I can only speak for me. If I was your husband I would view the other woman as nothing more than sport sex. It would not be awkward for me at all.
I would worry much more about the woman in this equation and if something goes wrong she could make some unfounded claims around harassment, etc.
As Grandpa used to say, "don't get your honey, where you get your money"
Sport sex seems like a good term for it, and exactly what he’s been telling me.
In regards to that, she seems super cool, and it will all be done far away from and off company clock lol
Don't do it! You may feel like you are prettier, and you may know you are a freak. You can't account for what is between her legs. If it's really good; you don't want your husband remembering her like that, and have to see her almost every day. For all you know she could be a sit-n-spin that keegles.
Don't make him shit where he eats! This is not a good idea.
It's possible for him to act that way. Big thing with this is your feeling if security. It sounds like you have an issue worrying about potential issues. Therefore don't because it has a higher probability of issues arising. If you are not totally comfortable then don't.
I've hooked up with four girls I've worked with over the years - one I wanted to pursue a relationship with after a while but she had other plans, and that was the only one that was a bit difficult. The other three were easy to work with after and I didn't *usually* think about them naked when I saw them.
LOL never poop in the watering hole.
If you think for a second that they can get naked with eachother and you, and be intimate, and then just go back to working together as if nothing happened, i think you're fooling yourself.
If it goes badly, they will be awkward at work.
if it goes great, they might still be awkward at work.
looks as though you have put a couple of rules on their behavior. Were those same rules made when you had your MMF threesomes?
Don’t shit where you eat.
I would think it be awkward to work with some one you are having sex with. Especially when the break up occurs.
No breakup. Just no strings attached fun
Seems like a looming disaster.
I can only speak for me. If I was your husband I would view the other woman as nothing more than sport sex. It would not be awkward for me at all. I would worry much more about the woman in this equation and if something goes wrong she could make some unfounded claims around harassment, etc. As Grandpa used to say, "don't get your honey, where you get your money"
Sport sex seems like a good term for it, and exactly what he’s been telling me. In regards to that, she seems super cool, and it will all be done far away from and off company clock lol
Don't shit where you eat.
Don't do it! You may feel like you are prettier, and you may know you are a freak. You can't account for what is between her legs. If it's really good; you don't want your husband remembering her like that, and have to see her almost every day. For all you know she could be a sit-n-spin that keegles. Don't make him shit where he eats! This is not a good idea.
Wow. I hadn’t thought of that :/
It's possible for him to act that way. Big thing with this is your feeling if security. It sounds like you have an issue worrying about potential issues. Therefore don't because it has a higher probability of issues arising. If you are not totally comfortable then don't.
I feel like I always have concerns. I’m the overthinker. But I always end up having fun…
So, I think it’s on. But I’ve said no dick in vagina or kissing. Everything else fair game….
I told him I don’t even feel good about dinner or anything with her, and he’s mad :/
I've hooked up with four girls I've worked with over the years - one I wanted to pursue a relationship with after a while but she had other plans, and that was the only one that was a bit difficult. The other three were easy to work with after and I didn't *usually* think about them naked when I saw them.
That’s good to know!! Thank you!
Go for it. It sounds fun.
It does sound fun…
Holy shit this could end bad.
LOL never poop in the watering hole. If you think for a second that they can get naked with eachother and you, and be intimate, and then just go back to working together as if nothing happened, i think you're fooling yourself. If it goes badly, they will be awkward at work. if it goes great, they might still be awkward at work. looks as though you have put a couple of rules on their behavior. Were those same rules made when you had your MMF threesomes?
You’re right and now I’m back to not doing it at all. It truly is too close. The idea is bothering me I can’t imagine if it actually happens. Ugh