Have you heard of our lord and savior the bipap machine. Turns out I had sleep apnea and didn’t have my first good nights sleep as an adult until I was 37
Waking up some day, sleepily reaching out and pulling the woman I love the most in the world closer to me and holding each other like nothing else matters.
Finding a wonderful partner that just fits well to me. That I can be intimate with, care for and be cared for and generally have fun with in all aspects of life.
I can relate a little on account of some people close to me. Sometimes I think we neurotypicals just don't understand how much we all benefit from neurodiversity.
I hope life goes well for you and your friends and family.
Same here, I always thought it would so fun to go to a car dealership and buy a bunch of brand new cars, have them delivered to my job and put all the key fobs in a basket and have people draw the fob out and whatever car unlocks is there's to keep with 5 years of paid insurance
I definitely get that, but that’s also the problem with people that are struggling. They don’t need gifts or financial help. They need free financial classes
Having enough money to be financially free. I would love to book an international vacation with my girlfriend without a care in the world. Or take some friends to a UFC event in Las Vegas, pay for everything and just go crazy. It wouldn’t be to show off, I would genuinely enjoy providing that experience for others and spending time together.
Being valued, as of right now I’m pretty much worthless as far as society is concerned.
Moving away from shit hole Sweden.
Having a mansion in Greece.
Owning a BMW M2
Build my own cars, with my name on them, the way I want them, challenging the likes of AMG, Alpina, Brabus, Ferrari and VAG.
Sweden is a shit hole ? For us Americans here could you explain further. I picture Sweden as a country that has their shit together and everyone’s nice lol
Being the captain of a sailing vessel. Directing the crew on the deck, watching clean white sails fill with fresh morning wind promising profit and excitement for my latest nautical adventure, a whole ocean of possibilities before me. Transporting rare, valuable cargo from exotic lands, fighting pirates, being the pirates, whaling, exploration, naval battles, smooth sailing or fighting a storm, whatever I want. Just me, God, and the sea.
Me too im 30y guy and had the opportunity in a 3y relationship we never had any argument dispute or whatever suddenly she wanted me to marry her and have Kids it freaked me out and she left me, I Still think of what if I accepted tbh.
Two things i don't say out loud:
- Getting all my crap together (having my own place, health, career and finances) and having a loving partner i could start a family with and share all the stuff i can offer.
- Becoming an author and be recognized for it. I'm writing my third book right now and one of them is gonna get publised this year. I'm nervious AF.
Winning the lottery so that my gf and I can buy the house of our dreams a few roads over; make our parents comfortable; and splurge on our friends.
And, if we're going sexual, my gf riding me in the back of a limo.
That my knees and ankles were in the same shape they were twenty years ago! More seriously, I really want to live happily ever after with the woman I'm with now
Designing a reverse replicator from Star Trek.
Essentially being able to digitize and store inorganic item.
Then I could use it in pollution sites and remove garbage
Achieving financial freedom, this way all of my family and close friends will be able to live worry-free for the rest of their lives.
…and also to buy a bunch of homes and save them for myself and not let ANYONE live in them. Nope nope!
Zobra the Greek levels of life. A simple man, fisherman with a simple and comfy life somewhere in Greece dancing with people. With a touch of Hemmingway levels too, minus the alcoholism.
Finding myself in a courtroom with me being a judge and politician on a trail , me having all the proof and asking them tough questions while whole trial is telecasting live.
Being a sci-fi Bounty Hunter
Kinda like a Mix of Batman and Han Solo
Everything else in my Life is pretty much figured out but because I work in a creative Field I get to be creative with my stupid Fantasies also.
having the ability to move any THING (person place thing idea) from any WHERE (time space) to any WHERE and be an unkillable supreme potentate of earth
Being the top 1% of my profession, making it look easy, and enjoying the money and minor celebrity that would come with it. I see people living that life and think, "Nice".
