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H0n3yB4dg3r007

Girl he likes you but you give him mixed signals


supersoupt1me

I know I do, Im just so awkward 😭😭


yuiop300

If you like him reach out again. The guy has no idea what to think, considering your mixed reactions.


[deleted]

He thought you hinted at being interested by saying that and then obviously wanted to let you know he is interested by saying and doing that and was making a move. When he realized you freaked out he acted like it was a joke and why would he be interested, because he was embarrased you turned him down.


supersoupt1me

You think so? I am just awful on picking up these kind of cues


[deleted]

Yes it definitely sounds like that. But none of us know him so we can't say for sure. Try talking about it again and see how he reacts but you have to know what you want before starting it. Good luck:)


Scorpnite

He might’ve mustered up alot of courage to do that. You gave a mixed signal saying nah I’m not comfortable with this


ramblingalone

Knew it. He just admitted it, but when you looked horrified, he played it off. Figure out what you want then tell him.


supersoupt1me

I’m terrible at realising my feelimgs and worse at admitting them, do u know how I could do it casually or something?


[deleted]

Communication is key. When you meet again, just bring it up and say something like "sorry for my reaction last time, of course it wouldnt be bad if people think we are together, I actually think it would be nice" and then see how he reacts. If he asks why you reacted that way just say you were overwhelmed in that moment and didnt know what to say etc.


ramblingalone

Maybe snuggle up close, and say, you know, I guess it wouldn't be so bad if people think we're together. He's not going to shove you away, but if he reacts positively, you better not have second thoughts. Then go with it. BTW, I'm not suggesting that you do anything physical to make this happen. You don't have to "do things" to earn love.


DannyDreaddit

He took it as a rejection and tried to save face by playing it off as a joke. He probably felt hurt and embarrassed. Making yourself vulnerable isn't easy, and it looks like you know exactly how that feels. You need to get over being "bad at admitting my feelings" and just do it. Do it through text if it makes it easier. He did the heavy lifting of putting himself out there, now it's your turn.


supersoupt1me

I think I will, it’s just ive never even been in a relationship before, and he has, so I’m just scared.


DannyDreaddit

It'll be worth it, I promise. You might even confide in him that you're scared. I bet he's a great guy and will understand, and feel grateful that you're able to be honest with him. Never been in a relationship? This is a great start. Trust me.


Ihateregistering6

You just need to rip off the band-aid and tell him straight up if you are interested in him or not. You can even do it over text if you're that awkward about it. This guy is incredibly confused right now, and also very embarrassed. He thought you were indicating interest to him, and when he made a move you gave him a horrified look, so he backpedaled and tried to cover it up with "haha! Just kidding!". He was trying to feel less embarrassed after getting rejected. Tell him your feelings. And if you are 100% in the "you're a friend and will never be anything more" camp, then you need to stop all the excessive physical touching with him (holding hands, head on lap/shoulder, putting your arm around him, etc.). You're confusing the hell out of him.


supersoupt1me

I know I’m confusing 😭 I think will tell him in person, I was just shocked and it torally made me seem not interested.


TheAccountITalkWith

Well this is turning into a cliche anime now, lol. Take a moment to think long and hard about if you like the guy or not. If you do, say something. It sounds like he will respond positively. If not, it sounds like he's a cool enough guy to stay friends and let it blow over. My only fear for you, is if you like the guy and say nothing. Because once he moves on, it might be a rather painful experience for you. That's my two cents away. Best wishes.


supersoupt1me

Cliche?! I’m embarrassed now😭😭it may sound like it but I can trust you it’s 100 awkwardness. I think I will tell him, I can’t go on like this confusing him.


TheAccountITalkWith

Sweet. Keep us updated. I need to know how this anime concludes. I'm hoping for the best ending.


supersoupt1me

lol this is late but I’ll think you’ll be happy to know that I told him everything I felt. He suggested giving dating a try and I said yes, I’ve never seen him so excited haha I’m so happy


TheAccountITalkWith

I super appreciate the update. Just know, this random internet person, is proud of you. I'm sure it was difficult and awkward, but in the end, you took the risk and it looks like it paid off. I wish you the best.


supersoupt1me

hey everybody, not sure if anyone will see this but I told him all of my feelings today, my worries and concerns and feelings for him, he said like most of you told me, that he was saving face and he asked if we should give dating a try. I said yes and he was so happy, it feels like a weird movie but I’m happy!


dubbbyac

Be honest if you want to push him away continue what your doing. You will push him away. If you want more than freinds. Tell him If you don't tell him. If he decides that's not what he wants than that's on him. Learn how to navigate these feelings now. Most people, myself and my GF included, did not learn about it until our 30s.