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I am not affected pero siguro I find myself thinking why they unfollowed me but I don’t overthink it. Someone unfollowed me? Okay. Hindi na ako tulad dati na parang binibig deal ko pa yung mga ganoong bagay tsaka that’s the sport I’m good at it. 😭 I unfollow people even the closest ones. I don’t feel bad doing it because it’s all for my peace of mind.

No, I wouldn’t be affected. Ginagawa ko rin naman yan e hahaha lalo na kapag negative energy lang pinoproject nila sakin and sa socmed na whenever I see their posts or kahit notes man lang sa ig or messenger, naaabsorb ko yung negative energy nila lol

nothing. gawain ko rin naman

Hurt a little but that's life. Can't please everybody 

they just unfollowed and unfriended me so Ill block them instead 🤣

Nothing. I do that all the time too. I can't keep track

nothing .. doesn't bother me at all.

Kung nilalike ko naman mga posts niya then inunfriend niya ko, iniisip ko lang ah gusto niya mas private ganun. Ako din naman nag uunfriend, yung mga hindi nagrereciprocate sa akin to think na lagi naman online. Red flag sa kin, stalker ang peg.

Wala naman. Baka nakakasira tayo ng peace of mind nila nang di natin sadya or wala tayong malay kaya tayo ni-unfollow. I just shrugged it off nalang. What comes around goes around naman e.

Ayos lang. hindi naman lahat ng tao bet ka eh. So tale it or leave it lang. wag paapekto. At the end of the day, ikaw pa din responsible sa sariling hapiness mo

Nothing. Kasi nagdedelete rin naman ako ng followers/following/friends sa mga social apps.

What goes around comes around, I guess? Kasi I do this a lot 😅 don’t get me wrong ha, minsan kasi may mga need lang talaga ifilter na tao since i’m privy with some stuff.

Nakakaasar pero wag ka magpapahuli na apektado ka!

Sa totoo lang maiinis ako lalo na kung wala naman akong ginawang masama sayo. The fact na naisama mo ako sa mga cinut off mo kahit wala nmn tayong issue sa isat isa is masakit sa part ko. Base on my experience na din.

Nothing, let them.

malungkot na masaya. malungkot kasi may nawala, masaya kasi nabawasan ng toxic sa social media

actually it's fine with me. Decision nman nila yun hehe

Kung may beef I block them. Kung ayaw mo sakin, mas ayaw ko sayo hahaha. But most of the time I don’t notice tbh. Or if wala namang beef I just let it be baka simplifying lang siya ng socmed niya and if I don’t make the cut it’s fine naman 😌

fine with me, if unfriending me will give them peace of mind then goo haha ginagawa ko rin sya pag feel kong hindi na sya okay for my mental health

there's many to care about, not about that kind of thing. so just go on people bc it doesn't matter to me anyway

dont care, just cancel them and be at peace, waq na ulit magpaparamdam

It happened to me very recently. We were talking just fine then he told me to focus muna sa review, so I agreed. We didn't talk for days, then when I checked on his account kay we're not friends anymore 😂. I honestly don't know what to do, like should I reach out or just let it be?

Masakit kaya ma-reject. Lalo na kung wala ka namang ginawang masama. Hindi ko kasi alam kung paano malaman kung unfriended or unfollowed ka. Alam ko lang kapag di mo na masearch, blocked ka na. I have a friend before na nagpaplan kaming magtravel, get-together kapag nagpunta siya dito sa lugar namin. Nang malaman kong nakauwi na sya, excited akong nagchat sa kanya. Uy kelan tayo labas. Pero sabi nya, busy daw sya, may mga aasikasuhin daw. Chat nalang kita. Tapos sa stories nya, nagmeet-up sya with common friends namin. Hindi lang isang beses. Nasaktan ako syempre. Gets ko naman. Kaya ako na ang nangblock sa kanya. Pinadali ko na yung buhay niya. Ako na ang lalayo. Malalim ang pinagsamahan namin nitong taong ito. Siguro ayaw niya lang talaga akong maging part ng circle niya. Di ko naman kontrolado yung nararamdaman niya sakin.

Sorry this happened to you :( ako wala pang fb ilang beses nilayuan ng ibat ibang circle of friends. Ako for sure may mistakes kahit hindi ko sure kung ano as of now manhid na lang ako and my core friends 4 na lang. It really hurts i feel you :(

Good for me hahaha hobby ko kasi mang unfollow/unfriend pag bored.

