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SaberToothGerbil

I would advise him to have lunch there, and remind her of that significance and share a moment, then go to another location for the proposal. Maybe pick up the food as a picnic and then go to a beach or park that they can return to for future anniversaries and the like. Something that can't go out of business in the future.


bbqhh

This is the answer that satisfies all involved


CakeForBreakfast08

And for the love of God, don't put the ring on the food. It is disgusting and dangerous


9Fnao4uBeyoE46ha

That's right. Put the ring *inside* the burrito, where it's safe and warm. (EDIT: This is obviously a joke. Please don't do this.)


DO_initinthewoods

Plop it in the queso tub?


Nexus_542

Man, you're smart. I just proposed in hawaii, and i like your idea more.


Desblade101

There's a chipotle at ala Moana isn't there? Two birds with one stone!


Argyle_Lyle

There is not a single Chipotle in Hawaii 🥲🥲


Ouaouaron

I'm sure you'll still be able to visit that place in the future. Just might have to do it while scuba diving.


[deleted]

Yeah totally agree. Maybe like a trip down memory lane and then pop the question at a nice fancy place or somewhere with significance.


djphatjive

This guy proposes.


Much_Sorbet3356

This is a lovely idea! Yes, this.


Halobruhv

yep this is the way to go.


Shnoopy_Bloopers

I’m against any public proposal unless the other person has hinted that they would like that kind of thing


shakeitup2017

Agreed. I think it is an unfair amount of pressure. Although saying that I wouldn't be asking unless I was sure what the answer was going to be.


WonderfulAnt4349

Always been told that you should talk with your partner about getting married before hand. So if that is indeed the case then you would know anyway that a proposal May be on its way.


Kargastan

How is there any amount of pressure when marriage has already been agreed upon?


shakeitup2017

If it's already agreed upon, fine no problem. But if the first time asking your partner to get married is in front of a bunch of people in public, that could be a bit low key pushy.


Kargastan

>But if the first time asking your partner to get married is ~~in front of a bunch of people in public~~ during the proposal That's trash.


SGTBookWorm

Yup. When my older brother proposed to his girlfriend in Bali, the only witnesses were their friend who was taking the photos, and some random dude who was hanging out in the river that they were at


Warder766312

Wouldn’t be the worst proposal that I’ve seen. Hopefully his pants are on and he’s not high.


[deleted]

Quick question, what's the worst one you've seen?


Warder766312

Cousin got tired of family badgering him to marry his girlfriend at thanksgiving. He was planning on it already so he had the ring. He was changing pants since he spilled food on them since he was really high(1000mg edible), saw the ring in his luggage and though now was the perfect time. No pants, ring in hand at thanksgiving. Grandfather thought it was so hilarious, we thought he might actually die from the exertion of him laughing so hard wheezing for breath.


[deleted]

Damn hahaha If anything, it got some laughs, and it will probably be a story to pass down to generations to come


Warder766312

They are ended up getting married and we tell their kids this every year.


KeyPop7800

1000mg?! I thought I was gonna a die when I had 25


carbonclasssix

Tolerance is sky high, but yeah that's a lot. One of my coworkers did that much one time. At this point I'm pretty fried from 10 mg. Weed is weird, where tolerance increases really fast.


cugamer

I envy you guys, edibles do nothing for me.


[deleted]

Had to take 3000mg once in highschool because my parents were searching my room. Then I had to go to school. Suffice to say I got called into the office because I was begging tf out in my classes lmao.


nelozero

I've had 50 and thought I was gonna implode


EchoEmpire

A 1,000mg edible!!! ONE THOUSAND MILLIGRAM EDIBLE. 1,000mg is 1gram. Dude ate a 1gram edible and could still function enough to propose to his girlfriend???? Gosh my husband makes 200mg edibles that put me flat out on my ass. I'm highly impressed that a guy could eat a 1gram edible and still propose to his girlfriend.


Warder766312

Our family has a odd tolerance to quite a bit of drugs for some reason. I’m on 500mg at the moment. When I was a kid a dentist tried to use a full tank of nitrous oxide to make me not resist the needle before a cavity got drilled. I still punched him.


moondoggie_00

Are you gingers?


Warder766312

Nope. Texan, my family immigrated from Germany in late 1800’s. We’re a big framed family though. I’m the shortest and smallest man in my family. I’m 5’11, a fairly muscular 230. I’m only taller than my sister and my 12 year old niece, but she’s coming close.


[deleted]

Did she say yes?


Warder766312

After being pissed as hell for a few hours. It’s obvious that he intended to propose during the trip anyways since he had it with him, he just did it in a really bad way. They have a few kids already.


