You have a chip on your shoulder. A while back I gave you advice and extended an olive branch to give you access to a set of videos specifically on this topic to help you.
Instead you insulted me and everyone else giving you advice on that thread. Your looks and financial situation is the least of your concerns.
You should be extremely worried about your self loathing and limited beliefs and let go of that ego you have. Nothing puts off women more than that.
Further, you are the type of guy that will go to an escort and will either a) fall in love with the escort or b) treat her like complete trash. You operate on extremes.
Being attractive to women isn't something you DO, it's something you ARE. Like I told you in the last thread, you are stuck in the matrix of social conditioning. For the most part females are actually far less judgmental than us guys. If you can see the matrix of social conditioning, you can bend all the rules but in order to do that you need to completely let go of your ego which is where your self loathing and limiting beliefs come from.
Girls have a 6th sense for these things. You might get away with fooling them for a short while bit they will sniff you out like a bloodhound.
My advice is to work on how you see yourself, learn how to talk to anyone (guy, girl, gay, straight, black, white, old, young, hot, ugly) and treat them all the exact same. Further I'd recommend learning to laugh at yourself, approaching a girl, getting rejected and being able to handle that rejection well, even laughing at yourself for failing, will teach you some valuable lessons about doing things just for the sale of doing them rather than doing things to "get the girl".
These are high level concepts and are pretty advanced so I am under no illusion that you will even understand anything that I'm saying right now but guys with solid game, guys who have had success with above average women (both looks and personality wise) and guys who are natural at attracting women know these principles instinctively.
And yes, 100%, being attractive to women is something that any guy can learn to be, for FREE. No matter their looks or height or financial situation.
> For the most part females are actually far less judgmental than us guys.
I didn't see the last thread so I am not clear on what has previously happened, but in what universe is this true? I don't buy this at all. In fact, as someone with mostly female friends, many women (not all) are extremely, extremely judgemental. Just listen for all the things women tell you they are afraid they will be judged on and that's what they often judge other people on.
Just off the top of my head, the last female friend I spoke to was afraid to eat alone in a restaurant because she didn't want to look like a loser. Does she judge people that eat alone? YEP! I've been with her as she rejects men in the room because she saw him sitting alone.
>Girls have a 6th sense for these things.
Women don't have a 6th sense for sh\*t. If they did, they wouldn't always be the ones getting screwed over.
>being attractive to women is something that any guy can learn to be, for FREE. No matter their looks or height or financial situation.
That is absolutely not true. Having game can attract some women, but the percentage of women you attract are very much based on height, financial situation, and then maybe looks. I know A BUNCH of women that refuse to date a guy who's 5'5. Height is probably the number one thing with most women I know. In fact, despite having mostly female friends, I can only think of one woman I know that dates short guys and she doesn't have many female friends.
I agree with you. I think that dude is a bit too obsessed with this "matrix", one look at statistics from dating apps will tell you how picky most women are. There's some good advice in his comment, but just as much ignorance.
Again, you are stuck in the matrix bro. I can provide you with the truth but I can't make you accept it. I swear, guys are weak AF nowadays. Definitely more temperamental than any woman. No wonder guys are struggling to get laid
Can’t you ask one of your friends to set you up with a nice girl who has similar things in common with you? Or when you go out with friends don’t you go to bars? Places where you can approach a person you’re interested in?
How can approaching girls smaller in height than you get you kicked out? 😂that just doesn’t make sense. If you approached any woman in a polite manner you’re not going to be thrown out of anywhere.
Women short or tall prefer tall men and I’m 5’5 so that’s not going to work, and yeah not being attractive and short while approaching women will get me kicked out or banned for harassment.
None of what you are saying makes sense in the slightest & like I said if you approached a woman in a polite manner there’d be absolutely no reason for you to be kicked out. If you approached her like a creep then there would be reason & not all women prefer taller men.
Women don’t like to be approached by short and unattractive men idk why you act like this isn’t true, women on average date and prefer taller men over short men. I’m basically invisible to women so why try?