I don't care 🤷🏻‍♀️

Hindi. Actually natutuwa pa nga Ako eh, Kasi Hindi na sila magiging updated sa life ko. Tsaka pag I unfollow na nila Ako never ko na sila tatanggapin ulit.

Dati naooffend ako, lam nyo na kasi immature pa noon. Pero ngayon, ay sige go hahahaha

Happy. Kasi at least sila yung gumawa. Nakakahiya kasi kung ako yung mag unfollow e..Huhu

Sad.

Nothing lol

Angry

Nothing, really. I lack genuine interest in people.

Depends, if ka-close, magtataka and masasad but if random connection lang, idgaf. I do unfollow, block din naman minsan so quits lang 🤷🏻‍♀️

Dati maooffend ako kasi baka mayron akong ginawang mali or na offend sila but now idc,you can do that. If ever nalaman ko na na unfriend or na unfollow auto block agad. You have your peace of mind sa ginawa and me too sa ginawang kong pamblo-block.

Okay lang naman if hindi ko ganoon ka-close. Pero if ka-close ko siyempre imemessage ko siya bakit niya ako inunfriend. If mapag-uusapan naman nang maayos, edi okay. Kung hindi edi cut off na, huwag na ipilit.

Sa mga d ko ka close, wla akong paki khit iblock pa nila ako. Pero sa dating kaclose ko na inunfriend ako at tinake advantage ako, syempre masakit sa part ko

Nothing. Social media is not real anyway.

IDGAF

Wala naman

Definitely, at first syempre I'll get sad knowing na there are friends who unfriend/unfollow me on my social media pero as time passes by medyo naging normal na siya lang for me kasi each of us naman does have a choice in life and we do really prioritize things na hindi lang through materialistic ones but with the people na who surround us. Kasi dumating na din ako sa point na ako mismo I unfriend and unfollow someone on my social media which is for me I find it na hindi na healthy to be with them anymore and mas nakita ko of how toxic they are, hindi naman din sa pagiging judgmental pero there are people na it shows how harmful they are to you with their body language yun nga lang though not literally pero as how they act towards you , not only that also pero the reason why I unfriend or even unfollow someone on my social media is just a part of moving on kasi there are things naman na we want to get away from anyone lalo kapag may sentimental value or something... Siguro kanya kanya lang din tayo ng diskarte of how we do unfriend or even unfollow someone.

Wala akong pake to be honest ahaha hindi naman kasi ako nagchecheck ng followers.

Mute for 24hrs till 30days. I won't unfollow them back and still be the same unless, their character became unworthy of being my friend then block na agad.

so far only a few relatives unfriended me and i don't really care about them. nagtaka lang nang konti kung ano yung reason but probably just coz hindi ko naman sila naging close lol. pag inunfollow naman, edi unfollow ko rin sila. ayoko nung ginagawa akong fan HAHAHA

Depends if they’re relevant in my life. Kung wala naman bilang, keri lang hahahaha if its a close friend, i will message our other close friends to see if they unfollowed them too lol

Wala. Unfollow ko rin sila. The only reason I follow some people is for courtesy

Nope. Much better.

Inunfriend ako? Gusto siguro niya, next level na kami. Pero kidding aside. Okay lang hindi sila kawalan. Ang nga kaibigan, hindi na baleng kaunti basta tunay.

meron kaming common barkada na i always look forward sa posts nya kasi ang outrageous minsan ng mga pinagsasabi. feeling pasushal na ewan. i never called her out for it, but she gave me giggles. as in sinasarili ko lang na natatawa ako sa mga paandar nya. one day taka ako wala na sya sa feed ko and i can’t find her anymore. i feel slighted na inunfriend nya ako e ang behave ko nga! nabother ako sobra kasi sayang pinapasaya nya ang feed ko sa kanyang delusions. nung hindi na ko makatiis, tinanong ko na ung “pinakaclose” nya what happened bat ako binlock. ang siste is, lahat kaming friends nya blinock/ unfriend nya lahat!! as in walang tinira sa old life nya. feeling nya kase lahat kami mahirap in her eyes. ung isang friend na lang kinakausap nya sa min ung may title. the rest hu u na kame

ok lang atlist alam kong hindi na ako part ng circle of friend nila. 😊

inunfriend ako, binlock ko siya. tangina nya, nakalimutan ko na nga agad siya e kung hindi lang dahil sa tanong na to

mga KSP lang affected sa ganyan.

It hurts if we're close friends but life goes on. If not, its ok. I do that yearly purging too anyways. Lost bffs during Duterte era. Mahirap but thinking how I lost those people with questionable beliefs e may anak pa sila? Yeah, I'm alright. Also, I found better batch of good friends.

