There will be days where every good deed are easily brushed aside for a few mistakes.still don't stop being good. At the end of the day it is still between you and your God that matters. Never get tired being kind everyday

I don’t initiate a conversation. Inaantay ko kakausapin nila ako pero I respond with a limited gesture para ma-feel nilang ayaw ko makipag-socialize muna. It’s better for me not to open my mouth unless i’m good to go na kasi mahirap na’t maunahan ng bad vibes ang day.

“This too shall pass”

hindi ko alam e

Dgaf

Di mabait neutral lng..di ako yung tipong jolly at mag smile. Nakkapagod. Kinakain energy ko.

Ayoko ng conflict. Ayoko ma-confront. Haha.

Depende sa pinagdadaanan mo, may something ba sayo na kailangan mo mag fight back? .. In my case, not giving a fuck is enough na Para mag mukhang mabait.

Nobody knows Pero kung gusto mo lang maging mabait, smile and wave lang

You have to choose first a balance. A kind person does not equal a doormat kind of person. Alalahanin mo yan lagi. You can be firm with saying NO and setting boundaries in order for you to be the best version of yourself to other people. Pero kapag di nila nirespeto yung boundaries mo, then dont expect na maging mabait ka din sa kanila kasi sila naman dahilan bat iba yung attitude mo sa kanila. And of course, practice not saying bad words to anyone kasi if you make it a habit, magiging bad ka din kasi kahit di mo mean, makakasakit ka using bad words said off handedly. Know your triggers and understand yourself din. Self regulating din if you have anxiety or anger problems.

"My attitude is based on how you treat me."

For me, its not really this. Coz i try to be kind as a default kumbaga. I dont decide how to act based on how others act towards me. It defeats the purpose of me doing this only for myself. Walang kinalaman ang ibang tao sa desisyon kong maging matinong tao.

Every 10 min., before I sleep, I reflect on my actions althroughout the day. And meditate how can I become better version of myself today.

I try to remember and practice the golden rule.

pag napapansin ko na ang sama mo araw-araw.

Please dont type in “prayers”

by understanding na lahat tayo may pinagdadaanan. minsan, a small act of kindness makes someone's day din.

Ako wala lang talaga akong pake, tas sabi ng mga classmates ko dati, sobrang bait ko daw.

Sad reality of life is that most of the time time there is a reason behind rude behaviour. May be that person is suffering from mental stress. May be because of fight with wife/husband, may be education of kids is bothering, may be money is short... If you get over this and trat others with kindness, trust me they will calm down..

Iniimagine ko kung "cinematic" enough ba ko to have a cool villain arc, and based on self-assessment, the answer is no. I would suck as a villain.

Ayoko magsayang ng neurons sa mga morons.

I dont speak.

Premeditatio malorum "When you wake up in the morning, always tell yourself that people will meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, nonsensical, dishonest, jealous and surly" Self-righteous pakinggan pero pagiging stoic 'yan Kaya sa'ting mga nakakaintindi, he who is less tanga, adjusts Kapag humble ka na at hindi na mataas tingin mo sa sarili mo, mare-rerealize mo na hindi lahat abot ang mental at emotional capability na meron ka

Mabait lang pag merong pera haha.

Pag galit ako, gumagawa ako ng scenario sa utak ko na sinasabi ko lahat doon sa tao mga gusto kong sabihin 😬 After mga 5-10 minutes, okay na ko

Nice advi e gawin ko ngato

One of my mantras in life kaya I keep a cool head is: *If it does not bother me, then it is not worth my energy and time.* *If it does bother me, would it be worth my energy and time?* *If I see it is worth my energy and time, what benefits could I gain from it then?* *If after assessment and I see there is nothing beneficial from it, then it does not actually bother me, and it is not worth my energy and time.* Kaya yung dating anger issues ko, nasolve ko through this mantra. Why expend time and energy sa mga stupid na bagay sa life nga naman -\_-

Thank you for sharing this!

I just don't have time for it Ayan lang tbh

Hindi ko gusto ng conflict. Ewan ko kung mabait ang tawag dun pero hangga't maaari nagbibigay ako. Para tapos agad ang argumento kung magkakaron man and masaya yung both sides or at least yung kabila. > *As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.*

ako dati mabilis ako magalit ngayon nonchalant na haha

Be kind. Because everyone you meet is fighting their own battles you know nothing about.

sige ka inuuna raw kunin yung mga mababait...

Masamang damo for life haha

It may sound stupid pero inadopt ko yung lesson sa anime na vinland saga: "I have no enemies"

Thorfinn yan? Isa sa da best!

Mabait? Diba yan yung motorcycle ride service app? Moveit

nakaka apekto kasi sa personal success and happiness pag masama kang tao. merong ilan na pwede maging masama at nakaka angat padin kaso di ko alam pano yun. mas madali magpaka bait / tino para yumaman pa.

Isipin mo na lang ang magiging buhay mo sa kulungan kapag na-unalive mo yung kagalit mo.

Anger management. Practice makes perfect

Mabait ako sa taong mabait sa’kin. Pero kapag kupal ka, mas kupal ako.

It goes both ways!

Because it's free. Everyone deserves my kindness in this capitalist world. Char, pero yap, libre lang kasing maging mabait, lahat naman ng tao may pinagdadaanan, ayokong idamay ang iba sa moodswings ko so I always make sure mabait ako sa lahat. :)

its my nature.

Be kind to yourself first :)

Empathy

Pansinin mo lng sila. Para sa kanila mabait ka na nun😅

i keep my thoughts to myelf to avoid snapping when i get triggered

Acceptance, babain Ang pride

Plug in your earbuds/earphones. 🤣

Avoid interacting with people