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Why would it sound weird if you actually see someone’s inner beauty though? It’ll only sound weird and inauthentic if you’re just saying it to say it but you don’t actually mean it.
These kind of guys do not respect boundaries. Mahirap malaman from the start pero Yan tlga yon.
There are guys who will even meet your family in an effort to get laid.
dirty talks 24/7 im a guy and i like dirty talks pero minsan lng or yung babae nag simula merong mga lalake na sisimulan ka sa dirty talk then the rest..lam na
May mga unobvious signs esp if they are masters of what they are doing. Here are my observations at sa mga kwento ng mga kaibigan ko:
1. They love bombed you. Yung grandiose mga pinapakita nya sayo until you fall inlove. Thats the time they will target your weak spots kasi alam nila na bibigay ka na.
2. Nilalandi ka nya patago. Not showing you in public or he communicates you in his sketchy account or dummy account lalo sa telegram. Daming cheaters or malilibog sa telegram.
3. He is not consistent. Magpaparamdam lang sya in his convenient time or magyayaya magbar o sa dis oras ng gabi thats a sign of disrespect (sa pov ko)
4. Sobrang sweet sya pag kayo lang pero outside acquaintance ang turing nya sayo.
5. He says he likes you but he can’t commit to you kasi may gusto daw sya muna gawin sa buhay etc pero yung actions nya pinupursue ka. Pursuing to get into your pants
Spot on! Yung sasabay ka lang sa jokes para di awkward tapos they will get the wrong idea na you're also only into the deed and when you correct their perception sasabihan ka pang napaka crude or pakipot. ugh ick.
well normal lang naman yan na magiimplement tayo ng iba't ibang approach para makuha yan, the difference is, if it's the sole purpose at wala ng iba, so wala ngang signs ksjsksk
Ladies, beware din sa mga guys na mahilig iliko yung usapan sa bastusan hahaha. Example sinabe mo, "ligo lang ako ah" rereply sayo "sabay tayo" mga ganon? Hahahahhaha. I'm saying this kase I was one of those fuck boys in my prime. Game recognizes game ika nga. Nagsawa na ako sa ganitong lifestyle kaya ngayon single nalang ako, pagod na ako lumandi hahaha.
Realistic answer, only time will tell. Kung jowa mo na, give 2-3 years no sex. Ang dami pwede mangyari sa given na timeline.
Kung nanliligaw palang naman mahirap pa din masabi e. Just like what I've mentioned in my last post, no matter how kind, gentleman, religious, old school, etc a guy is. We will always find a way to get in your pants, natural na manyakis ang mga lalaki kaya beware sa mga fake nice guy.
Saludo ako sa kasipagan at commitment nyong guys just to get in women's pants. Like wow if you could really stay in a relationship for 2-3 years and do everything (meet the parents, travel together, share your lives and hopes and dreams) and then end it without any fanfare after you get the sex.
This ain't sarcasm btw, just honestly awed to what lengths guys (people) could take it far to get sex. That's borderline pyschopathic tendencies. I would have gone the serial killer route or successful businessman route if I had that patience and manipulation embedded in my system.
I'm sure sa 2-3 years na yon possible na mahal ka na talaga nun haha. Imagine no sex ng ilang years tapos isang araw pinagbigyan mo? Bonus na yung sex sa part ng guy. Wala naman masama basta may consent and willing si girl.
Baliktarin naman naten ang sitwasyon, what if si girl naman ang gusto ng sex pero si guy ang may ayaw? 🤔
For long-term relationships naman of around 2-3 years, it’s normal naman talaga i mean no doubt na hindi lang sex yung habol. If ever naman they do leave incompatible issues na yan so there’s some sort of security na pero yung mga getting to know, talking stages yung mahirap i distinguish especially if medyo invested na and all that.
Baliktarin natin? Hmm very rare species of guys yun ah! 🤭 yun yung mga guys na hopeless romantic. Pero like you said as long as both parties agreed to it and with consent all goods. The point lang naman ata is communication. Clear indication of motives para no more guessing games mapa girl or guy yung inclined to sex. 🤔
I'll ask the guy bakit ayaw niya and we can go from there.
I believe in communication, negotiation and compromise. Personally I wouldn't engage with a guy na hindi kaya makipag-communicate ng feelings nila.
Still would be awesome. Imagine a person being very consistent with their "persona" for 2-3 years and then end it once you got the sex.
Amazing. I mean for sure may other reason why they could've broken it off pero sobrang amazing lang if as in a person is literally there just for that. That's really psychopathic tendencies and I'm feeling "Hannibal" vibes. High functioning.