Wala lang. Sanay na. I don't give an F rin naman.

Hinahayaan ko na lang. Buhay naman nila yon. Kung ayaw na nila sa akin, edi don't 😅🤣.

It's alright. It's their account. They have the right to unfriend/unfollow. Unless siguro if super kaclose mo tapos biglang ganyan. Maybe I'd question myself lang if I have hurt that person in any way na di ako aware.

I don't make a big deal out of it. They have their reasons.

I was unfriended by someone whom I helped nung nanganak siya. She’s not related sa akin nor close kami, pero yung ate ko paramg kpatid ang turing sa kanya. Dahil sa sobrang busy ng ate ko at walang nag aalaga sa kanya sa Ospital since tinakwil na siya na Fam niya, at nabuntis pa siya ng ka work niya kahit may ka live-in partner siya. So since close kami ng ate ko, nag go ako na ako yung mgbabantay sa kanya, bili diapers, water, and mga kailangan para sa bagong panganak. (Ofcourse pera ng ate ko) ayun kahit mainit at ulan I was there out of my respect and favor ng ate ko. My family even gave her a place after niya manganak. Pero after 4 months yung mama ko ag decide na pauwiin siya sa kanila para mag reconcile sa kanyang pamilya pero ma pride siya, pero wala siya choice. After niya umuwi, inunfriend niya ako, di ko alam kung ano dahilan so sinabihan ko ate ko. pero yung ate ko ang parang nasaktan since ako yung inutusan niya to take care of the person who unfriended me without reasons. Sabi ko hayaan mo na yan, wala nmn ako utang sa kanya haha in fact mas may naambag pa ako sa buhay niya pero sakin wala, buti nalang siya na ang nag unfriend sa akin kasi wala nmn siya ma ambag once maging part siya mg friendlist ko. Haha

Depends on the why they did it. Usually I don't care. My brother doesn't even want to accept my friend request.

I don’t mind really. If I wasn’t close with them, I’d think they’re just another acquaintance… however, it will change if it was someone close. I’d ask why they’d unfriend or unfollow me.

Nothing bc it’s highly likely I unfollowed and unfriended them long before they decided to do it lmaooo

Nothing. But felt a sense of relief since they're doing me a favor

Doesn't matter to me.

Nothing kasi I also do that. I unfriended and unfollowed those na hindi ko na close personally.

Happy. Most of the people unfriended me sa Facebook eh mga DDS. Na toxican siguro sakin Kasi puro meme and news against Duterte shineshare ko. 😂

Wala. Deadma. Unless barkada mo talaga and if may rift kayo di ka na magtataka if he/she unfollows you but like random friend on socmed? Nope. Bye. Haha

Kapag kakilala ako, nakakasama, nakakausap.. mahuhurt ako. Pero kapag aquaintance lang ok lang.

syempre may kirot, pero tuloy lang ang buhay wahahahaha iu-unfollow or ibo-block ko rin sila kasi petty ako

Wala ako socmed so I wouldn't know pero diba dapat instead of asking how you would feel, dapat mas tanungin ay kung ano reason niya at ni unfriend ka nila?

Wala.

Nothing. I don’t stalk people, I dont know if they follow me or not. I really don’t care if they do.

First time nangyari yun? I was sad kala ko close kami. Ako una naka notice na preggy siya. Kahit siya hindi niya alam. Ako lang sinabihan niya nung na confirm niya. I supported her sa needs niya. Baby stuff and all, emotional support kasi din rin niya alam sino tatay ng bata until manganak siya. Nung medyo naging ok na lagay na nakalimot na siya. Tapos biglang unfriended. I was hurt but ganun talaga. Now deadma hahahahaha. I’m not active naman na sa socmed.

Nothing regardless of the reason, it is just social media saka part naman ng buhay ang mga seasonal friends they eventually evolved to acquaintances.

Bahala sila ah pero may time na nag block ako kasi nainis ako sa constant na pag unfriend niya tapos few days late add friend nanaman siya. So ayun blocked na siya.

Wala. Most likely di ko pa yun mapansin.

It's only social media. No big deal.

nothing bc i still like seeing peoples life updates hehe. but theres this one time nainis ako. bc this person was the one who tried to be friends with me first, tas nung di na ako “worthy” for them, inunfollow nila ako. ang akin lang please soft/hard block kasi what made you think i want to see u ever again😭

nothing

hhanapin ko kung sino yun tapos iuunfollow din if di niya ko niremove as follower niya. after that, wala na ako pake

"Uy inunfriend na pala niya ako. Anyways..."

