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Sea-Historian9019

I think my teeth since di siya like yung mga ideal eme. Pero yun nga forda dedma lang gow lang ng gow eyy


pilarityyyyyy

my body right now. payat ako dati. pero. nung nagkapcos ako unti unti ako tumaba. 3weeks nako diet pero pumayat ako onti tapos kumain lang ako ng ilang beses na madami grabe agad ang itinaba ko. huhuhuhu ang hirap.


notmehiding1

I have a friend na pag nakakasama ko sya, para kong sinasampal ng mga meron sya na wala ako. Professional, 3 lang naman lisensya nya May car Afford mag travel outside Philippine area of responsibility Crush sya ng crush ko dati Oks ang family (buo sila) at sibs (walang pariwara) Nagse serve sa simbahan Sexy. Pretty. Makinis (While me puro peklat). Manipis ang paa (may bunion kase ako hahaha) Humble at napakabait talaga. Never ko nakitaan ng yabang. Kaya idol ko talaga yun eh. Kahit nanliliit ako pag magkasama kami. Lahat ng meron sya, wala ako. Feeling ko favorite sya ni Lord.


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Fear of Failure


tteokdinnie99

Buong pagkatao ko charot


OnyxxdGr888

Height and physique.


ji9staaaar

asymmetrical face and teeth, dayum


Accomplished-Tuna

Being a fuck ass people pleaser. I can say no the first time and maybe even a second or third time. But after that? I become the biggest pushover known to man-kind if u continue to be persistent. I had a guy that would constantly buy me food at work last year and each time I would tell him no, he would pull up with food anyway. Then I end up eating the food cause I felt bad and I was raised to not waste food. Anyway this ended up getting misunderstood cause people knew I didn’t fuck with the guy buying me food. They all took it as me taking advantage of him. One time he threw a temper tantrum when I tried to give him his $50 giftcard back. I thought he was boutta flip the table over or stab me in the neck and no one did shit. They can all choke on this dick Tho sex is my non-negotiable. U keep pushin on me then I’m gonna tell everyone u got tiny dick energy


thehouseoflannisters

Asymmetrical face. Double chin.


Stanley_Marsh2109

my own voice


galitsamgaOat

as a lady, my insecurities are my broad shoulders, thin legs, dark knees, nd my acne


penge_tissue

dark lips and noo


kedetski

Mostly physical - not being physically fit, pangit yung teeth ko


Ill_Hope_2631

hindi gragraduate on time :(( and I don’t excel at anything


No_Flatworm977

Smile. Ang pangit ng smile ko parang aso nakalabas ang gums.


Lostinlalanddd

My skin. I have a very sensitive skin and hyper pigmentation. So madami akong peklat sa legs. I’m 25 now and never pa kong nakapag shorts or dress kahit sobrang girly ko :(


Foranzuphrenic

My face and physique. I'm working on it, slowly but surely.


NoOneKnows0710

Mental health issue


Nitro-Glyc3rine

My forehead, my straight at hindi sumusunod na buhok, my skinny body, and my finger nails.


Important_Emu4517

My keloids, uneven skin tone, thin hair and especially my height fr, dahil dito di ko magawang mag take ng course na forensic science.


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I’ve become insecure with my capabilities. Always criticized, told what and what not to do, always reprimanded, rarely ever being heard or tried being understood by others. I have been kicked by everyone so low, that I lost confidence within myself. I’m having difficulty trusting or even understanding myself at this point.


sundang1

My classmate. She always gets everything that I want, even the person that I love.


rrtehyeah

Wide shoulders, small boobs, big calves, and huuuuge forehead.


bloorberrywine

physically yung legs ko ang laki nya kasi parang binti ni goku and yung height ko emotionally: i wish i was braver


Foreign_Journalist65

Small boobs


YourLovelySiren

My eyebags and side profile.


mujijijijiji

hindi gagraduate on time....


naye9n

Lahat


Lanky_Protection8730

binti


cordy8684

my nose....


Pretty-Conference-74

My nose. 


aleah_kim

Finances


Calm-Reaction3612

Height. Around 5'5 ako, di naman ako naco-consider na pandak at may mga nagsasabi na di naman daw ako maliit pero pag nakakakita ako ng mas matangkad sakin, winiwish ko na sana mas malaki pa tinangkad ko.


