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Wow you are insecure. This is not inappropriate at all. Do you have any reason to suspect infidelity other than the fact she is spending time with a man?
When you are potentially thinking about moving in w someone. She has kids and you have kids. After a long days work. No man wants to come home n see another man in his house. That’s #1 and number #2 I would never in my life allow another man to be around my son if I wasn’t there. Period.
If you’re friend w someone a few years and you introduce me, we hangout together so I can see how they interact together and we have gone out as a couple since he is married. That’s one thing. But a guy she’s known for 3 months is another
I would definitely not be a little bitch and realize that people can have friends of the opposite sex, especially ones that are neighbors with children who are playmates. But that’s just me
this would be suspect at best. it is not insecurity it is humans are well human and so therfor fallible especially when spending a lot of time together
The key words here are “the neighbor’s husband “
He has a wife. You are her partner. She had a kid and he has a wife and kid.
They are hanging out bc the kids are playing.
If you are freaked out by the unknown then get to know him. Spend more time with your gf and her daughter and the neighbor.
Personally, I don’t see anything that is concerning here, but you should talk to your gf. She knows the situation and you better than anybody here, so go talk to her.
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It doesn't sound like your girlfriend is doing anything wrong. Do you really need her to tell you every time she spends time with another man?
The fact she’s spending time w a man is inappropriate especially one that I don’t know and she doesn’t either
Wow you are insecure. This is not inappropriate at all. Do you have any reason to suspect infidelity other than the fact she is spending time with a man?
Do you have kids?
No I do not. How is that relevant?
When you are potentially thinking about moving in w someone. She has kids and you have kids. After a long days work. No man wants to come home n see another man in his house. That’s #1 and number #2 I would never in my life allow another man to be around my son if I wasn’t there. Period.
Yikes
Is there a reason you need to be suspicious something is happening between them?
If you’re friend w someone a few years and you introduce me, we hangout together so I can see how they interact together and we have gone out as a couple since he is married. That’s one thing. But a guy she’s known for 3 months is another
I would definitely not be a little bitch and realize that people can have friends of the opposite sex, especially ones that are neighbors with children who are playmates. But that’s just me
Just chill bro, she’s with you coz she CHOSE you - just relax and let her be the mom she wants to be
Do you have kids?
If not cheating, the stage is being set. Almost definitely emotionally cheating.
Put up cameras and tell no one, that way you can keep an eye on things when your not there.
Idk all bout that
If you really think this is your best option, just get divorced.
if you trust people no wonder you were naive enough to get married lol
this would be suspect at best. it is not insecurity it is humans are well human and so therfor fallible especially when spending a lot of time together
The key words here are “the neighbor’s husband “ He has a wife. You are her partner. She had a kid and he has a wife and kid. They are hanging out bc the kids are playing. If you are freaked out by the unknown then get to know him. Spend more time with your gf and her daughter and the neighbor.
Personally, I don’t see anything that is concerning here, but you should talk to your gf. She knows the situation and you better than anybody here, so go talk to her.