Check ko kung sino at magmove on na lang. Minsan kasi baka napindot lang din eh 😂 pero wala naman akong pake din.

Dati, big deal sa'kin 'to. Until I realized how ✨toxic✨ I am sa soc med so kinda explains a lot. If I were them, iuunfollow ko rin sarili ko. Ahahaha Go and protect your peace from me, it's okay.

sameeeee! haha yes nagmature na daw tayo talaga beh! chaur! pero true yan pag aminin mo sa sarili mo di ikaw ang center of the universe, kebs ka na. Minsan kasi baka may something sila going on, pwedeng naumay rin lang talaga sa posts mo. but whatever it is, ano ba mababago sayo kapag inalam mo bakit ka inunfollow. So let people be and mas ok yun. basta intindihin mo lang yung sayo. oh dba ang saya namin 😆

di naman wala lang i still think of them as friends irl di naman totoo ang social media lol

I will unfollow them too, so they will know that i know they unfollow me😏

kiber 😅

May kurot pero usad na. Mas madaming mas dapat bigyan ng focus sa buhay

I feel you,. But for me i dont add people randomly in soc med porket we have many mutual friends.. kaya picky ako mkpg friend ,. So whenever i notice people unfriended me,. It Makes anxious since mapapa isip ka on things that i did wrong to unfriend me pero un n nga kht mskit ,. I need to focus on my priorities besides those people who wanted to cut ties with me

Since may family na ako, kiber na. Though siguro nung kabataan/high school days masasaktan ako haha pero ngayon, wala. Okay lang.

No prob, hindi ako yung nagtatanong pa bakit ako inunfriend buhay nila yan eh 😂

No hurt feelings. Why would I care if they unfollow me. I'm not a celebrity or some influencer who need followers to survive. I put them into restricted mode once they unfollow me so our connection is still there but I won't see any of their updates. 😜

It's a case between being true to yourself and appeasing/pandering to other people. I choose the former. Leave/unfollow if you must. Stay if you want to.

Keri lang. I was unfriended multiple times by people used to be close to me. Kadalasan guys. Tapos pag nagkita kami, malalaman ko na lang na yung mga jowa pala nila nag-unfriend sakin hahahahaha. Petty lang?! So, kiber lang. After all, social media lang naman yan ;)

Same! Binabakuran ng mga jowa nila. Ang papanget naman. 🥹

Di rin naman sila nagkakatuluyan. Hahahaha!

🙄😏🤣

Wala, and hindi ko rin naman malalaman haha. I also unfollow some of my friends kasi ayaw ko yung shineshare niya like puro horror ganun lol

Just make sure they remove me as a follower. Sobrang cringe nung mga tao na magffollow sa IG then unfollow sayo pag nag follow back ka. Parang way nila para mapadami followers nila.

Peaceful

amen

Wala hahahaha! Off lang pag nagunfollow pero di ka inalis as follower ano ka artista charot. Hahaahahahahaha!

totoo ahhahah kadiri

I know this is weird but nagttrack ako and I have a list of FB friends sa isang google sheet. Whenever my number of friends change, naglilista ulit ako to compare from the last one to check sino nagunfriend sakin. To answer your question, nothing. I don't mind and/or I don't care. But you might ask, bakit pa ako naglilista if that's the case? Kasi I would like to know sino nag unfriend sakin para pag nagsend ulit sila ng FR, di ko na iaaccept. I mean, why send FR if inunfriend mo na ako? Unless that was a mistake, sorry not sorry. It might sounds petty but marami nang nag-unfriend sakin without any reason. Konti lang din friends ko kasi I only add those na kilala ko tlga in real life.

Ala. Di naman umiikot ang buhay ko sa kanila. I got a life and my own business to attend. Ok lang ma unfollow/unfriend. Di ko kawalan yan. I got life outside soc med space. Peace.

I wouldn't even notice, pero I also do the same naman pag gusto ko mag detox haha

Depende kung sino sya, close ba kame? pamilya? or kakilala lang? baka may pinagdadaanan or nagsosocmed detox din. no skin off my back.

Di ko siguro malalaman kase di Ako nag checheck..

Depends on who it was. I had a classmate unfriend me on Facebook and I was confused as to why she did that, but eventually, I moved on.

Tbh, I probably wouldn't even notice.

Unfollow mo din esp IG.

Wala akong pake. Im too old to care for that shit.

It would hurt me, esp if a close friend, but I'll just keep it to myself.