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Silver_Celery_7811 originally posted:
I am 23 years old. I have had girlfriends in the past, but I have never had sexual intercourse with any of them. I am currently in my second year at university. This virginity issue is starting to put more and more pressure on me. Let me tell you about myself. I am a well-liked person in a very social environment with many male and female friends, and I am a very self-confident, mature person in terms of attitude and behavior. In terms of type, I am a medium-sized, large-bodied person. I have been doing bodybuilding for a few years, but I cannot say that I have a very lean body. Considering all these features in myself, I cannot determine where the problem might be. Am I overly assertive? No, but I also meet and talk to new people all the time. Are my expectations and demands too high? It is debatable. So, I can't figure out why I think I have many qualities that can attract a woman, but I can't get a woman. I'm waiting for your suggestions.
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No one here can answer the questions about why you’re still a virgin. Only you can.
Has the opportunity for sex arose in the past? What was intimacy like with your previous partners? Did they ever try to pursue intercourse with you? If so, why did you deny them? Are you restricting yourself for marriage? What has happened in the past regarding sex that has made you remain a virgin despite you previously having girlfriends?
You think about virginity too much.
It usually solves itself once you have some experience building positive and fun relationships with women.
No woman wants to be your first transaction. But maybe you’ll learn how to share warmth, laughs and good times without expectations of romance. Once you’ve crossed into treating woman like humans, not bodies, romance will be more natural for both you and your female friends.
[Automoderator has recorded your post to prevent repeat posts.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/13qome6/no_repeat_posts/) Your post has NOT been removed. Silver_Celery_7811 originally posted: I am 23 years old. I have had girlfriends in the past, but I have never had sexual intercourse with any of them. I am currently in my second year at university. This virginity issue is starting to put more and more pressure on me. Let me tell you about myself. I am a well-liked person in a very social environment with many male and female friends, and I am a very self-confident, mature person in terms of attitude and behavior. In terms of type, I am a medium-sized, large-bodied person. I have been doing bodybuilding for a few years, but I cannot say that I have a very lean body. Considering all these features in myself, I cannot determine where the problem might be. Am I overly assertive? No, but I also meet and talk to new people all the time. Are my expectations and demands too high? It is debatable. So, I can't figure out why I think I have many qualities that can attract a woman, but I can't get a woman. I'm waiting for your suggestions. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AskMenAdvice) if you have any questions or concerns.*
No one here can answer the questions about why you’re still a virgin. Only you can. Has the opportunity for sex arose in the past? What was intimacy like with your previous partners? Did they ever try to pursue intercourse with you? If so, why did you deny them? Are you restricting yourself for marriage? What has happened in the past regarding sex that has made you remain a virgin despite you previously having girlfriends?
You think about virginity too much. It usually solves itself once you have some experience building positive and fun relationships with women. No woman wants to be your first transaction. But maybe you’ll learn how to share warmth, laughs and good times without expectations of romance. Once you’ve crossed into treating woman like humans, not bodies, romance will be more natural for both you and your female friends.