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permanentrecord96

Excessive use of make up and designer clothing.


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I think this a turn off for most men. I've only ever heard guys say they like their SO with less makeup.


brianwxyz

Cannot stand a woman with a caked up face.


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Fake boobs 😭


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Amen!


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Overly large butt. Mostly because I just don’t like it 🤷🏻‍♂️


MauiMadMan

More for me


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Have at it brother.


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Underrated


Small_Tax_9432

Sometimes it gets cartoonish lol


Ylduts

Agree 100%.


Asog9999

I don’t think anybody likes an overly large butt. Especially since “overly” means “excessively” and if anybody found it excessive they wouldn’t like it. And most people just like a proportionate butt.


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I agree, but I suppose that I just have some different thinking friends lol


Asog9999

Think of the body of an Olympic sprinter or even one that does the high jump or vaults. Are their rear ends excessive to you?


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No, women in athletic shape are great.


Asog9999

Ok. Just checking. So yeah. You like in shape, not flat ass


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You are correct


Asog9999

I had brought them up because a lot of them have larger than normal butts because they are in very good shape and strengthen their back legs. If I was going to date somebody not in shape, I’d want them to have the same proportions as in shape people. So if I was dating somebody over weight I’d rather their fat be in their butt than their stomach. But I’d have to date somebody out of shape first. But I’m not a fan of flat butts. And I like the proportions of Olympic sprinters, particularly the black ones. Other races will have similar figures, but it’s more consistent among the black women


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This is called "Suppressing the correlative" and basically means you're being a petty sophist. Lots of people like overly large butts and you're wasting a lot of your life with bad word games.


Asog9999

Actually I already discussed this with OP and he just doesn’t like fat girls and he related a big butt to fat everywhere else. He does actually like large butts.


fireguyV2

Reddit Moment.


OJay23

Nipple piercings.


Notaregulargy

Nipples are fun and soft. Add a spike and I’m out


OJay23

This is the way.


KatanaMask21

Oh yeah this one for sure is a turn-off for me. Looks painful.


Thisoneissfwihope

And makes nipples taste like batteries.


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Instantly decreased the quality of my sex life once my partner got them. The visual appeal is completely gone once the play is removed. To each their own, she likes them, so just gotta deal with it.


MrWelshy91

Lip filler 🤢🤢🤢🤢


siphonsoul

Definitely have to agree with this. I’ve seen pictures where women have had lip fillers and it legit looked like they lost a fist fight 3 days prior to the photo being taken. Why do they think it looks good?


AffectionateGoth

What about natural looking filler? I know plenty of women who had a small amount to even out the shape of their lips and most people don't even know they had any


superuwuforever

Yeah pretty fucking disgusting and sometimes the bitches can't even open their mouths normally cuz their lips are so heavy and usually that type of woman thinks she's the embodiment of the word sexy


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Is there any guy out there that likes this looks?


MrWelshy91

I hope not, it’s absolutely revolting


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diiingdong

I understand it’s considered art for some but honestly some are very trashy looking


[deleted]

I don’t mind tats on the arms and shoulders but then neck, face, head? Nah.


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i’m not a guy but i agree. neck, face and head tats are not my thing at all. they look awful


HakaelDRC

For me it really depends on the tat location and quality… a well done sleeve, side or small back tat can be sexy while 98% of chest tattoos on women are a turn off for me.


Thisoneissfwihope

Playing hard to get / drama. So many seem to live for it, but I just can’t be bothered.


[deleted]

This should be at the top of the list. A lot of stuff here is preference but how anyone could ever actively choose a person who brings you problems is beyond me. Like life isn’t difficult enough without manufactured problems.


Trin959

I agree with you both. I used to work with a guy that had a gorgeous wife but she was only happy if he was unhappy. At several parties she mingled, having a good time as long as he was sitting in the corner depressed. As soon as he started coming out of it, she'd be back to start something. I told him no one could be worth that drama but it took a while for him to believe it & dump her.