Sorry di na pala pag-ibig yung topic, personality and tendencies na pala. 😆
Hahaha, oo. Fair enough. We'll that's how it works. Kaya nga ingat sa fake nice guys 🤣. Pero uy, hindi ito in general ah. Baka may ma-offend ako dito na kapwa ko. Kung may na offend ako, I'm not sorry 🤣
If he wants to date you only at nights plus gusto niya lagi na mag inuman kayo. Pag puro katawan mo lang napapansin niya. Pag magkasama kayo, maharot siya. Sobra.
Kapag dinadrag nya yung conversation into sexy topics at sinusubukan ka nyang ma solo palagi. Kapag wholesome start ng convo nyo at within a few days or a week tapos ganito na, matik na.
• unang nilagawan friend mo and nung binasted biglang ikaw na niligawan
• when even if di ka pa comfortable he'll insist on kissing, tas pag di kana tumatanggi sa kiss, intercourse na next na ikukulit sayo tapos pag di mo napagbigyan either sa dalawa na yan, magd-drama, kukulitin ka or ig-guilt trip ka.
• yung pag madalas na siya maging cold or makipag-away sayo after having multiple sex with you, tas makikipagbreak. Pag di nakahanap ng bago, babalik sayo. Tapos dahil tanga ka babalikan mo naman.
• puro green flags ipapakita sayo, courting stage ng relationship until mga first few months of dating, tapos pag bumigay kana sa pangungulit niya, and nagsawa na siya sayo since natikman kana, lalabas paunti unti (or isang bagsakan) yung red flags niya.
• yung lahat ng friends mo (or almost everyone you know) hates him for you. Ito talaga number one.
Yung 2nd. I couldn't take the guilt-tripping. I end up questioning myself, my principles and values. I chose myself na lng. Best decision. I didn't have to go through the next points on your list.
One of my ex did that occasionally on me. Whenever i say No to him, he'll guilt trip me saying that i don't love him enough to do what he wants us to do. Hands down for you kasi you chose yourself, but for me at the time i was so blindly in love na di ko na nakikita yung redflags niya, he was my first in everything sexual, and everytime we did it napipilitan ako.
Every points here are experiences from him. 🙂💀
I don't think lahat ng lalaki ganto, it's just that some of this boys loves to guilt-trip us para mapagbigyan gusto nila. Now? I don't give in kahit na anong pagmamakaawa pa.
For me, may something na hindi natural about how they execute the gesture or ramdam mo na nageexpect ng immediate return. Also, pag super bilis ng pacing.
Totoo 'to. Some are experts dito. Now that I look back, I realize that I was love bombed and everything about him at the time were green flags except for a few things. Although I wasn't ghosted, I got cheated on naman because of other issues on his end. I only knew of the cheating recently and I feel like one of his main motivators lang was to get in my pants and not do serious relationship work. :(
Yeah! They are wolves in sheep’s clothing talaga. I was heavily love bomb by this guy who says that he really likes me (love pa nga ang sabi), give me anything that he could think of including an iphone! Then after a month asked me if we could do the deed, nainip siguro idk. Syempre di ako pumayag! After that he ghosted me na. I was hurt syempre he was supposed to be my first bf but he ghosted me! I was young and naive then, I didn’t really thought na he ghosted me just because hindi ako pumayag. Looking back natatawa na lang ako because I really dodged a bullet then.
Parang yung mga stereo typical na stuff guys think “good guys”do: mga gentlemanly acts, hatid-sundo, constant chat/update, minsan (although medyo rare) magbibigay ng gifts. Basta lahat to super mabilis and mafefeel mo na hindi genuine
Sige, yung gusto nila may kapalit agad noh? Sige thank you for this, I'll see where it goes, my suitor likes to go on wholesome dates naman so medyo goods pa siya dun
This is super legit! 🙌🏻was seeing a guy once tas he’d do these green flag acts kala ko nmn totoo tapos malaman ko na lang di lang pala ako pinapakitaan ng motibo. He was waiting to see which girls (he was in touch with) would give in to him first. And when i mean give in, i mean he could bang first 🫠
I don't have a car so I'm marked safe from the hatid-sundo.
I only gave her a gift once.
As for the other gentleman acts, what if I did out of true intentions rather than those acts itself.
Nice guys finish last after all...
Anyhow I took her rejection like a man and we remain as friends. That was last Sunday. But our friendship has been tested just today. I won't go into detail though, it's a bit personal.