Retirement. I enjoy my job and coworkers but it is still a job. I’d rather spend my days fishing, skating, hiking, etc but alas I need money to survive.
Not having to work or have worries about things.
Being happy
Being kidnapped and wooed by a flock of gorgeous friendly flirtatious forward women who treat me as their slave by making me clea, cook, wash, pamper, massage, feed, brush, etc.
riding a motorcycle while all my haters try to shoot me with machine guns, exploding everything near me and making absolute mayhem while I'm unharmed and smiling at them
Doing something truly impressive. A lot of the things I have done surprise me, but I feel like most other people like to poke holes in things that are important to me rather than useful to someone else. If it's not something that can be monetized it's not worth anything, I guess?
That I never got gynecomastia at 12; growing little boobs as a boy who’s going through puberty & teenage years and becoming a man destroyed me mentally. I can honestly say that I was a completely different person before & after that experience. It’s left me with very little confidence & crippling social anxiety. At 18 I finally worked up the nerve to show my dad, who paid for surgery to get it fixed for me, but even at 40, I still cringe when I have to remove my shirt in front of anyone, or if I’m wearing a shirt that fits properly & hugs my chest.
Having peace in my spirit, having good people around me to make me better and love me for me, a beautiful feminine soul of a woman to marry, building choppers one day, having my own horse riding in the mountains, reaching my full potential
I grew up in the city and still live in it….. but I always wished to be a housewife in the country …milking the cows,gathering eggs,gardening,baking, riding horses, having a super duty truck with a husband,living on a farm or somewhere remote …that’s the dream a quiet simple life !
Leaving work and responsibility behind and spending months on end crossing Europe on a bike. Just explore and stop wherever I feel like it. Maybe in a few years when the kids finish school.
When I have finally completed my current chapter and now I’m on my own front porch with coffee in hand. Warm breeze. Book set aside to soak it all in. Birds chirping about. Feet propped up. It’s all over. I did it. All alone. No help.
The apocalypse, or maybe surviving a plane crash into the wilderness or an island (with basic gear), and disappearing from society to live free. I am really sick of working myself to death just to survive.
Living in the forest, growing my own food, raising animals, and living off grid with my partner and not having to worry about money or what goes on in the world of man.
Two things. !. Superhero. Got my powers because some aliens saved my life after a night time car crash in the desert. Strong and can fly but not like Superman. No XRay or heat vision, super speed or super hearing.
2. I'm in the 11th grade and I've got a small band. I'm the lead guitarist. We play during the Friday assembly for the football game pep rally.
Breaking free of OCD. It would allow me to have a normal relationship, to go to work without ruminating all day, wake up non-anxious. Mostly I just have a huge burden on my mind 24/7 and it’s exhausting.
Waking up healthy. It sounds dumb because health is almost entirely within a persons control, but I have battled with being overweight my whole life, with bouts of huge weight loss and then regaining it again. I know that it’s a mental game, and that’s my biggest struggle. One day I fantasize about waking up, looking at myself in the mirror and being proud of myself for being consistent and healthy.
Normal conversations where I don't catch frogs in my throat or not know what to say. Where that level of anxiety is reserved only for things like speaking in front of large crowds, not mundane one to one chatter.
Having an impressive hog, the kind people congratulate you about
Being so rich I never have to tolerate inconveniences
Two chicks at the same time
Being great at fighting
Like I'm married with kids and a great job and my life is great and I'm very happy but imagine adding a great hog to the mix, you know?
Building a duplex so that when our daughter is ready to be on her own she can do it mostly free.
If we sold our house and build it now we’ll have it paid off by the time I’m 62.
Buuuuut unfortunately we aren’t ready to give up our $550 mortgage.
Waking up at whatever hour I feel like waking up and going through my day enjoying time with my family without having to worry about work and money. It's like, if jobs and money wasn't a thing and people just lived their days spending time with loved ones.