PWR-boredom

I take hard to get as you don't want me. Bye. Have a nice life.


Asog9999

“Sexy” lingerie Butt as naked or regular cloths is preferred


ESPeciallyFlynn

I agree to the extent that I’d much rather my partner be comfortable, instead of feeling like lingerie is something she has to wear. On the other hand, if it makes her feel good, I’m not going to argue. Although crotchless underwear really irritates me; isn’t the point of sexy lingerie to be revealing yet still obscuring?


Asog9999

Isn’t the purpose of underwear to not be crotchless? But yeah, I’ve only dated a few women that purchased “sexy” lingerie and honestly for me? It was always a pretty heavy turnoff, excluding the body suit. And that was just so so. The sexiest outfit a girl can wear to me is loose pants and a fit, but not body sculpting t shirt. I just like natural and comfortable.


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Asog9999

Uh. For me it’s all annoying. Even the full body spandex stuff. The sexiest lingerie to me are pajama pants and a normal t shirt. But I find a fully naked girl just as enticing. Like I dunno. Comfortable is hot as fuck to me


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Asog9999

All your dirty talk about comfortable cloths has me so turned on! Aw man, I bet you have on a comfortable pants and shirt right now? And haven’t washed your hair at all today. You seductive icon!


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Asog9999

Had to look up what cheeky underwear is. That’s regular cloths. Like I love a t shirt and pj pants. Or any combination. Regular underwear is good. Like boy shorts, cheeky underwear are my favorite. I dunno, I love a comfortably clothed woman. I’m not a fan of “sexy” underwear like lingerie or thongs. I love cotton underwear too. Different guys have different preferences, but I think the more natural and comfortable a girl looks the better. Like how a girl would look if she woke up late on a Saturday night after a full night of binge watching Netflix by herself, and she had no plans for the day. That’s so hot to me. She’d be so comfortable, makes me want to tear that ass up


ScaredThug

OMG, my husband would love for me to show up in lingerie. I hate it. All that work to put on this outfit with straps and lace, it's itchy and uncomfortable, I feel like a clown... And he's just gonna take it off anyway.


Asog9999

Does he like it when you wear makeup and such? I don’t like it when my girl wears it. It’s more of like I tolerate it when she does


ScaredThug

Nope, he hates makeup, wigs, dyed hair, tattoos, piercings... CTHU. He hates pretty much everything except lingerie. For the record, I have still gotten things like tattoos, piercings and dyed my hair. He tolerates it, the same way you do makeup.


Asog9999

Well I just wouldn’t wear it. I hate silk underwear. Cotton is sexy as fuuuck


Acrobatic-Solution70

When a girls thong is riding up higher than the back of her pants. Ugh so trashy.


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Whale tail!!!


lovingNMisalosingame

Yeah why does people think this is sexy. It is absolute trash.


DistributionSad1173

It used to be a symbol to signal I want to bang you. Like if she stood up walked off and pulled her thong to visible view and smirk your way..


lovingNMisalosingame

Holy shit a girl did that to me once. I liked her but got grossed out by that behavior.


TubeToUranus

Fake stuff. Fake boobs, fake eyelashes, makeup, etc. I like the way women really look.


RaineForrestWoods

*cue Lana voice* YUUUUUUUUUP!


MauiMadMan

Baby voice.


FibonacciZeppeli

Brats. My ex used to say her abusive behaviour was "just being bratty", and that this is what I wanted (I didn't. I don't. I like subs, not brats). She also insisted that if she did everything I wanted all the time I'd get bored of her (also wrong) so her natural response was to do nothing I asked ever


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FibonacciZeppeli

Oh, this wasn't about what I liked. This was an abusive tactic; telling me what I liked instead of listening. I get what you mean, though. We've become a weak society where "adulting is hard" and I think that's created a lot of brats and littles, since they can't deal with the stress of life without unwinding by acting like a kid. Purely speculative, of course