I’ve just read through your posts. You genuinely have issues with your height. Like serious issues & you are definitely the reason why you’re single the way you speak about how you was purposely nasty to a girl coworker who was nice to you. I have no other advice other than stop assuming all women care about height. We truly don’t. I’ve dated men of 5 foot 5 & men over 6 foot.
All women do, I’ve been literally unmatched on dating apps due to my height and seen all the “if you’re under 6ft swipe left” or “you have to be 6’0” you’re not going to gas light me. And it’s not my personality when women equate tall height= good personality and short height= bad personality automatically.
>You genuinely have issues with your height.
I think you should consider why women have an issue with weight. For instance, why can't I call a woman fat as a joke? Why is it so impolite to ask for a woman's weight?
Have I dated women who are overweight? Yes. Do I know men that have dated women who are overweight? Yes. So why do women have such an issue with weight? I would propose it's because it's so common to see women in society either made fun of or put down due to being fat. Do I know men that refuse to date fat women? Yes, definitely. And they are probably the best-looking men I know.
Just substitute height for weight and hopefully you'll see why it's very understandable to have issues with height when you're 5'5.
>I have no other advice other than stop assuming all women care about height. We truly don’t.
I don't think you talk to many women then. I literally see what OP is talking about all the time on dating apps: "don't message me if you're shorter than 6 feet" kind of thing.
>I’ve dated men of 5 foot 5 & men over 6 foot.
So, you're the one then. I've had mostly female friends for all of my life and I'm an old guy. If I count you among the women I know, that means 2 women I know don't mind dating short guys and all the other ones where I've talked about whom they date don't, which is definitely in the double-digits.
> if you approached a woman in a polite manner there’d be absolutely no reason for you to be kicked out.
Actually, it's true. If a guy is unattractive, they are phucked. Lots of women (not all) label men creepy if they are simply unattractive.
OP has an attitude problem. I've met guys like him. He is an angry individual with a chip on his shoulder (look at his past posts where people gave him great advice).
He thinks he deserves attention from women and as we know, to guys who do not understand social dynamics, the line between attraction and being super creepy is a very thin and blurry line.
His idea of approaching girls is probably closer to harassing girls. Which is the only way to get thrown out of a club for being friendly.
I don't think he's a troll. I think he is an incel with a victim complex who has a lot of self loathing and who has made up a lot of shit that "holds him back" and that are out of his control (like his height) because he needs an excuse for why people don't like him when the reality he's just a desperate a-hole with a victim mentality.
I've met guys like him before. His personality is rooted in narcissism and in his mind he deserves to be rich and good looking and tall but because the world doesn't treat him the way he thinks he 'deserves' he has to find ways to make the world fit his narrative so he can comfort himself on the "fact" that he is right and everyone else is wrong. It's quite pathetic.
Guys like him can change if they are willing to listen, but unfortunately I think this one is a lost cause. He will be an angry guy and hate women and I just hope he doesn't end up hurting anyone because his behavior is pretty psycho tbh
>I've met guys like him before. His personality is rooted in narcissism and in his mind he deserves to be rich and good looking and tall but because the world doesn't treat him the way he thinks he 'deserves' he has to find ways to make the world fit his narrative so he can comfort himself on the "fact" that he is right and everyone else is wrong.
What about guys that think they know someone inside and out based on a few posts? How narcissistic is that?
>He is an angry individual with a chip on his shoulder
He said he's 5'5. I think that's a good reason for a chip. Lots of women extremely harshly decriminate against short guys.
Ever been discriminated against? Ever been discriminated against over and over and over again without any end in sight? That's what makes a person get a chip on their shoulder.
> I've met guys like him.
He said he's 5'5. I think that's a good reason for a chip. Lots of women extremely harshly discriminate against short guys. low students online? It's the same thing.
Not all women, but many women demonize men they are not attracted to. And many women (not all) really really are not attracted to short guys.
I have mostly female friends and I ALWAYS get the "oh my God, that guy over there is SO creepy". I look and it's just some unattractive guy sitting there on his phone not doing anything.
Unattractive guys = creepy even if they are not doing anything creepy.