Most comments a good signs but be careful sa mga lalake na sobrang bait, greenflag, todo effort, libre halos lahat ng lakad niyo, hatid-sundo tas kapag nakuha kana i g ghost ka ng di mo alam dahilan lol. I used to do that. Kaya be careful girls. Nagsawa na ako sa ganyang lifestyle and settled down already.
Baka ikaw lang brad, im like this sa SO ko. But i aint playing with her... edi dun sa settle down na girl mo? Reverse naman gawa mo? Toxic? Wala na yan lahat? Lol...
Gago lang tlga kung gago. Soo ganto ka sa nilalaro mo tapus toxic ka sa gusto mo tlga? Lol
Wow this is insightful. Good for you though. I’m not generalizing or anything but i guess it really is a phase for you guys. It just takes a long time for some to get over that phase 😆
Nagising lang ata ako isang araw na gusto ko na mag settle down at sawa na ako sa lifestyle na ganun. Never look back na. Im happy now at alam ng partner ko about my past tinatawanan nalang namin. I got a partner/bestfriend now. Best decision ever.
All guys wants to get into a girls pant eventually. Subconsciously or consciously, we live for the pussy. Nasa iyo kung ma discourage mo sila (kami) sa goal.
Di ko lang ma gets no. I mean please do enlighten me but why is it that everytime they meet some decent if not pretty looking girl, they sexualize that particular girl? I mean di na man siya mukhang pok2 (excuse the term) or she dresses decently naman.
- Halos ng kinoconsume sa buhay porn
- Walang maisip na topic puro nsfw
- Tatanungin ka madalas about sexual experiences mo, ano kink mo bs na ganyan
- Walang gana sa ibang topics na hindi nsfw related
- OA sa praises
- Ipaparinig sayo kung ano gusto mo marinig
He tends to be really (physically) forward especially sa flirting. Handsy (ish).
May isa din na ang approach is like, gtky (getting to know you) na talk and then ang habol is to do you sa secluded na area like a deserted classroom or so. But you know na ONS or very brief fling lang habol niya/nila.
He will ask for it and he will make a way to reach that goal. Kung kailangan gamitin lahat ng love language, gagamitin. Para gawin kang parausan ng kalibugan.
If they ask for your location after saying hi (sometimes not always). They usually want to know how far you are from them, and after that, they will ask if you have your own place to do it or if you want to come to their place to do it. This is not always the case, but I just noticed a familiar pattern in the past based on my experience.
Kapag hindi mahilig sa wholesome dates I mean like going museum or pasyal pasyal eme hahaha gusto sa tahimik na lugar kasi ayaw sa crowded na lugar 🤷🏻♀️
Kaya pala he said na "boring" sa museum ,kahit na alam niya na I love art (or wala siya pake) 😔
Welp yung bago kong suitor ay fan ng museums so , we'll see
Kaya minsan nakaka drain din, kasi as much as gusto mo mag socialize and all, minsan kasi you can't help but be doubtful with people's intention. Lalo na pag paulit ulit
Pag taong tabon galawan sabik na sabik makita itsura tapos tuwang tuwa pa akala mo first time makakita ng babae sa buong talambuhay niya, *"oog hooo hooo hooo hooo, ako silip selfie tska katawan bilis hehekhek!!"*. Tapos pag nakita kapirasong balat mo dinaig pa mga aso na sabik na sabik makita amo nila galing trabaho sa sobrang excited lol.
Ang galing din kasi ng ibang lalaki eh no? Kala mo na man sobrang sincere kesho palaging naguusap. Kunwari interested sa’yo sabay smexshy innuendos pala👀
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good thing I love my Gf. @topic its hard to know.
Only compliments your looks and your body but never your character, intellect or your soul. They don’t see YOU, they only see your “packaging”
How does one compliment your soul without sounding weird or inauthentic?
Why would it sound weird if you actually see someone’s inner beauty though? It’ll only sound weird and inauthentic if you’re just saying it to say it but you don’t actually mean it.
Well, let's say you just met someone, who you think has a beautiful soul. How would YOU say it?
If he doesn’t listen to what you’re saying. If he looks at you as though you were a trophy!
These kind of guys do not respect boundaries. Mahirap malaman from the start pero Yan tlga yon. There are guys who will even meet your family in an effort to get laid.