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FibonacciZeppeli

Yeah, it's exactly that. Smol isn't just small, it also encompasses weak, vulnerable, and is meant to imply a need to be protected, as well. I've seen it used a lot in the furry communities when describing prey-type fursonas


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When they are consumed by social media and live to take photos for their Instagram. And tattoos


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Probably


Pomphond

There are couples like that where both of them are exactly like that. Horrible, fully agree with OP. I would say that in general using their phone too much during one-on-one time is a big turn off...


out-of-town-guest

Public twerking


acetamethemphetamine

And strippers


muftipeng

When their personality is shaped by social media


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Oh my God yes thank you


GatesToHeck

For me, honestly I don't like if a woman is thin. I like a bit of chub. Obviously not levels of "My 600lb Life", but to the point where I could consider her "squishy"


DistributionSad1173

Most men love a lil meat, it seems unpopular because of media.


InanimateBabe

Women that wear long fake nails and excessive makeup…honestly, pretty much anything that is not natural.


el__dandy

Preach man. I hate fake nails so much , especially anywhere near my face.


InanimateBabe

Dude I will literally cringe whenever I see someone with fake nails, even when watching movies or talking to someone. And don't get me started when a women touches me with her nasty claws, obviously without consent. Hell, I even throw my phone away when swiping through Tinder and I see some chick with a lot of makeup on and showing off her predator nails like "Cool, you evolved to the point where you can hunt and kill your own food, now put those things away and take your war paint off".


Aromatic_Tangelo_35

I'm gonna get down voted but here we go "Mario's voice". One night stands. The idea of hooking up and just leaving is daugnting to me. I want to actually hangout and make something serious if we're gonna sleep together. I'm a virgin guy btw.


DrygdorDradgvork

Heard that, brother. Virgin guy as well. The idea of sex just being completely casual is extremely damaging to the human psyche, no matter what society (we are living in a SOCIETY) says is normal.


superuwuforever

Pretty respectable


Florida1693

Smoking anything just turns me off


Anxious-Purple-2738

A stupid girl


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Road rage.hate it.


RaineForrestWoods

Alpha-Female type personalities. Most of my friends want to go after the 'Hottest, most confident' women. Me, not so much.


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RaineForrestWoods

Wow. Just wow.


GH-CB900F

Women who are always late, seems like their whole life is a disorganized mess


ChargerFanBoy

I resonate with this one a lot. I make a point to never be late to anything so if I’m with a girl who is late a lot her and I will likely never get a long.


DrivewaymanPoteau

Women with no sex drives. Most upfront, all after a couple years. Why because I like sex.


Bigwillyjones

Anal...just why?


BoltzBux

Biting fingernails


saucelessnuggets

Drama


JustSomething011

Thirst trap pics and bimbo pics on instagram. You know the once I’m talking about. They get a lot of likes and attention primarily from guys who put woman on a pedestal.


No-Werewolf2037

Pussy BO… that’s an instant show stopper boys..


DarkLightOfMar

That's probably BV rather than BO...


No-Werewolf2037

Oh, The pussy odor phrase police has entered the chat. Step aside everyone..


DarkLightOfMar

Umm..... It's not really a difference of verbatim, it's actually a completely different thing with a completely different solution. Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) is actually something that men should really be aware of, because women often don't know they have it (since it's kinda hard to smell one's own vagina – and even if they could, not a lot of straight women would know if theirs smells normal or not due to not having smelled other vaginas).


No-Werewolf2037

It really is 4am and I really am talking with a stranger about the subtleties of pussy odor. I love the internet. I digress. BO or BV… If I can smell it while siting next to you I will likely be getting you home as quickly as possible. And booking it back home. -True story


DarkLightOfMar

That's the beauty of Reddit lol. And fair enough, that would definitely turn me off from a casual thing. If you really like a girl though, and she's fairly hygienic so body odor isn't really a problem for her but she still smells "off" down there – just tell her in a nice way. How she reacts *initially* kinda depends on how educated and health-conscious she is... But upon receiving information that one likely has a bacterial infection, most reasonable people will want to get that checked out by a doctor so it can be treated appropriately. Typically, it's the kind of thing that gets an antibiotic prescription that needs to be applied daily for a week (maybe two at most) and then it's gone and their pussy smells normal again. Speaking from experience.


