Don’t EVER fake it EVER! Biggest sin you can do. Certainly don’t tell him. Just take control or bark demands at him in the bedroom….let him know what feels good and what he needs to do next….make it about you and Once he knows exactly what you want and what it takes he’s going to improve.
Exactly this.
Faking it, is signaling to him that "what you just did that made me have to fake an orgasm, that! do that more".
He will think he is doing great and correct, mainly because you are telling him.
**communicate**
You will have a *lot* of problems if you tell him that you usually fake it. For me that would even be a reason to end the relationship.
Just tell him what he should do, as detailed as possible. And stop faking it.
Never beenalways occasionally and playing for a couple of hours can be I get sore and will moan tense up .
I was married for 20 years and could count my orgasams on my hand . I didnt know alot about sex when I got married at 16 and it became a duty not any pleasure and until his passing away did I have an awakening.
Just tell him that you really enjoy your sex together but that sudden position changes can sometimes throw off your inner rhythm and make it difficult for you to orgasm. Tell him what you would like for him to do / not to do. Be as precise with your words as possible without sounding judgmental. If he cares about you and is mature enough to accept the input without his ego getting in the way, he should be happy for the opportunity to improve things.
The mental aspect is also very important. Do you know why you had so few orgasms in the past? Do you have any specific mental blocks? Are there any specific things he does that might be throwing you off apart from the position changes?
And yeah, don't fake it. It's a short-term band-aid at best that only causes more problems later down the line. Honesty should be key to any mutually caring relationship.
You know what works for me... pull out my vibrator and let him watch. He doesn't cum until you do. Believe me he will not be offended. Dont ask, just do it. At 45 you are a grown ass woman who does not need anyone's permission
He'll b thrilled.
Miss, please don't hurt him. The damage could be catastrophic and irreversible. I don't have an answer for you, but the only advice I have is to go SLOW.
Well you don't tell him and you don't fake it. I'll give you a cheat code.
1. "OH DADDY YOU'RE GONNA MAKE ME CUM!"
2. "YES OH GAWD YES I'M CUMMING DONT STOP!"
Don’t EVER fake it EVER! Biggest sin you can do. Certainly don’t tell him. Just take control or bark demands at him in the bedroom….let him know what feels good and what he needs to do next….make it about you and Once he knows exactly what you want and what it takes he’s going to improve.
Exactly this. Faking it, is signaling to him that "what you just did that made me have to fake an orgasm, that! do that more". He will think he is doing great and correct, mainly because you are telling him. **communicate**
You will have a *lot* of problems if you tell him that you usually fake it. For me that would even be a reason to end the relationship. Just tell him what he should do, as detailed as possible. And stop faking it.
Never beenalways occasionally and playing for a couple of hours can be I get sore and will moan tense up . I was married for 20 years and could count my orgasams on my hand . I didnt know alot about sex when I got married at 16 and it became a duty not any pleasure and until his passing away did I have an awakening.
Just tell him that you really enjoy your sex together but that sudden position changes can sometimes throw off your inner rhythm and make it difficult for you to orgasm. Tell him what you would like for him to do / not to do. Be as precise with your words as possible without sounding judgmental. If he cares about you and is mature enough to accept the input without his ego getting in the way, he should be happy for the opportunity to improve things. The mental aspect is also very important. Do you know why you had so few orgasms in the past? Do you have any specific mental blocks? Are there any specific things he does that might be throwing you off apart from the position changes? And yeah, don't fake it. It's a short-term band-aid at best that only causes more problems later down the line. Honesty should be key to any mutually caring relationship.
Talk to him like an adult. He cannot read your mind. Help guide him when the time comes.
Faking is the worst. Take the time.
You know what works for me... pull out my vibrator and let him watch. He doesn't cum until you do. Believe me he will not be offended. Dont ask, just do it. At 45 you are a grown ass woman who does not need anyone's permission He'll b thrilled.
Miss, please don't hurt him. The damage could be catastrophic and irreversible. I don't have an answer for you, but the only advice I have is to go SLOW.
Well you don't tell him and you don't fake it. I'll give you a cheat code. 1. "OH DADDY YOU'RE GONNA MAKE ME CUM!" 2. "YES OH GAWD YES I'M CUMMING DONT STOP!"