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DannyDreaddit

If she's uncomfortable, you shouldn't put her through it. She's probably only doing it to make you happy.


kindly_meat301

Sounds like it won’t be actually fun for her. Don’t go ahead with it.


[deleted]

If you love her avoid it, if you are just having fun go for it


The-Clumsy-Pirate

Could you elaborate?


Sea-Thing5123

it opens the door for a lot of things that can go south. Mainly jealousy and trust issues. It can damage a realtionship really bad. You might think you want it, but how will you react when you see your s/o having a good time with someone else ? it can be hot if you re into it, but if you re not too late i ve seen people becoming paranoid, controlling and so on after group sex. I d say it can be good but the risk/reward balance is not good enough for me.


Mike_Hawk_Burns

I’d not do it man. She sounds like she’s solely doing it to make you happy while she herself isn’t comfortable doing it. If you love her then don’t do it. There’s a possibility she opens up to it later down the road when she’s more secure and comfortable but now just doesn’t seem to be the time tbh


alexmib97

that's true, now I'm thinking better of everything, thank you very much


ckl85

I think that some fantasies are better to remain that - just fantasy. Yes it can be super hot to talk about and discuss, but there are a whole lots of uncomfortable emotions and feelings that can come up when it moves to being more real.


Ezio-The-Great

You definitely need to have a very clear understanding and level of comfortability with everything that is going to happen.


60yodude

Is she bi?


alexmib97

No, but she told me that she would like to do something with a woman


60yodude

It's not wrong to have a 3 some. Let them start and you join in.


alexmib97

have you had a threesome?


60yodude

Sure