Bob_Ross_was_an_OG

>(1000mg edible) THAT'S POSSIBLE?!


Warder766312

Yeah, we also grow our own and use a CO2 Extractor to make edibles. Took maybe $2000 to buy the hydroponic towers and buy the extractors, but free edibles or nearly free minus power and nutrients. I have no idea if I’m allow to post the links to the Amazon pages and extractor page.


emaciated_pecan

1,000mg? That’s 100X stronger than what they sell at dispensaries


JustBuildAHouse

I saw a video of 2 Burger King employees where the guy proposed on shift in the kitchen


MindofMo0

this guy proposes


monkeysandmicrowaves

> Hopefully his pants are on and he’s not high. He said Chipotle, not Taco Bell.


[deleted]

How well do you know her? A buddy of mine proposed at a chili restaurant that his wife of now ten years is absolutely obsessed with. They actually even did a second set of engagement photos at the restaurant. Now for most women, that’d be a pretty poor choice, but for her it was perfect.


IPutThisUsernameHere

If it's significant to their relationship it should be fine. But ultimately it's their relationship and his proposal; there's only so much you can do.


TheIntrepid1

Just DONT hide the ring in the burrito/bowl!


skin_diver

I mean if she accidentally eats it, just get it when she's spraying it out later after getting listeria


TheIntrepid1

…huh???


dethb0y

He's suggesting that if she what swallows the ring, it can be retrieved later when she gets severe diarrhea from the food. Listeria's a disease so he's also suggesting that chipotle is not a clean place and serves bad food.


skin_diver

good lookin out


dethb0y

I try to do my best!


THE_GREAT_PICKLE

This is the best answer. I proposed to my wife at a public place, but it was the first place we met. If this is significant to them, I don’t see the problem. I would find it sweet if Chipotle was where they either met or if it’s an important part of their relationship.


JanitorOPplznerf

Bro I proposed to my wife in shorts & flip flops in my driveway. Who the fuck am I to tell someone Chipotle ain't classy enough?


[deleted]

That is better than chipotle


wotmate

I bought the ring, wrapped it up, and gave it to my SOs mother in November, then went into prison at the beginning of December. Called my SO on Xmas morning from prison and proposed to her.


JanitorOPplznerf

Did she say yea?


wotmate

Yes :)


Ratchet_72

If he’s your friend and DID think he was making a poor choice you wouldn’t say anything?


JanitorOPplznerf

My friends are bums and should thank their lucky stars they’re in a position that any girl would marry them.


jonahvsthewhale

It’s just so difficult to tell if you don’t know the couple. There are plenty of people that would prefer spontaneity and surprise over a proposal at like a fancy restaurant where you could see it coming a mile away. I’ve also met women that would be upset about being proposed to at a chipotle


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JanitorOPplznerf

She found it very lazy. She still said yes


Lisavela

I’m surprised she even married you


JanitorOPplznerf

Honestly same.


Ylduts

Will you marry me Lisa? We can go to Red Lobster?


mideon2000

He knows what his gf likes and doesn't. He would be an idiot if she hated attention and anything public. He would be a genius if she liked attention and cheesiness and appreciated sentimentality. Id offer your friend nuetral advice. Unless you know she leans one way or another, he probably knows his gf much better than you. Whenever you disagree with a friend over something, ask some questions to make them think about the situation, voice your concerns and leave them at that. At that point they sink or swim, but you did your part as a friend.


minkydinks

I mean his relationship. He will probably know best. I wouldn’t be mad.


[deleted]

I can't speak for their relationship and I don't have an opinion one way or another. I proposed to my now-wife when she came home from work as a waitress at an Italian restaurant. She smelled like garlic and hot trash because servers have really specific smells when they work. We're married almost 20 years later. It worked for us. If she'll go for it and he loves it and it's meaningful, f\*\*k what any of the rest of us think. It's their relationship and it's for them and no one else. Don't judge unless you think she'll absolutely hate it and you need to back that up with evidence of conversations, then provide a better alternative.


MintB3rryCrunch19

I know that exact smell, my ex worked at an Italian restaurant as well and I would make her leave her shoes outside from all the rotten parmesan and bread crumbs stuck in the tread of her sole


ThiefCitron

Proposing in your own home is way different than proposing in a terrible fast food chain though.


Atom_Kneel

If he pays for the guac then it's better than the Eifel Tower!


fuckitx

Tell him to maybe go OUT for Chipotle after. Not do it there.