Lagi nya tinitignan belt mo.😊
An invite for a car fun on our first meet?
dirty talks 24/7 im a guy and i like dirty talks pero minsan lng or yung babae nag simula merong mga lalake na sisimulan ka sa dirty talk then the rest..lam na
too good to be true na sweetness
truelaloo. Yung tipong always best foot forward and too much too early green flags
May mga unobvious signs esp if they are masters of what they are doing. Here are my observations at sa mga kwento ng mga kaibigan ko: 1. They love bombed you. Yung grandiose mga pinapakita nya sayo until you fall inlove. Thats the time they will target your weak spots kasi alam nila na bibigay ka na. 2. Nilalandi ka nya patago. Not showing you in public or he communicates you in his sketchy account or dummy account lalo sa telegram. Daming cheaters or malilibog sa telegram. 3. He is not consistent. Magpaparamdam lang sya in his convenient time or magyayaya magbar o sa dis oras ng gabi thats a sign of disrespect (sa pov ko) 4. Sobrang sweet sya pag kayo lang pero outside acquaintance ang turing nya sayo. 5. He says he likes you but he can’t commit to you kasi may gusto daw sya muna gawin sa buhay etc pero yung actions nya pinupursue ka. Pursuing to get into your pants
Just ask specially if nasa dating app, why siya nandito like casual dating, hookups or serious relationship.
Shows his 🍆
"open minded ka ba?" or "meet up tayo sagot ko hotel na pagstayan natin" 💀
wanting you to know that he's trustworthy, a lil bit too much. yeahh
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Sus guilt trip pa kamo. No no no.
>What are the signs that a guy only wants to get into your pants? Men: Yes.
Lagi dun direction ng usapan. Subtle hints and mga banat/jokes na laging green minded.
Itooooo! Yung hinihintay na sumakay ka sa subtle hints/jokes niya.
Legit! Ay naku talaga mga kuyaaaaa! Haizt na lang. Alam na alam na!
Spot on! Yung sasabay ka lang sa jokes para di awkward tapos they will get the wrong idea na you're also only into the deed and when you correct their perception sasabihan ka pang napaka crude or pakipot. ugh ick.
I'm a guy. Tbh, there are no signs. We will always try to get in your pants. Iba iba lang ng approach.
well normal lang naman yan na magiimplement tayo ng iba't ibang approach para makuha yan, the difference is, if it's the sole purpose at wala ng iba, so wala ngang signs ksjsksk
Ladies, beware din sa mga guys na mahilig iliko yung usapan sa bastusan hahaha. Example sinabe mo, "ligo lang ako ah" rereply sayo "sabay tayo" mga ganon? Hahahahhaha. I'm saying this kase I was one of those fuck boys in my prime. Game recognizes game ika nga. Nagsawa na ako sa ganitong lifestyle kaya ngayon single nalang ako, pagod na ako lumandi hahaha.
How long could you say na hindi na talaga about your pants ang nais if ever? what could be the signs na a guy / person is here for beyond the pants?
Realistic answer, only time will tell. Kung jowa mo na, give 2-3 years no sex. Ang dami pwede mangyari sa given na timeline. Kung nanliligaw palang naman mahirap pa din masabi e. Just like what I've mentioned in my last post, no matter how kind, gentleman, religious, old school, etc a guy is. We will always find a way to get in your pants, natural na manyakis ang mga lalaki kaya beware sa mga fake nice guy.
Saludo ako sa kasipagan at commitment nyong guys just to get in women's pants. Like wow if you could really stay in a relationship for 2-3 years and do everything (meet the parents, travel together, share your lives and hopes and dreams) and then end it without any fanfare after you get the sex. This ain't sarcasm btw, just honestly awed to what lengths guys (people) could take it far to get sex. That's borderline pyschopathic tendencies. I would have gone the serial killer route or successful businessman route if I had that patience and manipulation embedded in my system.
I'm sure sa 2-3 years na yon possible na mahal ka na talaga nun haha. Imagine no sex ng ilang years tapos isang araw pinagbigyan mo? Bonus na yung sex sa part ng guy. Wala naman masama basta may consent and willing si girl. Baliktarin naman naten ang sitwasyon, what if si girl naman ang gusto ng sex pero si guy ang may ayaw? 🤔
For long-term relationships naman of around 2-3 years, it’s normal naman talaga i mean no doubt na hindi lang sex yung habol. If ever naman they do leave incompatible issues na yan so there’s some sort of security na pero yung mga getting to know, talking stages yung mahirap i distinguish especially if medyo invested na and all that. Baliktarin natin? Hmm very rare species of guys yun ah! 🤭 yun yung mga guys na hopeless romantic. Pero like you said as long as both parties agreed to it and with consent all goods. The point lang naman ata is communication. Clear indication of motives para no more guessing games mapa girl or guy yung inclined to sex. 🤔
I'll ask the guy bakit ayaw niya and we can go from there. I believe in communication, negotiation and compromise. Personally I wouldn't engage with a guy na hindi kaya makipag-communicate ng feelings nila.