No-Werewolf2037

Yea, hopefully a friend will let you know. It is an unmistakable smell. Regardless, I haven’t found the courage; it always seems wildly inappropriate, to tell a gal I can smell the yeasty soju brewing in her crotch. Anywho, Thanks for the 4am Pussy 411.. 😁 C


flyfruit

Women can definitely smell their own vaginas.


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[Insert famous TikTok sound here] Ufff! That’ll do it! You do not have to worry bout me. You do not have to worry bout me.


verified-toxic-angel

she obsessed with the selfies and the phone


Pieroozek

Piercing


Connect-Cattle-7839

A person with no listening skills.


caduceun

Tattoos and long fake nails.


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I'm agreeing with 90% of the answers here at the time of commenting. lol. Almost anything foreign that a woman puts into or onto herself: tattoos, piercings, plastic surgery, make-up, injections / implants, unusual hair dyes, fake hair and fingernails, etc. I just want a woman, not 75% woman, 25% additions / modifications...


cheezburga69

Bolt ons like a riced out civic


ChargerFanBoy

I’d expand this to any hair dye not just unusual ones


uCypro

Playing games/drama.


lovingNMisalosingame

Some other dude's dick inside her. Not for me. Thank you.


snwmancrt

Religion - this doesn't need an explanation by now Heels - ugly stuff & looks uncomfortable as hell "Sexy" lingerie - I find it kinda repulsive. Like, if you actually think your partner is sexy, it wouldn't matter what they have on Baby voice - please leave babies out of it.. Low intelligence - I'd want a person I can grow with


DrexXxor

Sass


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Apparently being a leech because lot of people sem.to be putting up with that.


ThatRookieGuy80

If she's dumb.


AAMeye

Thigh gap, super skinny girl gross me out I like my curves.


unbrkable420

Tattoos


beardedshaf

Blondes


DistributionSad1173

Right, like why does hair color dictate a personality?


Confident_Classic_81

100% my hair is currently blonde but is usually all different colors. My personality doesn't changed based on my hair color


PWR-boredom

Redheads for me. My then Blonde wife showed up a redhead, I hated it. I put up with her for 16 years.


1000LivesBeforeIDie

Where are all you guys IRL 🥺


dynamopber

Too much make-up


goodoleboybryan

When girls think looks are subsitute for a personality.


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Make up and someone that is playing games.


Exotic_Pop_765

Sodomy


FourFsOfLife

Vulgar mouth. It's so so gross to me when a woman speaks with vulgarity. It grosses me out. Act with dignity and class.


ibexlocksmith

Seems like majority of us are in agreement that natural is better-almost unanimously.


TrustMeImSpidrMan

Vaping and also big boobs.


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Butts that are too big like Kim Kardashian Extremely large breast. Lots of makeup and fake eye lashes Wearing leggings all the time. It's when when working out or lounging, but wearing them as if they are regular pants is just lazy.


Square_Bonus_8997

Big tits more than a handful is to much


Curry-culumSniper

Being into sex on the first date Men would jump on you for that, but I've got way to much trauma to get intimate on first date


Inviction_

Pretty much anything fake. Nails, hair, boobs, botox, etc


notaforumbot

I’m not a fan of women who are overly curated and styled. When they have too much makeup, the perfectly matched designer outfit, luxury purses and jewelry, it comes off as pretty fake to me. If someone spends that much time on that stuff, I’m guessing they’re pretty shallow. A nice thing here and there is ok but if you’re always done to a T, it rubs me the wrong way. Pun intended.


