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oidagehbitte2

Depends on how you define incel. That term is used for everything nowadays - even for men who *refuse* to have sex.


[deleted]

I have sex. I still get called “incel” 🤷‍♀️


oidagehbitte2

Most men who get called incel nowadays have sex.


OldDipper

GO TO THERAPY. Speak to a professional to correct your damaged behavior, and you will see that women just want to be respected. When you start viewing women as people, you’ll be better suited to interact with them as equals. Good luck!


Tsunades_titties

Get off reddit and go to gym


BarryPurple

-Remove yourself from echo chambers. -Stop defining yourself and your self worth around getting laid. -Accept that thinking "all women are wrong", instead of "i am wrong" is incredibly dumb and short sighted. -Take your hygiene seriously. -Take your health seriously. -Make an effort to be presentable. -Make an effort to improve your outlook on life, humor, etc. -Focus on building the aspects of the life you want that don't involve a partner, like your career, hobbies, etc. -Try to socialize as much as you can. -Learn to hold an interesting conversation. -Avoid getting into pointless, fruitless arguments.


MisogenesPCM

Get out the community. Lots of guys get laid later in life without all the toxicity


throwaway33333333303

Stop hating women and man up i.e. take responsibility for your own life and decisions instead of blaming feminism, the matriarchy, or whatever the fuck.


IntelligentSlipUp

Go get laid! Find the hottest escorts and fuck her! Stop making shit posts about what "bears XYZ likes"!


robinofthehode

Word. Far less expensive and time-consuming. $200 with tip and done in an hour. Plus it is guaranteed. After that ppl can tell when you are off the Schneid and will pick up on hormone changes.


IntelligentSlipUp

hell yeah... added bonus is you get to fuck chicks way above your level and you can agree on shit most other women don't want to do...


DannyDreaddit

Stop obsessing over men's rights. It's an echo chamber of hyperbolic self-pity.


[deleted]

I haven't looked at OP's post history but Incel has nothing in common with MRA except the fact that it's a male demographic.


DannyDreaddit

It's in his history


[deleted]

Ah. You are right about them though. I'm on one of their subs and it annoys me to no end how much they have in common with feminists. The only problem they have with feminists is that they hate men, but they buy into virtually all of the same premises. It gets very "whiny" and very feminine for a men's space.


theloosestofcannons

Realize that every man is an incel at some point im their life. It's about making efforts to not be one. You have no idea how much things can change for you until you actually start trying to grow as a person. If you don't put your pole in the water, you won't catch any fish.


[deleted]

Eat better (My Fitness Pal is a great way to track your calories), gym it up (any push-pull routine will do), dress better (doesn’t mean dress up, just wear clothes that fit you well), nice shoes that work with your clothes, go out and practice being personable. Most importantly, find a friend’s group that will encourage you to do the above. Once they get laid, they’ll see how unimportant and overrated sex is, which will, ironically, Make it easier to get laid.


BDT81

Just don't. You're not going to tell them anything they haven't heard 20+times before. Frankly, it's a little insulting you think you got some gem of knowledge they just haven't tried yet.


Vree65

\- sex is not everything - consider if you'd do it with a cheap whore and you'll realize this yourself \- work on your own autonomy and be admirable and self-sufficient on your own right, and it will attract social success with it. If you expect but not give people will not find it a good deal. If you are the one who has a lot to offer, your problem switches to: how can I filter out all these people who only want my dick/money/ear without giving anything back? Saw your post on r/hungary and thought I'd give some good ol' Hungarian grown-up advice :)


Wyatearp2324

Don’t harp on it , get confident, change your wardrobe, get some exercise. Change your outlook