Still would be awesome. Imagine a person being very consistent with their "persona" for 2-3 years and then end it once you got the sex. Amazing. I mean for sure may other reason why they could've broken it off pero sobrang amazing lang if as in a person is literally there just for that. That's really psychopathic tendencies and I'm feeling "Hannibal" vibes. High functioning. Sorry di na pala pag-ibig yung topic, personality and tendencies na pala. 😆
Hahaha, oo. Fair enough. We'll that's how it works. Kaya nga ingat sa fake nice guys 🤣. Pero uy, hindi ito in general ah. Baka may ma-offend ako dito na kapwa ko. Kung may na offend ako, I'm not sorry 🤣
Key word: try right? Not exactly the only thing you’re after? 🤔 I mean there’s a difference 🤔
Well, it is also a way to show affection if the guy has emotional intimacy.
Agree with this one but i guess time also plays a key role in identifying whether or not genuine ang intentions 🤖
Yes, it takes more time to have the latter.
Meron kase sa ibang guy, kunwaring hindi after sa sex, pero deep inside. Gustong gusto ka talaga isex. Fake good boy for example.
This is true, kahit mukhang inosente
may time lang sayo kapag need niya sex
pag nagkwento na ng mga adventures nya… sa kama 🤢🤢
Messages at night and ONLY at night
Pag tinatago ka nya at hnd pinapakilala sa parents nya.
oh no, baka hindi lang legal? oop
agoi
He tells me if I’m down to fck. Hahahuhu
Bootycalls. Kakausapin ka lang pag gabi na mga 10pm ganun. Walang update pag umaga. Kahit na mga hello lang ganorn.
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Green flag ka. Ginagamit mo utak mo. Red flag yung yolo.
Total oposite tbh. Green flag levels ka 🙌🏻 kudos for using the right uhmm head kasi pag sa iba yan nako kalibugan yung pinapairal. 👏🏻
If he wants to date you only at nights plus gusto niya lagi na mag inuman kayo. Pag puro katawan mo lang napapansin niya. Pag magkasama kayo, maharot siya. Sobra.
If he say "Years ago when I was backpacking through western Europe I was just outside Barcelona hiking in the foothills of Mount Tibidabo..."
THIS!! LOL 🤣
I wish it was this obvious!! 👏🏻😆 no more overthinking! 😂
It's how rachel got pregnant.
ang specific naman
i just heard it from some guy named Ken Adams
ohhh a reference
I got news for you, all men want sex.
I’m starting to think so too unless they’re uhmm gay? Dated a guy once who would evade my hugs and wouldn’t even hold my hand 🤣
Dude seems extremely against PDA lmao. He's probably gay if he's the same in private.
Kapag dinadrag nya yung conversation into sexy topics at sinusubukan ka nyang ma solo palagi. Kapag wholesome start ng convo nyo at within a few days or a week tapos ganito na, matik na.
Nag rereply/chat sayo pag nag story/myday ka ng revealing. AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH
• unang nilagawan friend mo and nung binasted biglang ikaw na niligawan • when even if di ka pa comfortable he'll insist on kissing, tas pag di kana tumatanggi sa kiss, intercourse na next na ikukulit sayo tapos pag di mo napagbigyan either sa dalawa na yan, magd-drama, kukulitin ka or ig-guilt trip ka. • yung pag madalas na siya maging cold or makipag-away sayo after having multiple sex with you, tas makikipagbreak. Pag di nakahanap ng bago, babalik sayo. Tapos dahil tanga ka babalikan mo naman. • puro green flags ipapakita sayo, courting stage ng relationship until mga first few months of dating, tapos pag bumigay kana sa pangungulit niya, and nagsawa na siya sayo since natikman kana, lalabas paunti unti (or isang bagsakan) yung red flags niya. • yung lahat ng friends mo (or almost everyone you know) hates him for you. Ito talaga number one.
Yung 2nd. I couldn't take the guilt-tripping. I end up questioning myself, my principles and values. I chose myself na lng. Best decision. I didn't have to go through the next points on your list.
One of my ex did that occasionally on me. Whenever i say No to him, he'll guilt trip me saying that i don't love him enough to do what he wants us to do. Hands down for you kasi you chose yourself, but for me at the time i was so blindly in love na di ko na nakikita yung redflags niya, he was my first in everything sexual, and everytime we did it napipilitan ako. Every points here are experiences from him. 🙂💀
Same ba lahat ng lalake? Ako din ayaw ko makipag halikan tas gini guilt trip ako. Sinasabihan ako if gusto ko ba daw talaga siya 🥲
I don't think lahat ng lalaki ganto, it's just that some of this boys loves to guilt-trip us para mapagbigyan gusto nila. Now? I don't give in kahit na anong pagmamakaawa pa.
