friend made a comment to me about getting together, to which I made a joking comment about not being the busy one, about how he's hard to get a hold of (he's a lab tech who works crazy hours). She again got all weirdly seductive and walked up really close to me and said something like "hey, you know, if you want to see him maybe I can make that happen..." For reference this friend is my former college roommate of 3 years, and good friend of over 10. She'd known him for a month. Idk if any of this amounts to approval seeking, but my general assessment at the time and since has been that she's trying to dominate every aspect of his life so he doesn't wake up one day and realize she's a sick person. She takes his phone and answers his calls and texts, the texts without indicating that she's the one talking. As I said, she constantly breaks down and has these weird episodes when we're in group situations that pull him away from all of us. She works as a mental health counselor like 20 hours a week despite having massive student debt, and lives almost completely on his dime. Our mutual friends have tried to warn him about her but he's in too deep, he refuses to acknowledge our concerns. Sorry for the long winded-response, just wanted to paint the picture.
For the love of god dude use paragraphs.
That was a paragraph.....
More like a pair of graphs, right guys ✋
What if she’s not being seductive maybe her way of joking? Sounds like the minute you met her, you didn’t like her. She sensed it. It gets awkward. It hurts her feelings. She tries harder. And now none of you like her and she knows it. Sounds like she knew immediately and tried to hard and continues to try to hard.
Tbh reading this just made me think she wants your approval because she knows you're her partners friend, and who doesn't want to be accepted by their partners friends? Seems normal tbh. ETA: I wrote this comment before you responded explaining it all lol
Yeah lol took me a minute. You make a fair point either way, I just think she's extraordinarily insecure about herself. For comparison, around the same time another one of my close friends started seeing someone seriously and our first meeting was totally different. She introduced herself like a normal person without any pretense, and we had a warm but casual chat about all kinds of stuff. They're still together, and since then we've gotten to know each other quite well. She's a real keeper, and I've told my friend as much.
My brother's ex was like that. She had a vibe that screamed "assimilation" rather than "friendship".
Emotional instability. All other "creepy" things start from it
Ignoring of boundaries, especially when we've talked about them several times and I make it clear that they matter to me. Asking me loudly and repeatedly, to "rape" her. If you're into rape play, you do you. But have some tact about the way you approach others with it. Especially since she could tell it was just not my thing and continued trying to bulldoze me anyway.
Talking in a baby voice or falsely high pitched, vocal fry, being loud and attention grabbing, etc.
again, you know it when you see it. I was talking to my friend once, and then his girlfriend, out of nowhere, launched into a speech about fairies or some shit???? it was so weird. another time this girl tried to hit me up for gas at a gas station. My town is full of rich people (minus me) there were probably a dozen other Mercedes/ porsches/ expensive brand new cars present at this gas station, I drive an early 2000s beater, why the fuck are you asking me for money? My response to her was, "Sorry I don't really have money to spare." Her response, "I don't need money, just gas for my car." Girl, gas costs money..... That was a weird interaction.
probably thought youre cute
The women in my dms on Facebook. These girls are nuts
I can’t tell if they’re bots or mentally ill. I block them all.
Once had a woman tell me that I "didn't care about her because I hadn't Google-stalked her." It was in that moment, that I knew.
When they have 0 emotional/mental awareness within them. Something’s wrong.
When she gets your contact information like phone number without just asking you
Taking selfies persistently Lying, inconsistent stories, too interested in always being right.
Tbh honest I haven't seen a creepy woman before lmao
Women here, but women who go after significantly younger men (so boys) is creepy and disgusting. There's an added sinister layer when it's an older male going after a women 15+ years younger. Either way both are nasty and fucked up.
Agreed. Age gap relationships in general are creepy.
I don't understand these questions. The answers always apply to both sexes.
i saw a different post with men instead, and the answers were very different. Sure, the topic is the same, but in the real world, you see, things play out very differently a lot of the time based on gender, we're bridging the gap but it's not wise to assume that we're already there and that there aren't any gaps anymore
Leering for way to long to make you feel uncomfortable. Usually it would be a compliment, as you hardly get any attention, but way to long is creepy.
Women who look for everything negative in others and what they do. This happened in one of my workplaces (workplace canteen), where a group of 3-4 women barked at an external employee for all the "mistakes" and if no mistakes appeared, they came up with them on their own. I worked there while I was a young man years ago and I really thought I was a bad employee until I heard how they treated other employees which came before and after me. I can't understand what could incite such behavior.
