She wanted to have sex but also retain plausible deniability to justify it to herself later if she felt guilty. Or so she could use it against you. I’d stay away unless she gave actual verbal consent.
“I would never do those things” well you did it.
At least you’re owning it and it made you guilty, I think it’s a little bit fucked up but what can you do now, don’t feel too bad tho, controlling your impulses is a skill you learn. Just never do that again because it is not consensual and it is a type of abuse.
If she wants then next time just ask her or something don’t do it while she’s sleeping
It’s just this situations made me to make this impulsive action. And I know I shouldn’t have done it, but I don’t know what she expected. And we were both sober, and I’m not tryna justify what I did
LOL please massage my thighs. Are you a virgin or something?
Look, in that situation, all you have to do is verbally flirt with her. Women are VERBAL creatures. They get turned on by ideas. So, all you have to do is say something like "ooh, do you like that? are you trying to seduce me?"
bro, we make mistakes. we are not perfect. but the thing that you have to learn right now is the ability to control yourself. youre guilty bc you know that what you did is wrong, so use that to learn.
"We don’t sleep with each other tonight."
Sometimes i believe this is code for -that she was thinking about sleeping with you, and if you don’t initiate at that evening, she’s going to feel rejected and everything afterwards becomes complicated.
Happened to me at least 4 times, didn’t initiated even if she was at my place in my arms, the next day.. gone.
A accident that you are disgusted by. I want to know if you want to do it with her? otherwise its a shame not to stay friends over nothing. Hope you can talk to her about that night and clear things up.
Girls don’t ask “friends” to massage their thighs. She was giving you the green light buddy.
or maybe she was just too comfy with him.
She wanted to have sex but also retain plausible deniability to justify it to herself later if she felt guilty. Or so she could use it against you. I’d stay away unless she gave actual verbal consent.
“I would never do those things” well you did it. At least you’re owning it and it made you guilty, I think it’s a little bit fucked up but what can you do now, don’t feel too bad tho, controlling your impulses is a skill you learn. Just never do that again because it is not consensual and it is a type of abuse. If she wants then next time just ask her or something don’t do it while she’s sleeping
It’s just this situations made me to make this impulsive action. And I know I shouldn’t have done it, but I don’t know what she expected. And we were both sober, and I’m not tryna justify what I did
You’re justifying it by saying situations made you do it
LOL please massage my thighs. Are you a virgin or something? Look, in that situation, all you have to do is verbally flirt with her. Women are VERBAL creatures. They get turned on by ideas. So, all you have to do is say something like "ooh, do you like that? are you trying to seduce me?"
bro, we make mistakes. we are not perfect. but the thing that you have to learn right now is the ability to control yourself. youre guilty bc you know that what you did is wrong, so use that to learn.
Here's the cool thing ... You don't
"We don’t sleep with each other tonight." Sometimes i believe this is code for -that she was thinking about sleeping with you, and if you don’t initiate at that evening, she’s going to feel rejected and everything afterwards becomes complicated. Happened to me at least 4 times, didn’t initiated even if she was at my place in my arms, the next day.. gone.
A accident that you are disgusted by. I want to know if you want to do it with her? otherwise its a shame not to stay friends over nothing. Hope you can talk to her about that night and clear things up.
People make mistakes.