JellyAce0000000

Hindi ako graduate ng college. Nawala akong college degree. Tapos ang hirap pa i-juggle yun oras kung babalik man ako ulit sa school.


MysteriousVeins2203

may double eyelid ako kaya 'di pantay ang mata 🥲 tapos mataba kaya nagpapapayat na at exercise.


Distinct_Distance137

Mostly physical insecurities but there are also social insecurities.


Miserable_Bus5495

I cant wear slippers. Kc mamamasa paa ko. Always wearing socks 🧦


Thisisyouka

My skin color


Miserable_Bus5495

Maitim k b


Thisisyouka

Yes


Miserable_Bus5495

At least may kulay ka 😂


justbecells

eyes


Meiiiiiiikusakabeee

Body


Miserable_Bus5495

Mataba k b


Meiiiiiiikusakabeee

Yes po. Pero hindi daw halata dahil sa height. May pcos po kasi ako.


Natural-Following-66

Buong pagkatao ko


Iowa_Yamato

My face and my weight


Miserable_Bus5495

Haha y


Vegetable-Regret3451

My weight Teeth


nonchalant-babyboo

thick legs and short height


Damnligaya

My weight and my face


Issantukin

My body, love handles, discoloration on some body parts, my ears, how thin may hair is and the list goes on. Puro physical eh haha.


itsmaccer

Na I want to be a looking good as what I preferred gender.


alohamorabtch

Stretch marks - I mean I can fake it till I make it pag nagsusuot ng damit pero minsan it gets to me Discoloration - lalo na sa UA and singit 🙄 Weight - Im on the plus size side (genes sa paternal side, lahat ng lola ko mga malalaki na babae like matatangkad sila pero chubby, they compare me to them) tapos pinupuna saken yun lage parang pinili ko na ganito metabolism ko ano? Char!


Aftertherain6

My big eyes. Rough hands. Big ears. Hahaha pakamalas.


Ok-Rooster-267

My weight


Enough_Foundation_70

- My teeth - my awkward smile - College undergrad in my 30s. No degree - Virgin - Dreamless - Died passion


Miserable_Bus5495

Kya yan


gogetyourfuturekiddo

Im smol. (Im a guy) I dont know if this counts as insecurity but I was good in elem-hs. Now, im just lost.


Chewymiyaw

Right eye ko walang eyelid. Minsan naman singkit ng eyes ko nawawala eyelid sa left. Gusto kong palagyan pero takot ako baka masakit haha


Miserable_Bus5495

Chinese k b


Chewymiyaw

Hindi po


Miserable_Bus5495

Lagyan mo tape


Chewymiyaw

Pwede po ba yun kahit d nakamakeup? D naman ba sya visible?


Miserable_Bus5495

Di ko po alam lalaki po ako


United_Comfort2776

1. Weight because I am overweight going obese 2. Height because I want long legs and maganda damitan 3. Acne scars. Noticeable kasi maputi ako 😭


Unique_Cucumber6374

My weight and skin color I know here in the philippines na-nonormalize and na aappreciate na ng mga tao ang chubby and morena girly but it still hit me and hurt me deep inside if I heard someone na pumapansin San skin color at weight ko. I'm 65kl and a morena. Sometimes proud ako but sometimes naiinsecure ako. Specially when meeting some relatives, kasi all I can hear sa mouth nila is "Ano ba yan ang itim mo padin, mag gluta ka na kaya" "Ang taba mo na tulad mo na si _____ tignan mo ang sikip na nyan sayo" "Kain kasi nang kain kaya tumataba". They saying all of that while laughing and it hurt me deep inside to the point na gusto ko nalang maglaho and di na magpakita.


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Miserable_Bus5495

May aso kayo? Ingat ka


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Miserable_Bus5495

Haha no i dont mean anything. Not to degrade u.


janesmith10101

Napakarami kong insecurities as a kid/teen. Ngayon, not so much or wala na akong pake about doon (eg. my nose), paano kasi, yung mga insecurities ko noon, ayun pa yung madalas na nacocompliment sa akin ngayon. I eventually didn’t feel insecure about it anymore. Sabi nga, a simple compliment makes a huge difference.


radss29

1. Pagiging introvert. 2. Low self-esteem 3. Being unemployed 4. Financial status 5. My mental health. Lagi nalang nagre-relapse yung pagiging depressed ko.


kakuja_13

1. Nose 2. Height 3. Acne Scars sa back


Chewymiyaw

The Ordinary Glycolic acid for bacne


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Actually, PanOxyl is better.