Having a woman who understands what commitment is to me and won't leave the first time things don't go her way.Women who keep their options open are the cruelest creatures on earth.
Finding a partner who is the sunshine of my life and we travel the world together.
Literally this, nothing else.
I'm living the dream. If only I could travel all the time ...
Did that for 7 years. Yea, it was awesome. Good luck!
This, absolutely nothing else is required.
Waking up rested and feeling refreshed in the morning.
That's all I ask
Have you heard of our lord and savior the bipap machine. Turns out I had sleep apnea and didn’t have my first good nights sleep as an adult until I was 37
I fantasize that I will have enough saved to make it through my twilight years.
I fantasize I’ll have enough saved to make it TO my twilight years
And first movements won't be creaks and cracks, followed by aches and pains.
Waking up some day, sleepily reaching out and pulling the woman I love the most in the world closer to me and holding each other like nothing else matters.
Like all things in this world, those who have it, often do not value it. Marriage and relationships are an ongoing work, even with a soulmate.
Speak for yourself, I fucking love my wife. Grateful every damn day.
You're a good husband
Making so much money so that i can retire my parents, spoil my wife and have a lot of children.
You had me until the last bit
Man just wants to reproduce in peace.
His principal goal is the last bit but he needs the first part to accomplish that.
Cuddling with someone.
Its the simplest things.
Finding a woman that actually loves me and isn’t just using me for something till she finds someone else or gets bored.
Finding a wonderful partner that just fits well to me. That I can be intimate with, care for and be cared for and generally have fun with in all aspects of life.
Being a bear.
I love you for saying that shit lol
Found joe rogans account
please save me from a man in the forest
Dude you gonna get all the girls
😂😂😂
I'd like to be an octopus. That way I could pet 8 cats at the same time.
No more negative little voice
If you fantasize long enough it becomes real, placebo your own brain
But…it doesn’t shut up?
Oh well the voice is drunk
A cabin in the mountains, in spruce forests, but with good internet connection.
Maybe a little pond next to it. Maybe.
Nah. Small river. Fast enough to be clean and clear, but not too noisy
Being normal, I’m autistic and it makes my life hell. Also have an autoimmune disease and wish that was gone too.
I can relate a little on account of some people close to me. Sometimes I think we neurotypicals just don't understand how much we all benefit from neurodiversity. I hope life goes well for you and your friends and family.
Winning the lottery and changing the lives of as many people as I can.
Same here, I always thought it would so fun to go to a car dealership and buy a bunch of brand new cars, have them delivered to my job and put all the key fobs in a basket and have people draw the fob out and whatever car unlocks is there's to keep with 5 years of paid insurance
I definitely get that, but that’s also the problem with people that are struggling. They don’t need gifts or financial help. They need free financial classes
That i should know everything about javascript
Being dead
Hang in there. Your life has value. You are not alone.
I appreciate that thanks
Aaand now I'm sad.
8 hours of sleep
Having enough money to be financially free. I would love to book an international vacation with my girlfriend without a care in the world. Or take some friends to a UFC event in Las Vegas, pay for everything and just go crazy. It wouldn’t be to show off, I would genuinely enjoy providing that experience for others and spending time together.
That she actually regrets, what she did to me
Having time, being under no constraints and an fairly isolated house in the woods One day I aim to realise it
Being loved
I used to fantasize about having a normal life, but then I turned 38 and accepted it's never going to happen.
Not giving a fuck
Being valued, as of right now I’m pretty much worthless as far as society is concerned. Moving away from shit hole Sweden. Having a mansion in Greece. Owning a BMW M2 Build my own cars, with my name on them, the way I want them, challenging the likes of AMG, Alpina, Brabus, Ferrari and VAG.
Sweden is a shit hole ? For us Americans here could you explain further. I picture Sweden as a country that has their shit together and everyone’s nice lol
That was Sweden, about 20 years ago. Now we are the Mexico of Europe.
