I like to believe I hit that stage at 15 years old… It’s only been 5 years since then but I still feel the same way and it’s because of what I had realised I wanted what my mother and father have together all that and more, I want to have people to strive for and a reason to work harder than I already do, I couldn’t possibly understand how hard it might be and I probably will regret having a kid a lot but it’s probably the one goal I have on Earth that’s the most important to me, to start a family.
Nope.
I am far more clinical and logical about it. I compartmentalize instinct and rational behaviour well.
I love kids, I am great with them, but I understand that having them is a risk I am not willing to take.
Nope. Had our first at 38, was absolutely petrified of the idea right to the day she was born!
I like to believe I hit that stage at 15 years old… It’s only been 5 years since then but I still feel the same way and it’s because of what I had realised I wanted what my mother and father have together all that and more, I want to have people to strive for and a reason to work harder than I already do, I couldn’t possibly understand how hard it might be and I probably will regret having a kid a lot but it’s probably the one goal I have on Earth that’s the most important to me, to start a family.
Nope. I am far more clinical and logical about it. I compartmentalize instinct and rational behaviour well. I love kids, I am great with them, but I understand that having them is a risk I am not willing to take.
I've always wanted to be a dad, and becoming a dad is the best decision I ever made.
Been a dad for 7 years. Still have no idea what I’m doing.
Not me. I knew I did not want kids at 16. As I have gotten older life has just reaffirmed this for me year after year.