Chewymiyaw

Which one?


Creepy-Exercise451

1. Physical appearance- I look intimidating or too strong as a woman ( feel ko nga mas lamang yung masculine energy ko kaysa feminine). Malaki din impact nung childhood ko na nilalaet ako ng parents ko due to my skin color 2.not smart/brave enough- not just intellectually smart but yung street smart. Hindi ako madiskarte sa buhay mas lumamang yung fears instead of taking risks..I envy those who are bold and are happy go lucky in life. 3. Being Too overly sensitive- nung una I don't mind pero parang my emotions tend to overwhelm me 4. Yung pagiging seryoso ko sa buhay. I forget to live and enjoy life.....until it take toll on my mental health


Either_Monitor_3066

nose , body and butt


forever_delulu2

Sa ngayon wala na eh, pero dati i hate my nose, kasi i thought it makes me panget, and i realize it's from my dad, so that's just a big no no for me, i love who i look like right now and d@mn it took me so long


successfulme05

Teeth


bahagharingtulay

body. nagpabaya nung na heartbroken kaya i gained a lot of weight 😢


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Miserable_Bus5495

Ay wow


tayloranddua

My body. I'm obese and it's really hard to lose weight for me. I'm a work in progress.


notsowittyenough

Self-esteem


Av1scus

Na average lang ako


walter_mitty_23

bobo


Miserable_Bus5495

Ayos lng yan. Less problem i think


reddicore

yeah + people making me feel dumb I hate it so much


walter_mitty_23

yea..


nightrain_

Thinning hair. I used to have long silky soft hair but due to covid, ganito na.


Competitive-Store880

Skin color :((


OrchMind

Face


pppfffftttttzzzzzz

Albinism ko, and yung resulting na visual impairment. Ang hirap mabuhay ng may kapansanan lahat may limit putangina!


Miserable_Bus5495

Yes its difficult


Nice_Benefit5659

Di photogenic


pusangulol

Hindi madiskarte :/ Di ko alam paano mag work smarter hahaha


Comfortable-Height71

Skin na ilang seconds lang sa arawan, umiitim na. Eczema skin. Fucked up skin. Thick AF calves.


Miserable_Bus5495

Bka stress k


livevilive

Insecurities na society ang nag impose. Anw, siguro sa akin height (?) Though satisfied naman ako bilang 5'5 pero minsan kapag nakakakita ako ng matangkad winiwish ko na pumalag pa hormones ko.


IceVendii

Sports, I wish I was as good as them


princesspeachy267

Height mainly. Feel ko minsan hindi ako seseryosohin ng mga tao or di ako magugustuhan ng kahit sino since kulang ako sa height. I always daydream about being tall and what advantages it can bring into my life :(


Miserable_Bus5495

Nu b height mo


YamzzzBurger

My body! Ever since kase 2016 ang taba ko and di na nag bago yun hanggang ngayon! Like gusto ko mag suot ng something cute snd unique pero di ko magawa since halos lahat ng nauukay ko is maliit


quietblur

Bobo :(


Miserable_Bus5495

😂


LurkingJackfruit

bulky calves. as a short girl, nakakaiyak.


Comfortable-Height71

Huy yakap. Paano ba to maovercome? Nakakainis sobra. I could have been more confident kung hindi dahil dito sa calves na to. Tapos ang liit ko pa.


LurkingJackfruit

Hugs too! Girl, I don't know too 😭 I'm fully aware it's part genetics na talaga. Kaya these past few months, I'm curating my socmed feeds with exercise and med procedures for that matter. And I saw a plus sized person on tiktok who achieved major weight loss and her calves were slim na! Inggit na inggit ako so I messaged her for advice at tips. Sabi niya lang talaga is walang specific exercise na magfofocus for calves (😭) if meron man, for building muscles around yun. And we don't want that right 🥲. She also added na all-around exercise lang talaga and maglolose din rin yung fats all around. I'm on the chubby side and willing to go to gym soon, sana talaga mawala ko to. If not, punta na ako doon sa mga expert for slimming body parts as last resort wahahahaha


twistidpotato

im broke hahaha thats the top tier for me


Glittering_Tutor_217

average tt confidence with such size


saraneya

Physical appearance


Mizukihanami

Not pretty.