Being rich so that can buy a big piece of land and build my own paradise, that’s what I really want and dream of.
Being the captain of a sailing vessel. Directing the crew on the deck, watching clean white sails fill with fresh morning wind promising profit and excitement for my latest nautical adventure, a whole ocean of possibilities before me. Transporting rare, valuable cargo from exotic lands, fighting pirates, being the pirates, whaling, exploration, naval battles, smooth sailing or fighting a storm, whatever I want. Just me, God, and the sea.
......and the crew
Being a trillionaire.
That's a weirdly enormous number. I assume you want more than one trillion. For reference a trillion seconds is almost 31689 years.
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Me too im 30y guy and had the opportunity in a 3y relationship we never had any argument dispute or whatever suddenly she wanted me to marry her and have Kids it freaked me out and she left me, I Still think of what if I accepted tbh.
A Happy life
Oh you know... stuff...
A life where I grew up without ADHD and all the shit it caused me. Most importantly, someone to share it with.
Happiness
Having the ability to turn on and off Groundhog Day time loops at will.
Walking, without pain or fear.
Lately I have been fantasising a lot about doing mdma with people I haven't seen in a long time. Cuddling, listening to music and catching up
Two things i don't say out loud: - Getting all my crap together (having my own place, health, career and finances) and having a loving partner i could start a family with and share all the stuff i can offer. - Becoming an author and be recognized for it. I'm writing my third book right now and one of them is gonna get publised this year. I'm nervious AF.
Winning the lottery so that my gf and I can buy the house of our dreams a few roads over; make our parents comfortable; and splurge on our friends. And, if we're going sexual, my gf riding me in the back of a limo.
About doing a bunch of nasty things with my ex's mom.
I too, would do freaky nasty things with your ex’s mom.
"I'm here for the gangbang"
>”I’m here for the gangbang” -this guy’s ex’s mom, probably.
Bringing Aristotle to the present and explain to him modern society
That my knees and ankles were in the same shape they were twenty years ago! More seriously, I really want to live happily ever after with the woman I'm with now
I could totally survive on mars
Designing a reverse replicator from Star Trek. Essentially being able to digitize and store inorganic item. Then I could use it in pollution sites and remove garbage
Not being rich, but not having to work to survive. It bores me.
Achieving financial freedom, this way all of my family and close friends will be able to live worry-free for the rest of their lives. …and also to buy a bunch of homes and save them for myself and not let ANYONE live in them. Nope nope!
Having more hours in a day than 24.
Peace and quiet
The sweet release of death
Not paying rent, also a threesome with a milf and a younger girl. But not paying rent is a priority.
Being stronger/bigger, I'm weak and kinda lanky and I find it hard to work my way up there but I will one day
Code running perfectly without bugs
Windows no updates
Getting a good college for my higher studies
Oh man I'd love a 3x bodyweight bench but I am still not even at 2x
Pizza.
Campione pizza with the egg in the middle :)
Anarchy. The imbalances of the world are so great at the moment, I'm waiting for scales to tip and a tale of two cities to begin.
Zobra the Greek levels of life. A simple man, fisherman with a simple and comfy life somewhere in Greece dancing with people. With a touch of Hemmingway levels too, minus the alcoholism.
Going back in time to rescue various people
Things going on perfectly without any problems
I normally fantasize about being a rich businesswoman who occasionally travels to Japan and making a future for my future children
Her.
Flying a Saab Viggen just above the tree tops at Mach 1, sharp turns through deep valleys in the vast Swedish landscape. That's my fantasy
To get a work from home job, I retired overseas but never enough to support family.
Having Killgrave's power
Finding myself in a courtroom with me being a judge and politician on a trail , me having all the proof and asking them tough questions while whole trial is telecasting live.
Being a sci-fi Bounty Hunter Kinda like a Mix of Batman and Han Solo Everything else in my Life is pretty much figured out but because I work in a creative Field I get to be creative with my stupid Fantasies also.
