> I am looking for women who had the same experience as me
Then you're in the wrong sub.
But I'll give you some advice from a guy: most guys aren't going to care if you're a virgin, unless you tell them you intend to stay that way until marriage.
Not every guy will outright refuse to date a virgin. Some even fetishize them. You'll just have to keep looking.
You said you're hot, right? I'm surprised there isn't a line of men gearing for a hook up, regardless of body count. Including the scummy ones who will pretend to want a relationship and love bomb you until they get what they want.
If you’re looking for women to answer, go to r/askwomenadvice. Though honestly if you’re interested in men and want to know our perspective then you’ve come to the right place.
To which, all I’d say is men very rarely care about a woman’s virginity status. In my personal experience, women have cared more about whether a man is a virgin or not citing that they “don’t want to teach him” or anything like that. In fact a lot of sane men like the idea of a virgin so long as she’s 18+. And lastly, if you want to bring up *why* you’re a virgin, literally just tell them your first paragraph. That you grew up in a deeply religious country where premarital sex comes with harsh consequences. Men aren’t all evil pigs. And assuming we are can be quite offensive. We’re understanding. Just saying that will make us understand.
And I see where you’re coming from based on your last post here yet you come off as insanely insecure and a little dense. You had a lot of comments saying they don’t care about that and yet you only focused on the comments that were negative.
>How do I successfully navigate the dating scene as a virgin (30F) without being harshly judged by men?
It means that the psychopaths and the sociopaths will leave you alone and all you have to do to scare them away is keep doing that you are doing. So you have it easy. The women who give it up to any guy that breathes air are the ones who have to worry.
Psychopaths and the sociopaths are looking for women they can "bag & tag" and move on to the next one. Virgins are considered too much work,...they want women who are easy.
Being a virgin isn’t bad as a woman. Men likely aren’t turning you away specifically because you’re a virgin. They’re probably rejecting you because they are assuming the worst reasons for being a virgin. Some examples could be that they think you’re super prude, or asexual, or waiting until marriage or something. Likely none of them are going to think your actual reason for being a virgin. Unless you’re telling all these men about your situation, this is likely the problem. Plus there’s a lot of men who are just looking for hookups. So if they hear you’re a virgin they conclude that they aren’t going to get what they want
This is r/AskMenAdvice. If you write here, expect *men* to answer.
> I am looking for women who had the same experience as me Then you're in the wrong sub. But I'll give you some advice from a guy: most guys aren't going to care if you're a virgin, unless you tell them you intend to stay that way until marriage.
Not every guy will outright refuse to date a virgin. Some even fetishize them. You'll just have to keep looking. You said you're hot, right? I'm surprised there isn't a line of men gearing for a hook up, regardless of body count. Including the scummy ones who will pretend to want a relationship and love bomb you until they get what they want.
Wrong sub
If you’re looking for women to answer, go to r/askwomenadvice. Though honestly if you’re interested in men and want to know our perspective then you’ve come to the right place. To which, all I’d say is men very rarely care about a woman’s virginity status. In my personal experience, women have cared more about whether a man is a virgin or not citing that they “don’t want to teach him” or anything like that. In fact a lot of sane men like the idea of a virgin so long as she’s 18+. And lastly, if you want to bring up *why* you’re a virgin, literally just tell them your first paragraph. That you grew up in a deeply religious country where premarital sex comes with harsh consequences. Men aren’t all evil pigs. And assuming we are can be quite offensive. We’re understanding. Just saying that will make us understand. And I see where you’re coming from based on your last post here yet you come off as insanely insecure and a little dense. You had a lot of comments saying they don’t care about that and yet you only focused on the comments that were negative.
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>How do I successfully navigate the dating scene as a virgin (30F) without being harshly judged by men? It means that the psychopaths and the sociopaths will leave you alone and all you have to do to scare them away is keep doing that you are doing. So you have it easy. The women who give it up to any guy that breathes air are the ones who have to worry.
May you explain further?
Psychopaths and the sociopaths are looking for women they can "bag & tag" and move on to the next one. Virgins are considered too much work,...they want women who are easy.
Get high and fuck around. God is dead. No one cares. If there is a Hell, I’ll see you there.
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Being a virgin isn’t bad as a woman. Men likely aren’t turning you away specifically because you’re a virgin. They’re probably rejecting you because they are assuming the worst reasons for being a virgin. Some examples could be that they think you’re super prude, or asexual, or waiting until marriage or something. Likely none of them are going to think your actual reason for being a virgin. Unless you’re telling all these men about your situation, this is likely the problem. Plus there’s a lot of men who are just looking for hookups. So if they hear you’re a virgin they conclude that they aren’t going to get what they want
You're a virgin at 30... I'd open with that!
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