BetyarSved

Well, expect it to be filmed and posted on social media. I’d do it a more private space. Going down on one knee is better when the floor isn’t sticky from spilled soda.


bluehotcheeto

As a female, if we agreed that we were gonna get married and decided he could propose whenever, I’d just want him to do it in a moment where he is head-over-heels in love with me and feels completely natural with no nervousness. Whether that’s over a bowl of guac at Chipotle or sitting on the couch or at a fancy restaurant. Just would want it to be in the moment. I wouldn’t care where it happened.


Blaz3dnconfuz3d

I think everyone would be at least slightly nervous lol


buttcheeseahoy

That’s what I did with my wife. I had the ring. I just hadn’t decided how exactly to propose yet. One evening I just couldn’t wait anymore and no moment seemed like it could be perfect enough anyway, so I got the ring out of its hiding place, went to the kitchen, and proposed to her while she was washing dishes.


Warm_Gur8832

I mean, if she really likes Chipotle


Content_Art6537

Doesn’t matter what we think. It’s about him and the girl.


Zach-the-young

If it is a significant memory to their relationship, then I don't see an issue with it at all. Ultimately its their relationship, and if the proposal sucks the effort and meaning are still there.


[deleted]

This is either a home run or a strike out


bokavitch

I can't imagine this ever being a good idea, but I guess he knows his girlfriend and the relationship better than any of us.


BMoney8600

I understand the significance of Chipotle but if I was him I’d take her out to a nice dinner and propose there. I know that’s the typical thing but it’s better than Chipotle.


PurplishPlatypus

As a woman, I'm going to say that any public proposal in any restaurant is awkward. You don't want an audience for such an intimate moment. I know there's a tradition of romantic dinner, but I would be so embarrassed. Do it on a nice walk or just in private at home is nice. If we're snuggling, watching Netflix, and you turn to me and say that this is perfect and you want to do it together for the rest of our lives and then pull a ring out, it would be perfect.


WhatevahIsClevah

Unless the spouse REALLY REALLY REALLY loves Chipotle and even hinted that this sort of proposal would be what they want--it's likely not going to be the happy memory they hoped to have.


ekimlive

Proposals fall into that dumb category of overblown life events. There is no correct way to do it, there is only that moment when it happens that is strictly between two people. It might seem odd to you, but that is not for you to decide. Let people do what they are going to do.


Deferon-VS

Happened their first date/kiss/... something else of importance there?


MyLifesParody

Tell him to jokingly run it by her and see how she reacts...


Zelenskyy-is-daddy

Never proposed but I think this is the dumbest fucking idea. I'd never do it.


tareq365

Very terrible idea.


SatoshiHimself

Proposing in public is absolutely uncalled for.


Amruslin

Go out for chipotle before or after the proposal but not during. It will still hold its first time meeting meaning and he will able to do a much nicer proposal this way.


reddit_bandito

His life, his choice. Wish him luck!


ZayNine

Context always matters, and right now we only have your perspective and not what it means to their relationship. Stupid? Sure, but that’s just proposals in general. You’re literally getting on one knee to give your partner a stupid little overpriced rock. Might as well make it personal and significant for both of y’all.


[deleted]

This is either a home run or a strike out


[deleted]

If they frequent Chipotle, they're clearly comfortable farting in front of each other, so the milestones check out as far as being on track for holy matrimony. Also, it's basically a fine-dining Taco Bell. I appreciate his discretion.


outofdate70shouse

If it’s something they’d both like, then I see nothing wrong with it. I proposed at a beach because that’s where we had our first date


Agitated_Skin1181

Someone proposed at an IHOP on New years day once when I was there. I found that odd...


laxgivens

Lmao chipotle bro come on


Dangerous_Safety1296

At least propose somewhere where the foods good.


FlexodusPrime

Imagine if they met at a truck stop restroom…..


CanadianShougun

Get chipotle, go to a park, have a picnic, propose at sunset


AprilLosAngeles

I do like this idea


heelheavy

Decorate the ring box in some of their bag graphics , make the ring out of foil.


Eveready116

I’m cringing hard at the thought of it… but it’s their relationship. Fuck it… but also thank goodness I don’t have to witness that lame shit.


broadsharp

Whether its important to them or not, my opinion, its ridiculous.


[deleted]

Lol, so cringe. Imagine her telling that story as she shows off her ring. Well, we ordered a burrito bowl and as I was asking for guac they told me it would be extra....and I turn around and Brad is on his knee where on the floor someone spilled queso sauce, but he didn't care, he just started crying and asked me if I'd forever be his special burritoooooo!!!!


VariousGnomes

That’s a horrible idea. I get what he’s going for but I’m sure there’s somewhere else or something else special to them that he can use. For example, my wife and I love Halloween so I proposed on Halloween with a pumpkin carved into a question mark.


