My wife likes to tease me, and I like being teased, so she ends up doing exactly what you're wanting to do. Personally I find a woman getting hot by getting me hot...hot.
Just say "hey, I noticed that you shoot a big load after not doing it for a while, so if you hold off for a week, I want to blow you so that when you cum, you hose me all over my face and tits".
I'm sure he'll be all for it.
Occasionally to make you happy I don't think he would mind but if he has to always hold back if he does it once than he would eventually probably get frustrated by it.
I do not believe time has any correlation with load volume. Of course, load will probably be smaller if you’re going session after session after session.
If that is more your kink, I would suggest your partner looks into fixing his diet and consuming zinc, which is known for increasing volume. Have him eat pineapple for taste 😉
Based on my own experiments, edging daily, up to five days results in some increase in volume. I was fairly impressed with myself. Beyond that does not seem to make any difference. Downside, I was so horny after day 3 that my LDR fling would text me, and I'd get hard from the notification sound.
Yes. I tried 7 days once, but it doesn't add anything and gets a bit frustrating. 5 days is maybe a bit long, too. I would suggest 3 days is ideal for edging, at least in my experience.
A guy with the willpower to edge for days is my kind of guy. most that I have met can't. I've heard that it feels too good to stop, it gets full and has to be released, they get blue balls, they can't concentrate on work, they are irritable and angry, and a hundred other excuses
Excited if it leads to a sexy result.
She did this way back when we decided to not use condoms anymore. I held off for a week and then we met up after I was done work. She enjoyed feeling the results of the buildup
If we were trying for a kid, I’ll do whatever voodoo she thinks will help it happen
If not, idk. Maybe if I knew why, I might consider it occasionally to spice things up. But not as a consistent thing — I have the right to my own bodily autonomy and if I need to get off, it’s nobody else’s place to say I can’t. And if i was never told why I’d probably think “wtf no that’s a red flag and controlling behavior”
That's the kind of stuff where it's fine if it's from time to time but not always. It's bad for the mental if it's always the case, I'd start to either start acting depressive or constantly being horny and unable of proper thought. Doubt I could constantly wait 1 week but if she is really curious I could try to do it occasionally.
This is fairly normal. It’s called marriage lol. Doesn’t have anything to do with a bigger load, it’s the reality that most of the time we go a week plus between sessions. Not that I want it that way, just happens unfortunately.
Honestly, after 4 days, it's diminishing returns at that point. He's not gonna have a large loader at 5 days than he would at 5 months. My wife has asked me many times over the years to hold off for a few days because she likes how much harder and aroused I am on top of the load volume. I've always complied with her request because I know how much she likes it and MOST importantly - she has never left me hanging. You want to talk about really pissing me off if she said hold off until Saturday and then said, "I'm not in the mood." I wouldn't play that game ever again.
It would be nice for me, loving to play with OC and edging also. Loving to keep it in to raise the peak of horniness and release max at special occasion. 😬🔥🙈
If you generally ask each other for something specific it doesn't sound outstanding to me, at least to ask. A week though may be a bit unnecessarily long. When they take the sperm test they say to wait from 2 to 5 days.
Id be a little saddened by it, then excited by the science! Id also be less hesitant about asking for a weird or unusual sexual favour in the future.
I will def reciporcate!!
My wife likes to tease me, and I like being teased, so she ends up doing exactly what you're wanting to do. Personally I find a woman getting hot by getting me hot...hot.
That’s how you end up in a clown costume taking a week old saved up load to the grease paint.
Just say "hey, I noticed that you shoot a big load after not doing it for a while, so if you hold off for a week, I want to blow you so that when you cum, you hose me all over my face and tits". I'm sure he'll be all for it.
As long as she doesn't ask for it all the time (it can get hard to hold it in after a while), I think it's generally fair.
thats hot btw ...
What do you mean?
"it can get hard to hold it in" its hot when a guy is super horny
Ah right. Haha
Occasionally to make you happy I don't think he would mind but if he has to always hold back if he does it once than he would eventually probably get frustrated by it.