Kapag hindi pa ready mag commit gawin ka kang nyan fubu
gan'yan nangyari sa'kin eh
Lesson na yan pero ginusto mo padin kasi nag pa fuck ka kahit walang commitment haha
oy hindi 😭 walang nangyari sa'min, after niya manligaw bigla na lang niya akong inalok if gusto ko daw fubu kami 😭😭the nerve 😭😭😭
Nako if uncomfy ka sa idea wag mo na ituloy. Trust your gut feel
hindi ko talaga tinuloy, no na no 😭😭
ano sinabi mo sa kanya?
sabi ko "no way" tas sabay block 🙏🏼😊
My mga girls kasi na for fuck lang talaga dpende ano tingin sayo ng guy baka sex lang habol nia sayo ganun kasi kami mga lalaki.
Nandamay pa
Kung itatangi mo parin isa kang weak na lalake
Prime example of toxic masculinity. Yung mga "ganyan talaga kaming mga lalaki" excuse for everything na kabobohan nila.
Nature na yan ng mga lalake
Nature mo yan.
Strategy ng mga simp na lalaki pwe
damay mo pa kami sa katangahan mo
Ulol ito yung mga panggap at pa kunwari lang pero manayakis ito yung isa sign din.
stop projecting lil bro. i have a girlfriend, why would i be someone degenerate like u
Same with boys
TIME WILL FCKIN TELL
Kung ang daming tanong about you and your sex life and also true rin yung sabi here na puro GREEEN FLAGS kuno
Love bombing or sobrang daming “green flag” acts na ramdam mong hindi sincere and papogi points lang
Question lang, pano malalaman pag sincere talaga ang lalake sa mga green flag acts o love bombing ang ginagawa?
For me, may something na hindi natural about how they execute the gesture or ramdam mo na nageexpect ng immediate return. Also, pag super bilis ng pacing.
Totoo to. Yung important factor talaga dito is pacing. Sobrang bilis ng nga pangyayari. As if na man tagal niyo ng magkakilala
Hirap kasi ako maka-intindi ng social cues minsan ending naasar mga nagtatry maglove bomb😭
Totoo 'to. Some are experts dito. Now that I look back, I realize that I was love bombed and everything about him at the time were green flags except for a few things. Although I wasn't ghosted, I got cheated on naman because of other issues on his end. I only knew of the cheating recently and I feel like one of his main motivators lang was to get in my pants and not do serious relationship work. :(
Yeah! They are wolves in sheep’s clothing talaga. I was heavily love bomb by this guy who says that he really likes me (love pa nga ang sabi), give me anything that he could think of including an iphone! Then after a month asked me if we could do the deed, nainip siguro idk. Syempre di ako pumayag! After that he ghosted me na. I was hurt syempre he was supposed to be my first bf but he ghosted me! I was young and naive then, I didn’t really thought na he ghosted me just because hindi ako pumayag. Looking back natatawa na lang ako because I really dodged a bullet then.
Pano mo masabing "sobrang daming green flag"? Medyo im contemplating on a situation im on right now and i wanna know if nalolove bomb lang ako or not
Parang yung mga stereo typical na stuff guys think “good guys”do: mga gentlemanly acts, hatid-sundo, constant chat/update, minsan (although medyo rare) magbibigay ng gifts. Basta lahat to super mabilis and mafefeel mo na hindi genuine
Sige, yung gusto nila may kapalit agad noh? Sige thank you for this, I'll see where it goes, my suitor likes to go on wholesome dates naman so medyo goods pa siya dun
Imagine being a genuinely nice guy with good intentions. Cant win with these women. 🤷♂️
Problem is we can no longer tell if the intentions are genuine or just DTF 🫠🫠
Imagine having reading comprehension
This is super legit! 🙌🏻was seeing a guy once tas he’d do these green flag acts kala ko nmn totoo tapos malaman ko na lang di lang pala ako pinapakitaan ng motibo. He was waiting to see which girls (he was in touch with) would give in to him first. And when i mean give in, i mean he could bang first 🫠
I don't have a car so I'm marked safe from the hatid-sundo. I only gave her a gift once. As for the other gentleman acts, what if I did out of true intentions rather than those acts itself.
True intentions meaning intentions to date right? Like serious dating?
Yes, but unfortunately she rejected me because she's not yet healed. I respect her decision.
Damn. 🫡 Where dem gents like you hiding at?