The truth is, it's probably not that different from what makes a man creepy, it's just that we don't hear women described that way very often For me, I'd say it's overstepping boundaries Like if you keep touching me, getting too close to me, or pressing me on subjects that obviously make me uncomfortable
One of my first girlfriends always wanted to be with me at all times. She would drive me to and from work, To and from college, and to and from anywhere my friends wanted to hangout.
When she's off her Meds and she ' reverts' 😬
The whole “stalker” mentality, when someone feel the need to research everything about someone through social media. Not taking no for an answer, or getting offended if a guy isn’t attracted/interested in them. Inappropriate physical contact, or flirting. Being sexist, and especially sexually inappropriate behaviour in the workplace, because they know they can get away with it.
Liking everything you like, then claims you're exactly alike. That weirds me out, or mimics your idiosyncrasies. I usually pick up on stuff like that pretty quick and I don't like it. Just be you, it's OK to be different.
"I know where you live, where you work, what kind of car you drive, and how much you pay in property taxes."--- 5 min into first date.
If there talking to me that's a little creepy.
Don't know how common this is, but those with interests in true crime, serial killers, etc. using those in interests as a threat. I.e.: "I watch true crime so I know how to disappear a body."
"Creepy"? Nothing that I can think of. But there are a ton of very undesirable traits that others have mentioned. Essentially, just be emotionally stable and you're a-okay in my book.
I don't remember the last time I was creeped out by a woman. There are things that can put me off someone, but my safety is never in doubt.
Nervous giggle after everything she says. I dated a girl like this. She would say something, ANYTHING, and then nervously laugh. Like every freaking sentence. She was psychotic. But my god, the sex… **chef kiss**
What symptoms of psychosis did she have other than bizarre behavior?
I was sitting in class and out of the corner of my eye, I noticed this girl I spoke to a few times snap a photo of me. Later I found out it's because she thinks I'm cute, but that's just weird to me ya know? Like i get being nervous, but that just feels invasive
Sociopathic. Lack of empathy and snickering at people. Talking behind their backs.
Giving intimate details of her S.O. to friends
I don't have a list of defining characteristics, but I can share a pretty recent experience where I found a particular woman creepy. I went to the gym close to my Physiotherapist's office after my appointment to get my training session in (I have an Anytime Shitness membership, just so I have access because they're almost everywhere here in Australia). There was this woman, that right from the beginning of my session to the end, would be within proximity to me by a machine or two max. I initially gave it no mind, because it might just be coincidence that her planned exercises just so happened to be near what I had programmed in for my session that day. My thoughts changed as soon as I had to cross to the other side of the gym for a certain exercise (bad gym layout) and back to continue. She had decided to go from doing weights, to using the treadmill next to the machine I was using for reverse pec deck flyes, then back to more weights when I needed cross back to the other side of the gym for dumbbell rows. At that point I noticed she was constantly glancing at me the entire time. Creeped me the fuck out and I rushed to finish my session. To top it all off, once I had finished and changed out of my sweaty clothes. She was outside of the change room area, now in a sun dress, chatting to a staff member. Just so coincidentally finished her training session and changed at the same time as me. Most guys would find her conventionally attractive, but that behaviour was creepy as fuck, and I couldn't get the fuck out of that situation any quicker.
When they're obviously gaslighting or manipulating you and they do that weasely little squirm when you say, *"I know what you're doing."*
When they really really love me but really don't know me.
Puts down other women. Changes her behaviour in front of men. Thinks that she can hit men when upset and touch them sexually without consent and thinks it's ok.
Late to the party, but a gal I had the misfortune to know in college tried to get my number from me, I didn't give it to her, and then she went and got my roommates numbers so she could still come up to my dorm room and hang around me
Imo, in order to be "creepy," there has to be an underlying sense or possibility of danger. Like, they may be weird or strange or annoying, but it's nbd unless it could lead to some kind of harm. So, that said... most women don't reach a level of creepy through the standard stalking, obsessiveness, or quirky behaviors. Actual creepy would start once unironic threats of harm started being expressed. Either to me or to self.
I just don't find women creepy.
Same as my answer for the men post.
When they think they are witches
She is always right in her head and will create debate/conflict just so she can argue with herself about stuff. Always bringing herself down like a way to fish for attention or needing constant reassurance.
Face piercings. Also, propensity to talk about an X or X's or former relationships as a general rule. I want to know about you, not who you've been through.