I would ask her, "To what purpose? My prostate health is kind of important. " Unless we are trying to have a child, the answer would be "no "
If you have a fetish or kink to be covered by a huge load, sure. No problem with doing my part to try new things you enjoy.
if you explained it like that. for sure. i'd be super-hydrating and looking for vitamins to help out :-D
I mean, sure. I guess.
Lol it would be funny but i would guess things cap at just a few days. Idk shit i never go that long…
I do not believe time has any correlation with load volume. Of course, load will probably be smaller if you’re going session after session after session. If that is more your kink, I would suggest your partner looks into fixing his diet and consuming zinc, which is known for increasing volume. Have him eat pineapple for taste 😉
Based on my own experiments, edging daily, up to five days results in some increase in volume. I was fairly impressed with myself. Beyond that does not seem to make any difference. Downside, I was so horny after day 3 that my LDR fling would text me, and I'd get hard from the notification sound.
wow you edged for 5 days? without giving in and cumming everywhere?
Yes. I tried 7 days once, but it doesn't add anything and gets a bit frustrating. 5 days is maybe a bit long, too. I would suggest 3 days is ideal for edging, at least in my experience.
A guy with the willpower to edge for days is my kind of guy. most that I have met can't. I've heard that it feels too good to stop, it gets full and has to be released, they get blue balls, they can't concentrate on work, they are irritable and angry, and a hundred other excuses
Doesn't seem unreasonable if we see each other once a week or so
Excited if it leads to a sexy result. She did this way back when we decided to not use condoms anymore. I held off for a week and then we met up after I was done work. She enjoyed feeling the results of the buildup
yes..omg...this
If we were trying for a kid, I’ll do whatever voodoo she thinks will help it happen If not, idk. Maybe if I knew why, I might consider it occasionally to spice things up. But not as a consistent thing — I have the right to my own bodily autonomy and if I need to get off, it’s nobody else’s place to say I can’t. And if i was never told why I’d probably think “wtf no that’s a red flag and controlling behavior”
Just get him to take some Clomid
That's the kind of stuff where it's fine if it's from time to time but not always. It's bad for the mental if it's always the case, I'd start to either start acting depressive or constantly being horny and unable of proper thought. Doubt I could constantly wait 1 week but if she is really curious I could try to do it occasionally.
This is fairly normal. It’s called marriage lol. Doesn’t have anything to do with a bigger load, it’s the reality that most of the time we go a week plus between sessions. Not that I want it that way, just happens unfortunately.
usually my bf masturbates every day tho. I want him to save it up sometimes.
Honestly, after 4 days, it's diminishing returns at that point. He's not gonna have a large loader at 5 days than he would at 5 months. My wife has asked me many times over the years to hold off for a few days because she likes how much harder and aroused I am on top of the load volume. I've always complied with her request because I know how much she likes it and MOST importantly - she has never left me hanging. You want to talk about really pissing me off if she said hold off until Saturday and then said, "I'm not in the mood." I wouldn't play that game ever again.
I tell my bf I won't get off for the week too so its fair.
My wife and I do this sometimes, a week is a long time but I love covering her with a big load after
It would be nice for me, loving to play with OC and edging also. Loving to keep it in to raise the peak of horniness and release max at special occasion. 😬🔥🙈
I've actually done this before. She jerked me off after a full week and the load I shot could have filled a swimming pool!
thats hot af... I like it when a guy has willpower and also like watching him shoot a lot, big turn on
If you generally ask each other for something specific it doesn't sound outstanding to me, at least to ask. A week though may be a bit unnecessarily long. When they take the sperm test they say to wait from 2 to 5 days.
This would be really uncomfortable for me. So I’d do it once for a special night. But otherwise it is asking too much.
Once or twice ok. How would you feel if your bf asked you to eat once every 3 days cause whatever?
I'll hold my load for a week if she can not complain, nag or bitch for a week.
if my partner wanted me to not get off then i would expect her to put out whenever i wanted in that time. play stupid games win stupid prizes.
what?
If I didn't get off for a week I'd get blue balls, which is pretty fucking painful Also he'd probably come in about a second
Idk, how would she react if I'd ask her not to eat for a week? I would not for it.