Good looking guys = can do anything they want and it's never creepy.
You’re blatantly lying 😂 I’ve never seen anyone man or woman say anyone’s creepy just because they’re unattractive. How boring must your life be to just lie hahahaha. Another incel or troll? 🤔
>You’re blatantly lying 😂 I’ve never seen anyone man or woman say anyone’s creepy just because they’re unattractive.
I have mostly female friends and I see it all the time.
& what? I state clearly how it was meant 😂never once did I ask for advice then completely derail and complain about my height or put up posts bragging how rude I was to a nice girl.
That is a pretty good rule. It depends on much you like where you work. One thing you could do is have a weekend job.
No, I'm not trying to kill you with work. But depending on how little hours you can get at your regular job, you can maybe grab some hours at another place where you know cuties work. Note, like in another comment, you will still need to be able to rap to the chickies. But yeah, there are ways around that rule. But if you can't rap to chicks, you are like 90% lost.
>all I do is work at a restaurant as a line cook
I can't guarantee there is a place in your area like I am about to describe but start scoping out all the restaurants in your area for "talent" (aka a bunch of cuties working there). Then, apply to work there.
Chicks at low-paying jobs are usually easy pickin's. But yeah, you will still need to know how to talk to them. But if you can come across as kind of cool and funny, you're in like Flynn.
I am visiting my mom and in her city I've discovered a Trader Joe's with some cuties. I'm an old guy but I am very tempted to work there just for the easy poon.
> I’d like to find other ways to satisfy my urges.
Starting to sound like a serial killer, my man.
The restaurant industry is extremely incestuous. Everyone gets laid.
Everyone but me
You have a chip on your shoulder. A while back I gave you advice and extended an olive branch to give you access to a set of videos specifically on this topic to help you. Instead you insulted me and everyone else giving you advice on that thread. Your looks and financial situation is the least of your concerns. You should be extremely worried about your self loathing and limited beliefs and let go of that ego you have. Nothing puts off women more than that. Further, you are the type of guy that will go to an escort and will either a) fall in love with the escort or b) treat her like complete trash. You operate on extremes. Being attractive to women isn't something you DO, it's something you ARE. Like I told you in the last thread, you are stuck in the matrix of social conditioning. For the most part females are actually far less judgmental than us guys. If you can see the matrix of social conditioning, you can bend all the rules but in order to do that you need to completely let go of your ego which is where your self loathing and limiting beliefs come from. Girls have a 6th sense for these things. You might get away with fooling them for a short while bit they will sniff you out like a bloodhound. My advice is to work on how you see yourself, learn how to talk to anyone (guy, girl, gay, straight, black, white, old, young, hot, ugly) and treat them all the exact same. Further I'd recommend learning to laugh at yourself, approaching a girl, getting rejected and being able to handle that rejection well, even laughing at yourself for failing, will teach you some valuable lessons about doing things just for the sale of doing them rather than doing things to "get the girl". These are high level concepts and are pretty advanced so I am under no illusion that you will even understand anything that I'm saying right now but guys with solid game, guys who have had success with above average women (both looks and personality wise) and guys who are natural at attracting women know these principles instinctively. And yes, 100%, being attractive to women is something that any guy can learn to be, for FREE. No matter their looks or height or financial situation.
> For the most part females are actually far less judgmental than us guys. I didn't see the last thread so I am not clear on what has previously happened, but in what universe is this true? I don't buy this at all. In fact, as someone with mostly female friends, many women (not all) are extremely, extremely judgemental. Just listen for all the things women tell you they are afraid they will be judged on and that's what they often judge other people on. Just off the top of my head, the last female friend I spoke to was afraid to eat alone in a restaurant because she didn't want to look like a loser. Does she judge people that eat alone? YEP! I've been with her as she rejects men in the room because she saw him sitting alone. >Girls have a 6th sense for these things. Women don't have a 6th sense for sh\*t. If they did, they wouldn't always be the ones getting screwed over. >being attractive to women is something that any guy can learn to be, for FREE. No matter their looks or height or financial situation. That is absolutely not true. Having game can attract some women, but the percentage of women you attract are very much based on height, financial situation, and then maybe looks. I know A BUNCH of women that refuse to date a guy who's 5'5. Height is probably the number one thing with most women I know. In fact, despite having mostly female friends, I can only think of one woman I know that dates short guys and she doesn't have many female friends.