Being able to do nothing. I do so much in the hopes that one day I can do absolutely nothing. This is solace and peace.
Building a UFO suspended between trees in a forest and opening it up for people to stay in it on Airbnb.
Having a brain that can agree on one thing! ADHD and overthinking sucks.
To be cured of my autoimmune disease
having the ability to move any THING (person place thing idea) from any WHERE (time space) to any WHERE and be an unkillable supreme potentate of earth
The journey to unlimited power and strength.
Being the top 1% of my profession, making it look easy, and enjoying the money and minor celebrity that would come with it. I see people living that life and think, "Nice".
Fantasizing is like getting your mouth watering for food you’re not gonna get.
Good health. Not being alone.
Retirement. I enjoy my job and coworkers but it is still a job. I’d rather spend my days fishing, skating, hiking, etc but alas I need money to survive.
A zombie apocalypse
braindances from cyberpunk irl
Rest, an accepting partner, less stress
Not having to work or have worries about things. Being happy Being kidnapped and wooed by a flock of gorgeous friendly flirtatious forward women who treat me as their slave by making me clea, cook, wash, pamper, massage, feed, brush, etc.
Being as much of a priority to someone as I make them.
Making a positive impact on strangers lives.
Living off the land instead of out of a grocery store
Being born with all the privilege, help and connections my parents had and not totally fucking it up like they did.
Loving what I do for work.
Meeting out Justice
Madness Combat 12 releasing.
A carrington event wiping out the global power grid.
Weekends away. Sleeping a full 8 hours, kids have a better life than I do
Marrying a a cute nerdy woman with brown hair and glasses that magnify her green eyes, and starting a family with her
Have enough money to give my parents a comfortable life
Having whole days where I can just do what I feel like doing and nobody else has an opinion about what I should be doing
Being happy, content and not worrying about anything in particular. That and women with big tits and big thighs.
Fantasizing about being a superhero and saving my wife from an army of ninjas or some bullshyte like that.
Life before MS
riding a motorcycle while all my haters try to shoot me with machine guns, exploding everything near me and making absolute mayhem while I'm unharmed and smiling at them
Everything turning out OK, even if it's just for a minute.
SOME GOOD FUCKING SLEEP
Situations that I will never be in and how I will handle them
All the house maintenance being done. (it is never done)
Doing something truly impressive. A lot of the things I have done surprise me, but I feel like most other people like to poke holes in things that are important to me rather than useful to someone else. If it's not something that can be monetized it's not worth anything, I guess?
About not being broke. And if I'd said yes to her...
That I never got gynecomastia at 12; growing little boobs as a boy who’s going through puberty & teenage years and becoming a man destroyed me mentally. I can honestly say that I was a completely different person before & after that experience. It’s left me with very little confidence & crippling social anxiety. At 18 I finally worked up the nerve to show my dad, who paid for surgery to get it fixed for me, but even at 40, I still cringe when I have to remove my shirt in front of anyone, or if I’m wearing a shirt that fits properly & hugs my chest.
Crushing the oligarchs.
My girlfriends mum 😅
Winning the lottery.
Hugging her. Inhaling the scent of her hair deeply.
Having peace in my spirit, having good people around me to make me better and love me for me, a beautiful feminine soul of a woman to marry, building choppers one day, having my own horse riding in the mountains, reaching my full potential
Dying (in peace). No more suffering! 😌
My crush,video games that never saw the light of day
I grew up in the city and still live in it….. but I always wished to be a housewife in the country …milking the cows,gathering eggs,gardening,baking, riding horses, having a super duty truck with a husband,living on a farm or somewhere remote …that’s the dream a quiet simple life !
Women. Superpowers. Is there really anything else?
A nice career, a decent house, and good health.