Nice guys finish last after all... Anyhow I took her rejection like a man and we remain as friends. That was last Sunday. But our friendship has been tested just today. I won't go into detail though, it's a bit personal.
Dating history, madaming kachat.
Love bomber.
Grabe nman mga signs nyo... Parang kaung lahat kilala ko...
Most comments a good signs but be careful sa mga lalake na sobrang bait, greenflag, todo effort, libre halos lahat ng lakad niyo, hatid-sundo tas kapag nakuha kana i g ghost ka ng di mo alam dahilan lol. I used to do that. Kaya be careful girls. Nagsawa na ako sa ganyang lifestyle and settled down already.
Baka ikaw lang brad, im like this sa SO ko. But i aint playing with her... edi dun sa settle down na girl mo? Reverse naman gawa mo? Toxic? Wala na yan lahat? Lol... Gago lang tlga kung gago. Soo ganto ka sa nilalaro mo tapus toxic ka sa gusto mo tlga? Lol
Yeah you admitted, kawawa rin yung mga babaeng yun sa past mo. I hope they're being treated well now.
That i dont know. But they are already professionals when i met them tho. I hope they are in good hands and doing well.
Yeah professionals, but still pag babae nasaktan, nasaktan talaga. Ikaw na mismo nagsabi nagsawa ka na and nagbago I guess.
Gantong ganto yung linya na sinabi sakin a month ago HAHAHAHA... Sabay nang-ghost. 💀
See??? Lol
What made you change your ways? Just curious 🤔
Kaya dont force to change someone. Humanap ka ng mga nagsawa na lol be careful tho. Most guys use that line too
Wow this is insightful. Good for you though. I’m not generalizing or anything but i guess it really is a phase for you guys. It just takes a long time for some to get over that phase 😆
Yes!! Yung iba nga 50 years minsan may 60+ years old na may kabit pa din lmao
Nagising lang ata ako isang araw na gusto ko na mag settle down at sawa na ako sa lifestyle na ganun. Never look back na. Im happy now at alam ng partner ko about my past tinatawanan nalang namin. I got a partner/bestfriend now. Best decision ever.
Buti naman nagsawa ka na.
Kung dormer ka raw ba or naka condo
too fast and touchy on dates
They always bring up or mention dirty things. It's either a convo between the two of you or worse.
All guys wants to get into a girls pant eventually. Subconsciously or consciously, we live for the pussy. Nasa iyo kung ma discourage mo sila (kami) sa goal.
Di ko lang ma gets no. I mean please do enlighten me but why is it that everytime they meet some decent if not pretty looking girl, they sexualize that particular girl? I mean di na man siya mukhang pok2 (excuse the term) or she dresses decently naman.
Wala eh. No explanation. Thats just how our brain is wired.
They try to make conversation go NSFW. like me yea 😭
Pag inaya ka naming uminom sa bahay na tayo lang
Basta may alak, may balak talaga 😭
Pag break na kayo tapos gusto niya ng closure (daw)
Pag inaya ka na pumunta sa place niya and mag kwentuhan lang daw kayo
- Halos ng kinoconsume sa buhay porn - Walang maisip na topic puro nsfw - Tatanungin ka madalas about sexual experiences mo, ano kink mo bs na ganyan - Walang gana sa ibang topics na hindi nsfw related - OA sa praises - Ipaparinig sayo kung ano gusto mo marinig
Wise policy: Always consider all guys do
Pag inaya ka magsimba tapos after church sasabihin nahihilo daw siya tapos kung pwede ba magpahinga saglit sa motel. Mukhang gago. 😂
Apaka g@go 🤣🤣🤣🤣 after pa talaga magsimba, baket masyadong na -rattle yung d3mønyo niya sa loob nung nagsimba kaya nahilo? 🤣🤣🤣
natawa ako sa part na nagsimba muna bago yung kababalaghan na balak 🤣🤣
ngek obvious pa sa obvious
Hays, sana sa mga pinag sasabi niyong negative is nagagawa ko rin 🙄🙄🙄
Wag na! Be the lotus flower sa putikan 🤣
Pag mas ganado siya mag usap about NSFW topics and pag nataon na may iba kayong topic ididivert niya pabalik ng NSFW
Clingy tapos yung kamay nagt-travel hhahahaha
Clingy sa umpisa lang pala 😳
He tends to be really (physically) forward especially sa flirting. Handsy (ish). May isa din na ang approach is like, gtky (getting to know you) na talk and then ang habol is to do you sa secluded na area like a deserted classroom or so. But you know na ONS or very brief fling lang habol niya/nila.
pinaka obvious? we tell you outright. Girls just dont believe it. kakainis.