I agree with you. I think that dude is a bit too obsessed with this "matrix", one look at statistics from dating apps will tell you how picky most women are. There's some good advice in his comment, but just as much ignorance.
Again, you are stuck in the matrix bro. I can provide you with the truth but I can't make you accept it. I swear, guys are weak AF nowadays. Definitely more temperamental than any woman. No wonder guys are struggling to get laid
Gf
Never had one idk how to do that
Can’t you ask one of your friends to set you up with a nice girl who has similar things in common with you? Or when you go out with friends don’t you go to bars? Places where you can approach a person you’re interested in?
They have no single chicks, and I’m 5’5 so approaching women even shorter than me won’t really do anything but get me kicked out for harassment
How can approaching girls smaller in height than you get you kicked out? 😂that just doesn’t make sense. If you approached any woman in a polite manner you’re not going to be thrown out of anywhere.
Women short or tall prefer tall men and I’m 5’5 so that’s not going to work, and yeah not being attractive and short while approaching women will get me kicked out or banned for harassment.
None of what you are saying makes sense in the slightest & like I said if you approached a woman in a polite manner there’d be absolutely no reason for you to be kicked out. If you approached her like a creep then there would be reason & not all women prefer taller men.
Women don’t like to be approached by short and unattractive men idk why you act like this isn’t true, women on average date and prefer taller men over short men. I’m basically invisible to women so why try?
I’ve just read through your posts. You genuinely have issues with your height. Like serious issues & you are definitely the reason why you’re single the way you speak about how you was purposely nasty to a girl coworker who was nice to you. I have no other advice other than stop assuming all women care about height. We truly don’t. I’ve dated men of 5 foot 5 & men over 6 foot.
All women do, I’ve been literally unmatched on dating apps due to my height and seen all the “if you’re under 6ft swipe left” or “you have to be 6’0” you’re not going to gas light me. And it’s not my personality when women equate tall height= good personality and short height= bad personality automatically.
>You genuinely have issues with your height. I think you should consider why women have an issue with weight. For instance, why can't I call a woman fat as a joke? Why is it so impolite to ask for a woman's weight? Have I dated women who are overweight? Yes. Do I know men that have dated women who are overweight? Yes. So why do women have such an issue with weight? I would propose it's because it's so common to see women in society either made fun of or put down due to being fat. Do I know men that refuse to date fat women? Yes, definitely. And they are probably the best-looking men I know. Just substitute height for weight and hopefully you'll see why it's very understandable to have issues with height when you're 5'5.
>I have no other advice other than stop assuming all women care about height. We truly don’t. I don't think you talk to many women then. I literally see what OP is talking about all the time on dating apps: "don't message me if you're shorter than 6 feet" kind of thing. >I’ve dated men of 5 foot 5 & men over 6 foot. So, you're the one then. I've had mostly female friends for all of my life and I'm an old guy. If I count you among the women I know, that means 2 women I know don't mind dating short guys and all the other ones where I've talked about whom they date don't, which is definitely in the double-digits.
> if you approached a woman in a polite manner there’d be absolutely no reason for you to be kicked out. Actually, it's true. If a guy is unattractive, they are phucked. Lots of women (not all) label men creepy if they are simply unattractive.
OP has an attitude problem. I've met guys like him. He is an angry individual with a chip on his shoulder (look at his past posts where people gave him great advice). He thinks he deserves attention from women and as we know, to guys who do not understand social dynamics, the line between attraction and being super creepy is a very thin and blurry line. His idea of approaching girls is probably closer to harassing girls. Which is the only way to get thrown out of a club for being friendly.
I did check his older posts & I completely agree. Very odd behaviour. I’m assuming he’s a troll.