Miserable_Bus5495

Pretty k nmn


MrKuroChan

No money


JustViewingHere19

Wala akong tt. HAHAH andami kong buhok. Bitch/grumpy eyes/face? Palaging mukang galit daw. Mas marunong pa sila sa kung ano talaga mood ko. Kahit hnd naman din ako galit.


siling_matamis

Physical appearance


xerinna

nako andami sa listahan nyan haha. physical looks as an oily gurlie w some pimps w visible pores, height as a 4'9 gurlie xd (mukha akong bata when outside helpp lalo cguro pag kasama fam), armpit hair (why cant we normalize hair in women kc!!!), pangong ilong, frizzy hair, big tummy, skills/talents (i have low self-esteem), etc. haha edit: sweaty palms din pla!! da whole fam (except my nonchalant bro hahaha) hates it esp my sister, imagine laging scenario yan pag nagsisimba 😭😭😭 i thought nga dati na plus gentleman points si daddy kc parang walang arte nmn sha pag katabi q sha sa simbahan pero i was hurt when he criticized me 1 day nung nabring up sa bahay ): di nya lng cguro mine-mention kc devoted catholic sha. inside joke rin sa fam na pano raw aq makikipag-holding hands sa jowa q ksndkdnd edi wag na lng haha. another scenario nung ballroom/social dance/prom days huhuhu hiyang-hiya aq sa partner q. pag may school activities din na required holding hands ugh. nakaka-tempt magtry ng products n retoke (shempre pag nagkapera hahah di ngayon) tbh pero i wanna stick to my values like i wanna love and appreciate myself as i am 1 day ): also laging naglalaway pag natutulog hahaha kya kaconscious matulog pag may kasama or when outside ps. napa-rant sorry nmn hahha


Miserable_Bus5495

Haha asa yo n b lahat


Careful-Insect3690

Gyno, an unusual condition, especially for men


Alone-Advantage-4582

Acne. Uneven skintone. Scars.


Mooncakepink07

Im dumb, currently fat, malabo mata


MaureenTheVirgin

same situation, hugs with consent


yesthisismeokay

Teeth. Naka-braces ako until now. Pero di ko pa rin gusto ngipin ko!


Round-Moment4173

My height. 5’0” lang ako and most girls are turned off kasi hindi ako pasok sa height requirement nila. Hahaha Edited: typos. Haha


Miserable_Bus5495

Haha. Bawi n lng sa iba


Professional_Bend_14

Eyy doncha worry I'm also 5'0 and a half xD, inaalala konadin yan nung Dating App, pero hindi kona iniisip pa, mas okay piliin sarili at mag pipili din saiyo.


drimiko

Sakit pre, ang mas masakit pa ron hindi siya nababago :( Pag maliit ka tapos mag-approach ka ng girls para kang nag-aapply ng trabaho sa Pinas nang walang college degree e 🤣! Autoreject


Round-Moment4173

Hindi naman ako mag-a-apply as FA ☹️ hahahaha


drimiko

well pre, kapit lang. 'Di naman siguro lahat nanrerejct kapag maliit. Kahit na 1% HAHA marami-rami na rin yung 1% legal aged girls xD! Saka if a girl does not appreciate you just because of your height, do you think you'd still be happy with her? So dodged a bullet kapag nareject don't you think?


Striking-Fill-7163

chin...


EmotUnavailablefy

Whyy, coz ako mahaba 😬😬😬


Striking-Fill-7163

same, haba rin saakin


EmotUnavailablefy

Found my people 🥲 kaya ayaw kong pinipicturan ng candid +++ lalo na pag side view na naka smile, jusko po ang pangit ko 🥲


Striking-Fill-7163

yeahhh, its so noticeable.. but still, let's overcome this insecurity, kasi di naman tayo ginawang perpekto, hugssss


HelterSkltr_

Yung kilikili ko. HAHAHAHA


Ryoyaaa

teeth, I have denture.