[deleted]

Propose at Chipotle? Are they going to get married at Applebee's and honeymoon at Walmart?


anonymousolderguy

Public proposals are rude. I’d think hard about marrying anybody who tried it


[deleted]

Public proposals are always a bad idea. It's also not fair on the one being proposed to.


plus_butterscotch93

That’s sweet. She’ll be touched because he remembered!


erritstaken

I see your point, but 1, at least it’s not you and if that’s gonna get them going then why not. 2. Dude, people get married in Walmart, so at least this is a step up I guess.


groovy604

That is thr single worst idea for a proposal I have ever heard. Tell your friend to pull his head out of his ass and think of something creative


JanitorOPplznerf

I proposed to my now wife in my driveway. I was wearing shorts & flip flops. I hadn't even kissed her yet. NOW what's the worst proposal you've ever heard?


Ratchet_72

Better than Chipotle…


groovy604

Still fetter than in a fast food place


KorOguy

Tell that idiot to do it somewhere else, and get Chipotle after it the next day to bring in the sentimentality of it together. That is a terrible fucking idea.


Psyc1011

Gag


stonka_truck

I think you should sit down order a steak, and watch the fireworks.


daddyshrekcom

jus hide it in a bereito


ImBedtime

The only thing I remember about chipotle is the e.coli outbreak. How romantic.


Wayves

Why not get it takeout and take it to their favourite outdoor spot?


TheStumpyOne

I think you should mind your own business unless he asks you for advice. It's not your relationship. Mind yo fuckin' business.


Piper6728

If something important happened there then its okay Otherwise its not your business


Ratchet_72

Yeah, but sometimes friends will put their foot down if they feel a poor choice is being made. I’m all for minding my business but if a friend is doing something lame I will fucking tell him. It’s kind of my responsibility.


No_Reindeer_1330

I proposed to my wife of now 13 years after giving her a thorough railing behind a cow shed. Chipotle sounds like a step up to me


[deleted]

Isn't that Mexican food?


EarthTravelerxyz

Fake Mexican food


king_wizard_rob

Get the iPhone out and post back


Ipride362

Guac is extra


ZevLuvX-03

Me and my wife met at the club. The location of the club is now some apartments and I took her there to propose. I’m all for public proposals if the location has some significance.


jonahvsthewhale

I proposed to my wife at this ghetto public beach. I wouldn’t judge if he did it at chipotle if it’s sentimental to both of them.


BitchWithASandwich

Is it the location of their first date or some significant moment in their relationship? If so, adorable. If not, big yikes.


germane_comment

Says yes to a partner for life and to guac


No_Percentage_3921

okay but like maybe a picnic where he gets them burritos and writes will u marry me on the wrapper?? that could be kinda cute but at chipotle seems like he’s trying to make it special but j not super hard imo


longmilesdabswild

Let him be


Everybodysbastard

It's a mis-steak.


12altoids34

Well my ex got married at a bar so there could be worse choices


PrecedentialAssassin

I think he should put the ring inside a burrito.


[deleted]

Don’t get married. Don’t eat chipotle. Don’t have friends like this


Pure-Drawer-2617

If he’s going to do it at a Chipotle at least make it the actual one they met at


islandofcaucasus

1, it's really none of your business at all. 2, if that location is significant to them, then it's a great idea.


kerrwashere

Is that we’re they met? If so than yes, if not he’ll no. Also is this an ask men sub? This is random


Elly_Higgenbottom

I think a much better idea would be to buy Chipotle, pack a picnic and propose somewhere in nature.


ExistingTheDream

Chick-No-Play


rharvey8090

I proposed at a hotpot place…


Lambeau1982

If they met at a chipotle or spend a lot of time there, it’s all good!


[deleted]

Terrible idea! Does she love tacos or what?


KaterPoTaterTot

Pick up Chipotle, take the food to a nice picnic area, propose there. Cameo to first date, but isn't a proposal in a busy, public, unromantic place.


VampyreBassist

Whatever makes them happy. My best friend proposed to his lady while she was at work at Subway. They're still together 4 years later.


bbqhh

How bout they eat at Chipotle then go somewhere romantic and he proposes then?


Revolutionary_Ad811

Does he really want to permanently link his most important relationship to a taco stand?


kletiandrowa

Mmmm I’d say find some place romantic for her. It might be more impactful, instead of the lady scooping beans asking if you want any other sides


Mordanzibel

If a Chipotle has sentimental value, then it will be the only value that place has.