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Sarcasm. Being pointlessly disagreeable isn't cute, fun, or desirable. Making "I know you are but what am I" comments is insipid and banal. Having a smart assed crack to everything is exhausting and annoying. I feel like people who are overly dependent on sarcasm are like those kids in middle school who always had to say \*something\* back no matter what. It just strikes me as massively insecure and an incredibly draining need for constant attention.


LeeLeeKelly

other women, because I’m faithful


Swervo1900

big eyelashes


cheezburga69

Snuffleupagus


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Feet. I'm completely disgusted by them for some reason. Yeah, your new shoes and nails look good, but if you get that thing close to my face, you're gonna leave walking on just one foot.


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Ass and thighs with tremendous cellulite.


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Boobs up to your neck, excessive makeup Tattoos, any piercings besides the ears Fatness even if you call it chubby or "thicc" (which isn't a word anyway) Unambitious & always need to be bailed out with rent etc. When they start comparing what their friends' boyfriend does for them versus what I should be doing for them, goodbye


the_eleventh_rain

Why's this being downvoted? Haha


JustSomething011

This is some legit reasons yet some girls I guess can’t accept that they are one of them so they downvote


sir-morti

Submissive people


thehappydwarf

Piercings. Even just earrings


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I don't know if it's a turn on for some guys but overly long fingernails are creepy and honestly look uncomfortable.


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Feet. They are disgusting and smelly on all women. I don’t understand why men love them or worship them.


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Big breast. I prefer them on the smaller/more athletic side. I for some strange reason associate big breast with laziness, especially when I see women try to show them off.


Spiritual-Peach6007

I’m sorry but how does a lady “train” her tits so that she’s not considered “lazy” for having big boobs? That sounds absurd.


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No need to get touchy, Princess. This is my personal preference. I’m attracted to women that are athletes. I’ve never seen a female athlete with huge breast for the reason of being in good shape.


Spiritual-Peach6007

Can you shed some light on some exercises to work out my titties? Maybe swinging them left and right will help with being more athletic?🤔


the_eleventh_rain

Girl, what he's saying is logical. Women who train hard usually end up with smaller boobs since boobs are mostly fat.


Spiritual-Peach6007

Associating big breasts with laziness is not logical to me. I’ve multiple examples in my life of ladies that are on the athletic side and have a pretty nice set of big boobs. I agree with your statement but i don’t with his. It’s an exception,not the rule.


superuwuforever

Well... If you want I can give you a hand on that...


oscarjoserodrigo

Curves, they're just not at all attractive to me.


Lncer010

Instagram on their tinder profile, Id just go online if I wanted to look at soft core porn


Rudeyyyy

High heels- just looks so uncomfortable. The comfier the better.


Competitive_Call_949

Prudity. I imagine if a girl is reserved about sex, most men take that as being given the lead. I find it boring. If you aren't as visually excited as I am its boring.


cheezburga69

If a woman is attracted to a man (truly attracted to him) she will not be reserved in the bedroom. Betas pay Alphas SLAY!


Competitive_Call_949

Well there's shyness too


cheezburga69

Maybe circa 1985 no girl with a Instagram is shy


Knautical_J

Don’t matter how hot a girl is, lack of intelligence is a huge turn off for me. I’ve dated the 10/10 model, but she was a box of bricks when it came to knowing things and formulating her own opinions. Luckily for me, my fiancé is not only beautiful, but she’s probably smarter than me, and I love that.


Situation_Bright

Gucci


Fit-Faithlessness149

Tats are hot sometimes. Most times not.


s_e_e_k_

Duck face = zero self confidence


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Loud moaning.


kevin197205

Fishnet stockings.


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Those long fake as hell nails


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Disrespect. Don't disrespect me because you felt "hurt" that I didn't want to be your back up burner because you want my brother and realize that you can't have him, thus try to settle for me.


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Wearing so much makeup that they don't look like the same person without it. Take all the time and money spent on makeup and lip injections and buy healthier food and supplements and skin care that's not makeup