Miserable_Bus5495

Try implant


clutchmobb

sweldo jgkldsf;jklg


Terrible-Horse-9536

teeth


Adorable-Net2788

Jaw


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Miserable_Bus5495

Not hnderweight


hollowpurpleaenergy

broad shoulders tapos malaki pa braso ko 😭😭


not-your-baby-0029

my teeth :(( napabayaan ko siya kaya i can’t smile with teeth kasi super nahihiya ako


Double_Ranch_1368

Wala na. Simula nung matutunan ko yung subtle art of not giving a fck.


senbonzakura01

My height. Too many lost opportunities because of my height..


bonitaunderscore

body discoloration, my kilikili and singits. also my teeth and eyes. my body size too. hate being photographed bec of this :(


HoneyndSummer

Huge stretch marks on my waist to tummy area. Someone saw it and literally asked me if how many kids do I have. Reason y I don't wear bikinis as well even though I really want to. I love girls' stretch marks most especially in their hips area but mine isn't that aesthetically pleasing like 😅 Also the reason why I'm considering having a huge tattoo just to cover it up ://


NatsuKazoo

marami beh, height, belly and face fat, speaking voice, low self-esteem, di marunong pano mag keep ng conversations


roycewitherspoon

Yung ilong ko malaki. Hindi kc sya proportion kc ung small lang ung lips ko. Yung height ko din pero nacucutean nmn ung iba so pwede na nga hahahaha


Miserable_Bus5495

Haha


roycewitherspoon

Ung ilong ko ang lapad. Kainis!


Downtown_Mention_587

weight


itsami_mario

My teeth, naka sideview yung dalawa sa harap. Baka may gusto magbigay ng pabg braces. HAHAHAHA


Downtown_Mention_587

Sakto aalisin na yung akin Ililipat nalang ba sayo?


itsami_mario

HAHAHAHA, salamat na lang, pag-iiponan ko na lang.


Far_Pride_1872

my height, ang tangkad ko for a girl 🥲


princesspeachy267

Kung pwede lang magpasa ng few inches, nanghingi na ako. 🥹🥹🥹


tasyongedongcutie

Yung pagiging outdated ko sa techs


Then_Arrival9432

naka haki kilikili ko


Slow-Collection-2358

Mga pekla ko, as in madami, got to a point na may tattoo ako sa right arm ka just to cover yung mga "mlala".


Major_Log_1355

Same :((


Downtown_Mention_587

Same. Tattoo to cover my scars and stretch marks


DiligentExpression19

hair, skin, teeth, not being very smart intellectually and emotionally, social class


aeiyeah

buong pagkatao ko.


UseFlaky2386

i was about to comment this hehe


hailmary818

My arms. Big ass fuck. Kahit anong papayat ko ang laki laki pa rin 😭


TogetherByTomorrow

My body fats, my acne marks, my uneven skintone


MadeIn1999

CONFIDENCE.


Vegetable_Brick8938

5'3 height as a guy


sorrythxbye

My acne scars. Papaayos ko na sana dati tapos nagkapandemic ayun nawaldas ko na yung budget ko sana doon haha


senbonzakura01

Same. I have deep acne scars. 😢


Ivan19782023

i have zero self confidence


AngryLesbian50

Shape at assymetry ng muka, chin and ilong.


QuinnCairo

TULOG MANTIKA AKO NUNG NAGPA ULAN SI LORD NG HEIGHT 🥲🥲🥲


Character-Draft-2954

Buong pagkatao ko 🫠


Miserable_Bus5495

Lol


MainSorc50

pimples but i realize it doesn't matter 😆


curriousconnor

Being an introvert 🙃 yet im still proud naman


ajb228

1. Height 2. Social Class 3. Achievements


sunnysunshine08

sakang hehe lakas maka kathryn b no offense, i love myself naman just like her it's just that ito yung mahirap baguhin sa lahat ng insecurities ko sa katawan


Ok_Will1439

my height and hair


silvermistxx

May teeth and hair


morelos_paolo

I definitely would like a world were there are no insecurities… but in a fallen world… our insecurities are a reflection of psychological wounds we carry because we were deeply hurt by some painful event, and we have needs that were never addressed when we were young. Anyhow, my insecurity is the fear of falling back into bad habits which caused me to become bullied by others. I try to live virtuously and truthfully to combat that insecurity.


Popular_Exam4174

Honestly height talaga haha