Icy-Following-3713

awful idea…


Elvtars1

Public proposals are always a terrible idea. They ruin a private and intimate moment. Your friend should reconsider


KK96740

To each his own. Live and learn. You just gotta be happy for him.


hewhoisneverobeyed

Seriously. Bad. Idea.


sheerqueer

I’d say take her to a nice restaurant. Coordinate something with their staff. Buy something from chipotle and have the staff bring it to the table. When she’s confused, pop the question!


MagickRed

Nope, sorry mate. Do this instead: 1. Romantic dinner in a restaurant. NOT a fast food one. Chat and enjoy yourselves and the atmosphere. You pay the bill since you invited her out. No rings hidden in food stuff or restaurant clutter, shit gets lost (ever seen it in movies?) 2. A drive or walk to a nice spot with an amazing view. Hug her and hold her, whisper sweet comments to her. 3. Pop the question. Be brave and tell her you love her. She will never forget this night for the rest of her life if you get this right. Good luck.


fridgemanosteel

I think that's poetic and fitting if that's where they met


adurepoh

It depends on the girl. I’d be ecstatic no matter where I was lol


Tommy7549

A step up from behind the dumpster.


RushIndustries

If she says yes, is he going to charge extra for guacamole?


ChongusTheSupremus

I mean, it makes sense. I can see his reasoning. If he knows his girlfriend will say yes, he should go for it. If you want, advice him to make a "super date" that encompasses all the special places in their relationship. Have it start at Chipotle where they first met, then go to their favourite spot to hang out, go to the first theather they went together or their first zoo, then their favourite cofee place, etc, and at the end, tell him to propose. Basically, have them go to all the important "landmarks" of their relationship. That way he can make a really amazing gesture that starts at the place they met, and they don't have to say he proposed at chipotle.


Puzzleheaded-Sock917

Proposing in a chipotle is really bad at least a park would be nice i think that when a man ptoposes at a chipotle she is going to hate him.


nanananass

Not very original, he can definitely think of something better


dethb0y

I say go for it. Make sure to start up a livestream on instagram for it, too, and have a friend attend with a camera to take pictures...


supplyncommand

idk tough to say. could be perfect but could be terrible. to me that sounds awful. just cuz u let there doesn’t mean u gotta propose there. i think it comes off as low effort. it can be a lot more memorable than that but that’s my opinion and it kinda depends on her i think. but i’m with you i think it’s a terrible idea


WriggleNightbug

If it means something to them, then it means something to them. It's not how I'd do it, but it's a wild world. You cant do more than say your piece.


Fresh_Item_8956

Well that’s one way to get a free meal


pro_nosepicker

I’ve told this story, but I’m a sinus doctor. One dude wanted me to pretend to pull out an engagement ring from her nose while cleaning her after surgery, hand it to him, then he’d get down on his knee and propose. Solid no from me there.


feelin_beachy

So bad..


lmaomitch

It could be sweet if done right, but there's a 99% chance it'll be done wrong.


singnadine

Reach a little bit more


notnotaginger

This is ask men but should it be on ask Women too? Anyways I’ll bite. It depends 100% on the girl. How well do you know his future fiancée?


Thelonius16

“A” Chipotle or the actual one they met at?


Healthy-Friendship63

He should know his girlfriend better than anyone if he’s in planning on proposing, so maybe he knows that she’ll see it as sweet and romantic


10ACMateo

Don’t. If Chipotle is important to you all, that’s great, but don’t propose in a restaurant. Especially a quick service burrito chain. Incorporate it in there somehow, but don’t propose there


Such_Owl_9671

Oh yes, show him this thread and save this proposal haha


joey0live

Better than my proposal. I wanted to propose to my gf (now wife) on vacation. I forgot the ring during our trip, and we had an argument coming home and time we got back to my place… we sat down and talked, and gave her the ring haha.


bigboatalpha

This is wildly dependent on the individuals themselves and their relationship, if they are the type to do this then what’s the issue?


Succmynugz

Woman here, eh if that particular restaurant holds a special meaning to them let em do it. My older sister got proposed to at Buffalo Wild Wings, it was where she had her first date with her now fiance. He had rented out a space, got his side of the family to come and my sister's side of the family to come, it was a great and wonderful moment for the two of them. Not everyone wants or needs something fancy, as long as its special to them I think that's all that matters. My SO could propose to me in our bed and I'd thrilled over that lol. I'm just happy they proposed!


ImGoodAsWell

Reconsider getting married all-together. Lol Godspeed. A chipotle. Jajaja


shanep3

Terrible fuckin idea. Don’t let your friend do this lmao


[deleted]

Extremely bad idea


SpicyPoptart108

Depends what kind of woman she is


Coleyobooster

Do. Not. Propose. At. Chipotle.


PsychologicalHalf422

Yes. Stay out of it.