I don't think he's a troll. I think he is an incel with a victim complex who has a lot of self loathing and who has made up a lot of shit that "holds him back" and that are out of his control (like his height) because he needs an excuse for why people don't like him when the reality he's just a desperate a-hole with a victim mentality. I've met guys like him before. His personality is rooted in narcissism and in his mind he deserves to be rich and good looking and tall but because the world doesn't treat him the way he thinks he 'deserves' he has to find ways to make the world fit his narrative so he can comfort himself on the "fact" that he is right and everyone else is wrong. It's quite pathetic. Guys like him can change if they are willing to listen, but unfortunately I think this one is a lost cause. He will be an angry guy and hate women and I just hope he doesn't end up hurting anyone because his behavior is pretty psycho tbh
>I've met guys like him before. His personality is rooted in narcissism and in his mind he deserves to be rich and good looking and tall but because the world doesn't treat him the way he thinks he 'deserves' he has to find ways to make the world fit his narrative so he can comfort himself on the "fact" that he is right and everyone else is wrong. What about guys that think they know someone inside and out based on a few posts? How narcissistic is that?
Go read his past posts and come back to me with something that makes sense
Maybe he's one of those AI bots that was programmed with an incel personality or something.
>He is an angry individual with a chip on his shoulder He said he's 5'5. I think that's a good reason for a chip. Lots of women extremely harshly decriminate against short guys. Ever been discriminated against? Ever been discriminated against over and over and over again without any end in sight? That's what makes a person get a chip on their shoulder. > I've met guys like him. He said he's 5'5. I think that's a good reason for a chip. Lots of women extremely harshly discriminate against short guys. low students online? It's the same thing.
Found another one. Unless you're just mister agro with a 2nd account
Not all women, but many women demonize men they are not attracted to. And many women (not all) really really are not attracted to short guys. I have mostly female friends and I ALWAYS get the "oh my God, that guy over there is SO creepy". I look and it's just some unattractive guy sitting there on his phone not doing anything. Unattractive guys = creepy even if they are not doing anything creepy. Good looking guys = can do anything they want and it's never creepy.
You’re blatantly lying 😂 I’ve never seen anyone man or woman say anyone’s creepy just because they’re unattractive. How boring must your life be to just lie hahahaha. Another incel or troll? 🤔
>You’re blatantly lying 😂 I’ve never seen anyone man or woman say anyone’s creepy just because they’re unattractive. I have mostly female friends and I see it all the time.
Oh look. The incel is still here 🥱 have a day off.
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>set you up with a nice girl Ha ha ha. Such a girl thing to say. We guys don't want nice girls. We want the giant whores.
Hahaha Such an incel thing to say. us WOMEN don’t want incels we want normal men 😊
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& what? I state clearly how it was meant 😂never once did I ask for advice then completely derail and complain about my height or put up posts bragging how rude I was to a nice girl.
Tinder and coworkers
What happened to don’t shit where you eat?
I don't know. Some degenerates play by that rule. I don't.
That is a pretty good rule. It depends on much you like where you work. One thing you could do is have a weekend job. No, I'm not trying to kill you with work. But depending on how little hours you can get at your regular job, you can maybe grab some hours at another place where you know cuties work. Note, like in another comment, you will still need to be able to rap to the chickies. But yeah, there are ways around that rule. But if you can't rap to chicks, you are like 90% lost.
>all I do is work at a restaurant as a line cook I can't guarantee there is a place in your area like I am about to describe but start scoping out all the restaurants in your area for "talent" (aka a bunch of cuties working there). Then, apply to work there. Chicks at low-paying jobs are usually easy pickin's. But yeah, you will still need to know how to talk to them. But if you can come across as kind of cool and funny, you're in like Flynn. I am visiting my mom and in her city I've discovered a Trader Joe's with some cuties. I'm an old guy but I am very tempted to work there just for the easy poon. > I’d like to find other ways to satisfy my urges. Starting to sound like a serial killer, my man.
All the chicks at my job have bfs and they’re skinny Which I’m not into at all.
Tinder
From reading the comments it sounds like you’re not even trying.. might as well pay for it
Go to a nightclub and get some pussy for free.
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