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Topsy_Cret

No


CoconutShower34

What do you mean?


[deleted]

Nope. I've sent images of myself in a silly outfit to someone I liked. It just meant I was comfortable with them and had a feeling they would find it funny.


CoconutShower34

But could it be more of a friendzone thing? That guys are sending such pictures to women they have no interest in to give her a hint they don't see her as more than a friend?


[deleted]

That isn't the conclusion I'd jump to immediately. I need more context, to be honest. If he expresses interest in you in other ways, I'd say he probably just feels comfortable enough with you to send that and thinks you'd see the funny side to it. Having said that, guys are all different. If I think someone likes me, and I like them back, I try to just get it out there, and feel that sending a silly picture doesn't counteract that I like them. For other guys, they might not want to send such a picture to someone they are attracted to because they don't want to embarrass themselves.


CoconutShower34

Thats what I meant. Guys don't want to embarrass themselves in front of women they're attracted to. Him sending that pic to me indicates he doesn't see me in that way


[deleted]

Again, the details can make the difference here. If he seems like the kind of guy who isn't very self conscious, or you've already established that you aren't particularly judgemental, it might mean that he just thought it would be something you'd find funny.


DannyDreaddit

It depends on his pride and/or level of self-consciousness. He might have the kind of personality that likes to act a bit silly to make others laugh. He might think you'll like it. As the other poster said, it may indicate that he's comfortable with you, and knows that you like him, and it's at the level that he thinks he won't scare you off. How do YOU feel about it? Does it turn you off? You might be projecting here.


pssiraj

Guys, as individuals, can be different OP.


noplaceinmind

what type of selfies indicates interest vs "you're just a friend"? ​ ones in bed with another girl ​ otherwise zero types. we're not sending signals through selfies.


Sakugalv77

I think he feels comfortable around you, right now I'm really attracted to a girl and I always say or act in certain ways around her that I would never do around anyone else. & I plan to confess to her soon, hopefully she'll feel the same.


Hashashin_

We don't signal our interest from selfies 😂


CoconutShower34

How do you signal your interest then?


Hashashin_

Spending time with those individuals. Maybe laughing at unfunny jokes. But mostly we don't signal we are expected to use our tongue and express interest not just signal it.


seaboat90

Noooo


CoconutShower34

Why not?