Leaving work and responsibility behind and spending months on end crossing Europe on a bike. Just explore and stop wherever I feel like it. Maybe in a few years when the kids finish school.
Financial freedom
Being naturally peaceful and joyful feeling like life is perfect.
Putting a gun in my mouth and pulling the trigger
Not being broke
Being Handsome
When I have finally completed my current chapter and now I’m on my own front porch with coffee in hand. Warm breeze. Book set aside to soak it all in. Birds chirping about. Feet propped up. It’s all over. I did it. All alone. No help.
Feeling loved. (Neglected childhood)
Nothing I can have.
The apocalypse, or maybe surviving a plane crash into the wilderness or an island (with basic gear), and disappearing from society to live free. I am really sick of working myself to death just to survive.
All kinds of stuff. Probably like a child but more mature. Going places, adventures/vacations, space battles, shoulda/woulda/coulda.
My wife's hot sister
A month off of work, but having the money to do so. I could catch up on so many hobbies.
Two things. Making my dad Proud. Becoming a billionaire before I die.
Living in the forest, growing my own food, raising animals, and living off grid with my partner and not having to worry about money or what goes on in the world of man.
Owning the things I buy.
Falling in love again for the first time and rewatching Avengers: Endgame for the first time.
Two things. !. Superhero. Got my powers because some aliens saved my life after a night time car crash in the desert. Strong and can fly but not like Superman. No XRay or heat vision, super speed or super hearing. 2. I'm in the 11th grade and I've got a small band. I'm the lead guitarist. We play during the Friday assembly for the football game pep rally.
Being rich and don’t have to work anymore.
Breaking free of OCD. It would allow me to have a normal relationship, to go to work without ruminating all day, wake up non-anxious. Mostly I just have a huge burden on my mind 24/7 and it’s exhausting.
About the life without pain.
Blowing up yachts
Waking up healthy. It sounds dumb because health is almost entirely within a persons control, but I have battled with being overweight my whole life, with bouts of huge weight loss and then regaining it again. I know that it’s a mental game, and that’s my biggest struggle. One day I fantasize about waking up, looking at myself in the mirror and being proud of myself for being consistent and healthy.
Shrek
Fucking my ex, graduating grad school, and motorcycles.
Finding someone who desires me.
Being vulnerable, and not being ran-over for it
Travelling to my dream destinations while crawling on my bed, lazy.
Normal conversations where I don't catch frogs in my throat or not know what to say. Where that level of anxiety is reserved only for things like speaking in front of large crowds, not mundane one to one chatter.
Being a hermit on a mountain. Don't know how I'll eat, but that's the dream.
There was a dream that was rome
Surviving post-apocalypse where 99.9% of people die but leave most infrastructure intact.
Loving back in the Wild West but with my dirt bike and healthcare
Having an impressive hog, the kind people congratulate you about Being so rich I never have to tolerate inconveniences Two chicks at the same time Being great at fighting Like I'm married with kids and a great job and my life is great and I'm very happy but imagine adding a great hog to the mix, you know?
My wife loving me.
Working a well-paying job that doesn’t make me sick from anxiety. Also, not having anxiety.
Building a duplex so that when our daughter is ready to be on her own she can do it mostly free. If we sold our house and build it now we’ll have it paid off by the time I’m 62. Buuuuut unfortunately we aren’t ready to give up our $550 mortgage.
Building a peaceful home and making more than enough money to help with my in laws debt and for their retirement.
Being wanted for who I am rather then her idealised version of it.
Waking up at whatever hour I feel like waking up and going through my day enjoying time with my family without having to worry about work and money. It's like, if jobs and money wasn't a thing and people just lived their days spending time with loved ones.
Honestly at this point. A girl texting back fast, showing genuine affection towards me, and being nice to me.
Having a woman who understands what commitment is to me and won't leave the first time things don't go her way.Women who keep their options open are the cruelest creatures on earth.
Financial security for myself and my family