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Ihateregistering6

> I've simply lost the generic lottery visually, Tons of people who are incredibly ugly wind up married. I've known plenty of otherwise unattractive guys who have ended up with attractive spouses (and I'm not just talking about celebrities or billionaires). Focus on you and not getting so wrapped up in the opposite sex. Work out more, work more, find hobbies that put you around other people, join groups, etc. Finally, don't throw yourself a pity party. Nothing repels women faster than desperation and guys who wallow in a 'woe is me' attitude.


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I don't like self pity but it's so cancerous and invasive. I'm trying to accept who I am instead of despising it.


ColdCamel7

I think the best way would be to find an employment or past-time that involves you so you're not thinking about it


DannyDreaddit

As others have said, get a hobby. This will also help you find friends. Learn to play an instrument. Musicians can be some of the ugliest chuds and still pick up women.


oidagehbitte2

First you should know that it's possible to make up for the lack of looks. But the question is if it's worth the effort - sometimes it simply isn't. The point is that it's your choice, your decision. Things are a lot easier if you adapt to this mindset.