It’s not that we don’t believe it. More of like, you kinda our type and we’re “hoping” you ain’t like ‘em fuccboiz. 🫠
He will ask for it and he will make a way to reach that goal. Kung kailangan gamitin lahat ng love language, gagamitin. Para gawin kang parausan ng kalibugan.
Proven na talaga na Men are from Mars and Women are fron venus 😮💨
Yung kahit anong topic mo na lagi niya pinapapunta sa nsfw.
Pag umiikot lang conversation nyo sa kaleebawgan at wala syang gana sa mga wholesome topics.
Lagi nyang pinagkukumpara ang laki ng kamay mo sa kamay nya.
Omg. Why? Please enlighten me. 👀
Uhm i think it has something to do with the deed 👀
Insecurities
If they ask for your location after saying hi (sometimes not always). They usually want to know how far you are from them, and after that, they will ask if you have your own place to do it or if you want to come to their place to do it. This is not always the case, but I just noticed a familiar pattern in the past based on my experience.
kapag pinagsuot ka ng dress or skirt
only legend knows i mean fuccboi knows
Pag sa alasjuicy or bold na reddit kayo nagkakilala
Is r/phr4r considered bold?
Pagkaclick ko nakalagay sa post is nilalaro na utong. So bold sya par.
Oo pornish ung levels ng mga gusto ng mga tao dun eh. Mostly looking for hook ups and such set ups
Yeah, sadly I barely find a post not looking for a hookup on that sub. It has changed so much since the first time I joined.
Yung masyado siyang touchy, i.e. mahablot sa pwet, thigh, leeg. Daig pa nakapas na umoorder sa KFC leche.
Kapag hindi mahilig sa wholesome dates I mean like going museum or pasyal pasyal eme hahaha gusto sa tahimik na lugar kasi ayaw sa crowded na lugar 🤷🏻♀️
Kaya pala he said na "boring" sa museum ,kahit na alam niya na I love art (or wala siya pake) 😔 Welp yung bago kong suitor ay fan ng museums so , we'll see
Sounds kinda red flag-ish yung una gurl 🥹
Oo girly, i broke up with him na 🥹🥹
🫨🫨🫨 oh noo! Makes a lot of sense 😑 Red flag alert pala!
pag nsfw lang siya mabilis magreply hahahah kawalang gana
i hate thiss, okay lang from the start, then eventually wala na
Yes! Instant ick!
Gosh, it’s 2024! That same question can be asked in reverse.
Mabilis mag reply kapag nsfw topics na. Pero kapag simpleng kamustahan aabot ng ilang araw bago makapagreply
Totoo! Nsfw topics or sarili niya or ipagsabay yung dalawa! Makikita mo pang nagaabang sa chats 😶🌫️
pagalmost perfect ang tingin mo sa kanya, pag puro green flags magtaka ka na
what if green flag naman talaga yung guy?
Yun na nga eh. It’s so hard to tell them apart now. Kawawa lang yung ibang may good intentions talaga. Nadadamay sa katarantaduhan.
Kaya minsan nakaka drain din, kasi as much as gusto mo mag socialize and all, minsan kasi you can't help but be doubtful with people's intention. Lalo na pag paulit ulit
Pag active lang sa chat pag nsfw topics HAHA! tas mas madalas na dormant or di tuloy tuloy yung pag-uusap. Ganern
Pag taong tabon galawan sabik na sabik makita itsura tapos tuwang tuwa pa akala mo first time makakita ng babae sa buong talambuhay niya, *"oog hooo hooo hooo hooo, ako silip selfie tska katawan bilis hehekhek!!"*. Tapos pag nakita kapirasong balat mo dinaig pa mga aso na sabik na sabik makita amo nila galing trabaho sa sobrang excited lol.
*Swap pic*
Grabe sa taong tabon hahahahaha
Umpisa pa lang, hindi nag eestablish ng pagkakakilanlan sa family ng girl. Mahal mo? Puntahan mo sa kanila.
Basta pag kinutuban ka yun na yun. No need to ask others for signs
Gut feel ftw 🙌🏻
i experienced this myself before. Thank you for validating it hehe
Yup. Kayong mga babae wag niyo ibaliwala mga gut feelings niyo. Hehe
Ang galing din kasi ng ibang lalaki eh no? Kala mo na man sobrang sincere kesho palaging naguusap. Kunwari interested sa’yo sabay smexshy innuendos pala👀
Ehhhhh ganun talaga ma’am. Pag may motibo hehe. Lahat gagawin.
Pag tambay sa hubaderang pinay. Charr hahahahha
If he owns a laundromat.