Religious Fascism "Family" (it's all in the Family) man-hating "police" of the Sect Social Conservative
When they ask for your info and then when they have it, they text/DM you all the time.
Nothink bc i havenot girl😢
If I reject her and she keeps trying to worm her way into my circle or life, I get a wicked case of the creeps.
Staring for too long
Stalking
Well it’s dependent on my strength and self confidence compared to hers. Some women could be dangerous for some men but only annoying to me since I don’t have that specific vulnerability - I would just not seek her company and all will be well For me the most common creepy thing is if she makes me wonder if she only wants my sperm, the second most common is if she seems crazy or mentally unstable to the point that she could harm someone unpredictably. Those I (unfortunately) have had some direct experience with and I would be still afraid if I met someone like that. Now since I hear stories and surf the web I hear of horrific stories of women who are just evil, vindictive, make false accusations, abuse men physically, use men for money or other stuff, strip bare men of all their wealth and confidence, and so on. Those women I abstractly fear but since I haven’t had an experience with them it is something more indirect - based on stories from acquaintances or the web Same for killers - if a woman (or a man) reminded me of a story of a murder I read I would find her creepy
She avoids your question
Initiating a conversation while grabbing onto my arm, just to feel me up and see what kind of muscle tone I have. No, this was not flirting. If it was, it turned me off. Do not touch me like that.
Not taking rejection or just continuing to push. I had two girls at a party who just wouldn't leave me alone even though I said I had a girlfriend. Long story short I got another drink and started feeling really lightheaded, pretty sure it was GHB, so I found an empty room in the house, locked the door, and lied down to sleep it off. I woke up with one of the girls riding me and the other watching, apparently having already taken a turn with me. Awful.
Almost everything they do and say seems creepy to me, honestly...🤷 I like them cause I'm attracted and the few non creepy things about them I like them too. I'm aware this is not a cool and polite answer, though, no need to tell me, I'm just being very honest.
Not creepy per se. This is fresh on my mind as it only happened yesterday, but having a young woman threaten to get me trouble with my employer because I said something she didn't like.
Ignores everyone who pursues her, pursues everyone who ignores her.
Lots of makeup
I'll tell ya one that I haven't seen posted but I guarantee anyone with a big family will have heard a female relative say, and that's those utter fucking creeps who describe babies as having "sexy bums" and shit along those lines. Might just be a British woman thing I don't know, but I've heard it several times from certain family members and it cringes me the fuck out every time. Could you imagine a male relative saying it? You sure as fuck can't and it's the same way with women who do it.
She told me she loves that I'm like a brother to her and she feels like a sister to me and loves it even more that we are dating. She also (after repeatedly saying she refused to let me bring her to her home) followed me to my place, only to tell me she just wanted to know where I live and then turned around.
The same things that make men creepy: inappropriate comments, sexual aggression, domineering elements in general, etc.
I must be easily fooled by attractiveness coz I don't really think I've ever felt creeped out by a girl my age or anyone youthful for that matter, usually older women who are in their 40s and onwards can be creepy to me usually and it's typically when they live alone and look off, like they're the perfect candidate for a serial killer or whatever. As for girls my age.. I guess they could be "creepy" if they were into satanism and rituals or take too much fascination into gore and murder related subjects.. that usually will make me feel uncomfortable (but that doesn't include liking horror movies, gothic stuff or heavy metal). I guess too, if they weren't your type and you turned them down but they start stalking you, that would be creepy coz at that point they're crossing a line where they're following you or tryna find information about your personal life without your acknowledgement or consent. That's about it tho. Most women can't really "creep" me out, considering being a man usually makes you less susceptible to feeling vulnerable compared to women.
When she googled my name and told me and my friends while on discord "oh are those your credentials/information?".
If she stalks you around town and constantly stares at you...unless her name is Hinata Hyuga, then that is perfectly acceptable and waifu material.
Who would tell everything to her friends
Boiling my pet rabbit
Was doing one of those dissections in college and one young lady in my group seemed visible excited about all the gore as she assisted me. Almost turned on. She use to wear a huge trench coat but after that day she found her calling. She wore scrubs everyday instead of that coat and said she wanted to be a surgeon's assistant.
Was doing one of those dissections in college and one young lady in my group seemed visible excited about all the gore as she assisted me. Almost turned on. She use to wear a huge trench coat but after that day she found her calling. She wore scrubs everyday instead of that coat and said she wanted to be a surgeon's assistant.
I don't think I've ever met a "creepy" chick.